You're A Financial Planner; Now What? Exploring the world of financial planning Wed, 13 Jun 2018 15:48:48 +0000 en-US hourly 1 You're A Financial Planner; Now What? 32 32 Hannah Moore, CFP® interviews influential financial planners and explores topics relevant to those starting out as financial planners. From designations, to business models to the history of financial planning, find the resources and knowledge that you need to be a successful financial planner. Join Hannah as she explores the world of financial planning and finds resources and tools to help you become the best financial planner you can be. Hannah Moore clean Hannah Moore (Hannah Moore) 2016 - 2018 Exploring the world of financial planning You're A Financial Planner; Now What? Weekly Growing With Your Tribe in the Financial Planning Profession Tue, 12 Jun 2018 18:05:40 +0000 0 In this week’s unique episode of #YAFPNW, Hannah Moore, CFP® steps into the hot seat and is interviewed by the one and only Rianka Dorsainvil, CFP®. Tune in to hear Hannah’s story, and to learn how she came to be so incredibly passionate about the financial planning profession. Your host, Hannah Moore CFP®, steps into the hot seat this week to be interviewed by Rianka Dorsainvil, CFP®! Hannah is incredibly passionate about the financial planning profession. In this exclusive interview, Hannah is talking about her struggles early on in her career, how she discovered the difference between financial advice and financial planning, and how she found her tribe within the financial planning profession.

Hannah’s career launched in an incredibly unique way. She bought a financial planning practice when she was 26 years old, and was effectively thrown into the deep end of the financial planning world. She learned in the most hands-on way possible, and she quickly realized that isolation as a young planner was not only detrimental to her career, but to her clients.

When Hannah attended her first FPA NexGen Gathering, she quickly realized she had found her people. She was sitting next to pioneers of the profession, and new planners alike – and they were all there for one reason: to spread the gospel of financial planning and to focus on making themselves into the best planners they could be. This was game changing for Hannah, and inspired her involvement in the financial planning profession with the #YAFPNW podcast and, ultimately, the launch of the FPA Activate community.


What we do with planning is so powerful. It changes people’s lives. It changes generations of families. That’s what I get to be a part of… This is about financial planning, and this is about changing people’s lives, and I can get behind that and I can get excited about that. @GuidingWealth on #YAFPNW

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What You’ll Learn:

  • What makes an exceptional planner
  • How to “show up” in the financial planning profession
  • How to find your people in this profession
  • Where to connect with other planners
  • How to power through insecurities when you’re a new planner
  • Revelations Hannah has had as a planner, entrepreneur, and business owner
  • How you can combine your creative side with a career in financial planning



The 2050 TrailBlazers Podcast

NexGen Gathering

FPA Activate on Facebook


Show Transcript

Ep102 Transcript

Rianka: Well, this is going to be fun today, Hannah.

Hannah: It is. It’s a lot more comfortable on your side of the table I think.

Rianka: Right. So today, we are actually, well, you’re switching hats. You’re actually going to be the interviewee, and I’m going to interview you. How are you feeling?

Hannah: I’m feeling good. I’m feeling a little nervous because I feel like this isn’t going to be the normal podcast where it’s just, you know, “What’s your advice for new planners?” I know you well enough. You’re going to dig.

Rianka: Oh yeah. Well, you know, since I have my own syndicated podcast, 2050 Trailblazers. Just joking, it’s not syndicated yet, but-

Hannah: But everyone should listen to it.

Rianka: Yes, I agree. I have honed in on my skills of being a Oprah-type interviewer, so, yeah, I think you should … I know you’re over there sipping some hot tea, so I think that should soothe you as we start this interview. I’m really excited, and thank you for choosing me to interview you. This is really cool.

Hannah: Yes, absolutely. Well, we were talking about it and it’s like people don’t really know all of my story.

Rianka: Right.

Hannah: You know? I really try to make it a point not, these podcasts aren’t about me, they’re about who I’m interviewing, and I was like, “Okay. Well, let’s turn the tables.”

Rianka: Yes, and you definitely have a story to tell. So, just for the listeners’ sake, our relationship goes way back. We actually met in 2014 at, we were joking before we started recording because it feels like we’ve known each other for like ten years, but it’s really been like, four? Like that doesn’t sound right.

Hannah: I know, right? It feels like forever.

Rianka: It feels like we’ve known each other for a decade, and we actually met at my very first gathering. So gathering is, FPA NexGen Gathering is not like any other conference that you go to. You go there one person and you come out a completely totally better version of yourself, and that’s exactly what happened when I met you. We met, we chatted, but it was during closing circle where you said something very touching to me and we’ve stayed connected ever since is that you found your people. So let’s start there. So, Hannah, how did you find your people and what did that mean to you?

Hannah: Well, so I went back, we were talking about this a little bit beforehand, and I was like, “What was happening in my life at that point?” Because I think that informs a couple of things. So I had already been to a gathering or two at that point, and they were so transformational for a variety of reasons, but at this one I had bought a practice, and so I believe it was my first gathering after buying a practice, maybe my second, and by every measure of success, like people always told me how great it was that I bought a practice and how successful I must be and how…

Rianka: Right. You’re under 30, you’re buying a practice. Like what? It’s kind of like a, “You go, girl.”

Hannah: So I had all this, and like I literally had somebody be like, “You have your career handed to you on a silver platter,” and none of that resonated with me. None of that like spoke to me on a deep level. So that was 2014, so it’s kind of mapping out the year. So 2013 I bought the practice, and soon after I ended up buying like these processes that really showed you how to do financial planning. So I had been working with this woman, and she did financial planning. I’ll give her like, yes, she did, and I learned so much for her and I have so much respect for her and everything that she did with her clients, but I would say that she definitely fell into the financial advice category, and so I got these processes and I had just started putting clients through it and these clients were just like, “Oh my god, I’ve been working with this other adviser for 30 years and I’ve never been able to articulate what it is that I wanted but this is it.”

Rianka: Wow.

Hannah: Like when I would describe what financial planning was to them, and I’m like, “Wow. Okay, that’s really cool.” I got the courage to ask for $500 for six meetings for a financial plan from some of these people, so that was a big deal for me.

Rianka: Hold on. Hold up. $500 for six meetings?

Hannah: Yep.

Rianka: Oh, wow.

Hannah: Confidence is always an issue.

Rianka: Okay. We’re going to talk about that.

Hannah: So I had taken several clients through this financial planning process, and I think I had realized, like I think it was intuitively understanding the difference between: What is financial advice and what is financial planning? And the power that’s in financial planning. It’s a different game. I don’t even know how to put words around it. I struggle with that. I often ask people on the podcast that question, like, “What is financial planning?” Because I’m like, “Give me the words.”

Rianka: Yes.

Hannah: But it was such a night and day difference between the relationships that I had with clients that I took through planning and the clients that I didn’t. Everybody around me was saying, “You know, you’re so successful because you have all these clients, you have this big AUM number,” which my revenue did not match my AUM number, but to me the success wasn’t in that I had bought a practice. The success was in what I was seeing through this financial planning that I was doing, and nobody where I was at really understood that on the deep level, and so I think about going to gathering. So the story that pops into mind there was that is where I met Dick Wagner.

Rianka: Oh, Dick Wagner.

Hannah: I don’t think I understood how powerful what I had or what I was seeing or what I was feeling was, because I’m very, I feel things. I care very deeply. I don’t know. People make decisions in a variety of ways, that’s how I am. But somebody had told me there, “If you get the chance, if you haven’t experienced Dick Wagner, you have to go experience him.”

Rianka: Right.

Hannah: And so I spent this lunch hour whatever with him, and so he has these grandiose ideas and it’s all great. Like go read his books all day long. So there’s only like four of us sitting there, and so he looks at me and he was like, “Do you have anything to say? Or like what are your thoughts?” And I didn’t have any thoughts, but I was like, I told him, I was like, “I have a story. I just have a story about a conversation that I had.” It was with my dad. So I walked through the story, and it was about: What does it mean to be wealthy? He sat there. He’s kind of this like gruff guy that’s kind of like a cranky old man. That was kind of his demeanor a little bit, but he sat there and cried as I told this story, and he just looked at me and he goes, “You get it. You really get this.”

Rianka: Wow.

Hannah: And I think it was that and there were several other moments at that gathering where I was just … So I’m seeing all this in my practice, I’m seeing just these handful of clients that I’ve taken through financial planning, I’m seeing like … That was his experience to that story. I go, “All of my clients can have that.” The fact like what we do with planning is so powerful it changes people’s lives. It changes generations of families. That’s what I get to be a part of, and it was just this profound like, “That’s my calling. This is what I’m about. This is not about buying a practice. This is not about AUM numbers. This is not about how many clients can I serve. This is about financial planning, and this is about changing people’s lives, and I can get behind that and I can get excited about that.”

Hannah: So I think for me at that gathering it was this realization of like, “Oh my god, this is what I have to offer the world. This is what we as a profession have to offer the world.” And it was just this moment of like, “These are the people that get it.” At my broker-dealer, they don’t get this, but they do at gathering. They do here. These are the conversations that I can have where I’m not the crazy person that people are kind of like rolling their eyes, “Oh, she’s just naïve. She doesn’t understand the real world.” I mean, I got all that crap, but that’s I think really when I found my people. It was I found the people that get the power of financial planning and the power of what we have to offer.

Rianka: I definitely agree with you on that, and there’s going to be some listeners, some younger planners, or maybe someone who is transitioning into the profession who may be experiencing what you experienced as far as just like the eye rolling and it’s just like, “Oh, give it some more time, you’ll see what we’re talking about,” and they may not have been able to truly experience that transformational moment of what it means to truly be a financial planner. What advice would you or do you have? Like how did you kind of stick with it so that the Hannah, the CFP that you are today you kind of grew into? What did that look like for you? What advice can you give the listeners?

Hannah: Well, my career path was so different. I was thrown in the deep end, and it was like, “Can you swim? Yes or no? And if it’s yes, we’re going to throw you in a deeper end.” Four years into my career, I bought a practice, and so I feel like my career path isn’t necessarily like the traditional one, or not at all like the traditional one.

Rianka: Right.

Hannah: Or what I would hope people would do for the traditional one. But I would just say like keep looking. We’re out there. I don’t know how to say this. I talk to so many new planners now through the podcast and everything that we’re doing, and the most common thing I hear is, “We bought into this idea of financial planning,” which is just so exciting to me, “And what I’m seeing at my firm isn’t there,” and I just want to be like, “Keep looking. It is so worth it to find it.” It is so worth it. I can’t imagine a better career, a more impactful career than what I have. So if you don’t see it at your firm, get out, not get out of your … I know switching jobs isn’t that easy.

Rianka: I know, yeah.

Hannah: So I’m not saying, like … Fully appreciate how difficult some of this is, but you can stay in that job but get connected, get connected, listen to this podcast, get in the Activate group, find people. Isolation is what kills us, and so it’s: How do we break out of that isolation as young planners? And we do that from hearing other people. My gosh, I got to talk to freaking Dick Wagner. You go to any FPA national event, you are going to be able to sit next to some of the pioneers who literally gave everything for this-

Rianka: Paved the way, yeah.

Hannah: Gave everything for this profession, and so they’re out there. You just have to look, and unfortunately like sometimes it’s not that easy, but I promise you we’re out there. Just keep looking. Just keep going.

Rianka: Right. And you mentioned the Activate group. So for if there’s any new listeners where this may be their first brush at you’re a financial planner, now we’ll make sure we put those in the show notes.

Hannah: Absolutely.

Rianka: So you can get involved. You mentioned that we’re out there. I have some of the same conversations with new planners and those who are transitioning as well who may have their first firm or organization may not just be a good fit for them for whatever reason, and I say that’s the gift and a curse about our profession is that not one firm is alike, not one career path is alike. So the curse in that is that if you do have a bad experience, you think all firms or organizations are that way, and that’s not it. That’s not the truth. So the gift is there is a firm waiting for someone specifically like you, and where it’s kind of like church. You come as you are, and they want you for you, you know?

Hannah: Yep. Well, and you have so much to offer. That’s the thing is you look at what makes exceptional financial planners is how they show up, and how you show up it’s, you know, I’m a small town girl, grew up in a really, really small town in South Dakota, but that’s part of my story. That’s part of what I bring to my client meetings, and they sense that, and that’s really valuable. Like your story is what makes … What makes you different is what makes you really valuable.

Rianka: And makes you unique. So I think one of the beautiful things about our profession is that we can truly share our stories. You can share the story about your dad and talking about what it means to be wealthy or what is that definitely of wealth and talk about your upbringing and just everything, and it’s appreciated because there are going to be some clients that connect with you and just form that sense of attachment and trust because it’s just like, “Okay. Wow, Hannah gets me, and she’s just like me. She’s no different.”

Hannah: Well, and I think being in touch with your story. So like I wrote … I felt like one of my weaknesses, and it still is one of my weaknesses, is I don’t feel as strong of a writer as other people, and so I started working with a writing coach, and she was like, “Okay. Well, the first thing we need to do is you need to be able to write your story.” And I’m like, “Okay, this is dumb. I need writing for business. I want to know how to write about that.” Anyway, several meetings and it was probably like two months for me to write my story, my why I do what I do, so that’ll be … It’s on the website. It’s on my Guiding Wealth website. So I talk about growing up without a whole lot of money, things like that, and I think what it does with being able to articulate that and getting, understanding my story, like I have … When you’re able to reflect on yourself, you have so much more compassion for other people’s stories. You show up differently.

Hannah: I hear my clients who say things like, “This whole money scripts, I love it,” and I can just see their money scripts, and instead of it being this, “Okay, like how do we solve this problem?” Because, you know, that works really well. It’s more of a like, “Okay, I’ve seen my own money scripts. I know how hard this is. I don’t maybe understand the specific challenges that you have, but I care and I’m so much more compassionate and patient.” I’m there with them through that, and I don’t think I would be able to do that unless I had really examined my own story.

Rianka: That’s pretty powerful. Pretty, pretty powerful. And so you’ve found your people, you purchased this firm, and I’m pretty sure there’s been some bumps in the road since then. It’s been-

Hannah: That’s a nice way to put it.

Rianka: There’s been, well, it has been about four years. What are some of the biggest I guess revelations as far as like owning a business, some of the surprises that you’ve come across?

Hannah: I think one of the things … Okay, let me think about this.

Rianka: Told you. That’s my Oprah moment.

Hannah: So I think I’ve learned that I’m an entrepreneur, like it’s in my blood. I love being a business owner. I love financial planning, but I also love being a business owner, and I would say financial planners are terrible business owners, and I had a mentor, Patrick Dougherty. He’s local. He’s here in Dallas. And he came from a business management background. He was a career changer, and so he always just stressed how important that was to be a good business owner.

Rianka: Yes.

Hannah: And so I think what I’ve learned, I’ve learned more of what that means, so I think there’s been some natural maturing on my side of: What does it mean to be a business owner? What does it mean to have employees? What does it mean to manage my time and my schedule? What does it mean to work from home? All of those things, like I can see how I’ve grown in that, but a couple other things that, since we’re really pulling back the curtain here.

Rianka: Oh, yeah. No holds barred here.

Hannah: So I made the transition from the broker-dealer. I had like 250 to 300 clients. I shrunk my client list down to 18. Like it was crazy. Best thing I’ve ever done, but I came out of that and it was, I just needed to rest. It was such an important part of my story, but in that I started doing the book The Artist’s Way, and I think one of the things that I’ve realized about myself is that I’m really creative. Okay, like my house is not decorated at all. I can’t pick out a paint color to save my life, but business is where I can show, that’s where my artist comes out. Financial planning is where my artist side comes out, and it’s, again, that idea of: How do you bring your full self to your work? I mean, that’s all part of it. Yeah, so I think I’ve learned that I’m creative, and I think I’ve learned how to be creative in my business.

Rianka: So that creative side, and you touched on something about there’s a difference between being a financial planner and a business owner, and one of the first books that I read prior to launching my firm, and I know it’s a book that we both hold dearly that we’ve reread multiple times is The E-Myth, or The Entrepreneur Myth, by Michael Gerber, and he talks about how we wear three hats as a business owner: the entrepreneur hat, the manager hat, and a technician hat. The first piece of advice someone gave to me is that, “Rianka, you’re no longer a financial planner. You are a business owner who owns a financial planning firm.”

Hannah: Absolutely.

Rianka: So talk to me about that realization for you, and what did that transition look like for you?

Hannah: You know, again, like now I can, five years, it feels like forever that I’ve had this business. So when I started the business or I bought the practice, I did everything, because that’s what I was doing before. Like I was the assistant and then now I’m just the adviser, and you just take on the extra roles. I used to tell people it’s so hard for me to switch, to go from paperwork. I mean, I could run circles around people on paperwork. Like I was really good at it. To go from that, very core competency to being an adviser to being a business owner, like I couldn’t describe it other than like that transition, that shifting gears in the middle of my day was one of the most training things that I would do. How I thought before I was like, “I’m crazy. I have my to-do list, just get down on your list and do it.”

Hannah: And I think a lot of it is kind of what you’re talking about. It’s like there’s different roles, and so for me when I hired my assistant, it was to get rid of some of that admin work. And could I have still done it all? Yeah, absolutely. I can do a lot of things. Is that the best decision? Is that the best use of my time? And so for me that was a huge piece of letting go, of saying like, “Okay, just because I’m better than everybody else at paperwork in my office doesn’t mean that that’s what I should be doing. That’s not the best use of my time.” That was a really big revelation on the E-Myth side of it.

Rianka: I think it’s really cool, especially with the E-Myth, how we learn not only to wear our technician hat, which is the hat that we have been most comfortable wearing, the technician hat meaning the financial planner hat, but now you’re wearing the entrepreneur/manager hat because you’ve hired someone. You have an assistant, and what did that process look like for you hiring someone? And how did you find them?

Hannah: Yeah. Craigslist.

Rianka: You know, Hannah, that is crazy. You’re the second person that has told me they found a gold mine or a gem or a diamond on Craigslist.

Hannah: And what was great, so I was looking for somebody who wasn’t from financial services because I think we’re all so tainted with how we talk about things, and I wanted somebody who could give me that perspective. I can train somebody on paperwork, but what I needed, I needed somebody to teach me how to have an assistant, because I’m not good at that, and that’s what she did. Her background was she had worked, she had been a business owner in the past, and she hated the business owner side of the business, and so she was like, “I loved what I did, but I hated the business owner side, and so I decided that I didn’t want to be a business owner.” And so I was like, “Okay. Well, that’s cool. You get me.”

Rianka: Right.

Hannah: Where a lot of people wouldn’t get that, and she worked for a solo architect for like seven years. She got like the solo professional. She got all of that side of it. It was really valuable to me. Man, I looked at her resume and I was like … you just knew. I’m just like, “Okay, there’s something special.” Again, that gut intuition that, you know, because when you put stuff on Craigslist, like oh my gosh, you get so many resumes back, and a lot of people can, you can weed out pretty fast, but I don’t know. It was just kind of the stars aligned again and it was what it was supposed to be.

Rianka: The universe conspiring with you.

Hannah: The E-Myth talks about like they give a story of a baker throughout it to like illustrate, or I guess like the latest version of it, it wasn’t in the original, and one of the things they talk about is how you hire this rockstar person who basically does everything because they’re responsible, they’re high-achievers, they’re good at what they do, and it’s like the business owner is like, “You’re the most amazing thing ever because I can just give you stuff and you do it.” That’s what my assistant, she’s like, oh my gosh, like I adore her. I think she’s crazy talented on so many levels, but the E-Myth was like, “Okay, that’s not enough though for a business. You have to have the processes built out, you have to have the accountability built out, you have to have all this other stuff.”

Hannah: And so when I went back and reread it, I was like, “Wow, okay. I can’t be the person who has one great hire and then they leave.” I mean, my gosh, this is the story of so many financial planners I know. They find a great new person, they think they found their succession plan, and then this person leaves, and it’s like, that’s almost like the script of E-Myth is you didn’t provide the structure for them. And so it’s, you know, I brought her on. She’s really taught me how to have an assistant, how to delegate, kind of operate in that space, and then now my latest takeaway with E-Myth is, “Okay, I need to grow up professionally. I need to grow up as a business owner.”

Hannah: If I ever want to, and I don’t know that I ever want to, scale this business, I need to develop a different skillset. I need to run my business differently than I am right now, and so that’s kind of been, you know, an ah ha moment, especially with a baby now.

Rianka: Oh, yeah.

Hannah: Oh, my god.

Rianka: Having a baby will change a lot of things.

Hannah: Oh, I have like an operations manual that’s almost done now.

Rianka: That is awesome.

Hannah: So it’s kind of whipped me into shape on that, which is great.

Rianka: And that’s something that you don’t have to do. That’s something that you can get your assistant to do.

Hannah: Yep.

Rianka: You are speaking to me because I did the same exact thing. I have an executive assistant, and I didn’t want someone who was in financial planning. I wanted someone who had no idea what financial planning is. One, so I can spread the good gospel of personal finance to this person, but to also just bring a new lens, a new perspective to how I’m doing things, and she’s been a fantastic hire as well. She’s been with me since January, and she’s been phenomenal, and I’m having her track the processes too that everything that you do write it down, and she’s doing it, so.

Hannah: Well, and that is just, you know, “What do you need?” And so like I was looking at, “Okay, what do I need?” I look at my to-do list right now and I’m like, “What’s not getting done, or what’s sitting on there too long?” And it’s all been planning work, and so I’m having my first paraplanner, working with my first paraplanner ever on Monday, like a week from today.

Rianka: Wow.

Hannah: Yeah, and so that’s been something I’m like, “Okay. Well, this is what I need.” In order for him to do the work that I need him to do, I have to be able to tell him what I need.

Rianka: Yes, and that’s truly important.

Hannah: Yeah, and so it’s not about, “Hey, what do you want to do today?” It’s like, “No, I need this done.”

Rianka: Yeah, this is what needs to get done. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, we can have a whole podcast about that. I mean, podcast episode about what it means to be a delegator, like true delegation versus abdication, and I think the best business owners, the best planners, the best leaders learn the craft of delegation versus abdication, and I think that you have honed in on that skill of true delegation.

Hannah: Yep. Well, trying to. My thing is like I refuse, there’s so many bad business owners. I refuse to be that bad business owner. I will own up to where I’m being a bad business owner and make what I need to do like change, because it matters. That’s the thing, it matters that you’re a good business owner.

Rianka: I mean, it matters, and I think just because you’re a business owner, just because you’re the lead financial planner or senior financial planner you don’t know everything as far as just like how to train, and so for the folks that are on my team, so I have kind of like two teams, my YGC team with my RIA, with my financial planning, and then my 2050 Trailblazers team, and I explain to both of my teams I’m like, “I’m only as good to you as a trainer, as a leader as you tell me. So if there are any blind spots that you see that I have, I give you full permission to let me know, because if you don’t let me know, I can’t change.” I think that’s why I have a rockstar team and why I can do what I do.

Hannah: We did a podcast with Cheryl Holland at the beginning of the year, and they have these like 360-evaluations, and like I was shocked. She said, I can’t remember if it’s her whole team, but like people every 18 months evaluate her and her leadership team anonymously, so they can say whatever they want.

Rianka: Wow.

Hannah: I know, and I was like, “Whoa, that’s just mind-blowing to me.” I would be scared. I would be scared if I was in a position, and I kind of made that comment to her, and she was just like, “You know, if I’m going to run a world-class business, I have to be on my A-game, and the only way I can be on my A-game is if people actually give me real feedback.” And I was like, “Dang. Okay.”

Rianka: That is so true.

Hannah: “Yes, ma’am.” Like, “I’m going to be like you.” Flipping gears back to the E-Myth, I just reread it like three months ago, and so what was so cool to me was what I picked up the first time, I picked up completely different aspects of it the second time, and what was really exciting to me was there was part, like the last part of the book I read and I’m like, “Oh my gosh, I don’t quite understand what he’s saying. I can’t wait for a couple years to come back and read this again and I bet understand it in a different light.”

Rianka: Wow.

Hannah: So it was really exciting to me to be like, “Oh, there’s just a natural progression that happens.”

Rianka: Yes.

Hannah: One other big business kind of aha moment I had, I think it was last year. I lose track of time now, but the book Traction is another great one. It’s the EOS system, Entrepreneur Operating System.

Rianka: Oh, Traction. That’s what the book is called. Oh, I haven’t heard of that one.

Hannah: Yeah. No, this is definitely one that’s been a game-changer for me. Great book. Everybody who wants to be a business owner should do it. If you’re even at a firm and you’re managing people or you need to manage up, it’s a great book to read. But one of the things that they talked about in the book was quarterly rocks. So you have a one-page business plan and then you put quarterly rocks, and so I’m the type who just, I’m naturally just, I just go. I never feel like I’m doing enough, right? That’s always been one of my things where it’s like, “Oh, you bought these businesses,” and I’m like, “Yeah, but you know what I haven’t done?”

Rianka: Right. We don’t take time to stop and smell the roses as the saying goes. I’m with you there, girlfriend.

Hannah: But the Traction, so you write out a one-page business plan, and then you do quarterly goals. Okay, let’s be honest. My husband is editing this, so he’ll call me on this if I’m not telling truth. I’m not the best at implementing all of it. Maybe hopefully I’ll grow into that soon, but just the idea of quarterly goals has been really powerful for me. So like before every quarter, and not every quarter, like now … I’m sure we’ll get to this in a little bit, in a different phase of life right now, but before every quarter I’d say, “Okay, what’s going to make this quarter successful?” And I would write it down, and so I would get in these points where I was just so frustrated, like, “Why can’t we move this faster? Why isn’t this happening?” Just putting all this pressure on myself, and I was like, “Okay, no. You said January 1st this would be a successful quarter if these four things got done, and you know what? Three and a half are done, so chill out.”

Rianka: Right. Take a chill pill as my mom would say.

Hannah: Yep. So that’s been a good like balancing. We just put such unrealistic expectations on ourselves. I’m really chatty. We have a friend…

Rianka: You have a lot to say.

Hannah: I do.

Rianka: You have a lot to share. This is, what, the 100th episode of You’re a Financial Planner … Now What?

Hannah: Yes.

Rianka: So, I mean, you-

Hannah: I’ve been sitting on my hands.

Rianka: You’ve been sitting on your hands for 99 episodes. I want everything this episode, girlfriend. Everything.

Hannah: Well, I had this friend who, he did coaching with, Ed Jacobson, and so he does all of this appreciative inquiry. He’s like this psychologist. It wouldn’t be a good idea if you’re like high-strung and like trying to like rain blot through a lot of, like he’ll calm me down quickly if you know him. Great, great stuff, but my friend went to him with all of this like yearlong to-do list, and Ed’s comment to him was, “That sounds like a lifetime achievement. What you’re trying to do sounds like something that most people do in their lifetime, and you’re trying to do it in a year.”

Rianka: Wow.

Hannah: And I was like, “Wow. Okay.” So like a lot of stuff now I’m like, “Okay, is this a lifetime goal, or is this … Do I have proper expectations of myself?” Too often I’m trying to get a lifetime goal done in six months.

Rianka: Wow. That’s a great perspective because, I mean, you have achieved a lot in your, it’s been, what, a decade that you’ve been a financial planner? Less than a decade?

Hannah: Yeah. I graduated December 2018 from college, so, yeah, so-

Rianka: ’08 or 2018?

Hannah: ’08, yeah. Sorry. 2008.

Rianka: 2008. So it has been a decade, and so with that, I mean, we’re friends and I follow you and cheering you on, and so I know about Investment News 40 under 40 and the Dallas Young Guns awards, and so you’ve done a lot that most people don’t do within the first 10 years of their career, and so where do you think this ambition comes from?

Hannah: Money has never been my motivator. I don’t know if that’s good or bad. It’s probably part of my money scripts of growing up without money, but it was like this idea of like, “I want to do what I’m passionate about. I want to solve big problems.” I don’t know how to do small things. Loading the dishwasher at home, that feels like a mountain sometimes, but big problems, that’s what I want to solve. I think really been my motivation has been, and again it’s different on various things, but it’s: How can I positively affect other people? Very millennial side of me I guess if you would.

Rianka: I’m with it. I always say that we’re the generation that cares too much, but I think that’s a good quality.

Hannah: Yep. We did the podcast and I’m being pretty positive right now, my story, but when I’m feeling a little cynical, it’s: Why did I do it? Because I’ll be damned if somebody else has to go through what I did when I started. It’s like, “No, this stops.” There were so few resources out there when I started, and we can talk about the podcast story more, but it started in my local FPA, so like they were already doing some of this, but I was just like, “No, this is unacceptable. This isn’t about money. This isn’t about fame.” I had no idea what would be happening today would happen, but it was like, “If I can help one other person, if I can help 10 other people, that’s why I’m doing this,” and it was more that’s the motivation of it.

Hannah: With my financial planning clients, so like my big thing, you know, we’re doing the one-page business plan, like, “What’s the one thing?” I want to change the way people think and talk about money. So when my clients come in, I want this to be a transformational experience for them. I want them to come in and looking for financial advice and I want them to think and talk about money differently. I want the power of money to work for them instead of always holding them back, and that’s my motivation. Charlie and I were talking and it was if I retired tomorrow, I think I’d still want to do exactly what I’m doing today.

Rianka: Yeah, and that’s pretty powerful right there because I think what you do and I see this and everyone else in the profession sees this that knows Hannah Moore is that you care and that you’re very passionate about the profession, and so on top of running your firm, on top of everything that you’re doing, on top of some more exciting news that we’ll share, we’re holding the listeners hostage to hear this big, exciting news, but on top of everything you decided to launch a podcast, You’re a Financial Planner … Now What?, so that you can help other financial planners. It’s just like … wow.

Hannah: Yeah. So my local chapter, I have to give so much credit to them. Patrick Dougherty and Trudy Turner started this, they started You’re a Financial Planner … Now What? through my local FPA chapter, so Dallas-Fort Worth. They would have the seminar series in the evening, and that’s … I can’t even describe it. It felt like a lifeline. It felt like, you know, I was learning how to do Morningstar reports, I was learning how to do meetings with clients, I was learning the paperwork, the technical part of our job, but I wasn’t learning about financial planning and the power of financial planning, and so I went to the seminar series for it was two or three years, and it was just like if I couldn’t attend one of those, it was like soul-crushing, because it was just like I just had to be around people who were seeing this thing that I was seeing, and that was the only, I mean, that, and my local chapter as well. Those were the places where I could go for it.

Hannah: After I made the switch from broker-dealer to the RIA, that’s a huge lifestyle change going from 250,-

Rianka: Big, yeah.

Hannah: … 300 clients to 18.

Rianka: One, eight. One, eight.

Hannah: One, eight. So the crazy part is throwing away the year that I moved, my revenue stayed the same.

Rianka: What?

Hannah: Yeah. So follow the money, people. Follow the money. I had so much time on my hands. So after I moved I took six months where I just didn’t do anything. I was like, “Okay, Hannah, all pressure off. You maintain 18 client relationships. You do not look for business. You do not market. You do not put pressure on yourself to do anything that you normally do, and your job is just to chill out,” because I realized I had never slowed down since I started working when I was like 13 or 14 or 12 or something when I started a paper route, you know? And not that I was taking a break from work, but 18 clients usually don’t fill up 40 hours, if you do it right.

Hannah: So when Patrick and Trudy retired if you would from doing that, she asked if I would take it over, and so Lynn McIntire, who’s also local, and I started taking those over, and Charlie, his background was media, and I just kept telling him, I’d come home from the seminar series and I’d be like, “This is just the most amazing content in the entire world. Why aren’t there more people showing up? What the heck is wrong?” He was just like, I mean, he lives and breathes media. He was like, “Well, why don’t you just put some microphones on them and throw it on the Internet and just see what happens?” That’s how it got started is we started just throwing a microphone on me and Lynn, and I was like, “You know what? I have some really interesting people I know, and I’d like to get an hour of their time, so let me just interview them.”

Hannah: All the technical side, he just works his magic, like that is his area. So that’s kind of how it got started, and I had the time to do it. That’s the thing is that that was really coming out of I have this new business, not new business, it was still Guiding Wealth, but really radically transformed my business, and I had time to commit to it, and so I just did it.

Rianka: Yeah, and so I say I’m all about this there’s two sides to every coin. The gift and the curse about being an entrepreneur is that, I mean, we get to use our creative side whereas, and I always say this about myself, like I’m a bird that cannot be caged. I will die, like internally die, if you try to put a box around me or just slap a title. Don’t hold me hostage to my title. I’m more than a financial planner, kind of like You’re a Financial Planner … Now What? as far as this podcast goes. We have so much to give to the profession, and you are just a shining example of just that. You’re a financial planner, and then you started going to these meetings and seeing like, “Wow, people need to listen to this who are outside of this room, but what is a way for us to get it to them?” From, you know, your words, from your lips to our ears, and here birthed You’re a Financial Planner … Now What? podcast.

Hannah: Well, and my secret weapon is Charlie.

Rianka: Yes.

Hannah: So that’s my unfair advantage, my unfair competitive advantage.

Rianka: Charlie. So for those who do not know, and, Charlie, you cannot edit this out, okay? So Charlie is the wonderful husband of Hannah, and Charlie Moore is just a fantastic entrepreneur as well who helps out with this podcast, also helps out with 2050 Trailblazers as far as the editing goes, and just a fantastic person overall. I actually had another question about that too, because besides Charlie being an awesome guy like … You know how you have this expectation of someone? It’s like, “Oh, okay.” It’s just like, “Oh,” and then you meet them and you hope they hold up to the expectation? That was Charlie. I’m like, “Charlie is so cool. I want to hang with Charlie, too.”

Hannah: Oh, he’s so much like cooler than I am.

Rianka: You’re cool, Hannah, and Charlie is cool, too. Yeah. So what is it like having two entrepreneurs in one household? How is that … Maybe there’s some financial planners out there where their spouse or their significant other is just like, “Hey, you’re having all the fun being an entrepreneur. I want to do it, too.” How did you two manage to make this work?

Hannah: Okay, so here’s a crazy story. So we started dating like 10 or 11 years ago. So we started dating. We’re like a month dating, and he’s just like very like, “You know, my dream is to one day own a business with my wife,” and I looked at him. I’m like, “That is the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard come out of anybody’s mouth. Are you joking? Are you not in touch with the real world? Do you not understand how relationships work? Do you not understand like … “

Rianka: Oh, my goodness.

Hannah: And so he’s always kind of hung onto this, that like that’s his dream is to own a business with his wife, and I’m like, “No. Like no.” So at that point, I think I had already changed my major, but I had no idea what my career was going to be. I’m like, “This is just insane.” So we always, yeah. Anyway, so then I ended up buying a business, like getting in the position where I was like, “Oh, I’m going to own this business,” and then I buy this business and I own this business and I’m like … and he was smart enough. He’s usually a step or two ahead of me on some of these things, even if I don’t want to admit it. He was smart enough not to say too much, but as we, I bought this business, and when I really shifted gears from so many clients to really doing like deep financial planning work with my clients, I was like, “Okay.”

Hannah: So this creative side was me coming out. I’m like, “So what would it look like for a financial planner to have a media arm?” I still don’t know. That’s the thing, I don’t know. We’re still figuring this out, and I was like, “Okay. Okay, like maybe that could work.” Then we started looking at like, “What do we want our lives to be like? What’s our lifestyle?” We want to someday have kids. How do we manage that? How do all these pieces fit together? He was signed up 11 years ago. It took me a lot longer. And I was like, “Okay, maybe this could work.” So once the business, I felt comfortable with where we were with the business, it was just like, “Why not? Why not just give it a go and see what happens?”

Hannah: At that point we had the podcast going, so he was going to quit and work on that, and that, you know, one podcast isn’t a full-time job, and so we were like, “Okay. Well, we’re going to … ” Yeah, really we were going to start exploring some different options.

Rianka: Other opportunities.

Hannah: Other opportunities.

Rianka: Yeah.

Hannah: And so we were looking at direct-to-consumer. That’s definitely a place we want to go. We’ve held on to that for quite a while. It’s great talking to other advisers and I love, like you’re my people, but what could I do if I went and talked to consumers? And so, I don’t know, we’ve just been playing around with these ideas, and so we were going to really push pedal to the metal last year on that, and then other opportunities came up.

Rianka: Yeah. So let’s talk about those opportunities. So from what I understand, You’re a Financial Planner … Now What? is under the umbrella of the Financial Planning Association, FPA.

Hannah: Yes. So it started out under FPA, and it’s like still there. So it’s really kind of a cool story. So at this point we had been doing the podcast, this was like beginning, middle of last year. So we’re doing this podcast, and it’s really been like … I don’t know how to say. My gift to the profession, my like … There was no expectation. There were no strings attached. It was just like, “Somebody needs to be doing this, so I’m going to do it.”

Rianka: I think this is why we get along, Hannah, is because we’re almost the same person. We’re like, you know, ebony and ivory of … because it’s just like I’m such the same way as far as just like I can’t wait for someone else to do something. I’m just going to do it, because if I do it, I know I’m going to do it right, or at least have a team around me that’s going to help me do it and execute really, really well.

Hannah: So what’s so cool about the podcast and what has been so just enriching to my life is I’ve had all these new planners reach out to me. So I was getting two to three phone calls a week from people who were listening to the podcast, and they were like, “Hey, I’m a new planner. Help.” It was a really cool thing, and Charlie and I, we would just, like every week we were like, “Gosh, I just wish we could start a Facebook group and have all these people jump in and join it,” and we’re like, “But we can’t do that alone. We can’t do this alone. There’s no endgame here for us. This could be a full-time business. This isn’t … ” I still want to be direct to consumers. I’m an adviser at heart. There are consultants and people who go directly to advisers and make a ton of money and all that, and that’s great, love it, but that’s not who I am. We did this for the profession. I don’t know.

Hannah: We keep saying that or like, “If only we could do this for this group of people.” I had a coaching call with one of my long-time mentors who I met at gathering, and her feedback to me was, “This doesn’t fit in. You have to let it go.” It was like a grieving process.

Rianka: What doesn’t fit in? What? What? The podcast?

Hannah: Oh just the podcast, yeah.

Rianka: This podcast?

Hannah: This podcast, because it was … This is for new planners. I’m getting older. I recognize, and I hate, like one of the things, not to give spoilers, or, hey, anybody interested? That could be another way of pushing this.

Rianka: I was just going to say, are you looking for someone to potentially take over and like host this You’re a Financial Planner … Now What?

Hannah: Yeah. Do like guess podcasting or get a different lineup. I mean, one of the things I’m so aware of is we talked about like your perspective. This, everything is through the filter of Hannah Moore. I hope it’s a good filter, I like to think it is, but I could be foolish. There’s so much more to the world that I can’t see because I’m just one person. So I’ve always been really aware of like this podcast is always going to be limited because it’s just me. So, yeah, anyway. Getting a little soap box there.

Rianka: That’s very … No, I mean, that’s very selfless of you, because you could-

Hannah: Well, none of this is about me. This is about the profession. This is: How do we move our profession forward? And we cannot move our profession forward unless new planners figure out how to operate in this new profession, and that’s what this is all about. That’s what I go back to, like I don’t want to do anything that doesn’t matter professionally. Yeah, so I get this advice from my mentor who was like, “You need to shut it down,” and it was just one of those, like it was, I was so sad and I was just like, “But that’s the right thing for us to do.” I shouldn’t be doing this. I’m 31 right now, and I’m still young. I’m still young.

Rianka: But your first career was, is, financial planning, so you have 10 years under your belt.

Hannah: Yeah. That’s my day job.

Rianka: Yeah. You have 10 years under your belt.

Hannah: And like nobody wants, I mean, what’s the plan? What’s the endgame? I’m going to be 40 and still doing this? I’m going to be 50? I mean, there’s hard decisions sometimes. Like what’s the purpose? And so I was really just like, “You know what? This is just my gift to the profession, and if we shut it down, we shut it down, and we’ll pay the hosting fees indefinitely so it’ll always be up for new planners to go listen to.” So, anyway. That was kind of where I was at, and so we gave it a June 30th deadline of saying, “If something doesn’t change, this is it,” and we had some sponsors like, we had some people reach out to us and say, “Hey, would you want to partner up with us on this or that product or whatever?” And it always just felt wrong, because our motivation, like this was about the profession. This isn’t about selling a product. This isn’t about a business model. This is not about one specific career path. I don’t think everybody should own their own firm.

Rianka: No.

Hannah: I don’t think everybody … like, right?

Rianka: No.

Hannah: It was really this like pure this is about the profession. I’m selling out if I go with these other sponsors. I’m selling out if I try just to make everybody an entrepreneur when they’re not an entrepreneur. I couldn’t do it, and so anyway. A connection was made with the national FPA, and they were like, “Okay, so let’s not … Can you just not shut down the podcast right now?” It worked out right on the timeline of June 30th. It was very, very soon after Charlie and I were in Denver talking to them about what would a partnership look like, and one of the things that I was just so passionate about was this isn’t about the status quo. Again, I only do big things.

Rianka: Right. Go big or go home, right? You’re from Texas.

Hannah: Right. So it was if we’re going to do this, these planners need a place to meet. There’s no place for them to meet online right now. Nothing is about true financial planning, so they really opened the door and they said, “Hey, what would you do for new planners?” There’s already a lot that they’re doing. NexGen is already doing a lot of really, really great work, and it was so cool because I had talked to so many of these young planners. I was like, “I know these, these are my people. These are the people that like, like I know them. Like I know their stories. I know what to do to serve them.”

Hannah: It’s been such a cool partnership. I always say FPA, they had the same purity about them because they’re a nonprofit. They’re our membership organization, so they’re like, they’re in the same like IRS category as a nonprofit, but they’re the only place where new planners, or any planner for that matter, can go where it’s all about financial planning. The end goal is just financial planning. So it’s not, I love all these sponsors and vendors and I use them and all of that, but it’s all financial planning is a means to an end. Financial planning is a means to a business model. Financial planning is never just the end, except with the FPA, and I could get behind that. I could say, “FPA,” like I can tell you ever step of the way how they’ve impacted my career, and so to me it was just like, “Oh my god, this is not just the perfect, this is the only fit I would have ever done to really partner up with them.”

Hannah: They were so respectful of like, “You’ve been doing this podcast. We don’t want to take it from you.” And I was like, “No, this is it. We’re sold.” We actually approached them and were like, “Hey, can we just fold this whole podcast under your umbrella? Because it needs to be bigger than me.” That’s the thing, it has to be bigger than me. And what happens when somebody graduates from You’re a Financial Planner … Now What? There’s experienced planners who aren’t the market of this podcast. What happens hopefully when all the people who are listening to right now are like, “Hey, this was great, this helped me a lot, and I’m just in a different place now”? Where do they go? And to me it was so cool because the FPA can pick, they have that whole career arc. That’s their job is to help us be the best financial planners that we can be, so it just was this like the skies parted, the stars aligned, and it just … I don’t know. It was meant to be. I don’t have another way of saying that.

Rianka: I’m a true believer of when you put it out there in the universe, the universe conspires with you, not against you, and I think this is just one of those moments where you just have to sometimes walk by faith and not by sight and just truly trust the process. I mean, you’ve had, I mean, such an awesome career thus far. You started off with a broker-dealer. You purchased a firm. You’ve made some hires within your practice, which we haven’t even discussed. Maybe there will be a part two to this about what that process looked like, and now you have a podcast. You’ve transitioned that a little bit into FPA, and now you’re about to start another new chapter. You’re about to add another title to your name. Can you do us the honors of telling us what that is?

Hannah: Gosh, this is like so uncomfortable. No, so we’re having a baby. We’re due August 10th.

Rianka: Yay.

Hannah: Yes.

Rianka: Congratulations, Hannah. And I would like to say, I can hold a secret because I was probably one of the first ones-

Hannah: You were, yeah.

Rianka: Yeah. And I held the secret. Oh my gosh, I’m so excited for you guys. I am so excited.

Hannah: Thank you. No, it’s really exciting. It feels very surreal. Like, “Is this for real?” And I can feel a kicking now, so I’m like, “Okay, so like I really-

Rianka: What?

Hannah: ” … do think there’s something inside of me,” but it’s … I don’t think I’ve fully processed everything, but, yeah, here I am. So six months pregnant right now.

Rianka: It’s six months, and you’re looking good just FYI. I mean-

Hannah: Thank you.

Rianka: I saw you a couple weeks ago, and I was just like, “Wow, you are just glowing.” Everyone has a different experience with pregnancy, but you are definitely growing, so. Not growing, glowing.

Hannah: Doing both.

Rianka: I mean, you’re growing, too. Oh, my gosh. And so with that so many questions come to mind. It’s like you want to celebrate, get excited, start nesting or nesting your house, whatever it’s called. I don’t have any children yet, so I’m not sure of the official term so excuse me moms out there if I’m using the wrong terminology, but it’s something that we’ve talked about offline, which I’m pretty sure there’s going to be some other planners who are asking the question, too. It’s just like, “All right, well, I’m excited that this baby is coming. What about my business?”

Hannah: Oh, my gosh. Yeah, I’ve been saying I’ve been nesting in my business more so than in my home.

Rianka: Let’s talk about that.

Hannah: Gosh, there’s so much, and there’s so much I don’t know. So I feel like giving advice, I’m really like in the thick of it right now, so everything with a grain of salt. But I was, man, we’ve been talking about this for a while and that was part of why Charlie quit his job and worked with me was we will likely use some form of childcare, but I wanted it to be my choice. That was a really big deal for me was my mom was a stay-at-home mom, and I’m clearly not going to be able to do that. I always said that mom guilt is going to be my big thing, but Charlie quit his job, so now we’re looking at flexibility on: What does it look like with two entrepreneurs working from home? How do you balance this? You know? How do you do this?

Hannah: It’s just so cool because it feels like we’re not being trapped in a corner. That’s what’s so great. I’m a planner by nature. I mean, that’s my field, and so with my clients … Like, okay. So all of y’all listening to this, I’m going to tell you I always had emergencies back when I was at the broker-dealer. People would call and they would be panicked, “I need money tomorrow.” That doesn’t happen anymore because we plan for emergencies, and so from a business standpoint, I’m in such a better position. So I was like terrified to start telling my clients that I’m pregnant because I’m like, “Well, what does this mean? I’m their adviser.” I’m like, “Okay, well, I’m going to be available by phone. I’m not going to meet in person for six weeks, but if you need something, I can meet with you.” Whatever, having all these qualifications on it.

Hannah: My clients are so thrilled for me. It’s so touching. They just can hardly contain their excitement. I’ve had like, this one woman, oh, I adore her. She like almost fell out of her chair she was so excited. What’s been cool is I have, several of my clients have made a comments on, you know, that, “You kind of have the perfect job for this, to have a kid, don’t you?” And I’m like, “Yeah, I kind of do.” I don’t know how I could have scripted this out better, if that makes sense. I was really, really fearful about it before I got pregnant, and then when I found out I was pregnant, it was more like, “Okay, now it’s business time. I’m going to figure this out, and I’m going to solve this problem.”

Hannah: There’s this, a lot of things I read about, you know, how do we help our clients navigate change and all of that, all the unexpected things in life? They talk about resiliency, and so I look at all of the hard parts of my career and I’m like, “That’s built resiliency in me.” So this, I’m just like, “You know what? It’s going to be challenging, but I know I got this.”

Rianka: Yeah. I have no doubt, Hannah. I have no doubt.

Hannah: I say this now.

Rianka: Well, I mean, you have a track record of resiliency, so I think this is just going to … If anything, what I’ve seen with the new moms is it makes you so much more efficient because it’s like, “All right. Well, I have this window of time. I just want to work for six hours, and the rest of the time is for my family.” The things that used to take 10 hours in a day to get done is now taking six, and it’s just like, “Wow. Where was all that time before?” is the feedback that I’m getting, because I’m asking a ton of questions. My husband, Reggie, and I, we’re talking about it, and I’m scared out of my mind, just like you probably were when you and Charlie started first having the discussion, but it’s all going to work out.

Hannah: Yeah, it’s just such a cool thing. My mom was a stay-at-home mom, so I’ve always … worried isn’t the right term, but it’s always been like, “I’m going to want to be a stay-at-home mom.” And I think I’m definitely like pulled that way. I think that’s the most amazing thing if that’s what you want to do and are able to do it. I absolutely love that, and maybe a little part of me is jealous, but I just … The day after I found out I was pregnant, I just remember having this sense of like, “I don’t want my daughter to say, ‘My mom had a great career until I was born.'”

Hannah: And, again, that’s my story, so I want to be so sensitive. If that is not your story, I will be your biggest cheerleader on staying home. Call me up, I’ll help make a financial plan to make this happen for you. Like there’s no … But I was really surprised. I guess the moral of that story is I thought I was going to respond one way, and I found that I didn’t respond that way, and so that’s been surprising is just seeing how I’ve been responding internally, because it was different. It’s different than what I thought. I was legitimately thought that I’d want to sell my business and stay at home, and now that thought is just like, I can’t even stomach that thought. That’s not in the world of possibilities right now, so I guess some of it you just have to go through it. That’s what I’m telling myself.

Rianka: Yeah. Yeah. And you have definitely a big support group here, including myself, that’s here to kind of like be a thought partner with you. I mean, this is something new, and as much support that I can lend to you I would love to.

Hannah: Well, thank you, and so much of it like we have the Internet now. We’re like two and a half months ahead of our podcast schedule right now, so the podcast is still going to go on every week, even though I’m not going to be here. That’s what’s so cool is we’re able to put in the work, and with my clients I’m like, “Okay, so the baby is due in August, so I want to meet with you again one time before. Would you like to meet in July or would you like to meet in September, October?” They just get to pick and-

Rianka: And they’re okay with it.

Hannah: They’re totally fine with it. Yeah. They’re just so excited, and so it’s just like, “Okay, so we’re just going to line this up and get this moving.”

Rianka: And prepare for it. I think we make these assumptions in our heads, especially for those who own businesses, about what our clients may think or what they may do. I remember, this is definitely not on the same playing field as having a baby, but I went out of the country last year for two and a half weeks. This was the longest I’ve ever taken off since I started my business almost three years ago. Two weeks to go to Santiago, Chile, and I thought my clients were going to fire me, and they said, “Rianka, if you need email me one time while you’re out there, we’re going to have some problems.” I’m like, “What? You actually want me to have a break?” So weird.

Hannah: If I help my clients live their best life and I’m not living my best life, that doesn’t make sense.

Rianka: Yeah, you just hit it. You hit the nail on the head, Hannah. Yeah.

Hannah: I wouldn’t go to a financial planner who wasn’t living their best life. You have to live it out.

Rianka: Questionable. Questionable.

Hannah: And there are seasons, and sometimes we have it together and sometimes we don’t, and a lot of times we don’t.

Rianka: So for any new or expecting moms out there, what are some of the things that you have learned over the past couple of months, anything that you want to share with them?

Hannah: Oh, gosh. I don’t know. I feel like I’m such a newbie. To me I guess what I’ve learned is I have to just give it time and let it settle with me first, and that’s just, again, how I process things. We didn’t tell anybody until, I mean, longer than they say you should wait, because I had to process it myself, and so it’s, I think we’re all just so different. Yeah, that’s okay. That’s the great thing. I looked at the Enneagram, and one of the things that they had on there, you know, your Enneagram type or whatever and, because I always thought of-

Rianka: What is that? Okay, I’m showing my ignorance right now. Like what’s the Enneagram?

Hannah: Enneagram, it’s like this personality profile thing. It’s like super in depth. It’s actually really cool if you look at it. It’s like the Myers-Briggs on steroids. It’s been around for like hundreds and hundreds of years.

Rianka: Oh, okay.

Hannah: So I’m probably not giving it complete credit, but it really talks to like: What is your motivation behind things? It really goes deep. They talk about like the seven deadly sins, that came out of the Enneagram.

Rianka: Oh, wow.

Hannah: Yeah, like it’s like deep stuff. It’s really rooted in deep stuff. But one of the things that I realized after reading this book about it was I always was like, “The ideal mom is what my mom was,” right? She was amazing. I love my mom, but I’m a different person than my mom, and the best thing that I can do is offer, like we were talking about offering your full self to your clients, and I’m coming to terms with I’m going to be different than my mom. I’m going to be different than most moms out there just because of our situation, and we’re probably going to make choices that are different, but that’s okay. The thing that my daughter needs is for me to show up just the way I am, just like we’re supposed to show up for our clients that way, fully there. And so I don’t know, it was just this really big aha moment where they … Everybody else probably gets that, but it just takes me a while sometimes.

Rianka: No. Yeah, yeah. And you said daughter, so you’re having a baby girl.

Hannah: Yes, a baby girl.

Rianka: A baby girl, whose name is going nameless until-

Hannah: It’s a secret. Until August.

Rianka: Until August. Until August 10th when she is set to come out and be introduced to the world.

Hannah: Hopefully won’t be longer than that.

Rianka: Yeah. Sometimes babies make their own decisions. They’re like, “You know what? I’ve had it. I’m ready to make my appearance.”

Hannah: Oh, my gosh, and we’re in Texas August. It’ll all be good.

Rianka: Ooh, it’s hot.

Hannah: Yeah.

Rianka: It is hot, but it is … I’m pretty sure Charlie is going to have some ice for you.

Hannah: Oh, yes. But I can’t imagine a better career to be a mom in than with financial planning. Like I just can’t imagine it. That’s the thing that’s so cool, and I wish I could just shout that from a rooftop, and I’m not quite there yet because I’m not actually like, I haven’t had the sleepless nights yet, but I can’t imagine any better career.

Rianka: I think it would be cool if we did maybe like six months in, six months after your daughter is born or like a year and just talk about your experience of because you’re a financial planner and you and Charlie have a new baby girl and what your experience has been. I think that would be a good followup.

Hannah: Yeah, absolutely. It’s a whole new chapter in life. It’s, yeah.

Rianka: So, I mean, we’ve talked about a ton today, and I’m pretty sure … We’ve already said a part two and potentially a part three, but what I want to ask you and what I want to leave the listeners with is a conversation that we always have with each other, but now I want you to share with everyone, the listeners, is the question of, you know, what is our responsibility to our profession?

Hannah: You know, I’ve been thinking about this so much, and I think people are going to step into different roles. So I’m going to say what I’m going to say, but I just want to put the disclaimer on there that you give what you can, and not everybody is going to have their own business, not everybody can give the time that I’ve given, not everybody can do that. Bringing it full circle back to Dick, we did a podcast interview. So he wrote the paper, To Think Like a CFP, transformational, of what if financial planning was a profession. That’s what it’s all about, and in the paper he quotes a movie. The movie is terrible. We went and watched the movie because we’re like, “We want to see where this quote came from.”

Hannah: So in Dick Wagner, in his paper, and we have this like incredible audio of him like less than a month and a half before he died. This was right after Charlie quit his job, so I’m so thankful for that, and Charlie really, he has a really good editor’s eye and like storytelling eye, and so I was like, “How do we do this podcast, like how do we take a legend like Dick Wagner and do this justice?” We looked at his To Think Like a CFP, and so we actually had him read this, and so we did a video, or Charlie did a video I should be clear, of-

Rianka: Thanks, Charlie.

Hannah: He edited it together. Oh, it is like, every new planner needs to watch it. It’s so powerful, but we had Dick read a line from his paper, and the setup is it’s from this movie, and it’s all of these law students who are coming in and these law students are first day of law school and this professor is coming in. Reading the first part, the students file past the ivory into the oak and dust of the ancient classroom. On this first day of class, they anticipate their initial steps on a professional journey that will lift in the pinnacle of prestige, power, and authority. So it’s all of this, and the professor, his words, and I have this in Dick’s voice, and I just hear it all the time, and so I’m going to read it.

Hannah: It says, “Ladies and gentlemen, you’re embarking upon a journey of epic proportions. It will require all that you have to give and all that you are. You come here with a brain full of mush, and if you survive, you will leave thinking like a CFP.”

Hannah: And I think about this profession and I think about: What is my responsibility? And, again, I don’t want to put this on everybody, but if we’re really going to make this a profession, it could require all that we have to give and all that we are. We have to give everything we can, and we have to give everything of who we are, every ounce of creative energy, every ounce of fight sometimes, every ounce of compassion. It will require all that you have to give and all that you are, and so we’re a place in history where we have such a profound responsibility. There’s just such a small fraction of Americans who get what financial planning is. We can quite literally change the world if we together, and it can’t be just me, it can’t just be new planners, it can’t just be old planners. If we as a profession say, “This is the line in the sand, it’s about financial planning,” we can quite literally change the world, and I think that is just enormous. And so what’s our responsibility? I think it’s to give it everything we have.

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In this week’s unique episode of #YAFPNW, Hannah Moore, CFP® steps into the hot seat and is interviewed by the one and only Rianka Dorsainvil, CFP®. Tune in to hear Hannah’s story, and to learn how she came to be so incredibly passionate about the fina... Rianka Dorsainvil, CFP®! Hannah is incredibly passionate about the financial planning profession. In this exclusive interview, Hannah is talking about her struggles early on in her career, how she discovered the difference between financial advice and financial planning, and how she found her tribe within the financial planning profession.
Hannah’s career launched in an incredibly unique way. She bought a financial planning practice when she was 26 years old, and was effectively thrown into the deep end of the financial planning world. She learned in the most hands-on way possible, and she quickly realized that isolation as a young planner was not only detrimental to her career, but to her clients.
When Hannah attended her first FPA NexGen Gathering, she quickly realized she had found her people. She was sitting next to pioneers of the profession, and new planners alike – and they were all there for one reason: to spread the gospel of financial planning and to focus on making themselves into the best planners they could be. This was game changing for Hannah, and inspired her involvement in the financial planning profession with the #YAFPNW podcast and, ultimately, the launch of the FPA Activate community.

What You’ll Learn:

What makes an exceptional planner
How to “show up” in the financial planning profession
How to find your people in this profession
Where to connect with other planners
How to power through insecurities when you’re a new planner
Revelations Hannah has had as a planner, entrepreneur, and business owner
How you can combine your creative side with a career in financial planning

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Getting Honest About Community Within Our Profession Tue, 05 Jun 2018 20:00:57 +0000 0 Alex is a great example of what it means to step outside of your comfort zone, get involved and see the benefits of being involved within the financial planning profession. From networking, mentors, peers and finding job opportunities, Alexandria has discovered new opportunities for herself and better ways to serve clients. Alexandria Cole is three years in the profession and shares what it’s like to be “in the middle” of her career story. While working at an insurance company, Alexandria attended a financial planning mixer and discovered the world of financial planning and what it had to offer. She shares her journey to find what she’s been looking for – how to help clients in a meaningful way. Alex is a great example of what it means to step outside of your comfort zone, get involved and see the benefits of being involved within the financial planning profession. From networking, mentors, peers and finding job opportunities, Alexandria has discovered new opportunities for herself and better ways to serve clients.

Many of the career stories you hear share the beginning, end and skip the middle, but Alexandria shares where she is at in her career story – the middle. She is in a paraplanning role and shares her journey in deciding if she wants to be a lead planner and how she would design her idea role, if given the opportunity.

Alexandria understands something critical about the financial planning profession: our strength lies in our community. The passion and the willingness to support each other is infectious and Alexandria found this to continue to hold true when she failed her first attempt at the CFP Exam. Instead of judgment and embarrassment, she found a community that encouraged he, is her champion and wants her to be successful. Through community, Alexandria found her passion for financial planning.

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What You’ll Learn:

  • The importance of the financial planning community and how you can get involved
  • How one person can make a difference in the financial planning profession
  • Ways you can get involved as an individual – even if you don’t want to go so far as to launch your own NexGen chapter
  • How to continue to push forward with purpose if you fail the CFP® exam the first time
  • How to decide what career path you want to take in financial planning
  • How to get involved with NexGen
  • That it’s okay to forge your own path


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Ep101 Transcript

Hannah: Well, thanks so much for joining us, Alexandria.

Alexandria: Thank you.

Hannah: I feel like I’ve known you forever, even though I know that’s not true. You’ve been in the industry about three years, but I’ve seen you in quite a few places. So I’ve seen you, you know, I’m involved with NexGen, so you’re running the Northern California NexGen program. I’ve seen you at NexGen Gathering. I’ve seen you two years at FPA Retreat. Is that right?

Alexandria: Yeah, yes! Two years in a row.

Hannah: So you’ve been so involved in the profession, getting involved with the FPA and with other financial planners. Did you know to do that when you first started in or how did you get introduced to that?

Alexandria: So it’s kind of interesting. I feel like I stumbled upon FPA in a very weird way. I was in the insurance business out of college. They were recruiting students to become agents and I thought that that would be a way to get my foot into the door, and so I ended up at an insurance company and I thought that that was financial planning or being in the industry, so I was like, wow, I got my job right out of college like I said I would. And then I was reading a newspaper, ironically, and I was noticing that the article was about Debbie Gross, which was a past president of our chapter, and it said that she was a part of FPA and I had never heard of it before, so I just Googled it and noticed that they had a mixer coming up for kind of like, not new recruitment, but just getting more people interested in the area. And so I just signed up and it was free. At the time, I was still in college and I saw that you got, like, free drinks and food, and that was still very important to me, so I was like I’m there!

Alexandria: So I ended up going to this mixer and I got there and, at first, it was all older people and I kind of was like “Am I at the right place?” The lady there was, like, “Yeah, you’re here for the mixer?” And I was like “Yeah, my name’s Alexandria.” So I’m walking around, I have this name tag on that says student, and so I’m thinking maybe there’s other students here. And I’m meeting all these financial planners in the area and I haven’t met any of them before, but they’re like “You’re a student? What school do you go to?” And I’m telling them Sac State, but we didn’t have a program back then, so I just was a student in general inquiring about FPA, and so it started with me just going to a mixer and after I left the mixer, I was just so amazed from all the conversations I had with people, and I was like, “So what is financial planning again?” Because I wasn’t sure where I ended up at.

Alexandria: So that’s when I kind of started my research about what it is that I was really in and being at FPA’s mixer and then meeting with people after is what kind of started the journey of what did I stumble upon and what am I currently in at my job at MetLife, was the company at the time, it’s no longer called that, with the Snoopy. It’s MassMutual.

Alexandria: It was just interesting because I thought I was already in the industry, but until I met other financial planners that I go, “Wow, I don’t think I’m doing any of what you’re talking about.” So it kind of was an interesting start that I had to research my way into what financial planning was, even though I had showed up at a mixer.

Hannah: So many questions.

Alexandria: Yeah.

Hannah: Okay, so let’s … Okay, so you just found this mixer on the internet and then showed up, like, can you walk through what that was like? Were people welcoming? I mean that’s a pretty big step for a lot of people to take.

Alexandria: Yeah. So this is kind of, I think, a skill I would call that I have of naturally finding events and attending them.

Hannah: Just do it.

Alexandria: Just doing it and honestly because I’ve noticed that with growth, it comes from putting yourself out there and so I just signed up to go and because it was free, it was even more enticing, but once I got there, I just didn’t know what to expect. So it’s kind of faking it ’til I made it, you know, where I’m asking people, oh, what’s a financial planner and they’re like, oh, you work at MetLife? And I’m like, yeah, I’m a financial planner too, right? And that’s what I’m saying to them, and they’re kind of looking at me, like, oh really? And so that’s when I started hearing terms like CFP and fiduciary, and I’m just like, okay, I’ve never heard of any of this, you know?

Alexandria: And so it just was really interesting to be welcomed into something that I really had no idea what it was I was getting into, but I was being educated on it by just attending a mixer, so it’s like when you have a chapter or a community that’s so open to educating someone no matter what span they’re in, you never know where they’re at in their space where they may leave going home, like, wow, I want to join what they’re doing, even though I thought that was what I was doing.

Alexandria: So, it was really interesting, but it was just very welcoming and I got to learn a lot about the terminology that I didn’t know before, because from what I was learning at work, I thought that was the way financial planning was, so it was like redefining what that meant to me and then also what it means to other professionals. And that’s very interesting in itself, that everybody kind of defines it differently.

Hannah: So you go to this mixer and I loved how you said it’s almost redefining what financial planning was to you. What was it like to go back to your job then and see kind of the contrast?

Alexandria: So I’d say probably the first day in the structure of at least working at this company, you know, I had a manager that I reported to. So I went back to next day and was just raving to the manager, “Oh my gosh, have you heard of FPA?” And he’s like, yeah, how did you find out about it? And I just was like, overwhelmed, spilling all this information, “I met this person and this person and they do this and have you heard of this word, ‘fiduciary’?” I’m just like probably scaring the manager at this point, because he’s like “What? Last week, we’re just studying for your insurance licensing and now you have all this new knowledge.” And so it’s like what do we do with it? And at the time at the company I was at, I was the young person there, so everybody was very much already in their business and so my mentoring came from the manager at the time, and so I kind of struggled with how we do things at work and how I was hearing things being said at the mixer.

Alexandria: And then it kind of fast forward to when I went to the next event, which was … Gosh, what was the name of it? The fall expo is what they used to call it. It was like a mini conference that they held here in Sacramento and at that time, that was a bigger scale of financial planners in one room, but I got the information to go back to that event and kind of shared, like, “Hey, this is what I’m dealing with at my firm. Is that what you guys are going through?” And it was kind of like I was teeter-tottering on this fence line of, like, so what I’m doing, is it right or wrong? And I struggled with it at this firm because I learned so much at FPA and then go to work and try to implement it, but it didn’t have the structure to do that. We weren’t charging fees to climb, so I was like, “Okay, well, how do I do that the right way?” And they didn’t have an answer, but it didn’t math in line with what I believed to be correct because I was learning something different at FPA.

Alexandria: I just went back and forth and it kind of built up this frustration, like, “Oh my god, I don’t know what I’m doing and I don’t know how to handle it.” So I consider FPA like this equivalent of helping me find what I truly was searching for in helping clients with, because before starting out, it really wasn’t a good fit, but I didn’t know that when I started. FPA wasn’t necessarily sharing with me that, oh, I need to only be going this direction, but it helped me sort out that I should be at least exploring many options since I was so young and just starting out.

Hannah: And so were you able to find people who had different business models and were implementing financial planning maybe slightly different from each other? Is that really where you went to learn about financial planning?

Alexandria: Yeah. Definitely. I’d say probably just in the first couple months of being at FPA, I was meeting so many planners there that had small firms, large firms, support staff, and just hearing what financial planning meant to them, so that also got confusing. Because I was, like, there’s so many ways to do it!

Alexandria: So this isn’t like a profession where you’re like, okay, I’m going into a law firm that charges a certain way and you’re going to go up the ranks a certain way. It’s not a direct path because of so many paths and that kind of actually is what landed me into doing NexGen, because I was frustrated, like, gosh, if there’s other young people doing the same thing I’m struggling with or learning about, it could be difficult to navigate your first year, six months in the industry because you just don’t know what other ways are out there, so you think there’s only one way.

Alexandria: And so that’s kind of what birthed NexGen, because I was like, well, if I could get more financial planners to come talk to the group, talk to myself and share that there are different ways, then people can make educated decisions on what works best for them and where they see themselves in financial planning, where can I contribute at, and it be a passion for me.

Hannah: And so did you actually start your NexGen chapter in Northern California?

Alexandria: Yes, I did. It’s a very kind of actually funny story because, so, right after that mixer that I went to at FPA, I was really excited about that and then I found out that they were having Seattle be the national conference, so that was in Seattle and I was like, oh, it’s a hundred dollars for students to go and, once again, Alex doing that skill of just going.

Alexandria: I went to the conference and, actually, I have family out there, so it wasn’t terrible in cost, but I went to the conference and they were having NexGen voting and picking the next presidency, and so I went and I’m like hearing all this stuff about NexGen. I was, like, oh wow, this community exists. I was like, oh, this is great. Then I found out that they’re, like, yeah, local chapters have NexGen and I was like, awesome! Well, I’m going to go back to the chapter, Northern California, and ask them about where this NexGen meets.

Alexandria: So I get back from the conference and I’m asking the board, hey, when does your NexGen chapter and what days? And they’re like, we don’t have a NexGen chapter, and I was like, “Well why not? I just came from a conference where there’s plenty of NexGen and we should have one.” And that’s actually how I ended up on the board, because I brought this up as something that should be there and that’s kind of how I started the chapter, is that I brought the idea up. Little did I know that they were going to ask me to do that.

Hannah: What blows my mind about all of this is that you’re three years in.

Alexandria: Yes.

Hannah: Like I feel like I’m talking to somebody who has so much more experience. We’re talking specifically about FPA, but I think the financial planning community, it sounds like it’s fast-tracked your career. It sounds like it’s given you such a bigger perspective. Would you agree with that?

Alexandria: Yes, I definitely would and, honestly, I say this to several people when they come and ask me questions or NexGen asks me questions about how I got to at least the point that I’m at now and I give a big shout-out to all of just the financial planning community, but, like I said before, it’s really being able to go outside your comfort zone and call that financial planner that you know that is in your area, or meet up with the business owner or talk to other students amongst the FPA student chapters to just learn about what they’re doing so that way you can, one, be aware of roadblocks, but also be aware of how do I get to where they’re at if that’s what you want to do.

Alexandria: That community has helped definitely spearhead things forward because I’ve been willing to reach out and maybe take the extra step of being open and kind of vulnerable to the fact of you’re new, but you’re so interested and wanting to know more.

Alexandria: I mean, I feel like it does not hurt to ask somebody how do you do it, and it’s interesting to them because they’re like, “Oh, you’re curious about what I do?” And you are, and then at the same time, not forgetting to let them know what it is you can do to help them with what they have going on, whether that’s business related or just some type of venture that they’re working on in the financial planning industry, but it helps spearhead you because now they’re like, “Okay, Alexandria. I met you, you’re doing great. Oh, you’re looking for a job?” Or “Oh, you’re looking for an internship?” Or you know, “You just need an opportunity to help? Oh, I know who to put you in contact with.” Or “I see that you’re doing this in the community.”

Alexandria: It just drives what you’re doing in leadership and helps move your career along. I don’t know if I would use the word faster, but it definitely helps spearhead you for new opportunities and being open to new opportunities, especially in a space where, financial planning, as you’ve seen, people are able to create new things. Now, people are able to just go start a business and all virtually, or just be support staff and be virtually. This is all new stuff that the old school way would be like, you’re in an office. You’re working for somebody, 9 to 5, right? That seems very … That’s how things used to be, but now people can try something else if they want to, but it’s just the opportunity and being a part of this community helps move that along.

Alexandria: Not just that community, but the study group aspect. I have an amazing study group. How it got formed was through FPA, so another point to FPA where study groups became involved. My mentorship came from FPA, like, if I just went back and tried to trace where all my opportunities came from, it always ended up in the community of some sort. And not just in the financial planning community, but I felt like in my personal community, I did the same thing so it helped you keep involved with what’s going on in your personal life and things that you enjoy in hobby and life, but I definitely feel like it’s helped open up a lot more opportunities being involved in the community, rather than just maybe showing up.

Hannah: Absolutely. I look back to when I started my career and I think I networked pretty well and I never realized the value of it until I could look back and see, oh, those are the opportunities that I had because I was in a network, because I was involved in a community, because I really did put myself out there. And it’s just like you really open doors, maybe not even right now. Maybe in five or ten years from now.

Alexandria: And it’s also scary too. Let me not pretend like I just was out there doing all this stuff, but it’s scary too because when I started, when I went to that mixer I was 22 years old and you don’t know what you’re going to say. You don’t want to embarrass yourself. You’re the only one that looks like you. I mean, that is all very scary, but when you go and you talk and you just kind of like, okay, the jitters are a little bit gone, and then you leave the event, you always go, “Wow, that was so great” and you call up your friend and you go “You won’t believe what opportunity just happened to me just because I showed up.” You know?

Alexandria: You get points for showing up, so I think that that’s a big deal, but it also is very nerve-wracking too. It’s like bypassing that peace in order to expose yourself is huge.

Hannah: Well, and we’ll let everybody in on a secret, especially when you’re at these networking events, people love to talk about themselves. So it’s always an easy in just to be, like, tell me about your business, how did you get started? People will talk your ear off, so if you’re not sure what to talk about, just ask them about themselves or what they wish they would’ve known at your point in their career and I promise you, you will have lots to talk about.

Alexandria: Yes. Keep those two questions in your back pocket. Keep those two questions.

Hannah: So I’m assuming, I mean I know, but for the audience, so you’re no longer with MetLife.

Alexandria: Correct.

Hannah: So you’re working as a paraplanner now, is that correct?

Alexandria: Yes. So I work at a financial planning firm and I support one of the partners of the firm in a paraplanning role and I should probably give the caveat – because it will explain some of like where my stories come from – of what paraplanning means because another thing that means something different to each firm, but it’s not sitting in in meetings and it’s not sitting and doing notes or building out financial planning software. So that is a different space, but kind of how we’ve described it, it’s more the trading desk and the service and the concierge world of the clients, and helping them complete transactions and a lot of business strategy is more of what my role is, even though it’s called paraplanning.

Alexandria: I just wanted to give that caveat because I notice that that does mean something different for each person when they hear it.

Hannah: Yeah, well, and it’s also really interesting because it just kind of opens up the world of how much there is to service a client and how many different roles there are. You know, we’re in the FPA Activate group and we just had somebody ask about the different career paths and what are the ways to serve clients and it’s like there are so many different ways to do it and what you’re doing is absolutely critical to a client’s wellbeing.

Alexandria: Yeah. Yes, it is.

Hannah: I mean, it is.

Alexandria: It is.

Hannah: And it might not be that you’re in the client meeting, but that’s an important piece. That’s a really, really foundational piece that you need to know if you want to be a lead advisor or lead planner someday.

Alexandria: Exactly. And so I know a lot of people are going, “Well, that’s a lot of” – like you said – “good experience” to be able to get that information and so as I work with clients, yeah I’m not sitting in the meeting, but it’s just as impactful to be able to dissect information that’s given to you that you didn’t hear directly from the client. That’s a skill. You’re just building skills, all these things are skills and how you come up with them is, you know, a completely different topic, but …

Alexandria: There’s not a wrong way to be learning is kind of how I look at it.

Hannah: Oh my gosh, I love that so much. I did my internship and I had, like, I love the firm that I did the internship on but I scanned the entire summer, like I took two full walls of paper files and scanned them and it was awful.

Alexandria: Yeah.

Hannah: It was rough.

Alexandria: Yes.

Hannah: But, kind of what you’re saying, is I learned so much from that because I read all the client notes. I got to see how did the client relationship progress over 15 years and that was so incredibly valuable, like, I had never read a divorce decree before.

Alexandria: Yeah.

Hannah: I got to read all these things. I got to see what was in these client files and I know that’s … There were other interns who had such a better experience, but I’m like, like you were saying, you still learn how you learn.

Alexandria: Yeah.

Hannah: And it’s important to take advantage of those opportunities.

Alexandria: Correct. Correct.

Hannah: And then the best part was when I got my first full-time job, I put on my list, I put scanning or something like that and when I got the interview, she was like “Everything is perfect, even down to the scanning.” So …

Alexandria: They’re like, yes, we got another one.

Hannah: Yes. Okay, so your title as a paraplanner, you’re doing more of the client service work. Maybe not the direct planning work. Is that something you want to get into someday? Do you see your role as wanting to stay more operational? Or do you know?

Alexandria: You know, it’s funny because now that you say “Do I know”, I actually was struggling with that and I felt like I think just recently I shared with one financial planner at retreat and I was like, you know, I really want to be a financial planner. And, at first, I was hesitant to say it because I wasn’t sure because I’ve been doing client service and I like it.

Alexandria: It’s not that I don’t want to do it, but at the same time, it’s kind of scary to hear, like, “Oh, well, if you become a financial planner, you kind of miss out on doing this piece” or you end up passing that on to another resource. And so I think now after three years, I can say that that’s exactly what I want to do, so that way, I can still be held accountable and still want to learn in different ways that still keeps me on track with becoming that.

Alexandria: And so even though I’m in a client service role right now, I told somebody “If I could build out my own position, it would be half client service, half financial planner” [inaudible 00:23:31] and just be like a hybrid of both where I’m like okay, there’s some meetings where I sit in and run on my own, but then there’s still this side of intrigue that happens after the meeting that still is required of me. And I would love to do both and so I’m still doing things now that, obviously, is more in line with being a financial planner. I mean, my role currently now does not require me, you know, if we’re looking on paper, to go to, let’s say, an FPA meeting and learn about our government pension plans and if they’re failing or not. That’s not necessarily something I need to know in client service, but it’s intriguing me to know because one day, when I do come across that client and I’m helping the client later on in life, I want to be able to do that.

Alexandria: And so I still prepare myself as if, like, the opportunity came tomorrow to do it, that I’d be open to doing it because I still engage myself in that way and I also think that if I was going to do client service more intensely, that I’d still need a higher level of knowledge to get to a more critical period of not just maybe going through the flow of, okay, I’m prepping meetings, like I want to be very skilled at being the best client service person, so that’s why I’m so intrigued in getting my CFP and working towards that and other designations even though it’s not necessarily required for a paraplanner to have those types of things.

Hannah: Yeah, I just love this, like, what are you naturally drawn to and what are you naturally curious about and stay interested and show up to those things because you don’t know what your career path is going to be.

Alexandria: Exactly. Exactly.

Hannah: So, let’s talk about the CFP exam.

Alexandria: Yeah. Yeah, let’s talk about it.

Hannah: That beast of an exam.

Alexandria: Yes. How dare they.

Hannah: Okay, so you start out. You’re at this insurance company. You’re like, “Hey, I just found out what the CFP is.” So, was a there a point when you decided that you needed to get your CFP?

Alexandria: Yes. And I think I honestly started doing it just because I was, at that time when I was just starting to be a part of FPA, I’d noticed that everybody had it, so it seemed like, okay, well if you want to be doing what they’re doing, that’s the natural thing next, right? It just seemed that way because everyone had it, so that’s how I started on it and I realized that you need an education to get into it. So I was like, oh, that’s no problem, so I did research to figure out what was going to be my best point of getting through the education.

Alexandria: At the time, we had a UC Davis extension program. It’s no longer here because the university has a CFP program now, but I took the classes there and it was in the evening, so after work, once a week, very like slow crawl to getting it all done, but I just started with going through the education piece and signing up for that process and then I was like, well, by the time I get done with education, I’ll have some experience under my belt and I’ll know a little bit more so when it comes time for the CFP, I’ll just be ready. This is how my thought process is, you know, of what’s the CFP? I’m like, okay, it’s a test. You got to study for it. All right. I got this. You know, I still have the college mentality of how I handled all the rest of my tests in my mind about how I was going to be taking the CFP.

Hannah: And so you take these courses and you’re working at the time. Did you see a lot of crossover from what you were learning and your job, or was it not … there wasn’t … What was that like as you applied it?

Hannah: Maybe you didn’t?

Alexandria: Yeah. You know, it’s kind of interesting. Starting out in that role, I helped a lot of clients that weren’t dealing with estate planning issues, so, you know, it wasn’t necessarily something I can go back and apply the next day, but I knew now what a trust was, right? Or trustee, co-trustee. Like I knew the basics and that helped me enough with general information of clients when they maybe asked a question or if I saw something that it would red-flag me into doing more research.

Alexandria: So I wouldn’t necessarily say I had a lot of application thereafter when I was working at the insurance company, but since I started working at my new firm that I’m currently with, there was a lot more opportunity of application, so I was taking courses and then coming back and the partner that I work with, he’s great in the fact that I could go back to him and say, hey, which client does this apply to? I know we recently did this strategy and we were talking about it, and could you actually explain it a little more and maybe apply it to them, so I can really understand what it is I’m learning and not just read it out of the book. And that was super helpful, that maybe I wasn’t able to sit in the meeting and go through the process, but I was able to use him as a resource of being taught this education course in a more applicable way and that’s what I felt like was great.

Alexandria: And I was like, oh wow, they’re probably going to find that very impressive. I’m able to learn at school and then apply it to what I’m doing. It was really enriching to be able to go to class and then, the next day, have this new wealth of knowledge and, not to like toot your own horn, but like look what I learned, you know? And so it was great and it made you feel like you were really growing, you know, in your role because you had this education that, honestly, I feel like at this point at my firm, you know, how else was I going to get that information if I didn’t go to school? Or go through the education course and learn, you know? I’d have to stumble upon it through a client experience or I just wouldn’t know about it.

Hannah: And so you take these courses and you said that you were going to, after you took the courses, then you would decide if you were going to take the CFP exam. So you did decide to take the CFP exam at that point?

Alexandria: Yes, so that failed last November. I got a study plan, I was in it. I signed up for a live review, which I use [Zon 00:30:14] which was an amazing review course and I prepared in every way possible that I knew and I had asked so many other CFPs how they did it and, you know, what was their study habits, because the CFP is like this mystery test in a way. It’s like you have this wealth of knowledge you know, but it’s mysterious because when you actually take it, it’s a whole ‘nother beast and everything you just learned prior to besides the knowledge is like out the door as far as the actual test itself.

Alexandria: So, I got in there and I was ready to take the test and I took it in November and I was like, okay, Part 1, I got through it and I was like, wow, that was a lot of information. And I’m not sure how I’m feeling about the test and it wasn’t a feeling of, yeah, I’m completely rocking it and it wasn’t a feeling of I was completely failing it either and so I just was like all right, well, let’s just get through the second part and I got through that second part and I … You know, you’re clicking the next screen to get your results and then they have the nerve to ask you if you’ll take a survey before you get your results. And that’s the worst feeling, honestly.

Alexandria: And then you have to click again and when I clicked again and I saw “failed”, I just felt crushed because I was like, how? How could I have failed the CFP? I studied. I did everything you asked, you know. What happened? You know? And, oh, I was hurt. I was so hurt and I had to take the test in San Francisco which is, like, an hour and a half for me, so I had a long drive home of just me and my feelings, you know. And I kind of took the next day or two kind of off. I didn’t even want to tell anybody that I failed the test because, you know, it’s pass or fail. You don’t get to be, like, well, I felt like I was good in these areas, you know. It’s hard to even talk about it like that when you try to analyze what you did wrong because the results and feedback of the test aren’t a hundred percent clear either, so it’s like, well, where do I need to work on?

Alexandria: And it’s very broad as far as, like, well, retirement, you were in the middle, and you’re like, the middle, like I was about to pass it or middle like you really weren’t that great? You know? So it was just like a lot of emotion and feeling after the test when I didn’t pass. I mean, it even came down to where I was, like, blaming outside roles, where I was like, gosh, my job, they worked me too hard. I could’ve spent more time. You know, I was mad at my job because it was like, “Oh, if they gave me this day off, I could’ve studied more”, right? Like or, “Oh, my family, they were always asking me to do stuff and they knew I had to study.” Like, I was getting frustrated.

Alexandria: I was so upset with myself. I was beating myself up inside because I did not pass the first time, but I’ll tell you, Hannah: the one thing that really shocked me was after I publicly said that I didn’t pass the test, the amount of people who have their CFPs that told me, “Oh, don’t worry about it, I didn’t pass the first time either.” And I was shocked. I was like, “What do you mean you didn’t pass the first time?”

Alexandria: I mean, there’s this layer of pressure from the CFP test and obviously we all want to pass the first time, but we also read the statistics on the CFP Board of how many people pass the first time and we can’t all do it, and so do you beat yourself up and go “All right, I’m not taking it again” or do you beat yourself up and go “All right, well, you know, I don’t think I’m supposed to be a financial planner” because that’s exactly how I was feeling, like all right, this wasn’t for me. But I had a really good talk with a great friend, mentor of mine I would say, [Bianca Dorsonville 00:34:14], and I was sharing with her that this test, I failed it, and there was purpose to why I failed it because now I have to overcome a level of growth that I’ve never gotten to before, you know. Especially if you grow up like on average always attaining things and passing things on the first time. You never really deal with failure probably until later in your adult years, and this is that point where the CFP is.

Alexandria: Okay, yeah, I didn’t pass the first time, but there’s a new level of adversity to going back at it again, you know, standing up and, like, hey, I’m going to pass the second time and still being okay with that. And so that’s where I’m at now. We’re almost to July’s testing time and I’m not taking it in July, but I’m taking it in November of this year and being okay with, all right, here comes second round and I’ve got it this time. That’s been probably the biggest piece of my journey so far that hasn’t always been very happy moments.

Hannah: Yeah, well, I just love that you’re so open about this and sharing this because I feel like so many people really do fall in this camp of that frustration and so what I so admire about what I’m hearing from you is that you’re still so committed to financial planning.

Alexandria: Oh, yeah. Definitely. I mean, it’s weird because it’s like, all right, I think at the time I had failed the test, I think that was Monday or Tuesday, and CLC, the Chapter Leaders Conference for FPA, was that weekend and I had to go and I was, like, oh my gosh, I’m going to have to go to this conference and be around other financial planners and everybody will ask me did I pass? [inaudible 00:36:11] on repeat, be like, no, not this time.

Alexandria: But it was weird because, yeah, I had to do that, but the passion of other people wanting to increase the amount of NexGen in their chapter or just bring on pro bono work and the leadership around FPA made me go, wow, they’re still here supporting me even though I didn’t pass. And that might sound weird, but it’s like they’re not giving up on just because you didn’t pass the first time and that makes you feel like, wow, I’m a part of a community that really wants you to succeed because there used to be a time in the finance industry where if you didn’t pass your Series 7 the first time, you got the boot if you didn’t pass, and so it’s like that’s not the level that you feel here, being a part of a community, and that’s why it’s important to have such around you, so that when you do have these hiccups, that there’s people around you to be like, don’t worry, this is how you’re going to be able to beat it next time.

Hannah: Somebody coming new into this profession, what would you want them to know about financial planning?

Alexandria: You don’t have to be a financial planner if you don’t want to. There’s still space for you here and you’re able to create that space if you want to. That’s how open financial planning is. That’s probably my first thing.

Alexandria: We’re not all the same and we’re not all meant to be financial planners. We all have different strengths. So I think that would probably be my first thing to say.

Alexandria: And the second one is staying involved in the community of the financial planning profession. I know that, you know, we get wrapped up in work and wrapped up in our personal lives, but what your local chapter’s doing to offer resource and offer speakers, they’re all volunteering their time as well, and so it’s like still staying engaged with that, because you have something to provide even if you can only go to local chapter meetings every other month. You know? And so sharing that and being able to volunteer. I mean, volunteering doesn’t mean necessarily you have to join the board. You can help work registration one morning, you know? You can introduce a new member one morning at a local meeting.

Alexandria: There’s so many places to be involved when you’re new and it doesn’t have to be in such a large capacity. I’m going to share this about our conversation that we had at retreat, because this is kind of my new thing and I shared this also at retreat in open circle, or closing circle, huh?

Alexandria: That being okay with going up to people and asking them what they need help with. I love this podcast and what it’s doing for NexGen and so I know it takes time and your volunteer hours, so it was like, okay, I’m seeing Hannah at retreat this time. Oh, I’m going to tell her, if she needs help in any way that I have my hand raised because it takes a community to do these things.

Alexandria: Those are probably my two big points for NexGen about financial planning and it’s more about how to help grow and maybe not so client-centric, which is maybe not the norm, but I’m coming from a space where I’m still navigating becoming a financial planner, so I’m not yet in the space of clients, in serving a group of people yet, so my role is kind of feeling like how do I keep going in this profession so that it’s around when I am a planner, you know? That’s probably my first two points for NexGen community.

Hannah: Well, what I like so much about our conversation, we were talking about this before we started recording, is so many of these podcasts, we talk about the middle and this grand ending of where they … Or, sorry, we talk about the beginning and this grand ending of where people end up and kind of gloss over that middle and you’re right there. I mean, you’re studying for your CFP exam right now.

Alexandria: Yes.

Hannah: And that’s huge.

Alexandria: It’s really nice and I am a huge podcast junkie, Hannah. I mean I listen to podcasts probably two or three a day, like I’m going through them-

Hannah: Wow.

Alexandria: Yeah, and it’s really because I’m at work so I have time there. I have a commute. You know, I have a good amount of quiet time to be listening to this stuff, but I’m starting to notice that where I’m like, okay, this is awesome. I’m so glad to hear how you started into the profession. Then we miss this middle part of, like, hoops you had to jump through, what was difficult, what was hard, what was a happy moment, because when we skip over that, someone who’s coming up new, they’re like, so what should I be looking forward to? Or what are some flags along the way that makes me feel like I’m at least going in the right direction? Because when you’re navigating, it’s just like, oh, well, here’s the endpoint, how do we get there, you know?

Alexandria: And so it feels good having some type of conversation about those talks so that younger people can go, oh yeah, I completely relate with that because I’m going through it right now and now I feel like I can reach out to them and that’s something that I’ve been trying to do a little bit more as I have time of listening to a podcast and providing feedback to that person that’s sharing their story because it’s like, well, I’m going through that too, or hey, can you share a little bit more about that because that’s something that I’m struggling with now and I don’t know how to approach my boss about it, you know?

Alexandria: And I love the meat of the podcast when it talks about the middle part, just because it … I don’t want people to gloss over it because you had to put a lot of work into it. It took you a lot of time and so I think it’s something we should definitely praise and also go, like, yeah, you are the bomb for doing that and then the bomb for sharing it, but sometimes, yeah, I do feel like we jump to our ending because we want to – I call it, because I’m a big, you know, make boxes and check it because it’s complete, but that’s where I feel like it happens, is that we want to get to end so you know that you completed it.

Alexandria: Okay, yeah, I became a planner. Check. Now I know that it can be done. But there’s going to be always this middle part that is always changing for each planner, but even more so for myself as I’m in this space.

Hannah: I’m just going to speak for the listeners who listen to this podcast, that we are all rooting you on for this November exam.

Alexandria: Thank you. Thank you so much.

Hannah: And so glad that you decided to stay in financial planning and decided to take the test again. I mean, because that alone is a huge win of resilience and really admirable.

Alexandria: I’m still nervous now. If you could see all the CFP books I have staring at me in the office, like, all right. November is your time.

Hannah: Oh, that’s great. So do you have a plan to celebrate? Do you know what you’re going to do if you pass?

Alexandria: You know, I probably will cry. It’s going to be a really emotional probably, but I haven’t even figured out a celebration move for what happens.

Hannah: Oh, that’s great. Well, thank you so much for doing this, Alexandria. I am so excited to share this episode with the listeners. I think you have such a great story, even three years in.

Alexandria: Yes, thank you.

Hannah: And I can’t wait to see what’s next for you.

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Alex is a great example of what it means to step outside of your comfort zone, get involved and see the benefits of being involved within the financial planning profession. From networking, mentors, peers and finding job opportunities, Alexandria Cole is three years in the profession and shares what it’s like to be “in the middle” of her career story. While working at an insurance company, Alexandria attended a financial planning mixer and discovered the world of financial planning and what it had to offer. She shares her journey to find what she’s been looking for – how to help clients in a meaningful way. Alex is a great example of what it means to step outside of your comfort zone, get involved and see the benefits of being involved within the financial planning profession. From networking, mentors, peers and finding job opportunities, Alexandria has discovered new opportunities for herself and better ways to serve clients.
Many of the career stories you hear share the beginning, end and skip the middle, but Alexandria shares where she is at in her career story – the middle. She is in a paraplanning role and shares her journey in deciding if she wants to be a lead planner and how she would design her idea role, if given the opportunity.
Alexandria understands something critical about the financial planning profession: our strength lies in our community. The passion and the willingness to support each other is infectious and Alexandria found this to continue to hold true when she failed her first attempt at the CFP Exam. Instead of judgment and embarrassment, she found a community that encouraged he, is her champion and wants her to be successful. Through community, Alexandria found her passion for financial planning.

What You’ll Learn:

The importance of the financial planning community and how you can get involved
How one person can make a difference in the financial planning profession
Ways you can get involved as an individual – even if you don’t want to go so far as to launch your own NexGen chapter
How to continue to push forward with purpose if you fail the CFP® exam the first time
How to decide what career path you want to take in financial planning
How to get involved with NexGen
That it’s okay to forge your own path

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Hybrid Vigor: The ICFP + IAFP Merger Tue, 29 May 2018 23:12:24 +0000 0 Join us for a story based podcast where we go back in time to the late 90s when the financial planning profession was abuzz with the possibility of something great (and at times unthinkable) that was about to happen. - the merging of professional organizations to create one professional membership organization. Join us for a story based podcast where we go back in time to the late 90s when the financial planning profession was abuzz with the possibility of something great (and at times unthinkable) – the merging of two professional organizations to create one: ​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Financial Planning AssociationFor this episode, we’re continuing our series on the history of financial planning by bringing together Elissa Buie, David Brand, Dave Yeske, Scott Kahan, Guy Cumbie, Roy Diliberto, and Joe Votava to share their stories on what is simply known by some as “The Merger”.  

I think it’s important to note that this is about much more than just the FPA as a professional organization. As you listen to this episode, I want you to know that we are all part of the same movement to make financial planning a profession. For some, their part is working towards the CFP marks and being counted among the ranks of financial planners with the “one designation.” For others, it is their focus on clients and serving beyond the fiduciary standard – to keep moving our profession forward. And for others, still, it is about taking a stand and being willing to sacrifice things held dear for our profession.

We’re all part of this greater movement and that is extremely exciting to me!

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What You’ll Learn:

  • The progression of our profession and how key groups came together for the profession.
  • How passion and purpose around financial planning helped propel our profession forward.
  • Importance of the CFP(R) Mark to the financial planning profession.
  • The importance of the FPA to the financial planning profession.
  • The challenges both organizations faced throughout the merger
  • How the two organizations put their differences aside to align their vision for the future of the profession
  • What we can take away from the history of the FPA to better understand the evolution of financial planning as a profession and serve our clients


Join us for a story based podcast where we go back in time to the late 90s when the financial planning profession was abuzz with the possibility of something great (and at times unthinkable) that was about to happen. Financial Planning Association. For this episode, we’re continuing our series on the history of financial planning by bringing together Elissa Buie, David Brand, Dave Yeske, Scott Kahan, Guy Cumbie, Roy Diliberto, and Joe Votava to share their stories on what is simply known by some as “The Merger”.  
I think it’s important to note that this is about much more than just the FPA as a professional organization. As you listen to this episode, I want you to know that we are all part of the same movement to make financial planning a profession. For some, their part is working towards the CFP marks and being counted among the ranks of financial planners with the “one designation.” For others, it is their focus on clients and serving beyond the fiduciary standard – to keep moving our profession forward. And for others, still, it is about taking a stand and being willing to sacrifice things held dear for our profession.
We’re all part of this greater movement and that is extremely exciting to me!

What You’ll Learn:

The progression of our profession and how key groups came together for the profession.
How passion and purpose around financial planning helped propel our profession forward.
Importance of the CFP(R) Mark to the financial planning profession.
The importance of the FPA to the financial planning profession.
The challenges both organizations faced throughout the merger
How the two organizations put their differences aside to align their vision for the future of the profession
What we can take away from the history of the FPA to better understand the evolution of financial planning as a profession and serve our clients

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Building Successful Practices and Careers Through Authentic Relationships Tue, 22 May 2018 21:47:27 +0000 0 Do you have a strategy for growing your practice based on human connections? Humans want to work with humans. That’s why Mike Byrnes promotes the idea of building a business growth strategy on a foundation of rock-solid relationships both with clients and with your fellow financial planners. Do you have a strategy for growing your practice based on human connections? Humans want to work with humans. That’s why Mike Byrnes promotes the idea of building a business growth strategy on a foundation of rock-solid relationships both with clients and with your fellow financial planners.

This concept, in Mike’s opinion, applies to all aspects of your business from asking for referrals to building relationships with influencers in your network. Building out your media presence, networking with your colleagues in the financial planning profession, and maintaining a sense of authenticity is key to create real human connections that will transform your practice.

Mike has some incredible insights on how to re-purpose your media for improved engagement, the best methods for networking with your colleagues and helping one another grow, and how to ask for referrals from clients without damaging your relationship.

This episode is a must-listen for anyone who is working to blaze a trail for themselves in the financial planning profession!

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It’s the eagerness, the willingness to learn, and the right attitude. The right person can be taught. @ByrnesConsultin on #YAFPNW

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What You’ll Learn:

  • How to embrace different skills that take time to develop – like being on camera, speaking at events, and reading off of a script
  • How multiple forms of media can help to build your relationships with clients, prospects, and your network
  • The best ways to avoid sounding “stiff” in videos or podcast recordings
  • Ways to navigate asking for referrals from clients
  • How to create authentic connections with new clients walking in the door
  • What companies are looking for in a new hire
  • How to position yourself for success in your financial planning job search
  • How to create positive relationships across generations within the financial planning profession
  • How a succession plan can work successfully for all parties
  • The best way to improve your professional relationships


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Hannah: Thanks for joining us, Mike.

Mike: I’m so happy to be here.

Hannah: For the listeners, we’re doing kind of a fun experiment. We’re actually going on YouTube with the video. So we’re videoing this, so if you want to see what we look like in person checkout Byrnes Consulting’s YouTube channel and you can see us actually doing this live.

Mike: Yeah. That’s great. Actually, because of the FBA Coach’s Corner thing, we got connected to do the podcast and I happen to be speaking in Dallas today. That’s why we have the benefit of doing it together.

Hannah: So trying all these new media forms. I’m going to dive into that in a little bit. But I love that you’re part of the Coach’s program. You’re writing a lot of content on business growth strategies. So what advice do you have on our listeners on that huge broad topic of business growth strategies.

Mike: Well, it’s too big, as you know. Hannah had to suffer through seeing me present today. So I’m sorry you had to twice in one day, but today we focused just on client referrals. That’s one main way. The other way is strategic alliances. It’s really nice to have a great alliance. It gives you a steady stream of leads year after year after year.

The other thing is any kind of lead that is marketing or sales related but there’s no referral. Those are organic growth. And then the fourth one, I always call it the “fist of growth,” but that’s mergers and acquisitions. So tucking in somebody or acquiring a firm and buying just the book. Then the fifth one is just a slush of a whole bunch of other stuff.

Hannah: What I like about what you’re talking about … Because this podcast is for newer planners. So there definitely are firm owners, but there’s also a lot of people that work for somebody else, and a lot of these skills apply to everybody. You talked about building solid centers of influence. If you’re in your 20s and you’re building solid centers of influence, that’s going to stay with you regardless of what you do for a career.

So can you talk a little bit about how do you build those centers of influence relationships?

Mike: Great. Not to be nitpicky, but I call them “strategic alliances” because I really want to reinforce that it’s like a partnership, even though they don’t officially have an agreement. Maybe they do, but most of them don’t. But they really work to help each other’s businesses.

A center of influence could just be someone that just throws leads at you and there’s no two-way relationship. I’m rambling a little bit, but the reason that I’m trying to say that is if they invest in the right relationships, let’s say $1 million in AUM leads a year times 10 years or 15, that’s huge. And when we talk to firms that are really, really big and ask them how do they get so successful, a lot of times strategic alliances is it.

Can I tell you a little bit more about it?

Hannah: Please do.

Mike: The big fault that we see in the industry, it’s diversification. Advisors get that. So they try to diversify. “I’m going to give the leads to whoever gives me the most leads.”

Now, imagine just one type, like a CPA. If you have 10 CPAs that you’re working with, guess what? They maybe have 10 advisers. It takes a lot of time to work those relationships, and they’re always competitor situations. It’s like dating 12 people, or 10 people. It doesn’t work. So the real strong relationships are the one-on-one.

That’s a little different if you’re a billion dollar firm and you have multiple teams but each advisor can kind of have their own relationship, but most of the time it should be firm to firm.

Hannah: And how long do centers of influence relationships usually take before they get to that point where you’re getting a lot of good referrals?

Mike: That is a great question. I always give the analogy “You don’t get married on the first date.” Rarely do you do that. So they do take a little time to set the foundation.

I use the analogy of plants. You need to put the seeds down and then give them some attention. But when they grow, that’s where you want to spend a lot of time maintaining them too so that they grow stronger and stronger and stronger. We oftentimes see that the relationships just fizzle out because the person didn’t invest enough time to keep them going.

One other thing I’ll say in moving forward to switch topics too is advisors or financial planners can be really creative. There’s an amazing amount. There’s over a hundred, probably thousands, of lead sources out there where you can create an alliance. It doesn’t have to be the traditional accountant and attorney. I think we talked a little on the ride over here about how charities can be a lead source.

Hannah: Yeah. I love this idea of building relationships, because at the end of the day it’s a human-to-human relationship that you’re building with whoever that person may be.

Locally, I’m in Dallas. They have NexGen events that are actually partnered with the Young CPA Society and Young Attorney Society. So that’s a great way to meet other young planners or young attorneys or young centers of influence who might not be able to give you the business now, but, in 20 years, hopefully you’re both more established in your firm.

Mike: Right. And a younger person that’s newer, or even a person that’s come into the industry, one of the ways to exchange and make the relationships really work is “you scratch my back, I scratch yours.” But the challenge for someone brand new to the industry is they don’t have that. They can’t give a lot of leads.

One really good recommendation I have is to go out there and get press. Building up your own credibility. So you carry more weight. You’re a future rock star. You’re already there. You have your own podcast show. They would maybe want to work with you more than a regular planner. But then take it even one more step and interview them for your piece. If you’re doing a video or an article, get them the press.

And what happens is they really are excited. For example, a CPA firm, they’re really bad at marketing, traditionally. You’re doing something that they don’t have. They’re really appreciative. So they’re actually going to reward you even though they’re not getting leads.

The other interesting thing too is once you have great press, you interview them or you have them on your podcast or you have them in your article or whatever it is, not only are you sharing it with your audience, whether it’s your clients, prospects, et cetera, but they’re doing it too. So your stuff gets twice as many eyeballs.

Hannah: That’s such a good point. I’ve seen a couple firms, actually local, who have done that really well, where they bring on their CPA or attorney and … Go to the YouTube channel. You can see what we’re doing right now. They do something similar, and they post it on their blog. So they’re getting a piece of content for their blog. It’s a young person in their firm who’s doing it. So that’s a really great … I need to steal that idea.

Mike: (laughs) Well, being creative too, whatever’s in the moment, you might think of a strategic alliance just because of the news idea. What’s the hot topic that … For example, IRS text scams are going on now. Maybe that was a cool thing you could have interviewed a CPA for. The rental season is coming or ending. That could be going out to a commercial real estate, or even a real estate person that’s residential.

There’s kind of a seasonality about these creative things you can do for content. Or you can just kind of have generic, evergreen content that goes on forever, and you can do it whenever you want.

Hannah: That’s great. I just was at your presentation, Proven Ways to Get Client Referrals. So I had a couple questions after that. So we won’t make you rehearse your whole presentation, but I really liked it. But one of the things that you were talking about: how people make a mistake in asking for referrals. So specifically you were saying basically advisors make it all about them. Can you talk about that a little bit?

Mike: Yeah. Just the term “asking for referrals” really means “Help me.” And it is a sales approach. And the person that is on the other side, I said it in the presentation today, they feel like they’re painted in a corner. They’re there to hire you for your services. They’re not there to be your sales force.

I don’t know if you remember, but I offered … Better advice is to tap into why you’re in the industry. And that is, one, to make money. So that’s kind of the first part of asking for referrals. But the second part is you’re a nice person. You like to help people, and that is a much easier conversation to have.

I don’t know if you remember, but the wording could be totally different. Rather than say “Can you help me grow my business? I really count on you to grow my business,” which puts all the pressure on them, you could say “I would love to help people like you going through the same situation.”

We gave a better example than that today, but the reality is you start to offer assistance to help their contacts. So their family members, their friends, their coworkers. Whoever it is. By offering to assist them, you’re actually helping your client who’s sitting across from you, because you’re giving them the benefit.

Hannah: So many people, especially young planners, are like “That’s why we came into the business is to help people.” They’re so turned off by the idea of sales because it just feels, like you’re saying, that painting in the corner. I think we all kind of intuitively get that.

But I love what you’re saying because it’s not just on sales. It’s just a whole nother way to approach your client, where everything is about the client, even getting you business. It’s still about “How do I help the client or help their friends?” I love that mindset shift that you were really advocating in that.

Mike: I will say the word “sales” is a bad four letter word. People hate it. But Charlie, who’s not on the camera, he’s our tech expert behind the scenes, is your husband. If you have a debate on where to go to a movie this weekend … I don’t know if you care or even go to movies, but that’s sales, when you’re working with somebody and you’re trying to convince them to do something. Sales is all throughout our lives.

So when people just say “I’m not a salesperson,” I’m like “You have to be to a certain extent.” It’s just part of being human.

Hannah: Right. And it’s “Are you authentically showing up in those places?” versus the slimy salesman, which none of us really want to be.

Mike: Right.

Hannah: I hope. (laughs)

Mike: Yeah. The poor used car salesman mentality. And I think that’s a nice approach too. There’s a term called “solution selling.” If you’re really helping people and trying to help them, it doesn’t feel like you’re pushing your own agenda, you’re going to be better at it. So if you tap into that, helping people, you’ll be more successful at whatever you do.

Hannah: Yeah.

Mike: I’m going to get a glass of water because I’m talking too much today. I’m reaching over here.

So can I ask you a couple questions?

Hannah: Yeah! Absolutely.

Mike: Because we’re going to do the video for the Coach’s Corner video too. This is so exciting, having a podcast.

Hannah: Yes.

Mike: Tell us, how did you get started and why do you do it?

Hannah: So I got started … Man, it was probably five or six years ago. I was in the process of buying a practice, and my local FPA, my Dallas-Fort Worth FPA chapter, had a seminar series called “You’re a Financial Planner. Now What?”

It felt like a lifeline. It was where I learned about financial planning, what it was. It was where I could talk about financial planning. It was really where I saw financial planning in practice.

So a couple years after that Patrick Daugherty decided to retire, and I was like “You can’t leave! This can’t stop.”

So they were like “Well we’re retiring. Would you like to take over?”

So I did, with Wynn McEntire. So, Charlie … If you listen to the podcast you know Charlie’s voice. His background is media and doing all this. So he was always like “Why don’t you just throw it on the Internet? Just see what happens.”

So we started doing that. He would edit them and throw them on the Internet. I was like “Well, heck. I got some interesting people I’d love to get” … You know. Start. That’s just kind of how it started, and it just really built off of that.

Mike: So your advice is you have to marry a tech genius? (laughs)

Hannah: You got to marry well. That’s the secret to all of it.

Mike: So you started it. Maybe share some of the lessons you learned early on.

Hannah: Yeah! You just do it. You know? Put the work in. There were several times when I was like “Is this even worth it?”

You don’t see the end. I remember when we got to the point where we got our first like hundred downloads. I was like “A hundred people have listened to us? That’s crazy!”

That was like over a couple episodes. I remember when we got our first hundred people listened to an episode. I’m like “A hundred people?”

It just doesn’t resonate. You can see my setup here if you’re on the YouTube channel. Here’s my mic that I use. But so much of it is I’m sitting at my desk, at my home office, and it’s just me. I have a tree outside. You know? It just feels so small, what I do. But at the same time, technology’s allowed us to have this big impact. I think that’s what I’ve learned, that consistency. Even the episode … You’re in the 20s, or in the teens and the 20s and the 30s, you’re just kind of like “Do people hear?”

And then people start reaching out. And then you’re like “Oh, wow. There’s actually a person on the other side of that number.”

We talked about a hundred downloads an episode. Imagine having a roomful of a hundred advisors or a hundred people that you’re talking to. Those are a hundred people that you’re speaking to. I’d be thrilled to get a hundred people in a room.

I don’t know. I’ve kind of learned that compounding interest, if you would, online.

Mike: Before I forget, and this would be a great time, after the video, if people are watching the video, how would they find out where to find the podcast?

Hannah: Yeah. If we put this in the video, it’s “You’re a Financial Planner. Now what?” So you can go to iTunes. You can go to Stitcher. Whatever your favorite podcast player is. Search for that. You can search for my name. That’ll be there too. And you can just subscribe there or … We’ve actually partnered up since then with FPA. So you can go to and find all the podcasts, all the show notes, and all the links to everything we talk about there.

Mike: And hopefully this is good enough that they’ll blast this out too to all the members.

Hannah: Absolutely.

Mike: So back on the podcast, has it helped your business at all or is it just to help the planners? What’s your strategy?

Hannah: Strategy is an interesting word. My plan originally was just to help new planners. It was a way to give back. I had bought two practices. I had left my broker-dealer. I had started my RAA. So I had some time on my hands, just being honest, to do it. It was just like there’s such a need for new planners. I wasn’t seeing what I thought needed to be out there so just do it.

So that’s kind of how it got started. How it’s helped my business, I don’t know that I would say I’ve gotten any clients from it. I have gotten recognition in the industry. You know. InvestmentNews 40 Under 40. Young Advisor To Watch. I’ve built up a resume that I think gives some more credibility to clients.

Mike: Right?

Hannah: I remember I had just switched my broker-dealer. I switched a broker-dealer to an RAA. I’m in my 20s, late 20s at this point, when I did that. And clients came with me but you could kind of sense there was like “Is she real? Is she legitimate?”

It was D Magazine here in Dallas … Which is, again, through my local FPA chapter, how I got that. When that email sent out I could tell there was a difference with my clients. My clients were like “Okay. She’s legitimate.”

Like, “Okay. We can trust her.”

That’s kind of how we’ve seen it, inadvertently.

Mike: To be honest, if you ever expand this … I know you have some news coming up. I don’t know if you want to share that on the video. Do you want to or no?

Hannah: We can, yeah.

Mike: She’s having a baby. Woo!

Hannah: Yep. August. We’re expecting a baby.

Mike: So you might not have time for the second idea of the podcast, but eventually you might want to go for more of the investor audience and expand it. But if you do, or if other people are thinking about getting into a podcast, how can that help them grow? Does it give them a competitive advantage? You talked a little bit about it, but can you expand on it?

Hannah: Yeah. I think so. What’s crazy to me about doing this podcast is people feel like they know me. I’ve had people come up to me and I’m like “Oh, my gosh. You’ve heard my story.”

It’s so cool. You know? That’s what videos does. That’s what audio does. That’s the name of the game now, right? How do they know me?

One of the things you mentioned in your presentation was … I can’t remember how you said it, but it was something about the humans.

Mike: Humans want to work with humans?

Hannah: Yeah. Humans want to work with humans. I know when I write blogs sometimes it can sound a little corporate. You know? I try not to do that. But hearing my voice, hearing my story, hearing my perspective, it’s showing the clients what it’s going to be like to work with me.

They say you want to eliminate surprises, right? You want them to know what that’s like. So they know what meetings are going to be like with me because they know kind of how I talk. They know what I have to say. They kind of can buy into my philosophy before they get there.

I think it’s just like any form of content. It’s not blog posts. It’s not video. It’s just a podcast.

Mike: But I will say that advisors are starting to get that they’re … I always say they’re in the publishing business, because you now have a website and you have social media sites. So you can be a publisher. You don’t have to go through traditional press. But they’re better at the text piece. They’re terrible at podcasts and the videos. If they do do videos it’s like the standard welcome video.

Hannah: That’s what’s so great about podcasts. It’s 10 times easier for me to talk into a microphone than it is for me to write a blog.

Mike: And what about videos?

Hannah: (laughs)

Mike: So we talked about it today. I always say the enemy of marketing is perfection. But when it comes to videos people hate the way they sound, they look. Like, look at that goofy guy up there talking. You look great. Definitely make me look bad.

But the reality is that they just want it to be perfect. What they have to learn is some video is better than others. We could bore the listeners and the viewers with statistics about videos, but just trust me. If you do some searches on YouTube and find out what the viewership is, and podcasts too, it’s booming. And it’s not going to slow down. It’s only going to continue to increase.

Hannah: I started noticing this trend maybe a year ago. Maybe more. I look at where do my clients get their news from, right? A lot of my clients read the Wall Street Journal. They subscribe to national news. Newsline, The New York Times. Things like that. I know this because they send me those articles. The questions they ask are rooted in that. I’m subscribed to the same places because if a client asks a question I better be able to read the article.

But what I started noticing is on most of those big pieces that they do, it’s not just one form of media. There’s a second form of media on there. So it’s not just the blog post, or it’s not just their article. They have the reporter talking about it, or they have a video that summarizes what it’s saying. That’s a really interesting idea. How do you build out multiple forms of media on every page and you reach a different audience? You know?

You can take something stale … Not stale. You can take the written words and make them come alive.

Mike: Actually, I saw a really … It’s kind of a non-related statistic. I forget the exact number, but an amazing amount of people watch videos online without sound. It kind of shows that you need both, because they’re in a work setting or they can’t have the noise for some reason. You can’t just have video. Podcasts, it’s tough to have the words over it.

But the reality is if you can have a video or a podcast embedded on your website with the text that goes with it, or vice versa … And it shouldn’t be a transcript. I don’t think it should be apples to apples, because that’s kind of boring, but complimentary.

Hannah: Absolutely. And there’s just so much. I’ve done this on a couple of my posts where I do have two forms of media on my Guiding Wealth website. But you can literally just take the bullet points, the outline for your blog, and then just talk through it. Because you’re going to have a different inflection. You’re going to have a different take. It’s not going to be as cleanly edited, but sometimes it’s kind of cool to hear somebody … Not stumble through it, but the human side of it.

Mike: Two things. We have really impressive notes here. Here’s our bullet points that she could show you.

Hannah: I got my notebook here.

Mike: It’s here on the podcast. It’s not impressive. Just like a sticky. But if you type that up and you prepare, the videos and the podcasts are that much better because you put a little effort in. And like you said, then you have the idea of how to summarize it later. What I found, not just your website, but YouTube is a search engine. So you should have all the text bullet points that the YouTube search engine, and Google too, can go and index these things to help them come up.

Hannah: Yeah! And I love that. We’re talking about new planners, right? So people who are newer to the business. This is a skillset. In our FPA Activate group, I’m going live every week on Facebook Live. I was terrified. I still kind of am, of doing those. But I’m getting so much more used to it.

Now, instead of running through it three or four times before I go live, I can just go live.

Mike: Nice!

Hannah: And again, a lot of this is just me getting over myself, but it’s a skillset that you build and that you get better over time. Even if you’re at a firm that you’re like “I don’t really want to help them with their marketing” or you’re just playing around, if you develop that skillset, that’s a marketable skillset that you’re going to be able to fine tune.

And what I’m realizing is a lot of advisers who … I’ve asked the people to do Facebook Lives for me in there, and people are afraid of it. It’s like “Wow.”

So I’ve gotten over that fear, so now I’m comfortable going live. That opens up a lot more opportunities. I don’t know. Building up these media sources, it’s me building a skill in myself. That could be a very different form five years from now.

Mike: How about a pat around the back here. So the reason that it’s really such a competitive advantage is, one, just personality-wise and talent-wise, you have it, which is great. But there are some channels advisors aren’t allowed to do these types of things. They can’t go live. Everything has to be a pre-written script. Sorry if you’re in the FINRA world, which you-

Hannah: I’m not.

Mike: We don’t want to talk about compliance and getting anybody in trouble. But the people that read the scripts, even if they have really good teleprompters … They’ll look like they’re looking in the camera but the teleprompter is right there. You can tell.

Hannah: Well, there’s a reason why newscasters go to school for it. It’s an actual developed skill on how to read it. So you know, there are some classes out there to help you with the teleprompter side of it.

Mike: It wouldn’t help me. I can’t read. (laughs)

Hannah: We’ve done some teleprompter videos, and I’ll tell you: it is hard. It is not as easy as you like to think it is.

Mike: Right. And my eyes are going too. They’d have the font so big I would be-

Hannah: You can change the fonts on them!

Mike: Yeah, yeah. I’d read it so slow though, like one word at a time.

Hannah: There’s a college student in New York. He does Instagram. He’s a college student, and he is giving tips for his friends. And I’m like “Wow. What a competitive advantage when he’s looking for a job.”

His employers are going to be able to go through and see not just what’s on one sheet of paper like a one time interview. They’re going to be able to go and see two years of work that he’s done on video. Just like a client gets a good sense of who I am, an employer is going to get a really good sense of who he is.

Mike: Right.

Hannah: Way impressed with that.

Mike: My advice for people starting a podcast or the video is to think of content that has that long shelf life. It might be something they create three years ago that it’s searchable and people find you because you didn’t have to take it down.

Hannah: So you mean market commentary isn’t? (laughs)

Mike: Yeah. We talked about that a little bit today. Market commentary can be really good. It can go viral in the short term, but it can be dated a month from now, a week from now. Even tomorrow it could be out of date. The problem is if some advisors are pure investment management they feel limited. That’s all they have to do. That’s where some basic education on investing or some principles behind it, that stuff can still have a lot of shelf life.

But, yeah. If you’re getting into what this stoke did and why it’s going to perform well or not, the other things that’s an issue there is that you’re on record kind of making a prediction.

Hannah: Compliance issues!

Mike: Yeah. You’re like “Oh, man. I tanked on that one.”

It’s not like Jim Cramer. That can be wrong. And he’s doing the next thing the next day. So advisors need to be a little careful about that.

Hannah: Absolutely.

Mike: My other question for you is, if there are some other people new into the industry, in the financial planning side, what are some of those hurdles that maybe we should talk about to make them more successful?

Hannah: Oh, my goodness. There’s so much. Firsts of all, passing the CFP is a huge deal, but everybody kind of has to do that. But it’s hard to land a good job. I know you work with a lot of really successful companies. So what are companies looking for with their new hires? What are their expectations? What do new hires need to know?

Mike: The interesting thing is that a lot of advisers … I’m kind of being stereotypical, thinking of the older male, the “I came up in the old Waterhouse regime. I was a salesperson. I had to walk to school up hill, in a snow storm. Both ways.”

They think of their past as the way that the new people have to come into the world and be in the industry. It’s evolved a lot. There’s a lot of best practices. We had a little side conversation about a lot of the content out there is now really for the older generation financial planner. It’s not for the younger person. So hats off to you for having this podcast about how to make them more successful. We can cover whatever you want on this podcast.

Hannah: So people get in these jobs. Your part of the Coach’s Corner is on business growth.

Mike: Yeah.

Hannah: And the business isn’t growing. I was reading a Facebook post from somebody who was a wholesaler. He said basically that he would go around and everybody says they’re in business growth mode. He’s like “Maybe 5% are who say they are.”

When the business isn’t growing, what are the red flags for you, especially from the young advisor perspective?

Mike: It’s really funny. I’ll go off on a tangent and we could go back to the general thing. I just wrote an article for Barrons They’ve had me do a lot of case. I have to change some of the details so I’m not giving away any client info. We had one relationship we got in and they were at odds. The next generation advisors and the senior, owner, principle. They couldn’t stand each other. Things were just about to explode.

Really, the older person was really, really cranky. What happened was he expected all these sales things to happen, but they had what I call a “overflow model.” So he would bring in business and then drown them. They were just basically service associates because they didn’t have time to do their own business development.

So what we did with that was we recognized that is an issue. We talked about how to improve that. We broke it down. We gave them each their own goal that they could attain. They actually plugged into something bigger and then they all knew their part. And the relationships, because we got them to communicate better and not to be a consultant with over adjusting, so we’re all rowing in the same direction, things were way better.

So they liked to show up to work and they weren’t hating each other anymore. I don’t know if that answers your question but there’s a lot to that. I don’t know if that one case study makes sense.

Hannah: I think what you’re saying is it’s about communication and it’s about having those clear lines as young planners. One of my first questions when you were talking was do they have to bring in a consultant? Sometimes the answer is yes, right?

Mike: Yes, yes. (laughs)

Hannah: That kind of goes to this idea of managing up. We haven’t talked about that a whole lot, but I think it’s a really interesting idea. So in the situation that you feel like you’re banging your head against a wall as a young planner, how can you start having more productive conversations with older advisers in your room?

Mike: The communication is a secret. A facility like a consultant … Plug. Sorry. Byrnes Consulting. But that helps because a third party can recognize stuff. But if they’re people open to talking, a really common thing that we see is that … I’ll do both sides of the coin. Sometimes the person that comes in with very little experience demands the world.

On the other side we see the same thing. The senior person demands the world, doesn’t give them time to grow. Another real common one is the senior person starts to phase into retirement. That’s not really fair that everyone else is doing the work. So there’s all kinds of those conflicts, a real solid business plan so everyone knows their part and is on the same page, and one that’s not dictated.

When I talk about how the younger generation should have ownership, it’s not always that they have equity in the first, but they have ownership in where it’s heading and the vision. So that’s why doing that business plan part together is so important.

Hannah: Right. So if your firm is not that way, if you’re not in one of the fortunate firms where they really are engaging the new planners, so many times the option is just to leave. From your perspective, is that the best option for people?

Mike: Yeah. The extreme is you leave, or you at least see it as a threat and that creates some issues. That’s kind of that poker hand. You want to kind of keep those cards back until they’re needed. And sometimes they’re not even worth that much. I always warn people not to sign non-competes.

Hannah: Yes!

Mike: But if you have that, that power move is gone. You’re going to have to restart.

When you first start, you should say “How am I going to be successful at this?” and work with it together. “This is what I think. This is what you think.”

Have a plan, and then make sure they’re held accountable to it. Not in a whiny way, but a “This is going to benefit the firm, not just you and I.”

Once you get that kind of consensus it can work. If it’s really damaged you do kind of need a third party, whether it’s someone in the firm or someone that knows or paying a professional.

Hannah: So one of my favorite podcast episodes is … I forget what episode it is. We’ll have it in our show notes. It’s what we wish we knew before we left. So we talk all about the non-competes, non-solicitation. All the different forms that they have sign at the beginning or middle. Sometimes at the end of your employment with them. And why that’s so important, especially with new planners, knowing what you’re signing and what your limitations are.

Mike: Yeah. I’m not the legal compliance person so be careful with listening to me on this, but push back one that whenever you can. I think it’s fair if the person is teaching you everything you know, and they’re getting you to be successful, that they have some ownership in the clients. But it’s also fair, if someone really works hard, that’s their clients. There’s probably some buyout potential there rather than just stealing the clients.

We’ve seen some really bad altercations where people just battle. The owner is very, very strong and they end up taking the clients. They end up damaging the company from both sides. If they were really, again, rowing their ores all together the same way, they would have not had those issues.

People get divorced in real life, and they do as partners too. Sometimes it’s just really putting in the quality time up front to know them. A one hour interview is not enough to know you’re working with the right person forever. So the interview process for both sides should be a little bit more intensive.

You probably have heard from your other connections in the industry that it’s just a constant battle. But with 0% unemployment, there’s probably more opportunities for people. The planners that are coming in this industry, there’s a need for them. The industry needs more. So they do have a bit of a competitive advantage there.

Hannah: And it’s so hard to find good people. I talk to these firm owners now. We talk about their business struggles, and it’s retaining talent. It’s a huge issue because, if you’ve been at a firm for two or three years, you’ve built relationships with those clients. You know their systems. You know their processes. They’ve put a lot of money into you. They’re incentivized to try to keep you to stay there.

Mike: Yeah. It’s totally interesting to see, if people are smart about making these decisions, how much more successful the firms are. But the people that are unrealistic or over-demanding, they tend to shoot themselves in the foot.

One of the things too is, as you become more valuable to the firm, you have a stronger bargaining chip. Maybe we could talk a little bit about that, how the younger planners could be more successful.

Hannah: Absolutely.

Mike: I do love that you’re doing a podcast. We talked about how I’ve written a lot of articles before. If you create this whole library of whatever the content is, you’re just that much more competitive. You’re that much more credible and things become easier for you.

For me, things come out of the woodwork. I have no idea sometimes where the next client is coming. When I first started this … We just hit our 10 year anniversary. I had no idea where my next client would come from and I was scared it wouldn’t come. Now I can almost count on it to be automatic. Clients come out of nowhere. New clients, that is.

But that takes a lot of hard work. You got to hustle. Rather than have your DVR maxed out and you got to watch every show because the old ones are falling off, cut half of that out and spend a night dedicating it to improving your personal brand and be a content machine.

Hannah: Let’s talk about that: being a content machine.

Mike: Okay.

Hannah: You, I think in your presentation today, said you had 350 published articles.

Mike: Uh-huh (affirmative)

Hannah: So how do you do this? Besides just grinding it out.

Mike: There is so much content and there are so many great ideas out there. What I learned, and I’ll give this advice to anybody, is that I started a website and there wasn’t a ton of traffic there. I started writing some articles for that and I realized why get a distribution of less than a thousand people a month in the very beginning … Not like we’re higher than that now. But I could go write for Financial Advisor Magazine and 100,000 is the distribution. It’s built in and it gives you more credibility and all that.

Getting published somewhere is nice. You just got to make yourself into an expert. When you were talking on the ride here … I’m going to credit her. Top 40 Under 40. What’s the-

Hannah: InvestmentNews 40 Under 40.

Mike: So that is great industry press, but on the retail side you can now spin that because the press will say “Wow. She’s really credible and she’s got her own podcast.”

Hannah: And I say, becoming an expert … Granted, I took my own path. God help us.

Mike: (laughs)

Hannah: But it’s not all that difficult to become an expert. We’ve been really involved with FPA. I’ll tell you, I’m talking with their journal staff and they’re like “We want next-gen talent. Where is it? Where are those upcoming experts? Who are those people we can highlight?”

Gosh. These college students. There was a college student I was talking to and he was getting mentored by a pretty big name in the industry. She’s like “Why don’t you just do some research and publish an article?”

So he did. He went to the state of Texas. He pulled up all of this information that’s all available to the public. Now he’s doing research and now he’s going to publish a paper and get press off of that. It’s like wow. What a cool way to differentiate yourself. If there’s a certain type of client you work well with … There’s people out there who are hungry for next-gen talent and next-gen content.

Mike: So there’s a term called “webutation.” It’s your reputation on the web. A lot of people coming out of school, it actually works against them. The keg-stand picture. Inappropriateness.

Hannah: Use the privacy settings.

Mike: (laughs) Yeah. Or tell your friends not tag you in the wrong pictures. That type of thing. But you could build that up for good. There should be a strategy. They should teach that even in high school so that people are preparing so they can be that much more competitive. It’s not longer just a resume game. It’s not just that one or two-page resume that gets you hired. It’s this whole encompassing thing.

I remember when I went to college I got wait-listed. I was a rolling admission and I submitted it kind of late and I got wait-listed. I had a guidance counselor that was actually my baseball coach and he had me put a stack of stuff like this together. For the podcast people, sorry. It was a thick stack.

So what happened was I put everything from baseball stats to papers I wrote to the charity stuff I did, and I got in. The reason way is because I really showed that I wanted to go to the school and I had this huge effort. That’s the same thing. If people are looking to find the right position, just show that you want to be a little bit more hungry and prove that you’re one of the best.

Hannah: I was talking to an employer who had somebody come in with a completed financial plan and said “Here’s an example of my work.”

Mike: Really?

Hannah: I’m like “Wow.” Baste it out. That’s impressive stuff to do.

Mike: Yeah. When I give advice for hiring managers or owners, it’s not always they know exactly what they know. It’s the eagerness, the willingness to learn, and the right attitude to it all. The right person you can teach up. Even if that financial plan wasn’t perfect, the fact that they put the extra effort to do that is so cool.

Hannah: It says a lot.

Mike: Yeah.

Hannah: Again, the world is changing. We’re not in the 1990s anymore, where it’s the same resume. It’s just kind of crazy to think how … Gosh. What’s it going to be like in 10 years. Instagram stories or something will be what separates people. Very cool.

Mike: Too bad it’s not live and we can be answering real questions. But some of the things that I often hear from financial planners, do you want me to talk about that?

Hannah: Absolutely.

Mike: So when you have a brand new financial planner, the struggle is they don’t know where to start. As the RAA segment has grown so much, there’s a lot of great companies out there, but they’re not brand name. The Waterhouses are well known, but the Waterhouses don’t seem to want to be the feeder program anymore, for good and bad reasons. So these young people have to go find these firms that they don’t know anything about.

We talked a little bit about today the environment of distrust in the industry, Bernie Madoff’s and all the other stuff. No fault of hopefully anybody watching or listening. But that is stuff that the planners have to get over. When they start to look at how to differentiate themselves, they really got to figure out how to build those relationships and how to be stronger.

One futuristic piece of advice I’ll give you, the whole industry, why advisors or planners are better is the relationship side of things. That is the competitive piece that will never be at risk of robo advisors, because we have that relationship. And I agree. It’s so important.

However, 10 years from now, when you say “Hey, Alexa. How’s my morning looking?”

“Oh, the weather’s great. You got this such such meeting. By the way, your financial planning is on track and you’re investments are here. Here’s three things you need to do.”

There’s a lot of things that build relationship trust and likability and all of that, but communication is a big one. That is going to be much, much more competitive. Again, going back to the advice for financial planners, how do you be an unbelievable communicator? How do you really find the best ways to wow them, the best ways to keep them updated and such?

Hannah: So our competitive advantage is being human and connecting with … How do you market that?

Mike: It’s really, really hard to do. Actually, in today’s presentation we talked about … Social business is something I write about. It’s a regular piece I do for financial advisors. And the reason I coined it that was because advisors are wonderful at the professional side of things, but they’re not always good at showing the actual personal side of it.

To be a little complicated or show you the case studies, if you do A/B testing in your email marketing blast or whatever, do something that’s work related. A/B testing is you test topic A versus topic B. You look at a work related topic, a market update, or something from an economist, et cetera. Then the next one could be something personal. Someone just had a baby in the office, you could have the baby come in.

We have a bunch of nor’easters in New England, or whatever it might be, every, every, every single time we’ve done that test the personal one is off the charts. I guarantee this. If you put a market update versus the day your baby’s born, and you say which one is going to be clicked on more, it won’t even be close. Your baby is going to blow that away. That’s just a warning.

So if you know that one little test … And don’t trust me. Go test this yourself. But if you start to see that that is really something that can help your business, how do you double down on that? How do you learn from your audience, your clients and your prospects?

Hannah: Absolutely. Well, one of the things I’ve learned about marketing, even in the past year, is everything is measurable. I always felt, like when we talked about marketing before, it was throw things up against the wall and hopefully something works. Really, what you’re saying is get the numbers behind it. You know?

Mike: Yeah. Digital especially is very, very … If you do something in print, like advertising or something, have a unique 800 number or a unique landing page or something that you can digitally track it, at least through the phone. But online there’s all kinds of things. That’s where the industry is really bad. It’s kind of fun for a consultant like me. I like to stay one notch above them. I’m always trying to keep the pace and stay that way.

They don’t know any metrics to follow. It’s not just likes on Facebook. It’s engagement. It’s actual click-through rates. It’s conversion rates. It’s how much business you spend. And I’m really, really big on ROI. You heard me talk about that today. There’s many ways that you can spend dollars, but you got to make sure that you’re getting that positive return on investment. It’s an opportunity lost if you’re doing it on something that’s not as potentially successful as something else.

Hannah: Yeah. The gaming side of it.

Mike: (laughs) And then that’s nice as a consultant to prove your worth because you’re able to show that they take good advice and then they implement it and it works. Actually, bad consultants would die by that. If they’re ever working with an outside marketing agency, or whatever it is, have those metrics of success that plug into your bigger business plan, and then make sure that the advice is working. There are some duds out there, I should say. (laughs)

Hannah: Just like there are dud financial planners out there.

Mike: Oh, probably. Yeah, yeah. But they wouldn’t be tuning in to this.

Hannah: Yeah. Of course not.

Mike: No, no, no.

Hannah: We’re above average here.

Mike: (laughs)

Hannah: That’s great. I’m so used to podcasts because I can just kind of pause. And with the video too. It’s kind of a change for me.

Mike: I could tell jokes in between while you’re thinking about it. The reality with the podcast is that you’re catching the audio piece of things. There are times where I would say podcasts aren’t good because about 2/3 of all people are visual learners. So I’m encouraging her to figure out how to do this on a regular basis. So you don’t need me here, but to try to capture it on a video perspective.

“Is Charlie going to shoot me?”

Say “No, no! We don’t want to complicate things too much.”

But, from a technology side, sometimes it’s easy to do both. I’ve actually had people that have radio programs, so very similar to a podcast. Actually, we got them to video record the program. The thing is we have short attention spans, so you don’t have to put the whole show up. It’s really just the best 2 minutes or the best 10 minutes or maybe it’s a playlist of 5 of the best 2 minutes.

What’s really interesting there is, that content, people digest it however they want. So you have the podcast, you have the video, et cetera, and you start to share it in all the different mediums too.

Hannah: Absolutely. Repurposing content.

Mike: Yeah. I need to listen to my own advice too. I haven’t done a podcast, so I should be looking at trying to do that too.

Hannah: Yeah. Well, podcasts are fun.

Mike: (laughs)

Hannah: But I may be a little bit bias on that. Awesome.

So one question that came up today … You’re talking about business growth. There’s a lot of sales cycles that go through that. It’s interesting because the world is just different than it was 10 years ago, with technology and social media and everything like that.

In your experience, how have you seen that sales cycle for prospective clients change?

Mike: Sure. I love it. The industry as a whole is still referral driven. That part of the sales cycle is still very much the same. It doesn’t have to be but it is. But online reputation and websites, social media and other things, play a much bigger role, because we’re now this research society.

I’ve said it before that libraries … Sorry, any librarians on the line. They’re on the endangered species list because we don’t have to go to a library to do research. It’s so easy now. We have the cellphone. You have to hold that up for the people watching.

There’s statistics that say what we have is more powerful than what NASA had to put the first man on the moon. We’re just tapping into it. We can research anything.

In a referral driven industry, people are now going online. So the sales cycle, like you said, they’re doing all this research. Sometimes the sale decision happens before they ever encounter a planner, before they ever email, phone call them, or visit their office. They’ve almost made a decision, but to do that you have to have a great, great online presence. That’s where videos and really good content is so, so important. Just a nice website that’s mobile friendly and all the right things.

One little side note there is, if you don’t have a mobile friendly website, I’m going to kick you through the YouTube video, give you a kick in the pants that is. You have to have one. Even a referral driven industry, if they do that research and have to move the screen and pull and pinch all that stuff, they’re just going to get frustrated and they’ll go to get the next referral. If they can’t do that research really easily, you might lose something.

Keep going or is that-

Hannah: No, no. That’s great. Keep going.

Mike: The other part on the sales cycle is … Google calls it the “moment of truth,” where they purchase a product or a service online before they ever encounter the product or service. When they show up, they’re just kicking the tires. What happens there is that you have to start to sell to them and how do you sell to them?

People don’t like to be sold to. My advice in the sale process is get out online and demonstrate your expertise. A example might be, outside the industry, a plumber might do a how to replace your toilet video. I need the toilet replaced. Well, I’m not going to do it myself. Oh, that guys an expert. I’m going to use him even though he showed me how to do it and that was really cool that he knew what he was doing. Same thing with financial advice and financial planning.

Other things I can give you on the sales cycle is there will be leads that come from referrals or not, that come and check you out, but you never know about them. It’s that they’re not in the right spot to make the decision, or they’re not in the right spot to … Picking a financial planner, it’s not a snap decision.

Hannah: No. A lot of my clients, they’re overcoming huge barriers to even doing it. Kind of like my guys. “He’s kind of good enough” or “Do I really want the help from somebody?”

It’s almost like this huge emotional point of saying “I need help” and it’s a huge deal for a lot of my clients to reach out to … Prospect of my clients to reach out to me.

Mike: Yeah. So, thinking that through, any advice for the people listening? What do you think?

Hannah: On how to help those people?

Mike: Yeah, yeah.

Hannah: Oh, man. I don’t know. I think knowing that it’s going to take a lot of time and a lot of handholding. So I just brought on a client and the first thing that he told me after he signed up, he goes “The thing that stood out to me about you versus everybody else I talked to is you listen to me. I called. We had a 45 minute conversation and you actually listened.”

It wasn’t me saying “Here’s our process.”

I did talk about that at the end, but it was more of hearing about him and his wife and what are they doing and where do they want to go. It was much more focused on that: listening and engaging him right where he was at. I feel like sometimes we get so caught up in where we want to take clients instead of meeting them where they are.

Mike: Right. On a side note, throw away the pitch book. If you go in with your own agenda, you could ruin the whole conversation. You need to be just as good of a listener than that speaker, you would think. Right?

Hannah: Yeah. There was a paper that came out about how to integrate a lot of the behavior finance stuff, and there was a line in it that just struck me so much. We don’t know how to listen as a society today. Somebody walking into a planners office and having the planner just listen can be a transformational experience. It’s like “Wow.” It’s a sad indictment on our society, but it’s also the power of listening.

Mike: Right. I 100% agree. But before you get to meet them, some advice I would have, some things we shared in the lunch presentation today, is that RAAs especially do really good at getting referrals from clients. At least the clients say they give referrals, but they don’t always see them. So how do you tab into those people that are coming?

Tricks of the trade are pay attention to LinkedIn. If they put in a search in Google, and they put your name in or your company name, your LinkedIn profile can show up. LinkedIn has a cool tool that shows you other profiles that are visiting. Sometimes you can backtrack. “How do I know that second connection and where would they maybe have came from?”

I’ve actually had people reverse engineer why someone’s checking them out. They didn’t know the client was giving them a referral, but they were able to figure it out, and they made that referral real. Otherwise, they maybe never would have heard from them.

Hannah: How do you reach out to that person without being really creepy?

Mike: That’s great. Being online, you can definitely be creepy. What I would say is, in that case, we didn’t think about it, but we should have had that mutual connection. The advisor should have gone to him and then said “Hey. Can you introduce me?”

What we did was we went off of LinkedIn. We did the regular search and found that it was an executive and the person had a lot, like over 10 million in assets. So this person that the planner or advisor really wanted as a client, we were able to get their email off their company website. We customized three bullets.

“Hey. I saw that you’re on my LinkedIn profile. I just wanted to let you know, if I can ever help you, these are my three specialties. Please let me know. I’d be glad to reach out to you.”

So that is borderline creepy, but the person was there. He was doing that Google “moment of truth.” He was doing the research. He just wasn’t ready to take the next step. So it was really cool. What happened was he said “Yeah. I got a referral from such and such. I heard great things about you and I would like to talk with you.”

It took something that maybe never would have been a connection. So Linked In could be a source. Another way is when leads come to your website … We talked about Freemiums today, which is marketing lingo for a giveaway. Have something that is so enticing that when that prospect’s there they might bounce off your site.

There’s a thing called “bounce rates,” when they see one page and they leave you. You don’t want to do that. You want them to stay in the site. Also, you want to have them fill out some form. So what’s that one thing that speaks to them? Their target market should be really specific.

We do not want anymore emails. I don’t know. I can’t keep up. I don’t know if everyone tuned in-

Hannah: Oh, it’s bad.

Mike: Yeah. It’s only going to get worse. So what would you trade your email for? What do you have to have as a prospect of a financial planner? This is where we talked today about knowing your target market better than anyone else and tapping into those things that keep them up at night, or the things that they really want financial advice for.

Lastly, I would just say make them a little bit sensational. I’ve learned from doing all the articles. I’ve learned from the editors … Sometimes I hate the titles they come up with, but they change them on purpose because they want the clicks if they’re online. They want the readership in paper. Whatever it might be.

Same thing with your Freemium. The example I always give is “Here’s advice for you in for retirement.” Or be more sensational. “Here’s five things you have to know before you retire.”

Which one are you more likely to trade your email for? The one that creates that urgency. That’s the second piece, I would say. There are referrals coming to you that you don’t know. Use LinkedIn or use your website to capture them. There’s other tricks of the trade but those are two good ones.

Hannah: Yeah. That’s great. So speaking to young planners, what other pieces of advice would you have for them?

Mike: Oh, my goodness. That’s so broad I talked about plugging into the overall business plan, but I would have your own personal plan of what you want to accomplish and actually hold yourself accountable to it. That’s nice to develop.

It doesn’t have to be a paid consultant. You can create a mini study group of other people like you. It’s better if they’re not competitors. But even if you’re in the same region, sometimes you’re not bumping up against each other. But if you can share great ideas and all the things you’re going through, that can be really good.

We had a client that they do their business plan. Every year they post it. They share it with a group. It is a little dangerous with their competitors, but they share it with a group, and then the group rips it apart. Then if six months later they don’t follow through on the business plan, they’re like “What’s wrong with you? Why do you do this? This is your business plan.”

Not every study group is like that, but that can be really helpful. So build that network, whether it’s free or paid. That can just make you so much better. A mentor is really good too. You’re lucky if you can find it in your own firm. But if you don’t have one in the firm, you go on a mission to these conferences or just network through LinkedIn or other different ways, to find someone that would be open to giving you advice.

The real cool thing about mentors … And I was lucky to have some younger in my life that helped me with my marketing career. If you go to them and say “I really want to learn from you,” people like to talk about themselves.

Hannah: It’s true. (laughs)

Mike: In that first meeting I had … Oh, my goodness. “Did any of that help me? That guy was just talking about his whole career?” Blah, blah.

But after that, that person had such a vested interest in my success, because I cared about what made him successful, that he went above and beyond to help me throughout my career and still is someone that I can talk with and bounce things off of. So a mentorship is wonderful.

Hannah: It’s funny. A lot of people, they’re like “Well, I have the Internet. Do I really need a mentor? I can see how businesses are structured. I can learn everything I can learn from a mentor online.”

Patrick Daugherty talked about him. He led the “You’re a Financial Planner. Now What?”

I’d say he’s probably my biggest business influence and business mentor, in that my business is modeled so much after his. And if you put together a 500, 2,000, whatever word blog, I would have learned a lot from that, but I learned even more because I got to ask him all the questions. I got to take my situation and apply it. He got to filter that. I got to see how his business has slightly changed over the years.

You learn so much more depth and nuances that make you so much better than just reading an article on the Internet.

Mike: And the other thing too about mentors is sometimes you’re paying for a mentor and you don’t even realize it. If you’re related to a custodian, a broker-deal, a wire house, they have resources to help. Don’t be afraid to pick up the line. They’re usually focusing for the top moneymakers, but the squeaky wheel gets that oil. If those resources are there, are you making sure you’re taking advantage of them? It’s part of the deal. That’s part of your service.

Hannah: And it goes back to what you were talking about with how you hire people. You want the eager people. If you’re at TD Ameritrade or Custodian or whatever, they see that you’re eager and you’re going above and beyond. It’s likely that you are going to be that top producer some day.

Mike: Yeah. Big, big piece of advice for young people and old is don’t be a know it all. Any person, it’s so arrogant if you think … I’m not insulting anybody. I’m just saying in general.

Hannah: We won’t use examples. (laughs)

Mike: If you think that you know all the answers then you’re not going to be as successful. I see a really good correlation in that, where there are kind of very smart people … I say the industry as a whole is really smart. Getting your CFP, your CFA, your licenses. Whatever it is, it weeds out people that maybe don’t have as much brain power. But that can actually be a weakness, because when they’re smart. They think they know all the answers.

I think the most successful people are going to be the ones that are in a constant state of learning. They always want to be challenged. The Polaroids went out of business because of the digital camera. Blockbuster went out of business because of other things, Netflix and such.

Our industry is going to change. What we learned in college, 20 years from now … You’re going to be in the industry for a long time. It’s going to look really, really different. You can have the podcast people come on and share all their expertise.

Hannah: I would so much, you guys.

Mike: Hopefully this is helpful and we’re not wasting our podcast listeners and video listeners too.

Hannah: Yeah. And staying curious. That’s always what I say, this attitude of curiosity. One of my pet peeves is older planners who tell younger planners “That’s a terrible business idea. That’s never going to work.”

What if instead you said “Tell me more” and you approached it with a curiosity? How much more those older planners would learn, and it would really be helping bridge that generation gap as well. But younger planners can do that too. Again, it’s that know-it-all. It’s “Tell me more. What am I missing?”

Mike: Again, that willingness to learn will just take you a lot of places that you’re not going to think about before. The other thing too is, in that process, be aware of not just what has been successful and what’s been the advice in the past, but look for those things that are new that are going to be a little bit different. They’re the differentiators that are going to set people apart.

So if you’re trying to climb the ladder within a firm, or if you’re creating own business and you want to kind of look for a new niche or a new exciting service. There are lot of things that are going to be developed, especially technology, and that can bore people on the podcast. Moore’s law is basically about transistors and circuits, but every 18 months or every 2 years it doubles in capacity.

For the video people, we’re seeing a hockey stick ramp up of change. It’s going to blow us away. What’s coming at us … So not just learn, but learn fast. It’s going to come at us at a much faster pace than anyone’s ever experienced in the past.

Hannah: And what if we as advisors really embraced that and said “We’re going to help our clients with that.” There’s a lot of power in that.

Mike: Listening to a podcast like this is fantastic. Reading articles, watching videos is helpful. Hopefully, this video too. Attending conferences. Making calls. Checking out different things. Always looking for kind of the brightest minds.

What I would also say is, advice for new planners, it’s okay to make a mistake. You don’t want to mess up a client portfolio and definitely don’t want to wire something without permission. I’m not talking about those type of mistakes. I’m talking about trying new things. If you don’t ever try anything new, you’re not going to go to that … What’s that saying? You can’t find a new ocean if you don’t lose sight of the shore. So you do have to take some chances.

That’s tough as a younger person. It’s being dictated on you what the service model is or what you need to do every day you come into the office. You want to find some wiggle room there to do some experimentation.

Hannah: Ask a client a question you’ve never asked before. You know?

Mike: Do you have a good example?

Hannah: Well, no. I’m just thinking we talk a lot about life planning and some of those things out there. Open that door. Just ask a client.

My personal story: for six months I asked clients “What was helpful to you in this meeting to you?”

Completely changed the way I do business. Just open that door for that feedback. That’s just one way to kind of do what you’re saying.

Mike: I love that. I actually have something similar to ask. Was this meeting helpful?

Hannah: Yeah.

Mike: I think that’s even better because then you get the grain or thing that they really liked from the meeting.

Hannah: And everything that I thought was helpful was not helpful.

Mike: Oh, really?

Hannah: Yeah. I thought “I’m doing these great reports!”

And clients were like “No. No.”

So it completely flipped my meetings. My clients taught it to me. That’s what’s so cool about it.

Mike: I’ll give you an example of learning something that is new. It wasn’t around 20 years ago. So if you’re listening to the experts that are still talking about the 20 year old business model, they’re going to miss things like this. One of them is doing research on your clients. I went into it too long today, but social media. Connect with your clients and find out what’s going on in their lives.

This didn’t exist 5, 10 years ago. Maybe 10 years ago. Do the 5 minute research when you meet with them and find out what’s going on in their lives. I give the analogy, because this was a real case, where somebody saw that their client’s grand-kid hit a home run. They talked about that in the client meeting. That whole meeting was a home run.

What the client care about or why do they want to work with you is because they like you and that you showed you cared. Wow. Something that simple. Humans wanting to work with humans. How do you use technology to better that?

Hannah: Yeah.

Mike: So client research online through social media. A lot of people are afraid to connect with their clients. Again, it’s the person that’s doing the kickstand.

A real serious one is some advisors have done really well and they go on trips all the time. They don’t want everyone to see that they’re asleep at the switch or away from the switch. Just be cautious. Don’t post everything. Wealthy people go on trips too. They’ll connect with that. Just don’t do it too much. It works both ways. You don’t just do the research on them. They’re going to want to know you.

One funny example, and I don’t know how we’re doing on time, was someone that actually … Kids come into the business and they become interns and a lot of times they push their social media agenda. And the older generation, not in love with it. But some success stories come out of that.

One was a little old lady of client. The advisor got onto Facebook and connected with all those clients that were using it. This lady was 15 years older than this person. I think he was about 58. You can imagine her age. She came in the next meeting and said this exact quote, said “Now I feel like I finally know you.”

And they had a relationship over 10 years. He, just in that one little phrase, was like “Wow. That is how important Facebook is to this whole client relationship thing that I have going here.”

That’s not going to be that case with every client. But with that one person, wow. How significant was that?

Hannah: Yeah. That’s great stuff. Well, thanks so much for joining us.

Mike: It’s over? No way.

Hannah: I know. We could talk for hours I think.

Mike: It went too fast. Just to wrap up the video part, we’ll promote somewhere Hannah’s podcast and we’ll get you that information. And the YouTube channel, I’ll definitely put it down in the description. So click down and check that. Do you want to just share it all one more time?

Hannah: Yeah. Absolutely. Where you’re going to find the podcast?

Mike: Yeah, yeah.

Hannah: Go to iTunes, Stitcher. Your favorite podcast player. You can just search and find “You’re a Financial Planner. Now What?” Or you can go to

Mike: And if you’re listening to the podcast and you want to watch the video, because it was so great and you want to see it and hear it, Byrnes Consulting is spelled … Burn is B-Y-R-N-E-S. If you got on YouTube and search Byrnes Consulting, it’ll come up. Hopefully, that’ll be the top video there. (laughs)

We’ll get that and we’ll cross-promote this and maybe we’ll get our two audiences checking them out. And hopefully the FPA will promote it too.

Hannah: Yeah. Great. Well thanks, Mike.

Mike: Thank you very much. I really appreciate it. Bye, guys.

Hannah: Bye, everyone.


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Do you have a strategy for growing your practice based on human connections? Humans want to work with humans. That’s why Mike Byrnes promotes the idea of building a business growth strategy on a foundation of rock-solid relationships both with clients ... Mike Byrnes promotes the idea of building a business growth strategy on a foundation of rock-solid relationships both with clients and with your fellow financial planners.
This concept, in Mike’s opinion, applies to all aspects of your business from asking for referrals to building relationships with influencers in your network. Building out your media presence, networking with your colleagues in the financial planning profession, and maintaining a sense of authenticity is key to create real human connections that will transform your practice.
Mike has some incredible insights on how to re-purpose your media for improved engagement, the best methods for networking with your colleagues and helping one another grow, and how to ask for referrals from clients without damaging your relationship.
This episode is a must-listen for anyone who is working to blaze a trail for themselves in the financial planning profession!

What You’ll Learn:

How to embrace different skills that take time to develop – like being on camera, speaking at events, and reading off of a script
How multiple forms of media can help to build your relationships with clients, prospects, and your network
The best ways to avoid sounding “stiff” in videos or podcast recordings
Ways to navigate asking for referrals from clients
How to create authentic connections with new clients walking in the door
What companies are looking for in a new hire
How to position yourself for success in your financial planning job search
How to create positive relationships across generations within the financial planning profession
How a succession plan can work successfully for all parties
The best way to improve your professional relationships

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How and Why We Should Address Gender Inequality in our Profession – Live at FPA Retreat Tue, 15 May 2018 15:30:34 +0000 0 How would we be better off if we addressed the gender equality in our profession? In this episode, we’ll be exploring this, and many other questions about how we can address the gender gap in financial planning together. How would we be better off if we addressed the gender equality in our profession? In this episode, we’ll be exploring this, and many other questions about how we can address the gender gap in financial planning together.

Diverse teams perform better across industries, and yet the financial planning profession is struggling to bring in and retain diverse talent. During this discussion, we’re tackling the idea that building diverse teams needs to be the way all financial planning practices do business – always.

We’re also going to go over the inevitable uncomfortable conversations that come with growing pains and tackling diversity initiatives. We’re all going to trip sometimes, and perfection is not the point. The point is that everyone, regardless of gender or race, continues to push ahead and focus on improvement.

I hope you enjoy!

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I’m proud of the initiatives that are happening to promote gender diversity in this profession, but it should just be how we do business. #Retreat18

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What You’ll Learn:

  • Why this profession isn’t necessarily female-friendly
  • The “assumptions” that hurt diversity in our profession
  • How unconscious bias holds everyone back in some ways
  • How to address uncomfortable conversations around diversity in the profession
  • The importance of listening to someone else’s viewpoint
  • Embracing different communication styles so that everyone gets the space they need to say how they feel
  • How to communicate in an assertive but respectful way
  • What “sharing stories” looks like – and how we can build a space for that in big and small ways
  • Ways that the #MeToo movement is impacting the financial planning industry
  • How to address a company culture that doesn’t support diversity, inclusion, and equality


How would we be better off if we addressed the gender equality in our profession? In this episode, we’ll be exploring this, and many other questions about how we can address the gender gap in financial planning together. Diverse teams perform better across industries, and yet the financial planning profession is struggling to bring in and retain diverse talent. During this discussion, we’re tackling the idea that building diverse teams needs to be the way all financial planning practices do business – always.
We’re also going to go over the inevitable uncomfortable conversations that come with growing pains and tackling diversity initiatives. We’re all going to trip sometimes, and perfection is not the point. The point is that everyone, regardless of gender or race, continues to push ahead and focus on improvement.
I hope you enjoy!

What You’ll Learn:

Why this profession isn’t necessarily female-friendly
The “assumptions” that hurt diversity in our profession
How unconscious bias holds everyone back in some ways
How to address uncomfortable conversations around diversity in the profession
The importance of listening to someone else’s viewpoint
Embracing different communication styles so that everyone gets the space they need to say how they feel
How to communicate in an assertive but respectful way
What “sharing stories” looks like – and how we can build a space for that in big and small ways
Ways that the #MeToo movement is impacting the financial planning industry
How to address a company culture that doesn’t support diversity, inclusion, and equality

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45 Years of Building a Profession – Live at FPA Retreat Tue, 08 May 2018 20:36:24 +0000 0 LIVE at FPA Retreat 2018, we’re sitting down with a few of the industry’s most influential leaders to talk about the past, present, and future of the financial planning profession. Today’s episode was one of the keynote sessions at FPA Retreat 2018 and in this session Jack Blankinship, Ben Coombs, Charlie Hughes, and Lew Walker came together to discuss the topic: 45 Years of Building a Profession. These industry leaders walk us through what financial planning looked like many years ago, the changes they’ve seen, and what they’ve learned as a result.

2018 marks the 45th anniversary of the CFP marks and our profession has come a long way in that time. We are encouraged that this profession will continue to grow and evolve, and that you are all a part of it. Together, we need to know we’ve been to understand where we can go! So, here at #YAFPNW, we are excited to bring you several more episodes throughout 2018 on the topic of our shared history – as told by the planning professionals who where there!

I hope you enjoy!

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Make sure the marks stay worthy.. and the best way to do that is make sure that you stay worthy of the marks – Ben Coombs

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What You’ll Learn:

  • How “the movement” started 45 years ago to provide true financial planning to clients.
  • How the term “fiduciary” came to be – and what industry leaders did to push for that kind of clarification among financial professionals.
  • How leadership builds leadership – and how that helps us grow.
  • The importance of embracing change in our profession.
  • What people experienced while building this profession from scratch.
  • How we can continue to search for answers in our push to serve clients better, grow our profession, and become better advisors


LIVE at FPA Retreat 2018, we’re sitting down with a few of the industry’s most influential leaders to talk about the past, present, and future of the financial planning profession. 2018 marks the 45th anniversary of the CFP marks and our profession has come a long way in that time. We are encouraged that this profession will continue to grow and evolve, and that you are all a part of it. Together, we need to know we’ve been to understand where we can go! So, here at #YAFPNW, we are excited to bring you several more episodes throughout 2018 on the topic of our shared history – as told by the planning professionals who where there!
I hope you enjoy!

What You’ll Learn:

How “the movement” started 45 years ago to provide true financial planning to clients.
How the term “fiduciary” came to be – and what industry leaders did to push for that kind of clarification among financial professionals.
How leadership builds leadership – and how that helps us grow.
The importance of embracing change in our profession.
What people experienced while building this profession from scratch.
How we can continue to search for answers in our push to serve clients better, grow our profession, and become better advisors

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Supporting the Next Generation of Financial Planners Tue, 01 May 2018 14:05:59 +0000 0 Kate Healy is a wonder woman whose life’s work has furthered the financial planning profession and served advisors in countless ways. It’s safe to say - she’s one of the leading voices in the world of finance, and she’s here to talk about advocating for new and diverse planners. Kate Healy is a wonder woman whose life’s work has furthered the financial planning profession and served advisors in countless ways. She was nominated as one of Investment Advisor magazine’s Top 25 Most Influential People in the Industry and one of Investment News’s inaugural “Women to Watch.” It’s safe to say – she’s one of the leading voices in the world of finance, and she’s an incredible advocate for new planners in this profession.

Through TD Ameritrade’s NextGen program, Kate is helping to build a support system for new planners who are already engaged with the financial profession, as well as financial planning students who represent the next generation of planning.

In this episode, Kate talks about the importance of supporting diversity in our profession, encouraging young planners, and communicating the value of financial planning to every generation.

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What You’ll Learn:

  • How young planners are getting involved, creating awareness, and changing the industry
  • How Kate Healy supports the financial planning profession
  • The ways that a financial planner’s passion can make a difference both in the profession and in the lives of their clients
  • How seasoned advisors can look ahead, connect with program directors, and always be searching for next generation talent


TD Ameritrade Institutional Welcomes Applications for 2018 NextGen Financial Planning Scholarships & Grants

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Hannah: You have this long resume as one of the most influential women, one of the most influential people in the financial services field. How did somebody get to be in your position?
Kate: You know, it’s funny because you don’t think when you start out, “I’m going to be that person.” You think, “okay, I’m going to get the first job and I want a raise, I want a title.” Your mindset’s much different when you start out. But the one thing I think I always did was I liked to do something until I mastered it and then I was curious about the next thing. It wasn’t necessarily what’s the next thing that’s going to get me to that position, it’s, “What’s the next thing that I think I’m going to learn that’s going to be really interesting and that I’m interested in?”
I started out in accounting and finance and went into marketing because they told me that my finance job was communications. It wasn’t, but I’m like, “Okay.” And then I was like, “well, marketing’s kind of fun.” So I was with the marketing people, but then my company merged with another company, we all lost our jobs and I trained as a financial planner. I’ve taken on a lot of different steps to get me.
I think trying to train as a financial planner is what has really sparked my passion for … This was the early 90s. I was one of two women in the office training for the job. I hated the selling part. I was actually studying for the CFP and the company made me stop studying. I had taken two parts to the test and they made me stop because it was interfering with cold calling. It was just a whole different environment then. I was like, this just isn’t for me but I love what financial planners are doing. I love the help that they’re giving. How can I be connected to it in some way?
Probably the second half of my career almost was always in support of a financial advisor, financial planner role through many different business models as I evolved myself into first it was the insurance financial planner, then it was the broker-dealer model, independent maybe… wire-house and then the RA model where I felt like that’s the place where I really feel like this all fits together and it’s holistic and we’re doing what’s right for the client, so whatever I could do to support that was something that was my passion.
Hannah: There’s a lot of talk about career paths in financial planning-
Kate: Yeah.
Hannah: And you know, this thing that everybody talks about, just a straight career path to be the lead advisor, but you’re in financial planning. You’re one of the most influential people in financial planning and you’re really supporting financial planners.
Kate: Right.
Hannah: I bet that’s a really interesting case study.
Kate: That’s interesting, I never thought about it that way but you’re right because it’s not all about being the advisor and bringing in clients. There are people who do that and are fantastic at it. But financial planning has grown as such a professional and there is a need for so many different roles. We need financial advisors, we need paraplanners, we need compliance people, we need risk people, you need operations people. Those are fantastic career paths in and of themselves.
I went down a marketing path for a lot of time and that also, just from a content perspective I learned so much about planning and planning techniques. I used to do advanced marketing for some of the insurance companies, and so it just brought concepts to bare. It really kept every day interesting. I was always learning something new, and that was part of it as I talked about my own career progression. I never said, “I want to be that person up there.” I want to be up there somehow, but I don’t know what it’s going to look like. I want to learn things that make me interested and hopefully more valuable.
And so I did that lateral career. I sometimes took maybe not so much a step back but a step sideways and learned something and a new skill and maybe did some operational work for a while. I had my finance and accounting in the background and then went into marketing, all these different areas, just to kind of, looking back, round out my skill set. I can’t say that I had a big strategy of saying, “Okay, you need to fill in all these different buckets before you’re going to be a well-rounded individual. I was looking for things that looked interesting that I thought could continue to help me learn and build on my curiosity about the profession, how people deal with money and all things like that.
Hannah: So your curiosity was your career path, not this ambition to get to the next level?
Kate: Yeah. I think so, I really think it was curiosity. How do I learn? That looks cool. What are those people that sit over in that department doing? Why don’t I try that out? I think it’s interesting, back to career paths, a lot of it is networking in the office. Obviously I’ve worked for larger firms but it’s getting to meet people through extra-curricular work activities maybe. It was a networking group or a charitable group, something like that that got me exposed to different areas.
I was in one of my roles and I was in a marketing role but I was really fascinated by something we were doing to help advisors get smarter about providing the right solutions to clients. So they had this casting call for someone to do and I did almost a second job to do this, with my first job, and I was writing cases for practice management almost for people. They chose me over one of the attorneys on the team so I was like, “All right. This is cool. I can do this.” This is something extra, but I put in the effort. I was actually doing two full-time jobs to be able to have them recognize me and say, “Now there’s a new role for you because you’ve proven yourself and we see that you can do this and maybe something we didn’t think of before, but now let’s start to create a role around this.”
Hannah: And this was in the 90s you’re saying, right?
Kate: Yeah. I’m old.
Hannah: We’ll talk more about women in the profession in a bit but you’re 90s a woman in finance. What was that like?
Kate: It’s funny. I actually started in finance in the 80s and I didn’t notice that there was, in my group, in my department, I started out in accounting and it probably wasn’t 50/50 but there were women there. I had peers and it never seemed like we were isolated but what I noticed was, and this was one of the things that I think the reason why I focused on this is as I went up in my career, I started to lose my peers. The friends that I started with were no longer in the business. Some had families and through other circumstances but they weren’t coming back into the workforce. It didn’t seem like a friendly place for them and some of them now, they’re totally out of financial services. They became teachers or they just went another route. I thought what’s going on? What’s different? Why aren’t people being supported?
I think that’s why I have a passion on how do we help support people in this profession and what are doing to help them stay here? Because women’s lives take a different path than men’s, a lot of times. If you’re going to get married and have a family, sorry, the woman’s having the baby. It’s going to happen, it’s going to be different, so what are we doing to support them? How can we do that and how could I have kept the friends I had from the 80s if you will and have them still be in this profession today, 30-something years later? I think as I eventually went through my career, that’s when I noticed it was getting thinner and thinner at the top or places I was where would go in to …
I remember being in place and I was speaking at a conference but I was also, because I was marketing, I was running the conference. A woman who worked at the hotel said to me, “Wow, you’re the only women in this room. You must be really smart.” I looked at her and said, “Or really stupid for being here.” Why am I the only woman in the room? Something’s not right here. In financial services that I am the only woman in the room out of 50 advisors and home office management. That’s not right.
Hannah: And we’ll talk more about what … I know you guys’ have done a lot of research on this and you’re a really big advocate for this, we’ll talk about that in a minute. But what’s your official title at TD Ameritrade now?
Kate: My official title is managing director of generation next. I was not the cool one to come up with the title. It’s pretty much a play on next generation but it’s kind of … because when I talk about the next generation, it encompasses different things for us. When I speak of next generation, I don’t just mean millennials, I mean anyone who’s not here today because that’s what we’re looking for. That includes millennials, it includes women, it includes men who still need to become CFP’s, it includes career changers, former military, people returning to work, diverse populations that aren’t in this profession. We look around, we’re getting better but we still have a long way to go. Whoever is not at the table today is our next generation.
Hannah: I love that. So good. What’s the average day, week or month look like for you?
Kate: That’s funny. I was thinking about that when you sent over that question, I thought what does the average day for me look like? I would say there’s probably seasonality to it. Right now, we’re in spring time conference season so my average day looks a lot different. I’ve been on the road for a couple weeks and I will be for a few more weeks, so the average day is really early calls, going to the airport early, getting on a plane and coming here to retreat. I’ll be heading to two women’s conferences next week. I’m flying out tomorrow morning to go to the American College with Jocelyn Wright. She’s hosting a round table. There’s a lot of different things that happen in the spring and the fall from a speaking perspective.
Then there’s a lot of prep calls. I think I did four prep calls for speaking engagements of the next month last week. On one day. I’m like, I’m starting to get confused. I’ve got to keep this all straight now. But, I also just came from our own TD Ameritrade leadership session, so we’re getting ready for our 2019 planning and we just had a fantastic offsite where we really challenged ourselves to think of new ideas. We had a great session with our advanced tech team and how can we take technology and really use that to advance us to the next level and change advisors and clients lives?
Then there’s a lot of coming up with content. I do a monthly blog, Advocate, another name I did not come up with. I have very creative teams back at TD Ameritrade. Social media. And then trying to do more internally to let everyone know what we’re doing. Then I sit on a couple of boards. I’m a trustee for the Foundation for Financial Planning. They’re here today. As well as Invest in Others, which is a foundation that provides award grants to advisors that are doing well, who are doing a lot of great work with charities. We just finished the nomination period for the 2018 awards, so there’s usually quarterly board meetings with that. I sit on the TD Ameritrade’s diversity inclusion steering committee. We have monthly steering committee meetings. We’ll have an annual conference coming up in about a month or so, but I also sit on the recruiter pillar. We meet more frequently and figure out what can we do to help attract more people into financial services? More women, more people of color, what are the things that are holding them back?
We’ve done some things like we write our jobs descriptions. We’ve got experience requirement are different if you’re in the military. We’re not going to ask you for things that might be on a regular job description because you’ve been in the military. You’ve done so many more things that are probably more relevant and going to make you a great employee. One of the words that we think we can make sure are not going to turn someone off from a job. We know that women are less confident when they apply to jobs, so how do we change the wording or the way we list our jobs so that people feel more empowered to apply for them, and then finally how do we train our hiring managers to really look for potential, not experience? Because if we look for experience, we’re going to have the same people in the seats. We have to give people a chance and start to look for the potential for someone to do a job to start to bring in the more diverse populations that we want.
Hannah: That’s interesting you talked about how the job description is worded. This may be an obvious dumb question, but does that really make a difference?
Kate: It does, right? Think about how you’ve looked at a job. I know myself. I have looked at jobs in the past and said, “Oh, I can do maybe a third of that. There’s no way that job is for me.” But maybe it is. I’ve had great bosses who sometimes have said, “There’s a position open.” I’m like, “Okay but I can’t do that. I’ve never done that before.” I remember a woman hiring me at a company. I had come out of a marketing role and I was moving into a product management role, and I was going through all the interviews great and I finally was sitting with the lead boss and I just said to her, “You know I’ve never done this before, right? I just want to make sure no one’s pulling the wool over your eyes.” And she said, “I knew that but I can tell by your skill set that you can do it.”
Those are the kinds of things that we’ve got to make sure that we’re taking away the barriers of someone having less confidence in themselves to do it. So yeah, it is simple things like that. But sometimes the words you use. College degree required, 10 years of experience. Nice to have. Well, is it nice to have or do I have to have 10 years? Or, is two years but on a trajectory, does that help? All these different nuances that can happen, so we really got to look at how do we do that and is it a job description? Do we start to use social media to differentiate how the jobs go or to show what a job is. We’re trying to do things like what’s a day in the life of a job at TD Ameritrade looks like so that people can get more empowered, to see what it looks like to be in the office, talk to associates, whether it’s Instagram or Facebook and get their stories out there.
Hannah: Oh, that’s great. Let’s talk about new planners and the incredible town that’s coming into our profession right now.
Kate: It’s amazing.
Hannah: I’m blown away when I talk to them.
Kate: Seriously.
Hannah: It’s absolutely incredible.
Kate: And I love how you don’t consider yourself a new planner anymore.
Hannah: Oh, gosh.
Kate: It’s just a few years ago.
Hannah: Oh my gosh, I know. As you’ve been traveling around the country and feeling your role with TD Ameritrade and meet all these new planners, what have you been most impressed by?
Kate: You know, they’re so bright. They’re so bright and they’re so passionate. What I love is the passion that they have for financial planning but more importantly for their clients. That is what drives. We’re here at FPA Retreat and you think about the passion that is encapsulated in this place here. They have that 10-fold. They’re so passionate about helping their clients in the way that applies to them now. Not just, “How do I manage your assets?” It’s “How do I help you get to a point where you’ll have assets? How do we get you through the student debt problems, the worrying about how you pick your retirement plans, is this the right time for you to move across the country to take that job?” They’re coming up with new service offerings that we’ve probably needed in this profession for years to be able to deal with more people.
So many people don’t go to a financial advisor because they don’t have money. They think, “I can’t afford to pay for them.” Or, “They’re going to laugh at me if I walk into their office with the tiny amount of assets or retirement plan assets that I have.” New planners, the fact that they have a degree in financial planning has put them at the forefront from a knowledge perspective. I think so many of them are doing a great job of being mentored or finding mentors or mentoring other people to learn more about it. I’ve been coming to retreat for seven or eight years now and the past two or three years really seeing so many more young advisors here, it’s fantastic.
That shows me that not only are they passionate about it but they know they need to learn and they’re learning from the best. I think that they’re elevating this profession. They’re doing the right things and their feelings on the inclusion part of who should be in this profession and who this profession should provide for is going to be a hallmark of how we finally break through and create much more awareness about not only what a great career this is but what a need this is and how important this is for all Americans to have some financial planning to help them with their financial futures.
Hannah: Yeah, the innovation. Has anything surprised you?
Kate: Yeah. Tons of things. I think the students. I spend a lot of time with students. How quickly the financial planning programs are growing I think is fantastic. We’ve been bringing students to our conference for nine years now and the first year we brought 10 students. This year we had 56 students and it never ceased to amaze me how smart they are.
One of the things that surprises me still is that advisors aren’t engaging with them as much as they should. We had all these advisors at our conference last year and we provide opportunities for advisors to network with them. All their resumes are on our, we have a resume portal, I had an advisor call me a week after the conference say, “Kate, I know you had all the students there but I really didn’t talk to them and I need a next gen financial advisor.” I was like, “Are you kidding? There were 55 of them in a room that you were invited to.” He was like, “I know, I just didn’t think.”
It surprises me that advisors aren’t thinking ahead from a strategic perspective. There should always be a pipeline of talent. You should always be looking for talent and you should always be talking to someone. Not enough of them are going to the universities and forming relationships with the program directors, because the program directors are fantastic. They know all the students. The programs aren’t that big. They know all the students, what their strengths are, what kind of firms they’re going to do well in and provide. It’s your personal pipeline of talent. So, it surprises me that advisors aren’t as far ahead as I would love them to be in hiring that talent.
Hannah: And those program directors, they give the best of the best.
Kate: They do, they really do.
Hannah: When you have those relationships.
Kate: They do. Yeah. Absolutely.
Hannah: What are the industry trends or professional trends that new planners need to know or need to be aware of?
Kate: There’s so much going on. The regulatory world is never going to go away. We have DOL, we don’t have DOL. It’s fiduciary, it’s SCC fiduciary now. I’m not an expert on it but that’s something that you have to keep in contact with whether it’s your custodian, your broker dealer, whoever it is you work with to make sure you’re on the right side of that. The associations, I know FPA and NAPFA have a coalition and do so much around advocacy. That is not going away and it’s not going to get any less complicated.
But technology is really interesting. There’s so much technology, there’s so many ways to use it. I mentioned we were at this off-site and we were actually talking a lot of artificial intelligence, augmented reality and how we can use hta.t I think that there’s such a way for financial planners to be able to work with so many more people and in a much more relevant way. I just came from a panel session where we talked about financial advice isn’t a quarterly meeting. It has to be integrated in someone’s life in all the moments that are going to matter for them. I think that really paying attention to what’s going on in the technology front and not being afraid of it.
It is frightening, some of it. What do you mean, are all our jobs going to go away? It’s not. We’re always going to have a need for humans. Jobs are going to evolve. I think technology is going to help us get to more people and be able to democratize financial planning in many ways. I think that there is so much going on. It’s important for advisors to not be afraid of that. I know sometimes you’re in your office and you’re overwhelmed. You’re running your business, you’re managing your employees and all of that and then there’s this big world out there where things are happening. We’ve got self-driving cars and Amazon’s going to drop your packages off in your car trunk and all of these different things. It’s how do you take a look at that and think about, “How can I take the technology out there to enhance my client experience and to make sure that my clients are getting the best holistic financial planning they can?”
Hannah: It’s that same innovation and curiosity that’s been a hallmark of your career. That’s really going to help new planners as they navigate this.
Kate: Yeah, absolutely.
Hannah: We’ve talked about this a little, but how do you see new planners shaping the profession?
Kate: I think just by the sheer demographics that are going to happen, which is exciting because I think there’s so many efforts going on to create a more diverse financial planning workforce. We need to do all of those. By no means do I mean that demographics is going to fix it because it’s not, but it’s going to help. It’s funny, one of the things we talked about yesterday. We were just talking about there’s some apps that will help you age to see what you look like at 60 and 70 and it makes it easier for people to visualize why they should save for retirement because it’s a hard concept. If you’re 25 years old, the money that you need at age 70 isn’t a real concept. Showing you what you would look like then makes you start to think about if I’m 70, I’m going to need money. How do I get that?
I started to think, God, I would love to take that app and instead show people what the world is going to look in 2045 because it’s going to look so vastly different, even America, then it does today. By 2045, there will be no majority of race in this country. There will be all minorities. We will al become a minority. There will be no majority. So think about that. Think about what your neighborhood is going to look like, your financial planning business is going to look like. The world, your clients, your neighbors, everyone is going to look so different. Do you really want to miss out on that because you don’t want to take some of the pain right now to hire more diverse people into your business? You’re giving up. It’s not just the right thing to do, it’s an imperative for your business because the world is going to look so different. It’s important to think about what your world is going to look like. It’s not that far away. Five, 10, 15, 20 years. That’s less than a generation. It’s really important for advisors to think about how different the world is going to look.
Hannah: We’ve been doing a history of financial planning series-
Kate: That’s so cool.
Hannah: Yeah. We’ll air them on the podcast. It’s so interesting to hear all these older planners talk about how much change they’ve seen in their career.
Kate: Yeah.
Hannah: It’s like, oh my God, these new planners are coming out. The change that they’re going to see in their career is going to be possibly just as much or even more.
Kate: I feel like at the rate of change even more so. I think about my career from the mid-80s to now. Okay, God, I’m dating myself but I was one of the few people in my company to have a computer in 1986. They sent the board of directors to watch us because we had our own computers. There weren’t a lot of innovations. Okay, then we got email, then we got somethings. But the speed of which change has happened in I would say even the last five years is so incrementally outrages compared to what it was for the first 20 years. I think that is just going to continue.
I don’t know if you follow singularity concept at all or things about that. It’s the expansion of Moore’s law and how fast things are going to go and the architecture and the integration of technology and medical, all of that. Why we’re going to live to 140 years and all those kinds of things. This rate of change is no longer progressing at 1X, 2X. It is 10X, it’s 100X. People have to be prepared for change because that is not going away and it’s something that we all have to get used to.
Hannah: In the context of new planners, what do say new planners need to know today?
Kate: They need to know that they have a great skillset but that there’s a lot that they can still learn from the advisors who came about this a different way. We might have learned on the job, they probably learned in a sales role, but there’s some great relationship management and business management that they can continue to learn from them. I think it’s imperative. When we’re young, we all get frustrated with anyone who’s blocking our path to the top or someone who might be trying to school us on some things. We need to also be a little patient. It’s smart to be patient, to say there is a value to advisors who we can learn from.
The world is different. The world now is such a different world than the one that they started in, so change might be a bit slower for them but advisors will get there. It can be imperative for the younger advisors to help advisors that they may be working for and show them. It’s not easy. Think about when you show your parents the iPhone or how to text, how to get on social media, all those kinds of things. There might be a bit of a longer learning curve, but it’s going to be beneficial for everyone. I think there’s a lot of synergies between the maturity and the business and having seen cycles and human emotions through all different stages of someone’s life that can be really helpful and having a younger advisor help bring in other aspects and their point of view to that is useful.
Hannah: You’re not only an advocate for young planners but you’re also very much for people who are outside of where we are today. That includes women and a lot of the diversity inclusion.
Kate: Yeah.
Hannah: And so this topic unfortunately can be really divisive and it’s one where I’ve heard people say that the inclusion feels like exclusion.
Kate: Yeah.
Hannah: I’ve heard that several times from people. “I’m not a woman, this doesn’t apply to me. Why do you keep harping about women? I’m important too.” What would you say to people who don’t fall into those categories of women or larger diversity?
Kate: It’s hard. It’s not that we don’t want them. I always tell people I want women in this profession, I want men in this profession. We need more people in this profession. We’re going to be short 10,000 advisors by 2020. The financial planning programs alone are not enough to graduate enough students to come into financial planning so we need a large scale. But when you think about the different diverse audiences and that women control so much wealth, we have to have people with different points of view. It’s important. We don’t want to be exclusionary to anyone.
I spoke last year and I asked all the men in the audience to ask permission but to join the women’s initiatives at their firm because it’s not fair for us as women to say we’re going to do this, we need your help. A lot of times men are in leadership roles, but a lot of times they don’t know what the issues are because we haven’t told them, so it’s not fair to say there’s this help that we need. One of the things that I do, TD Ameritrade is the lead founding sponsor for the Center for Financial Planning and we do a lot with the women’s counsel, the diversity counsel and the workforce development counsel. Last year, there were 1,250 new women CFP’s. It’s an incredible number. It’s something to be proud of.
But, it didn’t move the percentage. Some people were a little disappointed that there wasn’t growth and I said, “Are you kidding? That means there were just as many new male, and more male from a percentage perspective, advisors. That’s awesome. Think of all the new CFP’s we got. We want women, we want men, we want folks of diversity. We’ve got to work together and figure out how do we all help each other to raise each other up? We’re nowhere near a point where we’re taking jobs away from anybody to give it to anyone else. I think most people believe in meritocracy but there are things that … There are gaps from a people perspective that we’ve got to fill in the numbers and I think we can all learn from each other.
I talked a little about that fear of missing out, but you really need to have all diverse points of view to help you build out a financial planning practice. I hear people say that. A couple times I’ve actually asked people to change the title of some of our sessions to say it’s not a women’s session or it’s not this because men need to hear the message too. We shouldn’t be exclusionary. We can’t shut people out. We’re doing a session here after this on diversity in this business and I would love to have the room filled with men and hear their thoughts. We’re all in this together, right? How do we help each other deal with this and make sure that we’re getting the right diversity in here.
Really, diversity is one piece of it but how are we making sure that they feel included and that we’re hearing their voices and they have a seat at the table? Because that’s really where you shift the power and the balance of power. We all get smarter. Harvard has done studies on teams with high IQ’s actually perform less well than teams that have women on them. That probably sounded bad the way I just said it, but adding women to a team makes a team collectively smarter. That’s just science, so why wouldn’t we do that? Why wouldn’t we have women on a team to make it smarter? We probably need to do that same research around people of color, minorities, folks coming in from other careers. All of those different viewpoints are adding to the viewpoints of all your clients and matching that.
Hannah: You have more points to make a better decision.
Kate: Yes, exactly.
Hannah: There’s been a lot of talk. Women in finance has been an ongoing, many year conversation-
Kate: Yes.
Hannah: What can we do, or rather, what have you found that other professionals are doing that’s really help move the needle in this regard?
Kate: You know, I think one of the most important things that we need to do as women is to talk about it. Tell your story. I say this, I stole it from Cathleen McGuigan. I think she stole it from someone else, but you can’t be what you don’t see. So if you don’t know that you could be a financial planner as a woman, it’s never going to be a career that you’re going to look for. I’m really gratified by … There were 400 WIN advocates who, it’s over 400 now I think, who are mentoring women taking the CFP exam. It’s a much great number.
We’re actually going out and speaking to groups of women, girl scouts, school programs, to talk about what they do and to talk about that professional to raise that awareness level. Right now, there’s a great session going on at the University of Akron. Barry Mulholland is doing diversity summit. What I love is he’s brought in the people who are the decision makers, who help students figure out what their career should be. He’s gotten guidance counselors, he has girl scout leaders, he has all the people in there who can help influence someone in the career that they have.
I think the more that we all talk about this career that it’s phenomenal for women and showcase women. You know, the CFP pro campaign where we’re showing diverse millennial women and men in this career so people can visualize themselves and say, “This could be something I could do.” Because if you don’t see it, if you don’t see someone in your world, if you don’t have a financial planner, if your parents don’t have one, if your neighbor isn’t a financial planner, you have no knowledge that this exists. It’s never going to be something that you’re going to look and aspire to.
Hannah: Well, the population of how many clients are served by financial planners right now is so small.
Kate: It’s so small. That’s why I believe that none of this is competition. There’s such room for so many more people in this profession: for women, for men, for minorities, for people coming back to work. It’s a great place for people.
Hannah: You mentioned WIN advocates. Can you talk about that program and what it is?
Kate: Yeah. The WIN advocates, it’s part of the CFP Board’s, the Center for Financial Planning, and they actually equip the advocates with presentations, talking points, things like that so if they want to go out and talk to somebody, they don’t have to think, “I want to do this but what do I say?” Here’s a presentation that you can do. The CFP board put it together and it’s slides that talk about what you do, this profession, why it’s so advantageous to women, how you can do well.
We find that so many people who enter this profession think about it because they want to help people. They go into sociology or they go into psychology or some other field because they didn’t know about this. Once they learn about it then they realize they can do well, help people and make money. It’s a way for them to raise awareness at their local level because we’re doing a lot of efforts at the Center for Financial Planning, at TD Ameritrade, each company is doing things collectively, which is awesome, but this still needs to be a grassroots effort.
Each one of us has to talk to our daughters, our nieces, our clients daughters and sons and folks of color, people that are not in this profession and don’t know about it to just share the story because they don’t know about it. The more that we can each do and tell people … I’m trying to convince my hairdresser right now to become a financial planner because I’ve watched her do this and help out her parents. She has such a caring … She wants to help people and she’s really upped her game on financial concepts and all of that. I’m like, “You could start to take some classes and study for this. You’re still going to have to do my hair, but you can be a financial advisor.”
Hannah: You know, I heard somebody say that if we all brought one person in, we’d have 80,000 more CFP’s.
Kate: Oh, Hannah. It seems so easy, doesn’t it? Why don’t we all just do that? Probably won’t fit here at Wigwam, but why don’t we all just do that? One more person. Everybody just bring one and then they bring one and they bring one. That’s really what we have to do.
Hannah: Is there anything else with the Center for Financial Planning that you want to highlight or any other work that you’re doing right now that you want to focus and showcase?
Kate: Yeah. At the Center for Financial Planning, we started out with doing the women’s initiative. That probably started three or four years ago, even before the center had really taken shape. We started with research. I think it’s so important. We did the research and we sponsored a white paper and a lot of it was like, yeah, no kidding. We know women don’t come in the professional and we know some of the reasons why. They don’t like the commission sales structure. They’re not aware of the profession. They think there’s a bias to them. But we laid it all out and that enabled us to start to develop these programs like the WIN advocates and the WIN mentoring program. Doing that gives you a pathway.
What I’m excited about is I’m on the diversity committee as well and over the past year, we’ve been doing research on the lack of diverse CFP’s in the profession. Next month, the CFP board will be releasing some of that data to talk about the research that we found in why there are not more people of color in this profession, why they’re not coming into the profession. Very similar to that, what are those things? I’m sure when we see the research findings, we’re going to say, “That’s not a big surprise.” But what it’s going to do is help us build out a road map to say, “While it’s not a surprise, now we know this is really what it is and we can start to quantify it and then start to develop programs to mitigate it. Whether it’s mentorship or whatever the things that we decide we need to do are, we now have a path that we can start to create. We can start to see that.
Four years ago, that’s what we did and last year we had 1,250 new women CFP’s. I am excited for what we’ll do from a diversity perspective. A lot of people working on this but I think just getting it out there because there hasn’t been a lot of research. There’s not a lot of transparency into that. We use the CFP as the conduit to say, “Okay, this is the number of financial planners.” But there isn’t a lot of research around it. Kudos to them for doing this. We’re really glad to support it but I think it’s going to help us all. There’s going to be some hard discussions. It’s not an easy task that we have. It’s hard. There’s a lot of reasons that are probably not good as to why there aren’t more folks of color in this profession. But we need to get past that and then start to create programs to change that going forward.
Hannah: You know, we have all these conversations and it’s all very much that there’s so much work to do-
Kate: There is.
Hannah: Going forward. But could I have you reflect on the work, on the progress that we have made?
Kate: Yeah. It’s hard. I often said this is a marathon. It’s not a sprint. It’s going to take a long time and it’s hard work. It’s movement, right? This is something and we’re seeing it throughout this country. It’s happening all around, but it is hard work and it takes courage, it takes guts, it takes emotions, you know? You have to figure out how to have the right conversations, how to do the right thing and do it in the right way. We sometimes talk about getting into a room and saying, “Look, I want to have a conversation and I don’t want to offend anyone so let’s just put it out there right now. I may say some things that might offend you and I don’t mean to do that, but let’s have that honest dialogue to go forward.”
Because Hannah, you hit it. This is hard. It’s really hard and there are people who are so dedicated and committed to helping this. The diversity committee that the CFP board put together is phenomenal. We’ve met a couple of times to get ready to do this research and it’s just really powerful hearing people’s stories. I think we’re going to start to hear more and more of that. I think that’s going to help people understand the journey that we’re taking and come along for that journey. We’re not going to get there in five years, but we’re going to see a lot of progress. To your point, we do probably have to take a step back every once in a while and say, “This is progress. This is great to see. How do we start to reward that by showcasing the progress that we’ve made more so that more people see that and there is that multiple kid effect. Everybody bring one in.”
Hannah: What’s your hope for the future of financial planning?
Kate: I just want to see even more people in it. I think being able to offer financial planning to Americans is so needed. It’s always been something that I think is important to families. It’s what holds them together, it’s what advances the family, grows the family. I really also want people to know this is a career that students are clamoring to get in. It’s providing a service to everyone, but it’s a fulfilling career. You can’t feel better than about helping, other than saving a life, but helping people to live their best life by knowing how to use their finances as a tool to help them get there.
Hannah: Just in talking to you and hearing your passion about this, it sounds like there’s something greater that really drives you or is what motivates you. What’s your motivation in the morning? What makes you get up and be excited about your job?
Kate: I just think … To your point, taking a look back every once in a while and seeing that there is progress made, right? I talked about a little of the pipeline when I got into this business it didn’t seem so non-diverse if you will. Then I realized that it was but what I love, when I take a look at all the people that are working on this now. Half of us are competitors. This isn’t an TD Ameritrade issue. This is everyone, and we’re all working together and figure out that how we can help change the face of financial planning. So I love that it’s not competitive. We’ll get into a room with people from different business models and different companies, all of that, but we’re all in it together because so many people are passionate about making this change. I think that’s what is really special about the work that we’re doing.
Hannah: It’s about building a profession.
Kate: Exactly.
Hannah: And that super suits any business model, anything. It’s about a profession.
Kate: Exactly. We’re light years away from competing to the level where we’re … We have talent shortages now, but the more awareness that we raise, that’s going to help alleviate that.
Hannah: Absolutely. Is there anything else?
Kate: No, this has been so much fun, Hannah.
Hannah: Oh, good.
Kate: Thank you so much.
Hannah: Yeah.
Kate: I’m so excited to be on my first podcast. I don’t know if you know this.
Hannah: Oh, really?
Kate: So I hope I wasn’t too nervous but this was the first podcast I’ve ever done.
Hannah: Oh, that’s awesome.
Kate: Very cool.
Hannah: Where can people find you?
Kate: The airport.

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Kate Healy is a wonder woman whose life’s work has furthered the financial planning profession and served advisors in countless ways. It’s safe to say - she’s one of the leading voices in the world of finance, Kate Healy is a wonder woman whose life’s work has furthered the financial planning profession and served advisors in countless ways. She was nominated as one of Investment Advisor magazine’s Top 25 Most Influential People in the Industry and one of Investment News’s inaugural “Women to Watch.” It’s safe to say – she’s one of the leading voices in the world of finance, and she’s an incredible advocate for new planners in this profession.
Through TD Ameritrade’s NextGen program, Kate is helping to build a support system for new planners who are already engaged with the financial profession, as well as financial planning students who represent the next generation of planning.
In this episode, Kate talks about the importance of supporting diversity in our profession, encouraging young planners, and communicating the value of financial planning to every generation.

What You’ll Learn:

How young planners are getting involved, creating awareness, and changing the industry
How Kate Healy supports the financial planning profession
The ways that a financial planner’s passion can make a difference both in the profession and in the lives of their clients
How seasoned advisors can look ahead, connect with program directors, and always be searching for next generation talent

TD Ameritrade Institutional Welcomes Applications for 2018 NextGen Financial Planning Scholarships & Grants
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Tools to Help Facilitate Financial Health Tue, 24 Apr 2018 13:00:19 +0000 0 Dr. Brad Klontz and Derek Lawson have worked together to integrate behavioral finance, financial therapy, and financial psychology into the world of financial planning. Their research is guiding advisors everywhere to add a deeper level of value to the lives of their clients - and they want to help you do the same! Dr. Brad Klontz and Derek Lawson won the prestigious Montgomery-Warschauer award for their paper on Integrating Behavioral Finance, Financial Psychology and Financial Therapy in the 6 Step Financial Planning Process. The award goes to the researchers who wrote the paper with the most outstanding contribution to the betterment of the profession in the prior year.

Dr. Klontz and Derek Lawson’s research not only brings together three different areas of financial behavior, but they practically discuss how you can use these three disciplines to improve your financial planning skills and service to your clients. Their research is guiding advisors everywhere to add a deeper level of value to the lives of their clients.

The deeper purpose of financial planning is to help a client improve their financial health – which has multiple components. It’s more than setting up the right insurance, retirement plan, and investment vehicles put into place. As advisors, we seek to empower our clients to make decisions that lead to financial security and fulfillment.

This is where financial therapy and behavioral finance comes in. By understanding a client’s mental approach to their money, you can help them live financially healthy lives that extends beyond the dollars and cents.

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How do you facilitate a client moving through the financial planning process and keeping them on track? What do you do when you give a client a solid piece of advice, and they resist it?

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What You’ll Learn:

  • What is the difference between financial advice and financial planning?
  • What is the difference between behavioral finance, financial therapy, and financial psychology?
  • How can financial planners integrate behavioral finance or financial therapy into their practice?
  • Specific skills and strategies you can start implementing today to integrate the best practices of behavioral finance, financial therapy and financial psychology today.
  • How does financial planning extend beyond your client’s financial life?


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Integrating Behavioral Finance, Financial Psychology, and Financial Therapy into the 6-Step Financial Planning Process by Derek R. Lawson, CFP®; and Bradley T. Klontz, Psy.D., CFP®







Dr. Brad Klontz and Derek Lawson have worked together to integrate behavioral finance, financial therapy, and financial psychology into the world of financial planning. Their research is guiding advisors everywhere to add a deeper level of value to the... Dr. Brad Klontz and Derek Lawson won the prestigious Montgomery-Warschauer award for their paper on Integrating Behavioral Finance, Financial Psychology and Financial Therapy in the 6 Step Financial Planning Process. The award goes to the researchers who wrote the paper with the most outstanding contribution to the betterment of the profession in the prior year.
Dr. Klontz and Derek Lawson’s research not only brings together three different areas of financial behavior, but they practically discuss how you can use these three disciplines to improve your financial planning skills and service to your clients. Their research is guiding advisors everywhere to add a deeper level of value to the lives of their clients.
The deeper purpose of financial planning is to help a client improve their financial health – which has multiple components. It’s more than setting up the right insurance, retirement plan, and investment vehicles put into place. As advisors, we seek to empower our clients to make decisions that lead to financial security and fulfillment.
This is where financial therapy and behavioral finance comes in. By understanding a client’s mental approach to their money, you can help them live financially healthy lives that extends beyond the dollars and cents.

What You’ll Learn:

What is the difference between financial advice and financial planning?
What is the difference between behavioral finance, financial therapy, and financial psychology?
How can financial planners integrate behavioral finance or financial therapy into their practice?
Specific skills and strategies you can start implementing today to integrate the best practices of behavioral finance, financial therapy and financial psychology today.
How does financial planning extend beyond your client’s financial life?

Financial Therapy Association
Integrating Behavioral Finance, Financial Psychology, and Financial Therapy into the 6-Step Financial Planning Process by Derek R. Lawson, CFP®; and Bradley T. Klontz, Psy.D., CFP®

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Forming Partnerships, Starting Your Own Business, and Planning Mindfully Tue, 17 Apr 2018 12:00:29 +0000 0 Anne McCabe Triana, CFP®, CRPC®, has been in the financial services industry for over ten years. Her experience as a financial planner in a larger firm, as well as with starting her own financial planning firm, has taught her so much about the financial planning process and about being a business owner. Anne McCabe Triana, CFP®, CRPC®, has been in the financial services profession for over ten years. Having started straight out of school and having to immediately find her own clients, she shares what she learned through that experience and what she learned in that process. Her experience as a financial planner in a larger firm, as well as with starting her own financial planning firm, has taught her much about the financial planning process and about being a business owner.

In her practice today, Anne looks at the behavioral aspect of financial planning with her clients. Understanding the emotions that play into personal finance, and how to navigate clients through tough economic times, has been a critical component to her business’s success. Anne shares how she came up with her company name, Curo, and how important truly caring for her clients has been in building strong client relationships.

Over the course of this #YAFPNW episode, we’re going to talk about the evolution of running a financial planning firm, how “down” markets might actually be better for business, and how to provide the best experience to your clients.

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People hire you because of you, they don’t hire you because of the company behind you. – @AnneDayMcCabe

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What You’ll Learn:

  • How to know you’re ready to transition to business ownership
  • Ways to improve your client’s experience
  • How to draw from your past experiences moving into unknown financial planning territory
  • Why you should always be adding value to the lives of your prospects – even if they’re not ready to sign on with you right now
  • How behavioral finance plays into your financial planning
  • Why a “down” market may be better for your financial planning business
  • How to navigate client emotions when dealing with money
  • How to manage client relationships when transitioning to a new role within your firm or because you’re starting a new practice
  • How to reinforce that YOU are the value when working with your clients
  • How your marketing plan can and should change as your business matures.







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Hannah: Thank for joining us today, Anne.

Anne: Thank you for having me, Hannah.

Hannah: I am really excited for people to hear your story, but how did you get into the financial planning and wealth management business?

Anne: I randomly fell into it right out of college. I worked in banking right after I graduated high school and throughout college, and when I graduated college I had an idea of what I think I would do, and that was to work in economic development in Latin America. I studied Latin American Studies and Economics in college. I speak Spanish fluently, so I’ve always been drawn to Latin America and I thought that I would go down there and work on economic development.

I had a professor in college who sat down with me when I was about to graduate and asked me what my plans were, and he actually worked for the Inter-American Development Bank, which is like the World Bank but just focused in Latin America. Long story short, he basically told me that he didn’t think that I should go in that direction because he thought that I would be very unhappy with the bureaucracy that is part of that organization, just economic development in Latin America in general.

I did, at that point, what every college student who is completely lost did, I put my resume online and waited for companies to call me. I had some interesting opportunities, but the one that really caught my attention was from, at that time, American Express Financial Advisors, which very shortly after became Ameriprise Financial.

I went in for an interview. There were probably 60 other people there for the interview. It was a whole process, but that is, inevitably, how I ended up becoming an advisor. I was offered the job and went to study for my licenses and then went into production.

Hannah: So when you went into production was it one of the deals where you’re supposed to make a list of your 200 closest family and friends and start with them?

Anne: It was, but I did not do that. I made the list, but I didn’t feel right going to my family and friends knowing that I knew absolutely nothing. I really took to cold-calling and doing these lunch presentations that we would do, and I hustled as much as I possibly could so that they wouldn’t actually force me to touch base with my friends and family. I’m lucky that I didn’t actually have to use that as a marketing strategy, but it absolutely was very much one of the main marketing strategies that they preferred.

Hannah: What did that look like when you’re talking about hustling and cold-calling? What was that like? I’m assuming you’re 22, 23 at this point?

Anne: I was 22. Yeah, I was 22. It looks like a lot of hours and a lot of nos. You had to develop a very thick skin over a very short period of time because remember, you actually really don’t know anything. You’re on the phone calling people who are decades older than you because we were really trying to focus on people who were thinking about retirement, and you sound like you’re 12. You have the knowledge level of a 12 year old for financial services. So it’s really, really challenging.

I look back to some of the initial clients that I acquired and that still work with me today. First of all, I’m just in awe at their generosity, and I’m grateful that they gave me an opportunity, but I think really the only reason they gave me an opportunity is because somewhere deep down they knew that I was a good person, and I was an honest person, and I wasn’t going to try to hurt them in any way.

But, aside from that, there’s not really a lot of compelling reasons to … that I could look back on anyway, for someone to hire me. It was really, really challenging.

Hannah: What kept you going? I’ve heard lots of stories where people were just saying, “I can’t. I can’t do this”, but what kept you doing that?

Anne: Yeah, that’s a really, really good question, and it’s something I’ve reflected on a lot because I can tell you that multiple times in my first three years probably, I was one day away from calling it quits. Multiple times I can tell you that it just was so hard. I was working so many hours. I wasn’t making a lot of money. I had this question a lot of times, “What am I doing? Is all this worth it?” The only thing that kept me going was I would acquire a new client, and I would make a promise to this client, and I would get excited about working on their case. Again, I would be so grateful that they were entrusting their financial planning to me, that that was the only thing that stopped me from quitting.

Because I had just made this commitment, just made this promise to this family or this individual who had hired me, how could I disappoint them and how could I quit at that point? I look back and you add up one client acquisition with another client acquisition with another client acquisition, and it just got me through. I think probably around year three or four, I finally started feeling a little more confident in what I was doing.

Hannah: That confidence in what you were doing, did that just come from experience? How did you get better at doing investments or financial planning?

Anne: I made it a point to educate myself as much as I possibly could. I had a mentor early on who I am so very close with to this day, and he said to me, “You’re not going to be able to know everything.” He had been in the business for probably 20 years at that point, and he was telling me even 20 years in, he would learn new things on a regular basis.

He first said, “Try not to learn everything right away because you’re just not going to be able to do that. And if you spend all day reading and trying to learn everything you possibly can about the industry, that means you’re not out trying to meet people. And if you’re not out trying to meet people, you’re not going to be acquiring clients, you’re not going to have anyone to share this knowledge with, and you’re going to fail out of the business.”

I tried to balance my thirst for wanting to know as much as I possibly can and learning and growing, with also making sure I was actually out there talking to people. But I would spend my weekends reading magazines like Barron’s, and I would read The Wall Street Journal every morning, and just try to immerse myself in the vocabulary. I wanted to be able to know what was going on and be able to have intelligent conversations with people when I met them.

I think, for me, it was a balance of wanting to learn and spending my free time really reading books and magazines and articles about the industry, but also not spending that precious time during the day that I could have been on the phones cold-calling or I could have been doing a lunch presentation or out networking.

Hannah: You talked about the, you said 60 or 90 people who went in for that interview. How many of the people that you started with were still in the business in three years?

Anne: Oh, gosh. Probably … definitely less than 10. I want to say probably seven or so of us were still there of my class, yeah, after three years. Most of the people would actually leave the industry, they would go into a completely different direction. Some people left being an advisor and went to get a job that was still in the industry, but I would say most people got burnt out from the industry, and just had a very bad taste in their mouth and became a teacher or went into a completely different industry.

Hannah: Now you’ve been in financial services for 10-plus years at this point?

Anne: Yeah, I’ve been in since I’ve been in production, a licensed advisor, about 12 years, plus my banking experience. But, again, I started that right out of high school.

Hannah: Looking back now at the cold-calling, what are your thoughts on that? Is that an effective way to start a business today?

Anne: It’s not.

Hannah: What would you change if you were starting over tomorrow?

Anne: It’s just not. Let’s just me real. I’m sure you get cold-called all the time. I do, too. No, i just … If you’re not coming to me with a warm referral introduction. Occasionally I’ll get a compelling email that grabs my attention that’s a cold email, but am I ever taking action on it? No, because I have no idea who this person is who’s reaching out to me.

No, if I were starting now today, I think absolutely cold-calling is not the way to do it. Even when I started, so I went into production in 2006. That was the beginning of the Do Not Call lists becoming really popular, and people figuring that out. I think that even when I was cold-calling, it probably looking back wasn’t the most effective use of my time.

But, again, I didn’t want to go to my natural market so I was very motivated to make cold-calling work. I don’t know how many hundreds of dials I would make on a daily basis, but we had this whole matrix of how many meetings we had to schedule or how many dials we had to make, and we had to report on the numbers on a weekly basis. I’m also pretty competitive, so I never wanted to walk into that Friday morning meeting looking like a slacker. I made sure that I hit my numbers on a weekly basis.

But, no, I think if I were starting today, cold-calling would not be the way I would market.

Hannah: That’s funny. We’ll talk a little bit more about what you transitioned to away from cold-calling, and what that transition looked like for you, but I’m interested. So you started production in 2006, so 2008 was just two years away, so you hit that in your second or third year of the great recession. What was that like as a young advisor? What did you learn through that process?

Anne: It’s almost inexplicable just how difficult and challenging and chaotic that time was, but I look back at that time, and I’m so grateful for that experience so early on in my career. This was a once in most of our lifetime, hopefully, our lifetime experiences from a recession and a market selloff perspective. I just remember complete and utter chaos and fear. I remember portfolios. From 2006 to the top of 2007, so about a year, every investment I put my clients in had done well. If you looked at Morningstar reports looking back, sure, there were years here and there where things were down. 2001 was obviously a challenging year for the market perspective but, for the most part, things looked really rosy on Morningstar reports.

To answer your question about what I learned, I think first I learned to be very, very sensitive to the downside. I saw in real life how losing money actually hurts more than making money feels good. It’s one of the behavioral finance principles. People do not like that feeling of losing money, and they get really terrified.

The other thing I learned was to help people try to manage their emotions. I had a client during the financial crisis, no joke, every single Friday he would call me, every single Friday, and he would try to convince me of why we needed to sell out of his portfolio and go to cash. And every Friday I would have this conversation with him and I’d walk him off the ledge until the Friday, he would call again and we’d have the conversation.

Learning how to help people deal with the emotional aspect of investing and financial planning was one of the largest takeaways I had from that time. And it’s one of the things that I use on a daily basis still today.

Hannah: When you say that financial planning and you use that on a daily basis, what do you mean? Can you talk a little bit more about that?

Anne: Sure. If you are familiar with behavioral finance, which is this fascinating, relatively new body of research in our industry, it’s basically the difference between logically what we know we should do from a financial perspective and emotionally how we actually end up reacting. If you take a market downturn, for example, especially the worst downturn in any of our lifetimes, logically, you’ve heard a million times before, “Oh, you should buy low and you should sell high.” So if the market’s selling off, you shouldn’t be thinking about selling, you should be thinking about buying.

Logically you know that that’s what you are “supposed” to do, but what happens is, fear and very strong emotions come into play and they make you scared and they make you, or they allow you, if you let them, they allow you to make decisions that are completely the opposite of what you’re supposed to do. It’s helping clients take a step back and take a pause and take a deep breath and assess the situation objectively and try to make educated, logical decisions and try not to make emotional decisions.

Hannah: You go through that experience and were you able to find clients in the market downturn, or were you more just helping your current clients manage that process?

Anne: Actually, it was one of the most amazing client acquisition times of my career, which is maybe counterintuitive, but I think, it’s my opinion that when the market goes down, our client acquisition actually goes up. Right now, you can be a monkey and you can throw a dart at a dartboard, and you can make money. It is not hard to make money in the markets right now. People who are either doing their own investments, they’re do-it-yourselfers, and they’re feeling like, “Oh my gosh. This money management thing, this investment thing is a breeze. I should open a hedge fund, I’m so good.” They feel like they’ve got it because everything is going up.

When the market goes down, you have people who are do-it-yourself investors all of a sudden realizing, “Oh, man. Maybe I should get professional help.” And then you also have people who have been working with their advisor for a while and they’re not so dissatisfied that they’re motivated to make a change, but they’re just blah about the relationship. It’s going to take something like the market selling off and the advisor not returning phone calls or not proactively communicating. It’s going to take something like that to motivate them to make a change.

Back to the financial crisis, you had a combination of clients who were potentially managing their own investments and lost a lot of money. They were maybe fully invested in stocks and lost 38% or so in 2008, or you had people who were dissatisfied with their advisor, but it took something dramatic like a financial crisis to motivate them to make a change. I had amazing client acquisition during that time.

I tell advisors today, I’m looking forward to the next selloff because number one: we can buy things a little bit cheaper than we’re able to get them now and number two: there’s going to be so much money movement, it’s going to be an amazing opportunity from a practice growth perspective as well.

Hannah: I love that perspective. How do we position our companies well? And again, like you said, it all comes back down to client servicing and doing what’s best for our clients.

Anne: It does. It does. It also is about proactively talking to prospective clients right now who may not be motivated to make a change, but you want to be the first call that they make when they are motivated to make a change, for whatever that reason is. You want to make sure that you are in front of them so that when the market sells off or when their advisor screws up for the last time or doesn’t return a phone call, that you’re the first person they think of in your position.

That client may not come over today or tomorrow, but that will be your client in the near future for sure.

Hannah: You’re at Ameriprise. You’re not there anymore. What prompted you to look for other solutions?

Anne: I was at Ameriprise and I think I was there for four years. I felt like I had learned a lot. I’m so grateful to Ameriprise for the foundation that I’d got, for the training. One of the things that I still, to this day, have a model calendar, and I make sure I book time for working on my financial planning cases. I don’t book as much time anymore on the practice growth piece of it, I probably should book more time on that.

I’m grateful to Ameriprise for the foundation that I got, for the training that I got, also for the belief in financial planning, which is something that I still very strongly believe in. I got to a point where I felt like I wanted to see what else was out there, and I wanted to improve my knowledge and my skills on the investment management front. It happened to be that I had been recruited by UBS to move part of my book, not really a ton of my book made sense for me to move over.

I was recruited by UBS and I thought UBS is exactly what I needed to fill the gap in my skills and in my knowledge. They were a super strong global wealth management firm and I actually had been talking to someone over there, as well, about potentially partnering. So I moved from Ameriprise over to UBS and I ended up partnering with this person. We were partners for five years, so that was why I decided to make the move from Ameriprise.

Hannah: Again, like you were saying, it goes back to those relationships and building up those, even professional, relationships.

Anne: Oh yeah.

Hannah: Were you able to take a lot of your clients from Ameriprise? Had a lot of your clients followed you through the various transitions that you’ve made?

Anne: They have. That’s another thing I’m eternally grateful to them for. I didn’t invite everybody to come with me from Ameriprise to UBS just because it didn’t make a lot of sense just based on what I was doing for specific clients. But the majority of clients who I had asked to come with me from firm to firm have graciously done that.

That’s a big thing to ask a client to do, to repaper their account, and to lose all the history from the old firm. I realize that it’s a large commitment that they’re making, but I’m very grateful to say that most clients have come with me. Even when I went independent from UBS and then switched broker dealers, the majority of them have followed me.

Hannah: I’ve had a lot of questions lately on what advice would you give when you’re making that move, bout managing your client relationships? I see that as you’ve made these transitions, what did you do well or what would be your advice to somebody looking to make those transitions with clients?

Anne: I think that even before you are deciding to make a move, it’s really important that you sell yourself versus you selling the company that you represent. When I was at Ameriprise, I don’t think that very many people hired me because of the really cool Ameriprise Financial commercials that were on TV. When I was at UBS, we had a handful of people that worked with UBS because they were international clients and UBS had a super strong international presence, but it was a handful. The majority of people who decided to hire me and work with me, it was because of me and not because of the firm behind me.

I would say to any advisors out there who are even noodling, potentially thinking about making a move in the future, make sure that you consistently reinforce that the value that you bring to the table is not the sign that’s on your building, but it’s you. It’s you as a person. It’s how much you care about that relationship. It’s that you are going to do everything in your power to help those clients reach their financial goals.

I think that’s something that I did pretty well, is I didn’t sell UBS or Ameriprise or Wells, I sold me and what I was bringing to the table. And that’s something that takes a while. You can’t just flip a switch and decide all of a sudden, I’m not going to talk about my firm as much anymore, I’m going to talk about what I bring to the table. But, in my experience, people hire you because of you, they don’t hire you because of the company behind you. I think that that’s something that I did well.

Looking back at what I would have changed, I’d only ended up being at UBS for about a year. So when I got to UBS things started getting really bad again from … this was in 2009. We’d been through a financial crisis at that point but UBS had their own set of unique challenges throughout that time period. So looking back, I would have, instead of going from Ameriprise to UBS, I probably would have gone Ameriprise independent, which is what I ended up doing about a year later anyway. It would have been just one less move that I had to make and that my clients had to make.

So just really being thoughtful about what is your endgame and what is really important to you and what are you trying to do. In hindsight, the person that I decided to partner with and I at the point, the reason we didn’t go independent was all about fear. It was all about being scared that our clients wouldn’t come with us. Looking back I wish that we would have just gone independent, but I’m also a huge believer in not having any regrets. Looking back at every single experience that I’ve had in my life and being able to identify what I can learn from the experience, so I wouldn’t do anything differently, but maybe that’s advice that would be helpful for people who are considering a couple options.

It was way more work that it probably needed to be.

Hannah: Those moves are a lot of work.

Anne: Oh yeah. Oh yeah. They are.

Hannah: I love that comment on fear of … I know for me personally I almost have this … I notice that fear now when they come into decisions and it’s, again, like you’re talking about with clients, about how the behavior finance side of it. Most as a business owner, even if we’re not a business owner, in your career, if you get that sense of you’re doing something because you’re afraid, that’s really a time to pause, step back, and say, “Do I really need to push through this?”

Anne: Yeah, absolutely. And I think looking back on times in your life when you’ve been fearful and you’ve done it anyway, and how that feels, how it turned out. I had a friend recently who’s a business owner who’s actually in the technology space. He told me that every time he feels fearful about a business decision that he’s going to make, he actually gets really excited about it because he can look back in his career. He’s owned his business for over 20 years now. He can look back at his career and every time he’s felt that fear and he’s pushed through it and he’s done it anyway, it’s been the catalyst for the next wave of growth that his company experienced.

So I thought that was a really cool mindset, that when you feel that fear, instead of letting it paralyze you, actually try to channel it into the energy that you need and the motivation that you need to push through, make that decision anyway, and get excited about what is on the other end of that fear.

Hannah: I love that. Some of the best things in life are on the other side of fear.

Anne: Yeah. For sure.

Hannah: You said that you ended up working with a partner, and then now you’re by yourself. You have a staff but you’re not in a partnership relationship anymore, right?

Anne: That is correct.

Hannah: Can I just have you-

Anne: That was another exciting learning experience.

Hannah: Let’s talk about … oh partnerships. Let’s talk about, I don’t know, maybe a case for partnerships and maybe a case against partnerships, not against partnerships but you’ve been through both of those, can you just reflect back on why you went into partnerships? What were the positive things about that? But then, what ultimately led you to back away from a partnership and do it on your own?

Anne: Sure. I think that the idea of a partnership is supposed to be that you bring two people together and one plus one equals three, as opposed to one plus one equaling two. In the partnerships that I’ve seen, the successful partnerships that I’ve seen that are few and far between but they do exist. Great partnerships absolutely exist. The ones that I have observed that are successful, that is absolutely the equation and sometimes one plus one equals four, as opposed to three.

That’s the benefit to having a partnership is we all have strengths and we all have weaknesses, and if you can get really clear on your strengths and also what you really enjoy doing in this business because we all wear lots of hats. If you can really get clear on what is it that you are really exceptional at and what is it that you really enjoy, and you can find someone who complements your weaknesses and their strengths are your weaknesses, then game on. It makes so much sense. That’s, on paper, what I think are some of the benefits of partnerships.

But you’re bringing two human beings together. So there are all sorts of challenges. I was in my partnership for five years. Ultimately, why I decided that it was no longer going to work for me is we had different ideas around how to run and grow the business, so clearly that’s a big deal if you’re running a business with someone, and you have different visions of where you want to take this. So that was a problem.

We also had different, let’s say, levels of commitment to just actually putting in the hours. I was willing to work a lot and hustle a lot and worked long hours. My business partner just was at a different stage in his life where he wasn’t as willing to do that. That was a problem because you build resentment for that person and you feel like, “Oh my gosh. I’m here busting my tail”, and the other person is not meeting you there. That’s challenging. To maintain over a long period of time the same level of commitment and work ethic is challenging.

It ultimately came down to this feeling that I had gotten to a place where I learned a lot from being in that partnership. I can look back now and be grateful for that experience. Again, I wouldn’t do it any differently, but I got to a point where I knew if I wanted to reach my own potential, both personally as well as professionally, I needed to let go and I needed to move forward on my own.

I’m making that sound really easy right now and it’s a very long process. It was definitely very stressful in there. Our split was not the most amicable split. There were a lot of challenges but moving through that and, again, looking back I’m grateful for the experience and I learned a lot.

Now I’m in a place where I’m the only advisor in my practice and I have three people who work with me who have different responsibilities in the practice. I feel really great about my team and the synergies. I feel like for the most part during the day, we’re working on things that we enjoy, and that we’re really good at. We complement each other really well.

One of the things you and I have talked about being a mom in this business. One of the things that was challenging is I just had my second son. He’s eight months old now. When I had my son, I was in a business partnership so when I had the baby, I was able to take more time off. I knew that things were going to get handled at the office. This time around, I have amazing staff who was able to handle almost everything, but at the end of the day, clients want you for some things. That was a unique challenge that I just recently went through.

You get through it, and it’s all worth it, again, all part of the process of learning and growing.

Hannah: A couple questions off of this, another thing that I’m hearing a lot from advisors, or people who are starting out, is that they really have this desire to be on a team, and that’s preventing them from starting their own practice or doing something along those lines because they’re like, “We want that support.” What would you tell that person?

Anne: I actually agree with that. If I were starting out today brand new, I think about this a lot. I wonder, I ask myself, would I go the same path that I went down and based on what I know now, the answer is no. I would absolutely try to team up with a nice, functional, successful team that works well together and I would try to learn as much as I possibly can.

If I felt really strongly about having my own practice in the future and starting that journey, then I would. But I think it makes a lot of sense to join a team, especially if you’re just starting out because there’s so much infrastructure, ideally, hopefully already built there that you can learn a lot and grow a lot from that experience and see where it leads you.

Hannah: You mentioned having two different babies in your time as an advisor. There’s a lot of talk about women in the profession and I know, gosh, we could probably spend a whole, several hours on just that topic-

Anne: Yeah, a whole interview.

Hannah: But I think it’s a really … Looking through having your own business, going on maternity leave, being a mom in the business, and just the expectations that moms have and business owners, can you just reflect on that a bit?

Anne: Yeah.

Hannah: And what would you want women coming into the profession to know?

Anne: One of the things that makes me very sad about our industry is any time I see a report about just how terribly we’re doing as an industry in terms of attracting females into the business. It’s been about the same number for the last three decades and at least the reports that I’ve seen recently don’t look like we’re making any improvements there, and that makes me very sad because in my experience, I think women are really good at this business. We’re empathetic and I think that we’re, for the most part, women have high levels of compassion and integrity. We can really kick butt and take names in this industry, so it makes me very sad that more women don’t get in the industry.

One of the things that I love about this business, and this is more so if you run your own practice than it is if you are an employee, so that’s just a reality. One of the things I love is that you absolutely, once you get to a certain point and you’ve built up a book of business and you’re not having to hustle as much as you did in the beginning, not that you ever stop hustling but you’re not having to hustle as much as you did at the beginning. You manage your own time and you manage your own calendar.

If I know that I have a … My older son is six, he’s in kindergarten now. If I know that he has something going on at school or a field trip or a play or an event, I can book that in my calendar and I’m not seeing any clients during that time. I have full control over what my calendar looks like, when I see clients, when I don’t see clients, if I want to take time off. So that’s a huge benefit, I think, especially, not that it’s less of a benefit for men or for dads, but I think it’s a huge benefit especially for moms as we do get to manage our time, and we can really be there for activities.

You know, kids get sick. Oftentimes even if you have a very hands-on dad, the kids want mommy when they’re sick. We have flexibility to manage our time, which I think is hugely important.

Hannah: For maternity leave with running your business, you said you were in a partnership for the first one and not the second one. Were you able to take time off? And what did that look like for you?

Anne: Yes and no. I’m the type of person who likes to be connected, even when I go on vacation, I like to check my email. I just find that if I completely check out for a week, it just produces more anxiety in me than is worth it. I know some people who absolutely just want to check out and I think that’s awesome. You just have to know what works for you.

For me, when I had my second child, I did not check in, did not check email, had no idea if the office was blowing up for three days, which may not seem like a lot of time, but for me, that was a big deal. I was completely present at home with the baby, with my older son, my husband, my family. I was completely present for those three days. And then I would start, I started checking my email more and checking in more. I did not see anyone, any clients. I did not have any meetings or any conference calls for the first six weeks.

I was at home. I would come into the office here and there, but for the most part, I was at home for those first six weeks. For the next probably month and a half, I would see meetings as need be. So if we had a client who had an emergency and had a time constraint decision they had to make, I would see that meeting. I would take a conference call. I would meet with prospective clients that we were referred to, but we weren’t actively trying to schedule review meetings during that time. It was more just on a one-off basis.

When I came back, it was about three months that I had a modified schedule, let’s say. Then after three months I came back full-time. I got all my reviews in that I should have seen during that time and came back to my normal schedule.

Hannah: Very cool.

Anne: The beauty of technology, I’ll just say, these days, when I had my first son, you couldn’t work remotely as much. He, again, is six years old. We just couldn’t do as much back then. I was with Wells, so there were limitations on what I could do from home. But now, it’s just so great because you can do so much from home. There’s even ways that you can make phone calls and your clients, it looks like you’re calling from the office. There’s just so much more flexibility that we have these days from a technology perspective to leverage if you do need to take extended time off like for having a baby.

Hannah: Or just a sabbatical. It doesn’t have to be just a baby.

Anne: Sorry. What’s that? Could you explain what that … Can you define what a sabbatical is? That sounds amazing.

Hannah: You started your own-

Anne: Yes.

Hannah: You left your partnership. Did you move to LPO or were you guys already at LPO?

Anne: No. We were with Wells. I split my partnership and moved broker dealers all in one fell swoop. You know because why not? If you’re going to have change, just have big change and be done with it.

Hannah: Rip the Band-Aid off.

Anne: Exactly. Yeah.

Hannah: When you moved to LPO, you started your company. Are you branded as, is it Curo Private Wealth?

Anne: Curo Private Wealth. Yes.

Hannah: Can you talk about that name? How you came up with that? Kind-of just the bigger branding of your firm and what you want to be for your clients?

Anne: When I had made the decision that I was going to split up my partnership, and I was going to basically start my own firm and rebrand solo, I really wanted a name that meant something. My business partner and I, when we started our company, it was our last names together, which is fine and that works for a lot of people. But I really wanted my name to mean something. I wanted to be able to tell a story about it and I wanted it to really be impactful.

I started asking clients as I was in the process of making the decision to split the partnership and start my firm. I asked clients a couple of questions. Why did they hire me? What did they like about working with me? Why did they continue to work with me? Why do they stay with me? Because clients are actively making a decision to continue to work with you on an ongoing basis.

I got lots of different answers, but the answer that I really cared kept coming up over and over again. Clients would say, “You know when we met with you, we could just tell that you care about us or you care about what you do or you care about our money and you care about our financial plan and the investments and all that, but you also care about us as people and you care about our family.” Again, the term to care kept coming up over and over again. I thought, “Okay, what can I do with that?” Because that was really the theme that came out of these conversations with clients.

I went on to the Google and I Googled how to say to care in different languages. Curo came up. It’s Latin for to care. I thought, “That is absolutely perfect.” So that’s how I decided on curo. What I want our brand to stand for is exactly that. I don’t want to be all things to all people. I don’t want to work with every single prospective client who comes in the door. And, in fact, gratefully, I’m at a point now where if I don’t feel like there’s a good connection, with the prospective client in that initial meeting, I will graciously let them know that I don’t think we’re a good fit and I will kindly decline the business.

That’s what I want us to be about, is that we care about our clients. We care about everything that we do. We’re completely committed to working with people with whom we feel a great connection, with whom we share values. We want our clients to care about us, too. We want to work with people who appreciate what we do and who listen to our advice, and who are kind and respectful to us as well. That’s what I hope our brand is all about and I work on that on a daily basis to make sure that we are upholding that.

Hannah: I like that. Keeping that culture within your firm, I think that’s such an interesting conversation. How do we keep culture? How do you maintain that culture through your staff and your employees in every interaction?

Anne: Yeah. Absolutely. I think it’s really important initially before you even hire anyone to do a good job of assessing that, those values. Because people will say a lot of things in an interview, but it’s important to make sure that you are hiring people that will not only say what you want to hear in an initial interview, but will live your culture every single day in the interactions they have with your clients.

Hannah: How many staff members do you have now?

Anne: Three.

Hannah: Three staff members. Very, very cool. How many clients do you have?

Anne: We have about 100 households right now.

Hannah: Oh that’s great. What’s next for you? Are you looking to grow your practice? Are you interested in other endeavors? What does the future hold for you?

Anne: I am definitely always looking to grow the practice. I was told by a mentor early on in the business that you’re either growing in this business or you’re dying. I don’t want to die, so I’m going to continue to grow. But I want to grow in the right way. As I said, I’m very committed to making sure that we bring on clients who share our values and who appreciate what we do and with whom we feel a great connection. I want to grow, not just for the sake of growing, but I want to grow those types of clients that we’re looking to work for.

Definitely growth is on the horizon. I think in the near future I’d like to bring on an associate financial advisor who can be the relationship manager for a number of our clients and also help with growing our business. The way that I see this working is we have an investment minimum right now, and I’d actually like to bring that down but would like for the associate advisor to be able to be the lead relationship manager with those clients. I’d like to be able to work with more people, and I feel like if I have that associate advisor we would be able to work with and help more people, which is exciting.

Then I’m also potentially interested if the right opportunity came my way, in practice acquisition. I think that there is so much opportunity in our industry. I think the average age of a financial advisor in the US right now is around 60, so there are a lot of advisors who are looking to retire, and I absolutely would be open acquiring a practice or two if we found the right one. That would be a growth goal over the next probably five years or so.

Hannah: Looking at new planners, what would be your main piece of advice for people who are entering the profession today?

Anne: I guess it would depend on their role. If their role was to find clients, I would pass on the same advice that I got, which is if you’re sitting behind your computer or behind a book all day or trying to learn everything that you possibly need to learn before you put yourself out there, don’t do that. You’re never going to make it if you don’t put yourself out there and you don’t try to find clients.

If your role is not really trying to find clients, and is not really more of a business development role where you’re doing the work, I would say to constantly be networking. Join a financial planning association, XYPN, if you can do that. Join organizations that are near you so that you can network with colleagues and potentially people who can offer you opportunities in the future. But put yourself out there and develop those relationships even if they can’t do anything or you can’t do anything for them today. You never know where those relationships will lead you.

Networking, which is not something we’ve talked about, but networking has hugely beneficial for me and my practice. One of the things that I did when I was cold-calling and hating it the first few years is I laid out what I wanted my intermediate term and my long-term marketing strategies to look like. I knew that I had to cold-call to make it and to hit my numbers and to not get fired. So I had to keep cold-calling even though I despised it. But I knew that one day I wouldn’t have to do the cold-calling, so I wanted to be really clear on what those intermediate and long-term marketing strategies looked like.

For me, networking was a huge one. I, right away, started trying to build relationships with CPAs and attorneys and I joined a VNI group. I knew that those relationships wouldn’t pay off right away but 50% of our new business every single year comes from centers of influence. It comes from CPAs and attorneys and real estate agents and loan officers and roughly 50% of our new business comes from client referrals.

I would just network and try to build those relationships as early as you possibly can.

Hannah: It’s really interesting. You talked about your marketing plan, your short-term, medium-term, and then long-term marketing plan. So your short-term was the cold-calling, medium-term, was that the networking? And what would be the long-term?

Anne: My short-term was the cold-calling and those lunch presentations I mentioned, which was very much an Ameriprise thing. It was called Lunch and Learns. That was my short-term. My intermediate-term was more of the networking. It was also speaking engagements. I really enjoy speaking and so I wanted that to become more a part of my intermediate-term. Then longer-term was more media.

One of the things I started doing is I tried to get more TV interviews. I was actually on a show that we had in DC called Washington Business Report. I was on quarterly just talking about the outlook of the markets and the economy and that was really fun until the station got acquired by a national TV company and they weren’t as interested in the micro DC assessment, so they canceled that show unfortunately.

The intermediate and long-term is networking and potentially more media opportunities as well as practice acquisition.

Hannah: Great. Well, thank you for joining us, Anne.

Anne: Thank you for having me, Hannah. It’s been a pleasure.

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Anne McCabe Triana, CFP®, CRPC®, has been in the financial services industry for over ten years. Her experience as a financial planner in a larger firm, as well as with starting her own financial planning firm, Anne McCabe Triana, CFP®, CRPC®, has been in the financial services profession for over ten years. Having started straight out of school and having to immediately find her own clients, she shares what she learned through that experience and what she learned in that process. Her experience as a financial planner in a larger firm, as well as with starting her own financial planning firm, has taught her much about the financial planning process and about being a business owner.
In her practice today, Anne looks at the behavioral aspect of financial planning with her clients. Understanding the emotions that play into personal finance, and how to navigate clients through tough economic times, has been a critical component to her business’s success. Anne shares how she came up with her company name, Curo, and how important truly caring for her clients has been in building strong client relationships.
Over the course of this #YAFPNW episode, we’re going to talk about the evolution of running a financial planning firm, how “down” markets might actually be better for business, and how to provide the best experience to your clients.

What You’ll Learn:

How to know you’re ready to transition to business ownership
Ways to improve your client’s experience
How to draw from your past experiences moving into unknown financial planning territory
Why you should always be adding value to the lives of your prospects – even if they’re not ready to sign on with you right now
How behavioral finance plays into your financial planning
Why a “down” market may be better for your financial planning business
How to navigate client emotions when dealing with money
How to manage client relationships when transitioning to a new role within your firm or because you’re starting a new practice
How to reinforce that YOU are the value when working with your clients
How your marketing plan can and should change as your business matures.


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Telling Your Advisor Story Tue, 10 Apr 2018 18:01:13 +0000 0 Adam Kornegay, of Pathfinder Strategic Solutions and one of the people behind FPA’s new Coaches Corner, wants to help advisors communicate their value and move past the financial “lingo” to tell their story and actually connect with their ideal clients. Adam Kornegay, of Pathfinder Strategic Solutions and one of the people behind FPA’s new Coaches Corner, wants to help advisors communicate their value and move past the financial “lingo” to tell their story and actually connect with their ideal clients.

The way he sees it – you have the potential to add real value to the lives of your clients. The sooner you can start marketing yourself and your practice in a way that helps them connect with you on a personal level, the sooner you can start helping them and making an impact.

In this episode, Adam is going to go over the five key elements of telling your story as a financial planner, how to find your niche market, and ways you can start tweaking your marketing and communication today to better connect with your current and prospective clients.

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You need to be able to tell your story to everyone you talk to, because chances are good that they are going to be connected to somebody who is in your niche. -Adam Kornegay

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What You’ll Learn:

  • How to get involved with FPA’s Coaches Corner
  • The ways that your communication is pushing clients and prospects away from you.
  • How to avoid industry jargon in your marketing
  • Words to use that open the door for an honest, valuable connection with your clients
  • How marketing and communication can help you build long-term client relationships
  • How to define your niche market
  • The five key elements to telling your advisor story
  • The best way to articulate the value you bring to the table


Exactly What to Say






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Ep93 Transcript

Hannah: Well thanks for joining us today, Adam.

Adam: Thank you Hannah. Glad to be here.

Hannah: So I have heard your name in lots of financial planning circles for the various coaching that you do for financial advisors. And the FPA just opened up their Coaches Corner program and you are one of the coaches, you and Susan are one of the coaches for marketing.

Adam: Mm-hmm (affirmative)

Hannah: And so, we are excited to have you on here to kind of pick your brain some more about marketing and what we can do as young planners to really – I don’t want to say be good at marketing, but essentially be good at marketing.

Adam: Absolutely. Yeah, The Coaches Corner, it’s pretty fantastic. It’s really a pleasure to be a part of it and for those of you that are just now learning about it, it’s simply C O A C H E S corner and there’s 6 different coaches with a variety of experiences and specialties that are available exclusively for FPA members.

Hannah: So, pretty cool stuff. I know I’ve been spoiled and looked at some of it and was like, “Oh. That’s helpful for me in my practice.”

Adam: Mm-hmm (affirmative) Good.

Hannah: So, let’s talk about young planners and really when it comes down to marketing. So we have, I mean, there’s lots of different groups of young planners, but we have you know the planners who are starting their firms, and then we have planners who are working for somebody and not sure that they ever want to start their own firm, but they really do love financial planning, whatever that looks like for them. But that underlying idea of marketing. What would be your advice to both of those groups, or what do young planners need to like, fundamentally` understand about marketing in order to be good at financial planning?

Adam: That’s a great question, and you know, it’s interesting. So my background is in marketing and that’s what I got my degree in, and for a lot of people they think marketing as simply advertising. I remember when I was choosing my career that’s, everyone thought, “Oh marketing. That’s the same as advertising, right?” And it’s really not. You know, there’s – we’ll test my knowledge here but there are the 4 P’s of marketing and it all relates to what is the client, or the individuals needs and what is it that the advisor or the sales person or what have you, what are they doing to meet those overall needs?

And what’s great about the planning profession of course, is that there’s – we’re doing such a great job now, especially compared to how the industry used to be, in terms of meeting those needs. It’s pretty fantastic. I’ve been in the industry, in fact my mother was an advisor when I was in grade school, so I’ve been around it pretty much all my life and it’s been fun to kind of watch and see how it’s changed. And now we’re doing such a good job of focusing on people’s goals and really providing the right value, but sometimes we get away from finding out a good way to articulate that value to our prospects, and for that matter our clients as well, so they can see it.

It’s an intangible, and selling something that’s invisible or intangible, makes life a little bit difficult. So we really have to work at, “How can I communicate the value of what I do,” or “How can I tell the story to virtually anyone that I speak with?”

Hannah: I always get sucked into watching those silly, you know, Facebook ad videos that you know, show some kitchen gadget or whatever and you’re like, “Oh!” You immediately see that, but you don’t get that with financial planning and telling that.

So, how do you tell that story of financial planning to people that really resonates with? I mean my gosh, our clients, but also like our family and friends who don’t really understand what we do?

Adam: So yeah. That’s a great way to talk about it, and you know one of the things I’ve always believed, and my company Pathfinder truly believes this, is you always need to examine what you do through the perspective of the client. So what’s that lens that you want to be looking through?

And so when it comes to telling your story, there are really 5 elements to consider, and I can spend a little time, and I’ll walk you through each of those 5 elements and kind of, hopefully provide a couple of examples of how this works.

So let’s say I’m talking to you Hannah, and I want to tell my story. I want to tell you a little bit more about me, what my practice does. The very first thing that I want to start with, is I want to make a connection with you. I want you to feel like, “Oh, he gets me. He understands me.” And so the way to do that is start by talking about your existing clients. And there’s lots of different ways to do that. So, one of the easiest ways to say is, “My typical client looks like this,” and so they’re retirees or they’re approaching retirement or they’re well into their retirement or maybe they’re corporate executives or whatever your particular market is. So that’s one way to do it.

But then you also can get into, “Let me tell you what their life is like.” And sometimes you can use words that are probably universal, but don’t necessarily sound universal. They don’t sound universal to the people that are hearing them. So let me give you an example. So I could say to you Hannah, “Like most of my clients, you are smart, busy and successful.” Now as soon as I say that to you, you probably start to think, “That’s right! That’s me!” You know? And it’s like, well who doesn’t want to be thought of as smart, busy and successful? So already I’m starting to make that connection with you where you feel like, “Oh yeah! Adam, he gets me. I like this.” And then I can go on and talk about you know, something about families or professionals or entrepreneurs. I can talk about you know, what’s important to you. What some of your personal goals are. But by drawing this picture of what my ideal client or my typical client looks like, you’re going to start to see that and you’re going to say, “Oh, I fit there. That’s a good spot for me. That looks just like me.”

So the second part, of course, is then you want to kind of speak to your perspective clients specific concerns and challenges. And one of the best ways to do that is through the form of questions. And you want to ask questions the same way your clients would express them. So, let’s say for you, I could say you know, “For a lot of my clients, some of the concerns that they have and some of the questions you may be thinking of yourself is, what is my retirement going to look like? When am I going to be able to retire? How much money can I spend in retirement if retirement is a big focus for you.” You want to be able to start laying out those questions, so that the prospect hears that and thinks to themselves, “Gosh. You read my mind. Those are absolutely the same questions I’ve been having up here. In fact, you even named a couple of questions I hadn’t even thought of yet.”

Hannah: Yeah, so you’re saying we need to like, basically give words to what’s going on in our clients head because we know people like them.

Adam: Exactly. And think about how different that is from a lot of what financial advisors do. I was looking at somebody’s website the other day, and I saw you know, kind of that laundry list of products and services that they’re offering, their offerings or their services. And one of them, was risk management services. And I guarantee you Hannah, there’s no one walking around out on the street and says, “Gosh. I need some help managing my risks.” No one` talks like that. But advisors will think, you know they put that on their website and think, “If I say risk management people are going to know what that means.” Talk in real life terms. Talk about the sorts of questions that they honestly have been asking themselves.

Hannah: So, that’s interesting, because I see that again, like on a lot of websites where you know, we say like, “Here’s what we do. Like here’s what our process is, you know, risk management.” So what would be another way of saying risk management?

Adam: Another way of talking about that question is how do I know that the investments are right for me. Or how do I know my investments are on track to help me meet my goals. Or, what am I missing out on when it comes to my investments? Or,

Hannah: So,

Adam: Go ahead.

Hannah: Oh no, I was going to say, this is where I think career changers or people new to the profession have sent, I forget what we call them, but like, we know too many of the words and so it’s hard for us to communicate in those ways.

Adam: Yeah!

Hannah: I know my assistant who was not in financial planning or financial services, she just naturally explains things better than I do.

Adam: Mm-hmm (affirmative)

Hannah: Because again, she can just use those words. Like I get so stuck in this lingo. And so she has to edit, she edits it out. She’s like, “I don’t understand what this means.” And it’s like, such a valuable perspective.

Adam: And so it begs an interesting question, so do you use those words – there’s probably 2 reasons why you use those, the 50 cent words. One is, that you are wanting to come across as very knowledgeable about your particular topic, or two, you just kind of got into it and forgot that no one else understands what that is.

Hannah: I hope it’s not the first, but maybe. I mean,

Adam: I hope it’s not the first one either, but I’ll tell you, that’s what a lot of people do, right? Because they think, “Hey, I need to use these big sentences, or these big words because that’s going to show how smart I am.” A lot of times we’re doing it subconsciously, but it ends up happening. It’s so easy to do.

Acronyms of course are the worst. You know, we throw out acronyms a lot and we just assume that the other person knows what it is, and we may not. I’m sorry, we would, but the other person doesn’t.

Hannah: It’s almost like I need like one of those like taboo buzzers in the meetings with clients. Like, “You should just hit this.” Or in my office even.

Adam: Yeah! Well, better yet, what you need to do is you need to give it to your assistant, and she’ll just sit outside your office and every time she hears you do it she’ll just, she’ll press the button or maybe have it connected to red light that flashes when you start to use it.

Hannah: Oh that’s great. Well one of the other things I’ve done, so like I have a pretty detailed client persona in my own practice of who I work with. I have quotes, of what they’ve said.

Adam: Hmm.

Hannah: So if they ever say anything that’s like, really spot on, I go and add that to my client persona, because it just reminds me of how they talk, how my clients talk.

Adam: It really is kind of really trying to put yourself into their shoes. And realize too that there’s a big element of fear and uncertainty with them when they’re sitting down with you. They don’t want to feel like they don’t know what they’re doing, and so a lot of times, you can talk to them about a particular concept and they’re not going to raise their hand and say, “I have no idea what you just said.”

Hannah: Right.

Adam: You know, they’re going to kind of keep that to themselves. So it’s incumbent upon you, or incumbent upon the advisor to say, “Well let me make sure I’m breaking that down. And I want to explain this again, because I worry if I don’t explain this well you’re going to walk out of here and you’re not going to be able to explain it. You’re not going to be able to understand it.”

Hannah: You know, it’s so interesting, we talk about marketing so much in terms of finding new clients and you know, kind of the pizzazz around that. But really, what this is sounding like is good client communication and good client servicing. And it doesn’t matter if you have your own firm or not. Like, if we can figure out how to talk our clients language, I mean you’re going to be set.

Adam: Yeah! Yeah, absolutely. Another thing we’ve always believed at Pathfinder is, everything that you say and do, as well as everything that you don’t say or do, conveys a message, and make sure it’s the message that you want to convey. And, you know, Susan, my mother and my partner, she’s both my mother and my partner. She and I are always finding instances where, “Oh gosh, if you changed this little phrase, all of a sudden it makes a ton of difference.”

So for example, let’s say I’m talking to you Hannah, about introducing the concept of you know referrals. And I will say something to you like, “Hannah, if you run across somebody who could benefit from these services, will you call me?” And will, is a carefully chosen word, because “will”, that’s indicating a promise. You will call me, as opposed to “would”. And would is much more hypothetical. And so even just that tiny little word, a “will” versus a “would”, starts to make a real big difference in somebody’s mind.

There’s a real good book out there, it’s called, what’s it called? It is called, “Exactly What To Say” and the author’s name is Phil M. Jones. And it’s like 100 page, 150 pages total, and it’s filled with all kinds of little nuggets like that. So for example, you know one really easy way to start a conversation with somebody is to say, “I’m not sure if it’s for you, but,” and when you start a conversation like that, “I’m not sure if it’s for you,” that right then and there, kind of takes some of that pressure off. “Okay, I’m not sure if it’s for you,” so they’re picking up on the message of, “Oh okay. Well then, no pressure here.” And then you throw that but in, and as soon as you throw the but in, their brain’s going to flip and say, “Oh there actually is something here that I need to pay attention to.”

It’s little things like that, but it’s incredibly important, those words we choose to use.

Hannah: You know it’s, there’s such a fine line. You know we hear people talk about things like this and it’s a fine line between doing what’s right for the client and then using manipulation. So can you speak to that a little bit because I mean I know, I mean my gosh, I know some of the people who are listening to this podcast are working for people who might not respect or see them use kind of these, little nuances and tools in a, maybe not positive way.

Adam: Yeah. Absolutely. And so, like I said a few minutes ago, it all starts and ends with the clients. And for a lot of the advisors that I work with, I help them think through, what’s a good metaphor to use? So a real easy metaphor to use for the advisor, is of a lifeguard. So if you look out there and Hannah, you know this really, really well, there is a ton of people that could use the help of a financial planner. A bunch of them.

The problem is they don’t always realize it. Now you think about it from the metaphor of a lifeguard, there are people around you that are drowning. They need your help. But what happens when a lifeguard try’s to rescue somebody that’s drowning? They kind of kick against them a little bit. Right? They’re not used to it. And, if you start with that mindset of, look this person needs my help and I need to figure out ways that they can truly benefit from my help, to me that’s okay. You’re not trying to say, “Look you know, I’m trying to push you into the water and do something that you don’t want to do that’s not good for you. I’m trying to rescue you here.”

Another one of my younger clients, I was talking to him about this concept, and he actually used the metaphor of Neo from the Matrix.

Hannah: Nice.

Adam: So as you recall, right, so everyone in the Matrix, they’re, man it’s been forever since I’ve seen it but, everyone in the Matrix, they’re all plugged in right? They’re in those little pods and they’re plugged in. And so he saw himself as the person that went from person to person, and unplugged them from the Matrix, showed them the better way, “Here is a better way for you to do things, and now I’m showing it to you. At this point it’s kind of up to you if you want to come with me and whatever it was, take the red pill or the blue pill, and if not that’s okay. I’m going to plug you back in but then I’m going to go to the next person.”

Hannah: Yeah. You know it’s one of those, you know when you have somebody come into your office and even, again family and friends and whatever it could be, but it’s like when I talk to them, it’s not so much that I want them to work with me, I mean, a lot of people I would like to work with me, but it’s this idea of I hope that what I communicate is you need financial planning. So even if it’s not with me, like that’s what I really like selling people on because I truly believe that there is this power in financial planning that can really make that much of a difference in a client’s life and in their lives.

Adam: Mm-hmm (affirmative) Yeah, and so if you’re approaching, say a friend, and friends and family, it’s tricky for everyone, right? Because you don’t want to feel like I’m trading off on our friendship or our familiar relationship and kind of twisting the screws there. And that’s where you can just back off a little bit.

And so if Hannah you were my cousin, I might say to you at some point, “Hey Hannah, can I put my business hat on for just a second? You know, I got to tell you, one of the things that I’ve very consistently seen with people in XYZ situation, and then I would describe whatever situation that would approximate where you are, one of the things I’ve seen for a lot of people is that they think that they are too young to work with a financial planner or they don’t have enough assets to work with a financial planner, or they don’t have time to work with a financial planner. And I see that a lot and honestly it’s something that sometimes is concerning to me, so I felt like I almost owed it to you to at least bring that topic up. If you ever want to sit down, I would love to be able to do so. If not, or if you don’t feel comfortable sitting down with me because we’re cousins, I can give you the name of another advisor in the area who would love to, who would absolutely love to work with you.

Hannah: We’re talking through 5 elements. I’m sure this is going to come up to, a lot of it is who do you want to work with?

Adam: Mm-hmm (affirmative)

Hannah: Because I know like, for myself like most, my natural market, like my natural friends and family don’t fit with my ideal client. So, I’m not trying to get my family or friends to become clients.

Adam: It makes it easier, right?

Hannah: Oh yeah. It’s great. They actually, come to me I think, maybe a little bit more than I would expect.

Adam: Yeah. And this is actually a good transition back into the concept of telling your story. Because even if you have friends and family that don’t fit into your niche market, you should still be able to articulate to them what the value that you provide to your clients is.

So in other words you should be able to talk to your brother, your sister, your aunt or uncle, what have you, about here’s the sorts of clients that I work with. So let me tell you what they look like. Let me tell you about some of the questions that they typically have, so they can start to see, “Okay. You know what? I know somebody like that. I have to introduce them to Hannah, because I bet they could really benefit from working with Hannah.”

You need to be able to tell your story, in other words to everyone that you talk to, because there’s a decent chance that they are going to be connected to somebody who is in your niche.

Hannah: Mm-hmm (affirmative)

Adam: So let’s go back for a second. Let’s talk through where we’re at.

So the first one is simply create a connection with your perspective clients. You want the prospect to feel like “you get me.” That’s number one.

Number two is you want to speak to their specific concerns and challenges, and this is in the form of questions. You want the prospect to feel like, “Gosh. You read my mind.”

The third then comes to demonstrate how you can help. In other words this is your chance to say, “Let me show you what I do.” And the more thoughtful and deliberate you can make that, the better off that you are.

So typically for most planners it’s going to be taking the prospect through the planning process. So we start with this, then we do this, we typically look at that and just kind of walk them through, because they want to see, “Okay. How is it this person works? What does their process look like?”

Hannah: You mean it’s not all just like long walks on the beach, like the commercials?

Adam: No, no. Unfortunately not. Yeah, I mean but that’s where you roll up the sleeves, right? And this is your chance in part to show some of your expertise. And so if I’m hearing the message from you Hannah, I would want to hear, you know, “These are the questions I ask, this is what my typical process looks like, this is what you’re going to receive in the end, this is a little more of the nuts and bolts that go along with it.”

Hannah: Right.

Adam: So then the fourth step, is you want to be able to describe your key differentiators. And so in other words, this is where you’re saying, “Here’s how I am different.” And when you’re talking about your differentiators, it’s usually a little bit more about the how you do something, than the what. The what ends up a lot of times being somewhat universal. I mean there’s only kind of so many different ways to slice it, but it’s more about how you do it. So it could relate to your background, to your experience, to your philosophy, it could be that the way you communicate with people, it could be a part of your niche. It could be a lot of different things.

Hannah: So let’s talk about that. Like, in your experience working with advisors, like what are some of the key differentiators that really stand out to you?

Adam: Well first and foremost, probably the biggest thing is when you can speak to a specific niche. Being able to say, “Look. This is specifically the area in which I focus and you’re not going to find anyone that’s more knowledgeable about this particular area than me.” That’s huge. A lot of advisors out there are generalists. And generalists are good, it’s good to be able to have a generalist, but generally speaking, if you pardon the pun, there’s nothing about them that stands out.

So in other words it’s almost like if you think – I often think about a differentiator as something for people to grab onto like a handle, like a rough edge or something that’s not so smooth and plain that nothing leaps out. So it could simply be, you know you’ve got a specific area of specialty that you work with. It could be that you have adjusted your discovery meeting process to make it incredibly easy to work with, so that you’ve spent a lot of time working in behavioral management, behavioral economics. There’s a lot of questions that you’ve` specifically designed that are very, very different from people.

Other things that you could do, is you could talk about how if you are a virtual advisor, for example. So most advisors they’ll typically have you come into their office once a quarter. My approach is say, “Hey, I a little different here. I don’t want to take up your time. It’s easiest for me if we just simply get on the phone or get on, do a quick Skype call and we’ll talk everything through.” It could be any number of different things and each person is a little bit different, so it’s hard to say, “Oh, here’s a universal differentiator,” because there isn’t a universal differentiator. Everyone’s story is a little bit more unique.

Hannah: Gosh. I talk to so many young planners and I’ll raise my hand and be like, “I, was slash am this advisor, where you’re just itching to get out and start your own firm or to work with your own clients or be that lead advisor.” And I think what’s really cool about what you’re saying here is that time when you’re under somebody or you’re working with clients, like that is such a great time to be honing all of this. To be figuring out who do you work best with? What are the messaging? What makes you different? Like, what makes you different from the other advisors in the firm? Because even if you’re in an office of you know, 20, 30, 50 people, like what makes you special? Because that’s really valuable if you can identify that.

Adam: It is. And probably it’s one of the hardest things to sometimes come up with, because we lack that perspective on ourselves. Especially you know, the younger we are, the less perspective that we have. So if you’re a planner in your 20’s, I mean you’ve got half the life experience as somebody in their 40’s does. And so it’s harder sometimes to really pull those differentiators out, so one of the things you can do is just ask people.

Hannah: Mm-hmm (affirmative)

Adam: You know, talk to your family members. Talk to your friends. Talk to your clients. Talk to the other people in your firm if you’re not out on your own, and say, “Tell me what’s different about me? What do you remember about me? What makes me unique?” And have them share that, and then once you start to see it, you can craft that story for yourself. Well look, here’s something about me that’s really, really different. You’re not going to find anyone who’s more X than me, whatever X may be.

Hannah: Yep. That makes a lot of sense.

Adam: And then I think the other thing too when it comes to talking about your differentiator, or differentiators, if it’s plural, it’s really helpful to set it up with a contrasting statement. So in other words, most advisors will do X, but my approach is to do Y. Because if all you do is you start with that second half, my approach is to do Y, the prospects going to hear that and they’re not going to know that that’s different from anybody else. So the more that you can pull that out, “Most people do this, but I do that.” “A lot of people will typically take this approach, my approach is a little bit different. I look like that.” And again, that’s giving the prospect something to grab onto. They can say, “Oh okay. I get it. I understand why Hannah is different in this regard.”

Hannah: You know, you were saying this and one example I’ve used with a number of clients, again that kind of contrasting element, is you know a lot of financial planners, you know they take all of your information, and then they give you this nice big binder that you take home and you’re supposed to implement and then you put it on your shelf and you never look at it again. And it’s funny because clients who really, that resonates with, I mean they’re nodding, they’re laughing, they’re like “Oh, we have one or two of those already.”

Like you’re saying, it’s telling their story.

Adam: Yeah.

Hannah: In a way.

Adam: Okay, so how do you prevent your plan from going on the shelf with the other ones?

Hannah: So I say we implement it throughout the process.

Adam: Okay.

Hannah: So we have 6 different meetings and so between meetings clients have action plans and I have action plans and so at the end of our 6th meetings, we have a fully completed financial plan, instead of just a starting point.

Adam: Ah, there you go. Perfect. Right? So now I’m hearing that, if I’m the prospect I’m like, “Oh. Okay.” So it’s not simply like a one and done, stick it on the shelf good luck, but it’s “I’m going to keep working through you. This is a living document that we’re going to be working on together. And it’s not you sitting over here and me sitting over here, it’s us sitting side by side and working on it.”

Hannah: And making progress. Like we want to see progress, throughout the process.

Adam: Exactly.

So then the fifth part of telling your story is simply providing next steps. And so that’s where both of you say, “Okay. What’s next?” And you want the prospect to really visualize that and see and understand, if I say yes or if I agree, here’s what’s going to happen now. It’s that call to action sometimes that you’ll hear about. So what goes next? If you’re talking to the perspective client through your website? Okay, what are they do next? What happens next? Do you get together for a, kind of a introductory conversation? Are you going to jump straight into the discovery meeting? What is it that you’re going to do?

But what you’re trying to do there is make it very clear. It’s like you have a big, red arrow pointing at, “Here’s what happens next”. Because one, it’s going to give them a sense of direction, here’s what I’m going to do next. And then second, it’s going to give them a sense of comfort too, knowing that here is the path that you need to start going down.

Hannah: Because we all want that direction, right?

Adam: We do. We do. You know, it’s amazing. Our brains are so jammed full of stuff, that people often take the easy route. Because if you say, “Go this way,” okay great. We’ll go this way. It’s easier.

And parts, honestly, our brains are set up that way. If we had to rethink every single decision in our lives, nothing would ever get accomplished. We have routines and we just kind of go along until we find a better path to go, and then off we go.

Hannah: You know I was listening to a talk from years ago about how to help client anxiety, when they come into your office. You know, and they say like most people would rather go to the dentist, which I hate the dentist, but they’d rather go to the dentist than go to my office. And I was like, “Oh my gosh.” And the example that they gave was, you know if you go to the dentist and you just, you don’t know what’s next. And you have no idea and so you’re completely tense, the whole time you’re there because, when does the drill come out?

You know and so like one of the things they were saying you know in this presentation was, you know when clients come in, you know, tell them what’s going to happen in the meeting. Like let them just be able to breathe and they can kind of know where they’re at in the meeting. And that’s what you’re saying, it’s again that same psychological like need that we have to just know the direction, know the path that we’re going to go on.

Adam: Yeah, absolutely. And even when you’re like giving a, let’s say you’re giving a speech or you’ve get something that’s fairly lengthy that you’re explaining to somebody, having things that are numbered, makes a huge difference. We did that right here right?

Hannah: Yeah.

Adam: I said there were 5 steps to being able to tell your story. So people are listening in on this podcast and they’re, okay. Well they know I’m at step 3 or I’m at step 4 or I’m at step 5, so they have a general gauge of where they’re going to be at. I’ll tell you what, you know on that point about making it easier and reducing the anxiety for people coming in, that’s where visuals can help out a ton too. You know, where you’ve got – you know, here’s a picture of what our office looks like. The first person you’re going to see when you walk in is Dave, here’s a picture of what Dave looks like, and helping them kind of visualize, “Yeah. This is what’s going to happen when I’m going to walk in.” Makes things so much more comfortable.

Hannah: That’s a great tip.

Adam: So one of the other questions that I’m often asked is, can you give me some guidance on niche markets? I call them niche markets. Some people call them a niche market, but to me it sounds better if you call it a niche market, right? And they often wonder, “How do I know that I’ve got a good niche market? It seems so counterintuitive, especially when early in my career I’m trying to gather as many clients as I possibly can. Why on earth would I want to reduce my overall market? Why not keep it super wide, because that’s going to allow me to get more things done, right? And talk to more people.

And so for niche marketing, it’s really more of a question of focus. And it’s a question of focus both for you, as well as for your prospects and clients. So if you have a very specific area that you’re going after, it allows you to kind of shut out some of the other stuff that’s going on around you. So let’s say for example, I am going after corporate executives, that’s my niche market. Well I am going to become an absolute expert in working with corporate executives. And retirement’s a part of it, yeah, but I don’t necessarily have to be an expert at that. 529 plans, don’t need to know a lot about that, but I’m going to be super narrowly focused there.

So it’s good for you, right? Also too, from your marketing efforts, it allows you to be very hyper focused. You’re going to use a lot of LinkedIn, you’re going to do a lot of corporate searches, etc. But also too, it gives focus to the people that are working with you. So, if I’m a corporate executive and I have a financial advisor who I know specializes in working with corporate executives, that’s how I’m going to refer to them. “Oh you know what, you really need to talk to Joe, because Joe specializes in working with corporate executives. It gives everyone the big R, the referral that people are looking for, because they know, kind of how to, I don’t want to say pigeon hole you, but they know how to label you as opposed to, “Oh, work with Joe. He’s a really good financial advisor,” “Work with Joe. He’s a financial advisor who specializes in this particular area.”

Hannah: How do you see people pick their niche markets?

Adam: That’s a great question. Let me start with what people often do and the problem with that. What a lot of people will do, is they will solely focus on something that they enjoy doing. It’s almost more like networking as opposed to a niche. So, let’s go with tennis enthusiasts, right? So my niche market is going to be tennis enthusiasts because I like playing tennis and I go out and play tennis at my local club etc. Well that’s good, but tennis enthusiasts, they run gamut, right? You’ve got young tennis enthusiasts, you’ve got old tennis enthusiasts. Young tennis enthusiasts, they have one set of needs and challenges. Older tennis enthusiasts, they need others. And so they can kind of sometimes miss out on things because they’re not, they don’t have that right overall level of focus.

So to me there’s kind of three things that you should look at to know, do I have a good niche market? Let me take you through each one.

So the first one is it’s all about the people or the potential of that niche market. So the question that you want to ask yourself is, are there enough people in this niche and do the people in the niche have sufficient means to be an ideal client for me? So one way to kind of do a rule of thumb on it, is pick a number. 20%. If 20% of the people in that niche hire me, is that going to be enough for me to have a successful practice? So let’s say if your niche is 55 year old vascular surgeons in Podunk Iowa who went to Villanova. You know what? There’s only one person. So if you don’t get that one person as a client, you’re out of luck. And even if you did get them as a client, you’re not going to be able to build a business around it. So it’s got to be wide, but you also can’t go too wide.

So in other words, it always cracks me up when people, I ask somebody, “Well what’s your niche market?” And they will say, “Women.” It’s just like, come on. Women isn’t even a minority in our country. It’s a majority. And think about all the different types of women that are out there. Women executives, women restarting their career, women that are taking over the finances of the family for the first time.

So the first thing you want to consider is okay, you know what does the size of this niche look like and are there enough people in the niche that I can make a profitable practice around it?

Hannah: Right.

Adam: Second, do you have an affinity with the people in that niche? So in other words, do you have a genuine connection with the people in the niche? So, this is something that you either kind of naturally have, so say for example if you are a, let’s say you’re a widow or a widower yourself. Well that’s a great kind of natural niche for you, because you’ve experienced what life is like after losing a spouse, so you can talk to that. But it’s also something that you can learn. So, you can do a lot of research into the characteristics of somebody that has lost a spouse and dig into that a little bit more.

So you want to make sure though that it’s genuine. You can’t say I’m going to go after, oh I don’t know, corporate executives if you really don’t like corporate America. Probably not a good fit for you, right? So go after something that is naturally going to pull you towards that niche.

Then the third one, and the third one is probably the biggest one, which is that they need to have a common set of challenges that you are well positioned to help solve. And this kind of goes back to what we were talking about a minute ago with telling your story. What are the questions that the people within that niche are asking and am I an expert or can I position myself as an expert in that particular area?

And the reason all of that is so important is all of that’s going to govern your message to the people within the niche. So you want to be able to talk to, if I’m working with say, small business owners, well small business owners generally have the same sets of questions, which is, how much should I save for retirement versus reinvesting in the business. Or if you’re working with widows and widowers as a niche, they’re going to have the same types of questions themselves. “Well, I don’t have a lot of experience, how am I going to handle living on one income? I feel a lot of pressure because I’m the sole decision maker.”

And so by the people in that niche having that set of common challenges, then you can come and say, “Well I’m the expert in this area. I’m really good at helping people specifically here.” And that’s how you can start your marketing efforts towards them.

Hannah: So let me ask you, because you know I have really good friends who are working in firms and you know I’m such a believer that we need to be doing marketing, like even if we don’t have our own businesses. How does that work with firms, like with their marketing message like overall as a firm, versus individuals within that firm.

Adam: That’s a great question. And there’s probably a couple of different ways that you can handle that. I’ve seen some firms where they almost have a separate brand for that niche market. So for example, there’s a firm that I know of that I won’t name here on the call, but they have a younger planner and what she has done, is she’s kind of set up her own little brand, I say own little brand, her own brand, to work with the members of her niche with are generally the people that are in the younger demographic. So they’ve got a separate website for her, it’s kind of all of her branding. The brand colors are a little bit different, it’s completely separate. So that’s one way to approach it.

A second way to approach it is, almost think of it like a law firm that has areas of specialty. So you kind of say, you know you have like on your menu of your website what are the services that you offer, and you can put, “Here’s the work that we do for our retirees. Here’s the work that we do for our corporate executives. Here’s the work that we do for widows or widowers,” to pull them in that way. So it’s kind of like you’ve got these subject matter experts within particular firm.

Hannah: I’m trying to get somebody to come on the podcast and talk about building out your financial plan philosophy, and how important that is to do that. But I feel like that also applies to marketing too. Like what are you comfortable saying versus what are you not comfortable saying?

Yeah, and that needs to align with wherever you work, if you work for somebody.

Adam: It does. It does and it depends, as I’m sure you’re well aware and your listeners are well aware, that a lot of times when you’re joining firm or you’re part of a firm that’s been around for a while, there’s a little bit of, “This is the way that we built our firm and this is the way that we want to continue to build our firm.” And there’s some struggle that goes along with that. But a lot of times if you can start to generate some success, then that starts to open up doors for you, because you say, “Oh, okay. Well shoot, you know. I’ve been working in this particular area and it’s,” calling it more of an informal niche as you start to develop it, and it’ll naturally come.

The other thing too is niche marketing sometimes happens just naturally. There’s an advisor that I know, former engineer and all of his clients are that real, data crunching type. Because people want to work with the people that are like them and so they naturally just start to gravitate towards him, because that’s his style. And so some of those niches, he’s not even actively saying, “Hey former engineers, or current engineers come work with me.” People just kind of naturally gravitate towards him because that’s his style and his approach.

Hannah: You know I talked with a number of advisors who say that their niche found them.

Adam: Mm-hmm (affirmative)

Hannah: You know where they thought they were going to be you know, working with widows, or you know what not, and its corporate execs. And they’re just like, “I don’t know how this happened, but apparently this is my niche.”

Adam: Yeah. And it’s pretty fantastic when that starts to happen. And you then the question then comes, okay. Well, going back to the points I made earlier, is that affinity there? So if your niche starts to find you and you don’t like working within that niche, that could be a little bit of a challenge, but usually that doesn’t happen. If your niche finds you it’s because you like working with them and they like working with you. It’s amazing.

It’s amazing the power of liking, right? If I like you, I’m going to like working with you and you’re going to like working with me and we’re going to live happily ever after.

Hannah: What other advice do you have, I mean in your years of experience in the financial services, industry and then profession and coaching advisors, like what would be the biggest mistakes you would hope new planners or young planners would avoid?

Adam: Let’s see. I would say it’s a couple of things, and this is somewhat off the top of my head, and one is nothing ever gets handed to you, and that’s tough because sometimes you think, “Well, as long as I’m smart enough everything’s just naturally going to come to me.” And that doesn’t always happen. You really do have to do the work. And that’s sometimes a tough pill to swallow, but it’s true.

Second is be brave and be confident. This goes back to the conversation that we were having earlier about kind of using the wrong terminology and just kind of getting so, kind of caught up in our own little world that we kind of forget what life is like for other people out there. We think, “Oh gosh. I can’t talk to this person. I don’t have enough knowledge yet,” and you forget that 98 ties out a 100 you have so much more knowledge than the person you’re talking to does, and so you have to be brave and willing to go out there and say, “Look, I can help you. I don’t know exactly what I’m going to be able to help you with just yet because I’m just now getting to know you, but absolutely I can go out there an help you.”

Hannah: And it’s not an arrogance confidence. It can be a humble confidence.

Adam: No it’s not. No it’s not. And you know, that’s tough too, right? It’s that humble confidence. It’s the feeling of look, I can help people. As long as you keep that mindset, that mindset of, “look, I don’t know exactly how I’m going to do it, but I know that I can help you.” Those conversations become so much easier.

This also too goes back to what we were talking about with being persuading versus manipulating. Now manipulating is trying to push somebody into a path that they shouldn’t be going into. And persuading is a matter of helping them get to the right spot. And when you’ve got that mindset, it’s a wonderful thing.   

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Adam Kornegay, of Pathfinder Strategic Solutions and one of the people behind FPA’s new Coaches Corner, wants to help advisors communicate their value and move past the financial “lingo” to tell their story and actually connect with their ideal clients. Pathfinder Strategic Solutions and one of the people behind FPA’s new Coaches Corner, wants to help advisors communicate their value and move past the financial “lingo” to tell their story and actually connect with their ideal clients.
The way he sees it – you have the potential to add real value to the lives of your clients. The sooner you can start marketing yourself and your practice in a way that helps them connect with you on a personal level, the sooner you can start helping them and making an impact.
In this episode, Adam is going to go over the five key elements of telling your story as a financial planner, how to find your niche market, and ways you can start tweaking your marketing and communication today to better connect with your current and prospective clients.

What You’ll Learn:

How to get involved with FPA’s Coaches Corner
The ways that your communication is pushing clients and prospects away from you.
How to avoid industry jargon in your marketing
Words to use that open the door for an honest, valuable connection with your clients
How marketing and communication can help you build long-term client relationships
How to define your niche market
The five key elements to telling your advisor story
The best way to articulate the value you bring to the table

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Defining Your Greatest Contribution Tue, 03 Apr 2018 18:01:38 +0000 0 Rianka Dorsainvil, CFP®, believes that everybody needs to be thinking about what they want their greatest contribution to this world to be. This idea is the cornerstone of her financial planning practice - Your Greatest Contribution - and everything she involves herself in. Rianka Dorsainvil, CFP®, believes that everybody needs to be thinking about what they want their greatest contribution to this world to be. This idea is the cornerstone of her financial planning practice – Your Greatest Contribution – and everything she involves herself in.

From her new podcast on diversity and inclusion in the financial planning industry, 2050 TrailBlazers, to her involvement with the CFP Board and NAFA – it’s no wonder she was voted as one of Investment News’s 2017 Women to Watch!

Early in her career, Rianka worked as a paraplanner. As time went on, she started to feel boxed in. “Anyone who knows me knows that I’m a bird that can’t be caged,” says Rianka. Eventually, her health made the decision for her – and she struck out on her own.

She founded her own financial planning practice, Your Greatest Contribution, because she didn’t want to be defined by the widely accepted definition of “financial planner.” Financial planning is changing, and as financial planners our jobs are constantly shifting to meet the needs of the clients we care about – and everything we do needs to contribute to them, because that relationship is always the most important thing.

In this episode, Rianka talks about being a disruptor in the financial planning industry and her life, how to evolve your career and your financial planning practice to reflect your values, and the importance of connecting with people who are ready to push for positive change.

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If you aren’t bringing your full self forward every single day with the passions and gifts that you’ve been blessed with, then the world is missing out. This profession is missing out. @Rianka_D

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What You’ll Learn:

  • How to become a disruptor rather than the disrupted
  • Why you can’t be held hostage by your job title
  • How to move beyond financial planning to valuable relationship building with your clients
  • How to be true to yourself and bring your full self forward in your job
  • Who to look for within the profession to connect with and grow together
  • How to align your career with what you want YOUR greatest contribution to be


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Hannah: Well thanks for joining us today, Rianka.

Rianka: Thank you so much for having me, Hannah.

Hannah: First of all, I have to say congratulations for the Investment News, Women to Watch Rising Star Award that you just received.

Rianka: Thank you so much.

Hannah: It is so exciting to see women like you really being successful in their career at such a young age. Did you ever think that you would get to that point at such an early … Well number one, did you ever think you’d get to that point much less at a young age?

Rianka: To be honest Hannah, I don’t know. I don’t know. But what I do know for sure is that I’ve always been very mindful, and passionate about what I do and so I think because of that I don’t do anything just to do it. I do it and there’s a purpose behind it. Whatever I do, I do it with a lot of passion and I think it shows. I’ve been like that since I’ve been a young girl, in middle school, in high school. I see that there’s something that I feel like I can help, or change or make a difference and I always raise my hand. I was class president when I was in high school. I ran for vice president of the SGA when I was in college. I have a track record of not being able to just sit on the sidelines and do something about it, and I think it’s just overflowing into my professional career.

Hannah: Did you know that you always wanted to get into financial planning?

Rianka: No, actually. When I was younger, and I remember this, in the fifth grade we had career day and I dressed up as a doctor because my nana was a nurse. I just wanted to follow in her footsteps. I saw how she was helping other people and so that’s what I wanted to do. She had all these books around. I loved watching ER as a young kid. I was like, “Oh, this looks so cool.” She had her stethoscope. So I was just walking around, just wearing it all the time and that’s what I wanted to be.

When I got much older, somewhere it changed. I turned to have a love for math because it was very exact, like A plus B equals, I don’t know, AB. I don’t know, but with math there was something exact about it that you know you’re right or you’re wrong. And so I just turned to have a love for math, and then that love for math turned into helping other people who were having trouble with it, and that’s actually how I met my husband. I was tutoring him in high school. That’s a long story.

Hannah: Oh, that’s great.

Rianka: Yeah. But it turns out, Hannah, that he’s a brilliant smart person and he knew what he was doing the entire time, and he didn’t tell me until our engagement party six years later. So yeah, that’s a long story, maybe for another podcast on relationships, but here we are almost 15 years later, still together. Anyways.

Hannah: Oh, that’s so funny.

Rianka: Yeah, so I have a love for helping people. In middle school, high school, I turned to have a love for math, and then I paired the two and I started helping other people with math. Got to college, that was my major. I declared it to be a math major and then my sophomore year, I took a class called Vector Geometry Calculus. That was one class, Hannah, and I got a C- in that class. I was like, “And this is no longer for me.”

I immediately tried to find alright, what else is there to do? I took an elective course. It was Personal Finance 101. I can’t remember the exact name of it, but this is where I learned about disability insurance, credit scores, social security. My eyes lit up because I was like, “Wow.” Here is actual knowledge that is tangible, that I can use not only today but for the rest of my life. And again, knowing my history of being that type of person that feels like, “Okay. If I can make a difference, if I can fill a void, I will.” I became that financial guru person in college and started spreading the good gospel of personal finance amongst my peers and like, “Hey, did you know this student loan, you’re gonna have to pay it back six months after you graduate, and you’re probably incurring interest? So make sure you’re taking out as much as you actually need, not to go shopping.”

Hannah: Oh, that’s great. So you really bought into this idea of financial planning, really as a helping profession, as something to use what you’re naturally good at to help other people?

Rianka: Yes. For those of us who are financial planners, we know that that’s exactly what this profession is about. It’s about helping others. It’s about building relationships. There’s a lot of misconceptions and myths about financial planning. It’s all about numbers. Definitely if you have a love for math, there are pathways that you can take where you can heavily focus on something like investments, or stand behind the scenes, being the data person. There’s nothing wrong with that. Everyone doesn’t have to be a lead advisor if that’s not what you wanna do. But for me personally, I love that client interaction. Numbers is a small part of what we do. Well, it’s a big part, but the biggest part is building relationships and building that trust with that client, because you are learning things that most people don’t know about. Honestly, sometimes you learn things that their spouse don’t even know about. That’s huge. That’s a huge responsibility.

Hannah: Yeah, very much that confidante for a lot of people.

Rianka: Yes.

Hannah: I know a lot of new planners find this idea of this helping profession, really wanna help people, and then they get into quote, “the real world,” in their first jobs in the profession. What was that like for you, making that transition of being completely bought into this idea of financial planning, to actually doing financial planning?

Rianka: Well you know, Hannah, I was really lucky because the firm that I started off with, they believed that in order to be a successful financial planner, you had to be in the meetings. My first month I believe it was, I was sitting in client meetings. I started off as a paraplanner. I’m not a huge fan of that term, paraplanner, only because … My first tangent of our interview. Paraplanner, when clients hear that word they automatically compare it to paralegal. With the paralegal, you don’t necessarily have that foundation of education to become a lawyer. You just have this set of knowledge that is capped at what paralegals do.

For paraplanners, we actually have that set of knowledge and education so that we can continue to advance to be a CFP, or a certified financial planner. Though paraplanner is used widely, I would advocate for us to start using associate financial planner, or associate financial adviser because that’s exactly what we are. We have the education. Now it’s just us actually going through and getting our experience so that we can become that lead financial planner or financial adviser. That’s my first tangent.

Alright, going back to your actual question, with what I was assuming, did I get what I expected and the answer is yes. Again, the first month I started at my new job at the firm, we were in client meetings. Our responsibility was to be a sponge and to listen. What I appreciated about that time that we get a little antsy as new planners, because we are eager and ready to just start giving advice and everything, but I believe your first couple of years out of school should just be listening, being a sponge and learning body language. I took notes. I did the paperwork.

It came a time where the client looked to me to ask questions about the paperwork. It’s only paperwork, but you felt so empowered because it’s like I did this, I took ownership. I know exactly how to answer the question for this paperwork, and if anyone has ever filled out a brokerage account form or a transfer or rolling over of the 401K into the rollover IRA, it’s not easy paperwork. Now I feel like I’m dating myself. Now we can probably do it all electronically. But back in my day when we had to highlight the paperwork and put sticky notes in there, you feel empowered and you can answer those questions.

And then you sit, you learn body language. You take notes. It’s the lead adviser or the senior adviser that goes back, read the notes and say, “Hey Rianka, great job on catching this,” or, “You missed something and here’s what you missed.” It’s these little nuances that the senior adviser or lead adviser catch that you may not catch, and it’s a learning opportunity and learning moment. But you don’t catch it if you’re not sitting in the meetings.

I know that there are some firms out there that don’t allow their senior … Excuse me, their paraplanners or associate planners to sit in the meetings, and I think they’re completely missing out. They’re missing out on so much training that they can be giving their paraplanners or associate planners. It’s stunting the growth of that person and that person’s career, because I learned so much just listening and sitting in on those meetings. At that time, also I was building a relationship with the client. Even if I said hello and goodbye, it was still okay, this person could put a face to a name. Oh, this is Rianka.

Hannah: So your first job out of school, how long did you stay there?

Rianka: I was there for almost five years. Almost five years I was at my first firm. It was again, great learning, comprehensive financial planning firm. They actually taught me what it meant to a comprehensive financial planner. That was my example to go upon. When people say, “Oh yeah, I’m a comprehensive financial planner,” but the only thing you talk about is investments, I look at you sideways.

Hannah: You have this great job. You have this great firm. What prompted you to move onto a different role or different company?

Rianka: It was time for me to go. The best analogy I can view it is as a relationship. The first couple of years it was great. With any type of relationship, you go through growing pains. You’re learning me, I’m learning you. I’m learning what buttons I can push. They’re learning what buttons they can push. They know how far to push me. I know how far to push them. It’s great. And then it’s more growing pains, and it’s more growing pains. It started to be it’s me, it’s not you. So that we can just have a good relationship going forward, it’s time for me to spread my wings. If anyone personally knows me, they know I am a bird that cannot be caged. I started to feel that way, where I truly believe for me personally that I am a certified financial planner. I’m a financial planner but I’m so much more. I have so much to give to this world. That if you hold me hostage to my title of just a financial planner, you’re not allowing me to give all of my gifts to this world. And so I had to leave.

Hannah: Okay. Let’s talk about that really quick, because I think that’s a really interesting point that you’re making, that you’re more than your title of financial planner. When you say that, what does that mean for you?

Rianka: I believe sometimes we get stuck in what it says on the paper that our role is. As an associate financial planner, you do X, Y and Z and then it stops. Or when you’re the lead financial adviser, financial planner, it says X, Y and Z and then you stop. Again, for me I see that, and I see that okay, that’s what I’m supposed to do. That’s what I’m getting paid for. However, I have so much more to give. Sometimes what ends up happening is that the firm owners look to you and say, “Well, this is all that I expect of you. Of course, you can do a little bit more, but that’s it.” Then they hold you hostage to that title.

What I mean by I’m so much more than that, is yes I’m a financial planner, but I’m also an educator. I’m also a community leader. I’m also a mentor. I’m also a mentee. Sometimes those things are gonna take me out of the office. Those things will never come in the way of what I know what comes first, which is my clients. If you are at a traditional firm, and the firm has been doing things a certain way for over 20 years, and for someone like me who is a disruptor … And I say that in the most positive way.

A disruptor with technology, right? Technology right now is a disruptor because we have the robo advisers, which is just technology for investments. They’re not true advisers. But we have the robo advisers. That’s a disruption of technology. We have virtual firms now. That’s a disruption. That’s what I mean by just being that disruption of saying, “Hey, we can do things a different way.” Honestly, all of the new planners that are coming into this career, into this profession, they’re all disruptors because they are looking at things in a new light. Some people look at that as a negative, where I look at that as a positive. I’m saying if we’re going to continue to move this profession forward, we have to disrupt what has been going on so that we can stay with the pace of what’s happening around the world.

Hannah: This idea of that we’re all disruptors, I think that’s a really powerful idea of realizing you look at … I was talking to somebody recently about disruptive leadership. New planners coming into this profession, they’re not the future leaders of the profession. They’re the leaders today-

Rianka: Today.

Hannah: … of the profession.

Rianka: Yes.

Hannah: I think that’s such an important point, and such an important thing for new planners to realize. To me, that’s the most exciting thing for entering this profession is the impact that you can have in your first couple years. It can be so powerful on firms and the profession at large.

Rianka: I definitely agree. I definitely agree. For me, the lens that I’m looking through, I’ve said this before, you will be the disruptor or you will be the disrupted. I hope that these firm owners wanna be on the disruptor side, meaning they are looking at technology and seeing that as a tool that they can use from an advantage standpoint, and to also help move the profession forward. We have video technology where now we don’t have to physically ask clients to come into the office. I’m on the East Coast. I’m in the DC area. We can have clients in California. We can have clients in Italy. We can have clients literally all over the world. We can still build a really great relationship with them because it’s not just a phone call. It’s video. They can actually see us. We can see into their homes. I can meet their cats or dogs. I can meet their children, where a lot of that cannot take place necessarily in an office.

So from a disruption standpoint, it’s technology. You will either try to fight it, or you will embrace it. For the new planners coming in, what I will ask of them is please have patience because the firm owners have been in this profession for 15, 20, maybe even 25 to 30 years. They have been used to doing things a certain way. For them, that’s safe. Maybe they are almost at a point where they’re about to retire, where they’re just like, “You know what? I don’t wanna do anything different. I just wanna do things the way I know how to do it, and that’s it.” If that’s the mindset they have, don’t fight it because that’s who they are and you cannot change them.

Then there are firm owners who have been in the profession for 20 years, 20, 30 years and they are embracing change. They’re like, “Oh, well I can learn this bit of technology. Let’s try to bring this video technology into the office. Oh, you mean we can have a group discussion quarterly with our clients?” And they’re embracing it. Again, you’re gonna be the disruptor or you’re gonna be disrupted. You are going to embrace or you’re gonna try to fight. The firms who are fighting this new technology, the firms who are fighting these new ideas, they will be the disrupted.

Hannah: Yeah. I would add it’s really frustrating being in the job when you’re working with somebody who it’s so obvious to you that they’re gonna be the ones getting disrupted. But just know that there’s other planners out there who don’t think like that. If you don’t see them, find them.

Rianka: Right.

Hannah: Go to FPA events. Go to national events. Find those people, because those are your people. Those are the people you wanna be associated with.

Rianka: Yes. Yeah, and you touch on a good point, Hannah. Sometimes, especially as a new planner, your first firm is the only thing you know. That is your world. You make the assumption that all firms are like this, and that is not true. That’s the beauty about our profession, and that’s also the challenge. But the beauty is that all firms are not alike. All clients, the subset of clients that you’re working with, they’re not the same at every firm as well. If you are truly not living or bringing your full self forward, if you don’t feel comfortable bringing your full self forward every single day at your firm, you’re not at the right firm.

Now it’s just like what Hannah said. You go to these conferences. You go to the FPA Annual Conference. You go to gathering, retreat, residency. You find your people and you just chat with them. I’m pretty sure there’s gonna be a firm out there that fits for you, because the world is missing out. If you’re not bringing your full self forward every single day, if you’re not bringing your full self forward with the passions, with the gifts that you have been blessed with, then the world is missing out. The profession is missing out.

I was talking to someone the other day, and he is a minority. He’s a minority in a sense of from an ethnic standpoint. He shared with me that he feels like he can’t, maybe from a confidence standpoint, can’t be his true self. Everyone has a different upbringing. Everyone has a different starting line. When you start to hear these stories, listen. Don’t place judgment or oh, it shouldn’t be that hard. Just listen, first of all. When I was listening to his story, this is the exact same thing I shared with him. We need you to be confident. We need you to bring your full self forward because of the gifts that you share. He started sharing with me of his upbringing and all of this.

I’m like, “We need to hear that, because you can resonate with clients. Clients can then open up more, because they’re learning more about you. The more you share about yourself, the more the clients are gonna share about their self.” That’s when that trust starts to happen. That’s when you’re building relationships. For some firms, where their bread and butter is how the market is doing and they’re focused on investments, these are the clients that are gonna stay when the market tanks because they have a personal relationship with you. Their value of you as their adviser or their planner is not placed on how well the market is doing. It’s placed on you.

Hannah: Yeah. It’s such an important point. What makes you different actually sometimes is your most valuable asset, when working with clients or engaging in the profession. That’s what helps you stand out. That’s what’s gonna draw people to you, that they don’t feel comfortable anywhere else. What a gift to those people, when you bring your full self to them.

Rianka: Yes. And if at any profession, this is the profession to do it. Everyone is different. That’s the beauty about it. Everyone is different. Everyone has a different upbringing. You being able to share your story with clients is empowering, because then they can share their story with you as well.

Hannah: I was talking to a girl. Her family immigrated here. Her English, she didn’t feel her English was good enough to be a financial planner. It was so fascinating to me because she was talking about the confidence of this, and I’m just like, “Why do you have to speak in English when you’re doing financial planning? What a gift to your community if they could go, and instead of them struggling with their English too, that they could actually talk to somebody in their native language.”

Rianka: Their native language. Yes.

Hannah: What a gift.

Rianka: That falls under diversity, right? The inclusion that we need to start highlighting in this profession, instead of trying to have everyone fit the mold of what this profession has been for the past 20 years, which is working with millionaires, working with older clients who are pre-retirees or retirees. We can meet the clients where they are, instead of the clients meeting us where we are.

Hannah: It’s an entrepreneur’s dream profession, I say.

Rianka: Oh, yeah. Yeah, well we’re both entrepreneurs, right? We know exactly how fulfilled we both feel in our roles as business owners, so yeah.

Hannah: When did you decide that you were gonna become an entrepreneur?

Rianka: I didn’t decide. My health decided for me. I don’t share this story too often, but I think I can be open with you, Hannah. It’s just you and I listening in, right?

Hannah: Just us. No big deal.

Rianka: It’s just us. Honestly, what happened … And again, going back to I don’t wanna be held hostage to my title. That’s what I started feeling again at my second firm, again. There are people who are still there who are thriving and loving what they’re doing. That’s totally fine. It’s me, Hannah. I figured out it’s me. It’s me. What happened was before I left my first firm, I had this desire of launching my own firm. But I wasn’t confident enough, though I had my CFP designation. I don’t know. You go into this I’m too young, I’m a woman, plus I’m a person of color. Who’s gonna hire me?

I wasn’t confident at all to start my own firm, so I went to the second firm. It was blissful. Again, with relationships, bliss. Very blissful. It was a 180. Felt support, all of this, and then I started getting these migraines about a year into … Maybe it wasn’t even a year. Almost a year into my new firm I started getting these migraines. There were some things I wanted to do outside of work that I felt restrained that I couldn’t do, because it’s okay, well what are they gonna say if I do this. Again, not truly bringing my full self forward or being truly who I am. I started to say no to things where I really wanted to say yes.

I started getting these migraines to a point where it was debilitating, where I had to go to the ER almost every weekend. I called out of work a couple of times because I couldn’t move. Opening my eyes was so painful. It was because of work. It wasn’t because of the environment. It was because that’s not where God wanted me to be. I spoke with my husband and I said, “Reggie, I think I have to start my own firm. I am getting these migraines.” He was the one who was taking me to the hospital, so he knew this was real. I said, “I think it’s because I need to … God has something else for me and this isn’t it.”

He said, “Alright. Well, how are we gonna do this?” I put my financial planner hat on. I became my own client, which eventually we hired another financial planner, but we looked at our budget. What would it look like living off of one salary? How much should we be saving? Do we have enough in our emergency fund, and all of that? Once we decided that I was going to leave, all of my paychecks we started saving into just capital for the firm or whatever. I tell you, Hannah, the moment I decided that I was gonna start my own firm, the migraines went away.

Whatever your religion may be, whatever your spiritual connection may be, listen, because my health was at risk because I wasn’t listening to what my calling was. The moment I surrendered to what my calling was for my life, my health got better. It’s been almost three years, Hannah, and I have not had a migraine since. If that is not God just saying, “You’re on your right path, I don’t know what is.” Since I’ve left and started my firm, I have done things that I’ve never thought would happen. Just here recently in March, being the recipient of the inaugural Women to Watch Rising Star Award is just a testament to I am on my right path.

Hannah: That is so inspiring to hear. I love it.

Rianka: Yeah. I think this is one of the professions that you can truly follow your calling, follow your passion. It just so happens that for me personally, that’s what needed to be done for me. Everyone doesn’t need to be an entrepreneur, though. You can be an intrapreneur. What I share with the young planners who have this desire to work with their cohort or their community, is build a business case. If you just go to your manager or your boss and say, “Hey, I wanna work with young clients.” To them, what immediately comes to their mind is alright, that’s great. However, we’re running a business, so how can we make sure that one, we can continue to pay your salary, but two, that it makes sense from a business standpoint to service these clients.

My advice to these young planners who want to work with younger clients, these thriving young professionals, build a business case so that when you’re walking into this meeting, you’re prepared. They’re gonna ask you, “How many clients you wanna serve?” Make it clear that you will continue to serve the clients that you’re servicing for the firm, as far as these millionaires, or they have at least a million dollars of investible assets. You’ll continue to serve them. But say, “Hey, Mrs boss lady, can I bring on at least ten clients who may not be necessarily millionaires yet, but they will be? And here’s the salary range that we’ll work with. Here are the type of professionals we’ll work with.”

Who has a really good business case for this is FJY Financial. They work with thriving young professionals where they don’t pay the actual retainer that the normal pre-retirees or retirees pay. Even RTD, RTD Financial, they also have this as well. Check out their website. You can get some more information on that. Because we’re missing out, we are missing out if we are not working with these young professionals who are at an impressionable stage of their career and their life. They’re gonna say, “When I needed help and no one else would take me, you did.” They’re gonna become very loyal to you.

Hannah: Well, even just the marketing case for that. You look at the costs. Talking just straight business, because you have to be able to speak the language of the business owners, just from a business case, what’s the marketing acquisition cost of a new client? If you can onboard them for significantly less now, continue servicing them, and in 10, 15, 20 years you already have that client. A client is paying you to be in your marketing pipeline. It really is a compelling argument.

Rianka: Right. For these young clients that you’re bringing on, it’s definitely a long play. You may not make a profit for the first couple of years, but seeing the trajectory of their salary, seeing the trajectory of what they’ll potentially be able to invest is a good business case. Even, Hannah, as far as you were mentioning with the acquisition of a client, it’s become cheaper. These particular clients, you don’t necessarily have to ask them to come into the office. They can be clients that you just talk to through video, where it’s a legit hour. You turn on your webcam, turn it off and it’s an hour.

When I talk to other advisers and I tell them I have never met majority of my clients in person … Some of my clients I’ve known them from college and now they’re reaching out, or we just got the opportunity just through my travels and me reaching out to them, being able to meet them in person. But majority of my clients I have never physically met in person, and I have a phenomenal relationship with all of my clients. They’re like, “How?” I’m like, “I am in their house.”

I know their cat’s name. I see their cat. I see their children. They show me a new painting that they just got. They’re walking around with their laptop, sharing with me some of the things that is awesome to them. They’re showing me their bowling trophies that they just won, because they go bowling every Wednesday at seven PM, and so I know I can never meet with them at that time. When their year anniversary came up, I sent them a gift certificate to one of the really nice bowling allies here in DC where they could play a couple games. They can have a few cocktails and some food. They were like, “Wow.” I’m like, “Yeah. I listen.” That’s building relationships right there.

Hannah: Oh, I love that example. You’ve talked a lot about being passionate about what you do, feeling the sense of calling, and that really helped you take the leap into starting your own firm. When you started your own firm, what was your passion around that? Who did you wanna serve, how did you wanna serve it? What was really that vision that drove you?

Rianka: What drove me to start my firm was that a lot of people were reaching out to me. Either colleagues of my husband, peers from school for me, peers from school for him, and they were reading articles that I was writing. When I was at my first firm, I started a blog. It was called Golden Financial Nuggets, because I was like, “Alright, we’re learning this information. This is information everyone can use, not just people who can pay us $10,000 per year retainer.” I got approval to start a blog because I wanted to share the knowledge. Again, if I feel like doing something that can help a lot of people, I’m gonna share it. That was my way of sharing.

Because I was planting those seeds I didn’t even know I was planting of just that knowledge, and being that trusted person in their sphere of influence when it comes to personal finances, when people started to hit a pivotal point in their career as far as a huge salary jump, or a huge bonus, or something so special as expanding their family, I was the first person that they reached out to. To continue to tell these people I can’t help you because you don’t have $10,000 in annual retainer, or you don’t have a million bucks of investible assets, it stated to hurt.

It started to hurt me personally, saying, “I can’t help you because you don’t have money,” then I started to look at just me. I couldn’t even afford to be a client of my own firm, nor could my family. I did not grow up rich. I did not grow up with the white picket fence. I grew up poor. Let’s call a spade a spade. That’s how I grew up. Now here are other people who are trying to break that cycle, or break this chain of being financially illiterate, and now they’re trying to expand their personal finance knowledge and I’m saying I can’t help them. No. That didn’t feel right to me.

And so I started my firm. It’s called Your Greatest Contribution. I didn’t want to make this about me. I wanted to make it about my clients. I asked my clients, “What is it that you want your greatest contribution to be?” They share that with me. Now it’s my job to make sure that they have the foundation, whether from a career standpoint or a financial standpoint to make that happen. That’s why I started my firm, because I wanted to help people who wanted help. Not everybody wants help. But for those people who are reaching out and saying, “Hey, I’m willing to pay something. Can you help me? Can you help a sister out?” I wanna be there to help them.

Hannah: You start your firm and you have this great vision. You have this great story. It sounds like you might have even some clients lined up, just from the work that you’ve done previously in your natural network. Was it easy starting your business?

Rianka: Hannah, again, I believe if you walk in your purpose, things will not be hard. I take that back. When you walk in your purpose, things will not be impossible. Yes, things will be hard, but it will not be impossible. I believe that when you put out in the atmosphere what your goals and desires are, it conspires with you, not against you. Again, seeds that I’ve been planting for years that I didn’t even know was going to become fruitful when I started my firm. When I started out in this profession, I had no inkling that I was gonna start a firm. I had no desire to start a firm. It just so happened to happen. But when you walk in your purpose, things are not impossible. They’re possible.

I left my firm, the second firm, October 31st, on Halloween. That was my last day. I opened my virtual doors of YGC on December 1st, and I got my first client within the first two weeks of me launching my firm. She called me randomly. I didn’t even know how to answer my business phone. “Hello, Rianka Dorsainvil with Your Greatest Contribution. How can I help you?” I’m still learning. Before I got the phone, she was like, “Yep. You’re exactly who I want. I wanna work with a woman, and I wanna work with a woman of color. I’m so happy I found you, because I’ve been looking for years.”

Hannah: Wow.

Rianka: I was the right person at the right Google search. She hired me right off the bat. Then I got another call the following day and I was just like, “Wow. Okay, I don’t have any fears anymore. This is what I’m supposed to do.” Again, when you’re walking in your purpose and when you’re doing what you’re supposed to be doing, you’re bringing your full self forward, the world will conspire with you, not against you.

Hannah: Let’s talk about some of the other projects. You’re not just a financial planner or just a business owner.

Rianka: You got that right, Hannah.

Hannah: Okay. There might be even more things that I don’t know about. You’ve been NEXGEN president.

Rianka: Yes.

Hannah: Served in the national leadership there. You’re on the CFP Pr, volunteering a lot of time with the C-

Rianka: Campaign.

Hannah: Yeah, with the campaign.

Rianka: CNBC financial adviser.

Hannah: Yeah, CNBC financial adviser. You have a new podcast and we’ll talk about that in a minute. What else is there?

Rianka: Right. Let’s see. What in the world is Rianka doing? It’s so funny because when people see all that I’m doing, they’re just like, “How?” I’m like, “You learn to build a really great team around you.” You see me on stage. You see me on this podcast. You see me, but I couldn’t do this without a really great team behind me. I take that back. I couldn’t do this with a really great team beside me, because people work with me. They don’t work for me. That is the reason why I can do all of the things that I can do. I think you named them all.

Hannah: I’m sure there’s gonna be more coming soon. Let’s talk about your new podcast. You just launched it. At the time of recording you just launched your first intro episode. By the time this podcast airs there will be several episodes up, but it is 2050 TrailBlazers. Can you tell us the vision behind this podcast?

Rianka: Yes. Again, I’ve learned to stop fighting God and just listen. Remember, when I launched YGC, it was because I was literally put on my back. It was silence, and it was just me listening to God. The same thing almost happened with this podcast, Hannah. People started to come to me about diversity inclusion, what can they do. I fought it, because I’m like, “Just because I’m a woman, just because I’m a person of color, I don’t have all the answers. I don’t know everything.” I fought it for so long when people would reach out to me, wanted to talk about a podcast about diversity. I’m like, “No. I’m much more than a woman of color in this profession. I have expertise in other things. Don’t just talk to me about that.”

I fought it for so long, and then just things start happening in the background. I started to notice that when people did go on podcasts and start talking about diversity within the profession, I would follow up and look at these group chats. It was negative commentary around it. I’m like, “How can diversity be negative?” If anything, we should try to embrace it, because America is growing to be a beautiful melting pot. Our profession needs to look like the clients we are serving today, and who we are going to serve in the future. By seeing that negative commentary, and I started to see a division. We already have enough division in the world today. We don’t need it in our profession.

I think the reason why this commentary became so negative, and just people feeling threatened by the word diversity. It’s because the conversation happens so few and far in between. It’s one episode out of 50. It’s one panel session out of a whole conference that happens once a year. There’s no continuous dialogue that’s happening around diversity and inclusion. I was laying in bed. I was like, “I need to do something.” I fought it for a few months, Hannah. I was like, “No, no. I’m too busy. I got a whole bunch of stuff going on. I don’t have time for this.”

And then I started to lose sleep, where I couldn’t sleep. Just small things. I would randomly go on Twitter and somebody is saying something, and it’s negative. I would fall asleep with that. A couple of days later I would go onto Facebook, look at some group chats and something else. I’m like, “Are you serious? We can’t be divided in this profession. We just cannot be divided in this profession.” And so I was like, “Okay. Alright. What vehicle, what avenue, what platform makes the most sense?”

Then the podcast came about. I didn’t know what the name was gonna be, I just knew we needed a space, a very comfortable platform where people can just talk and be their selves, where it feels like, Hannah, you and I are in my living room chatting. It just so happens that thousands of people are just gonna be listening to our conversation. It’s an opportunity for them to listen. That’s how the conversation goes on 2050 TrailBlazers. It’s conversation around just addressing the lack of diversity in the financial planning profession. We’re engaging industry experts and leaders in this conversation so that we can encourage cultural awareness and cultural perspectives, and figuring out ways to make a measurable impact. We’re just not talking the talk.

First thing, one, we need to educate. What is the state of the profession today? The CFP board, they just through the censor for financial planning, just really it’s a press release, by the time this airs maybe a month ago, just sharing the numbers. I don’t see that as a negative thing. I see that as a positive. I’m like, “Alright, well now we have a foundation. Now we have the numbers so now we can build upon that.” We don’t know where to go unless we know our starting point. I don’t see this as now we need to be negative towards the CFP board and say, “Why is there only 1,200 African American CFPs when there’s 80,000?” No. It’s how can we get more, because we know that there’s more than 1,200 African Americans in the United States.

From a cultural perspective, there’s a lot of cultural nuances that we need to learn as financial planners so that we can properly serve the clients, the melting pot of clients that America is growing into. Again, this podcast is gonna be able to shed light on that. What does it mean to have a client who is from African descent? Not necessarily African American, because it’s two totally different things. Or Asian descent, and how they deal with money, or Latino descent, and how they deal with money, or their fear of dealing with the public sector of money because of now this fear of deportation.

It goes deeper than just the color of our skin. We have some culture around us, and some nuances that we are fighting to deal with as clients. If we’re gonna be great financial planners to our clients, we need to know how to work with them, how to ask the appropriate questions, what is not okay to ask, or how that could be deemed offensive. For so long, we have dealt with a small subset of America. We have worked with pre-retirees and retirees who have a million dollars of investible assets. It’s a very homogenous subset of clients. Now, if we’re going to not only expand our knowledge but expand our cultural awareness, we have to listen and not take offense to it, and not feel threatened when you hear the word diversity.

Hannah: What’s so … I don’t know if exciting is the right word. Maybe it is. What’s so exciting to me about this idea of diversity, within financial planning especially, is that is what makes us good at our jobs. The ability to listen to a client and understand them, the ability to listen to another adviser who I have a different background from. I’m not a person of color, but to hear that those stories, that’s what makes me good at my job. That’s what gives me hope about diversity in financial planning. We should be the leading industry in diversity.

Rianka: Yes. Oh my gosh, Hannah, you have hit the nail on the head. We need to be the example for other professions. We can. That’s the exciting part. We can set the foundation of what other industries and professions need to be doing. You also said something else, too. Just because we have different cultures or different backgrounds, there’s some similarities that we’ve shared off air amongst each other, where we have some similarities with our upbringing and all of that. Again, just building that relationship and that personal connection that it goes … Culture is an aspect of how we work with clients, but it’s a huge aspect.

In order for us to be really great planners, we have to understand that we have to look beyond just the dollars. That’s why I started 2050 TrailBlazers. I felt, with the connection that I have made throughout my career, the panels that I have spoken on, and honestly the leadership that I have in this profession, I feel is a responsibility. I can’t go comfortably in this profession just doing the bare minimum. I can’t. I just can’t. I feel like I have a larger responsibility, and I have finally stopped running away from what I feel like another responsibility is for me, which is being a vessel as we talk about diversity and inclusion.

Again, I don’t have all the answers. But I will bring people to the table who have some answers, who have great examples, and who want to share best practices. This podcast is just not for people of color. That’s preaching to the choir. This podcast is for everybody. This podcast is for industry leaders, professional leaders who want to make a difference, who want to bring cultural awareness into their firms for their personnel, and also for the clients so that they can better serve their clients. This podcast is for the technology leaders in this profession who want to make their technology more comprehensive from a diversity lens.

We haven’t even touched on the LGBT community, and how it just says you can only do Mr and Mrs. What about Mr and Mr, or Mrs and Mrs? What about hey, don’t call me that. Just I’m a human. This podcast is for people who, again, want to be the disruptors in a positive way, but who want to bring the profession forward, who want to move the profession forward. The only thing you have to do is listen. If you feel like you can play a role in pushing the profession forward, that’s when you raise your hand. That’s when you reach out to either a guest on the podcast, or you reach out to me. I’ve shared this on my podcast. This platform is available for anyone who has solutions, whoever want to share solutions.

Hannah: Where can people find you, find the podcast?

Rianka: Yeah, so you can go to We’re on all the social medias. It’s @2050tbs. Me, you can find me. I’m at rianka_d for most social media platforms, for Twitter, for Instagram, Facebook. I have a public facing Facebook profile, Rianka R Dorsainvil. Rianka is spelled R-I-A-N-K-A.

Hannah: Your firm name is Your Greatest Contribution so I have to ask you, what do you want your greatest contribution to be?

Rianka: That’s a good question, Hannah. Oh goodness. It has been said that the wealthiest place on this planet is not gold mines or diamond mines. It is the graveyard, because there lies the dreams that never came to reality, or inventions that were never acted upon. My greatest contribution will be for me to continue to give my full self to this profession, and to not hold back, and to stop running from my callings. Whenever my last day is on this earth, I want God to say, “Well done.”  

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Rianka Dorsainvil, CFP®, believes that everybody needs to be thinking about what they want their greatest contribution to this world to be. This idea is the cornerstone of her financial planning practice - Your Greatest Contribution - and everything sh... Rianka Dorsainvil, CFP®, believes that everybody needs to be thinking about what they want their greatest contribution to this world to be. This idea is the cornerstone of her financial planning practice – Your Greatest Contribution – and everything she involves herself in.
From her new podcast on diversity and inclusion in the financial planning industry, 2050 TrailBlazers, to her involvement with the CFP Board and NAFA – it’s no wonder she was voted as one of Investment News’s 2017 Women to Watch!
Early in her career, Rianka worked as a paraplanner. As time went on, she started to feel boxed in. “Anyone who knows me knows that I’m a bird that can’t be caged,” says Rianka. Eventually, her health made the decision for her – and she struck out on her own.
She founded her own financial planning practice, Your Greatest Contribution, because she didn’t want to be defined by the widely accepted definition of “financial planner.” Financial planning is changing, and as financial planners our jobs are constantly shifting to meet the needs of the clients we care about – and everything we do needs to contribute to them, because that relationship is always the most important thing.
In this episode, Rianka talks about being a disruptor in the financial planning industry and her life, how to evolve your career and your financial planning practice to reflect your values, and the importance of connecting with people who are ready to push for positive change.

What You’ll Learn:

How to become a disruptor rather than the disrupted
Why you can’t be held hostage by your job title
How to move beyond financial planning to valuable relationship building with your clients
How to be true to yourself and bring your full self forward in your job
Who to look for within the profession to connect with and grow together
How to align your career with what you want YOUR greatest contribution to be

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What it Means to Be a Business Owner Tue, 27 Mar 2018 21:43:52 +0000 0 Taylor Schulte has a refreshing take on financial planning, living life as a business owner, and being a young financial planner in today’s world. This episode is a must-listen for any financial planner looking for advice on starting their own RIA, or are wondering whether the risk of business ownership is worth it. Taylor Schulte realized he had an entrepreneurial spirit when he was introduced to and started working with a hybrid-RIA. He started to recognize that there are two clear paths: one of an entrepreneur and one of an employee. Personally, he likes both roles. He enjoys being a business owner and making high-level decisions, but also appreciates being in the weeds with financial plans.

As Taylor has grown his practice, Define Financial, he has slowly become more comfortable letting go of some financial planning focused tasks in favor of committing to the business owner mindset.

This episode is a must-listen for any young financial planner looking for advice on starting their own RIA, or are considering making the transition from investment-focused planning to comprehensive financial planning.

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 At our heart, we’re all a bunch of finance nerds. We love financial planning, but at some point you have to realize you can’t do it all. – Taylor Schulte, CFP®

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What You’ll Learn:

  • Why delegating is so important as a business owner (and what you need to know if you are working for a business owners!)
  • How to connect with other financial planners to improve your skills and gain confidence as a new planner
  • How to transition from investment management to holistic financial planning (even when it’s scary)
  • What “client ownership” means – and what it means to you
  • How to use your age to your advantage in this profession (even if you’re young)
  • Why committing to taking risks is crucial in your financial planning career







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Ep91 Transcript

Hannah: Well, thanks for joining us today, Taylor.

Taylor: Hannah, thanks for having me.

Hannah: So you started your career in the wirehouse world. Is that correct?

Taylor: That is correct.

Hannah: So how did you end up there, and can you just give the listeners an idea of what your experience is like?

Taylor: Yeah, absolutely. I started in the wirehouse world, worked for one of the big firms that everyone knows by name. I started at 22 years old, day one out of school had the job lined up. I won’t go too much into my personal story, but just kind of early on in high school I just had this passion for money and finance. It’s weird. I look back at some of the papers I wrote even in college and it’s like I mapped out my career before I even knew what it was, and I had some instrumental mentors in my life who were in the wealth management industry.

Anyways, that led to, yeah, taking a job at, I worked for Morgan Stanley, taking a job at Morgan Stanley, 22 years old. And what’s funny is my ignorance was so helpful back then. I didn’t really know what being a financial advisor was, what it entailed. I have this very vivid memory of my boss at that time handing me a piece of paper with my sales goals on it, and the goal was that you needed to bring in $15 million in assets in two years or you’re fired. I remember I didn’t even think twice about it. I’m like, “Sure, yeah, whatever. Give me that, let’s go,” and I was just so happy to have a job I didn’t even think twice about it.

Like if somebody handed me that today, I feel like I’d have a panic attack. That’s a lot of money in a short period of time. I think my ignorance was just really helpful back then. I was just so happy to have a job at a good company, and that was in 2007, so we all know what happened shortly after that. It was an interesting ride. I was there for about five years, and then the rest of my career kind of started from there.

Hannah: So you hit that $15 million in two year goal?

Taylor: I don’t think that I hit 15 million in two years. Again, that was ’07. The recession obviously was right around the corner. I don’t remember exactly, but I think that they obviously adjusted a lot of our goals and quotas. I did leave Morgan Stanley in 2012, so five years. I did leave there with $15 million in assets, so I hit my goal, but it took me a little bit longer.

Hannah: You said that you had mapped out your career before you started. What did you mean by that?

Taylor: I thought I had this bright idea when I was an undergrad that I was going to go get a master’s in finance, and you have to write a paper as part of the application process, and the paper talks about: What are you looking for in a career? What do you want to do for a living? And I found that paper a few years ago, and it maps out exactly what I’m doing today as a financial planner helping people, and I’m like, “How did I know that that’s what a financial planner did at 16, 17?” Or no, no. Sorry, I was 19 years old, 20 years old. Yeah, jeez. I lost track of time. Yeah, but it’s just interesting that like I wrote all of that out and for the most part it’s what I’m doing today, which is pretty cool.

Hannah: That is really cool. So you started at Morgan Stanley and you got the sales, like you’re supposed to reach these targets. How did you go about finding those clients?

Taylor: Yeah. You’ve probably heard this before, but my philosophy was meet as many people as possible, do things that I enjoy doing anyways, right? If I go to an event that I want to go to anyways and maybe I don’t meet somebody, no big deal. I had fun at that event. So meet as many people as possible, go and do things that I enjoy doing anyways, and my philosophy was the more people I meet, the more people that like me and trust me, the more people will do business with me.

The hard part about that is that it’s a long play, right? Some of these people that I met early on in my career it took, jeez, seven, eight years for them to come around as a client or come around with a quality referral for me. So some of these relationships take a really long time. That was kind of my long play, and a lot of those relationships that I built way back then are really helping out my business today.

Outside of that, we did a lot of the traditional wirehouse-type marketing. We had some pretty hardcore sales training, and so we did door knocking, we did cold calling, we did seminars, we did a lot of events with COIs. It was kind of try everything and see what sticks, but, yeah. In summary, I did the traditional start with your friends and family and work through their Rolodex and try all these other marketing things and take anyone who has money. It’s just interesting to reflect back on that’s what we did then and what we do today. It’s just it’s so much different.

Hannah: As you went through the Morgan Stanley, as you’re going through all of the sales exercises and things like that, did you see yourself staying there long term, or kind of how did you respond to that internally?

Taylor: Yeah. No, that is a really good question. Again, I just had this kind of this feeling, this desire to go out and do my own thing, and I didn’t know what that looked like, but I just knew that I wasn’t going to be at Morgan Stanley forever. It was a great place to start. It was a great firm. I had great people around me. There is no chance in hell that I’d be where I’m at today without that, but I just knew that there … I started to feel just kind of complacent, like I just needed something more. Yeah, so I just kind of targeted the independent world and took that next step. I always kind of tell myself whenever I just start to, yeah, feel that complacency, I’m not feeling that personal growth, it always just kind of tells me, “Okay, it’s time to take that next step,” whatever that next step is.

Yeah, that next step then was the independent world, and I joined a hybrid RIA firm, and that was kind of my first experience with the RIA world and fee-only and fee-based and all these different things and having a custodian. This is all something different that I wasn’t used to working at a wirehouse.

Hannah: One more question about the wirehouse. You talked a lot about the sales training. Did they also give you training on like how to do investments and the financial planning side of the business?

Taylor: Yeah, they did definitely. But, I mean, it’s funny. It’s like when you get hired there, and I’m sure it’s changed today, but it was take your test, your Series 7, your 66, your insurance license, and it was like, “Just go out and sell.” There wasn’t a lot of upfront training on investments and financial planning. It was like, “You’ll just figure that out as you go.” There was a lot of resources around us, a lot of mentors, a lot of people to help, and eventually, yeah, I’ve become really well-versed in investments and financial planning.

But as a lot of people listening to this probably know, the strategy was to lead with the investment conversation first and then talk about financial planning second. So it was get the money in the door, talk about how great our investment strategy is and how we’re going to outperform the market and beat everybody else, get that money in the door, and then it was like, “Oh, by the way, we’ll do some financial planning too,” and I know we’ll get to where I’m at today, but we’ve completely flipped that on our head and we lead with financial planning first and investments second. I guess in summary, yes, they provided us training, but probably not as much as they should have looking back on it.

Hannah: So you start working at this hybrid RIA. What did you learn through that experience and through that job?

Taylor: I mean, I learned a ton because this was 2012, and I just had zero experience with fee-only, fiduciary, if that was even a thing back then. That term was just kind of coming to the surface. Having a custodian like a Fidelity or a Schwab instead of the firm you’re working, you know, Morgan Stanley was the custodian, and piecing together all the different technology and performance report. It was just like, I don’t know, like for the first time in my life I’m like, “Oh, this is how it all works. This makes sense.” Yeah, I mean, no one taught me that. I wish like day one out of school someone was like, “You need to go work for a fee-only firm that adheres to the fiduciary standard,” but those words were never taught to me. Yeah, it was just a really eye-opening experience, and I started to just learn more about who I was as a person, what was important to me, my morals and values and how I want to run a practice. I just started to just question a lot of things.

It was also then when I realized like I have this entrepreneurial blood inside me. I want to own my own business and I want to make my own decisions. I’m tired of asking other people, “Can I do this?” and, “Can I do that?” And I just had this creativity inside of me that I didn’t really know about. I was just so used to people saying no to me all the time, you know, “No, you can’t have a LinkedIn page,” and, “No, you can’t have a blog.” Yeah, I think through that experience with that hybrid RIA I’m like, “You know what? This is really important to me. Having that creative side and doing things different is really important to me.”

Hannah: One of my mentors, one of her big things was people are kind of wired two different ways, like you’re an employee or you’re an entrepreneur, and obviously there’s gray in the middle, but knowing who you are is really half the battle.

Taylor: Yeah. No, it really is. And, again, like no one teaches you this stuff when you first get started, and it was just something I didn’t know about myself. Some people were entrepreneurs in high school and they knew that that’s what they wanted to do, but, yeah, I didn’t really understand that you could be a business owner and own a financial planning practice or you could be a financial planner and you could work for a financial planning practice. I just didn’t really clearly understand that those were two different paths.

I mean, I’ve battled with that too because I love to do both. I love being a financial planner. There’s a lot of aspects of that that I really enjoy and I’m really, really good at, but I also really love owning a business and making a lot of the high-level decisions and putting a lot of the operations that we have in place, putting out fires and tackling challenges. I like all that. The problem is is I can’t do both. I can’t do both really well, and so I’ve started to learn that I have to let go of some of this stuff and really focus on, one, the things that I’m good at, and then, two, the things that I really love to do and start to delegate. That’s been a challenge.

Hannah: Okay, let’s talk about that because I’m curious about that. How do you identify right now? Do you identify more as the business owner or as the financial planner?

Taylor: Yeah. Today, I’m definitely morphing into that business owner. I’ve got help here now from some rockstar financial planners that I trust and I can delegate to, so I’ve definitely taken on that business owner role and business development role, and I’ve let go of a lot of the financial planning tasks that I have been doing for the last 10 years. It’s really a challenge. It really is, and I think a lot of people can relate to that. At heart, we’re all a bunch of finance nerds. We love numbers and we love financial planning, but at some point you just have to realize you can’t do it all, and so, yeah. It’s something that I’m learning every day. We’re taking part in an annual coaching program this year that’s teaching us a lot about how to segment a lot of this stuff out and delegate and outsource and hire internally. Gosh, I’m learning a lot. I’m having a lot of fun, but I’m learning a lot, that’s for sure.

Hannah: So are you still meeting with clients?

Taylor: Oh, yeah. Yeah. I mean, look, we’re a small firm still, so my clients are like family. So I do still meet with clients, although I am getting better. I mean, just the other day we had a client who was coming in for a meeting, and just without even thinking twice I just assumed that I needed to be in this meeting, but that morning it hit me and I’m like, “I don’t really need to be at this meeting. I can spend some extra time with my son this morning. This is John’s department. John is really good at this step in the process. He really enjoys this step in the process. I don’t need to be in that meeting.” And so I pinged him and I said, “Hey, you want to run the meeting this morning on your own?” He’s like, “Yeah. Absolutely. No problem.”

It’s like I was on autopilot and I just had to kind of catch myself and say like, “I don’t really need to be in this meeting.” There are some meetings, or most meetings, that I probably need to be in, but I’m starting to recognize those little things and make better use of my time, even if it’s spending some extra time with my son or being out in the community more and speaking and prospecting or whatever it might be.

Hannah: Even if you’re not going to be a business owner, you’re usually going to work for a business owner.

Taylor: Yeah. No, you definitely will. If it’s not a business owner you’re directly reporting to, it’s one of their managers. So, yeah, you’re correct.

Hannah: Yeah. Even if you’re not planning on being a business owner, it’s still interesting to kind of get in the head of a business owner and kind of get that perspective. So you’re at this RIA. How big was this hybrid RIA that you were working at?

Taylor: Yeah. I think collectively we managed $300 or $400 million. There’s maybe 10 advisors there. It was a new venture for everybody. Again, a bunch of kind of independent financial advisors that just worked under the same umbrella. Yeah, I mean, it was a great experience. Again, I decided to look back on it, I learned a ton. Every step of the way I keep learning more and more, and I take the good and get rid of the bad and kind of move on to the next step. Yeah, great firm, great people, successful. I learned a lot, and most importantly, what I’ll tell people listening to this podcast, especially those new financial planners, is every job that you have in this industry think about the things about what you’re doing every day, think about what you enjoy doing, what you don’t enjoy doing, what you love doing, what you hate doing, and take not of that stuff. Write it down, because then you’ll know what you’re going to be looking for next.

We’re actually interviewing right now looking for a person, and that’s one of my questions to them is: What do you love doing? What are you really good at? And what do you hate doing and you never want to do again? And just listening to their answer and hearing if they’re crystal clear on those things, because if they’re not, they’re not … I don’t want someone who is uncertain taking a job. Don’t complain. You’re going to learn something from every job that you have, but take something from it. What do you love about that? What really excites you about coming to this job every day?

Hannah: So as you’re working with this RIA, was there a moment where you realized that you needed to start your own firm?

Taylor: I don’t think that there was a single moment where I’m like, “That’s it, I’m out of here.” I think just through the months and years I just, again, I realized that, one, I just had this entrepreneurial spirit inside of me. My grandfather, actually both my grandfathers were successful entrepreneurs. One of them came over on a boat from Germany dirt poor, no money in his pockets, and made a tremendous living for himself, and so I just had this … I just didn’t recognize it. I didn’t even think about it, but I learned that it just was just boiling up inside of me.

And then second to that I was tired of being told what I can and can’t do, which is normal. When you work for somebody else, like that’s their job is to tell you what you can and can’t do, so that’s totally fine. I just wanted to make my own decisions. I was young. We didn’t have a family yet, my wife and I, so I had the ability to take on some risks, and I just wanted to try something. It just was one of those things like I would have a regret if I didn’t give this a shot. I can always get a job in financial planning. Those are always out there, but I’m not always going to be able to go out on my own and try to start something.

Hannah: So how long from the point where you decided that you were going to start your own firm, when you made that decision to when you actually started your own firm?

Taylor: Probably about six months. I’d say at least six months, six to nine months. It was a lot of things to put in place. I’m a planner at heart. I don’t wing these things. I’m probably overly prepared for making a major shift like that. I just want to make sure all my ducks are in a row and I really understand everything. That’s just kind of the way my brain works. If I’m going to go buy a new TV for my house, you better believe I’m going to shop every single website, I’m going to know every single TV that’s out there. I’m going to pick like the best TV at the best price. That’s just the way my brain works. So imagine me trying to sift through all the different technology and platforms and trying to pick the best ones. It was a lot of work.

So, yeah, I gave myself a lot of lead time and putting those pieces together. I mean, I wanted to make a really thoughtful move. I wanted to put my clients first too and make sure that this move was going to be good for them, and so that was a really important piece to it. Yeah, so, definitely if it’s something you’re thinking about, definitely start the process earlier than later, that’s for sure.

Hannah: Did you have like a formal business plan put in place that you were working, or what did that look like on the planning for it?

Taylor: I don’t think I had a formal business plan. I think I had like a one-pager, just kind of a summary of what I was doing and how I was doing it, but I never had a formal business plan. I did have a couple of mentors in my life who were guiding me through this process, and then there was also some resources that, you know, the custodian as well that was kind of guiding me through what needs to be done and what step of the process we’re in, but, yeah, I don’t think I had a formal business plan.

Hannah: And were you taking clients with you?

Taylor: I was, yep. So when I left Morgan Stanley, we were part of Broker Protocol, so I followed all the rules. My clients followed me, came with me, and then at this new firm through contract I owned my book of business, so that was not a problem. So when I left, those were my clients. I took my clients with me. It was pretty easy.

Hannah: Now, the clients that you got at the hybrid RIA, were you able to take those clients with you, or just the clients that you started with?

Taylor: Nope. Yeah, all the clients. Any client that I brought with me and then any client that I secured on my own while at that firm. If that firm handed me a client or found a client for me, that would be their client. That never happened, so it wasn’t an issue. But, yeah, if I secured a client or brought a client with me, those were my clients.

Hannah: And was that a point that you needed to negotiate when you started working for that hybrid RIA?

Taylor: Yeah, that’s actually a really good question. I think we did negotiate that. I don’t think it was much of a negotiation. I think it was just something that was brought up and the owner of the firm was like, “Yeah, I’m not in the business of stealing clients from people, so.” It was a really easy conversation, but, yeah, you bring up a good point. It’s definitely something to think about as people are moving around and going to different firms. If you bring a client or secure a client, I’m of the belief that that should be your client, and that’s the same way that we do it today. If something happened here and John departed, I’m not in the business of taking clients from John. So, yeah, that’s definitely an important piece of the conversation that should be had.

Hannah: And so many firms operate so differently, and so it’s, again, that planner side of it. We need to know when we start working at jobs and finding clients who owns those relationships.

Taylor: Yep, 100%.

Hannah: So you started Define Financial. How old were you when you started the firm?

Taylor: Oh, jeez, now you’re going to test me. I started the firm in June of 2014 and I would have been 29. 29, yep.

Hannah: One of the things that I hear from a lot of planners, and I don’t know that this applies to you because you’d already been finding clients, is the challenge of being in your 20s and starting your own firm.

Taylor: Yeah.

Hannah: Did you run into any issues with that?

Taylor: You know, I battled with my age a lot in the beginning of my career, and I think that’s completely normal. Look, I mean, I was 22 years old with a Series 7 out there asking people for money. I mean, that’s insane. I’d love to like have video of some of these meetings that I was leading. Who knows what I was saying back then? So, yeah, it was a real thing.

I’d say that after I left Morgan Stanley after about five years, maybe even a little bit before, like four to five years in the business, I finally just told myself one day to use my youth to my advantage. Don’t hide behind your age. There’s nothing to hide. Use it to your advantage. There is an advantage to the client for working with a younger professional. I always say if you hire a financial advisor who’s been in the business for 30 or 40 years, most of them are stuck in their way of doing things. They’re doing things the same way they’ve always done them, so they’re not as quick to adapt, they’re not using a lot of the more recent technology. They just kind of have an older way of thinking about things.

I just kind of spun that around in my head, and I truly, truly believe it, right? I didn’t just like make this up as a sales pitch. Like I really believe it, and I just owned it, and so going forward, I never hid behind my age, I never put on the fake glasses or anything like that. I just owned it, and it’s like if someone doesn’t want to hire me because of my age, then they’re just not a client, they’re not a good fit.

Again, the advantage too for being 29 years old and married with no kids is like I could take that risk. If I was 38 with two kids and my wife’s not working anymore, gosh, that’s a big risk to go out and start your firm. It’s not cheap, and you’re working more than ever. So there’s a lot of advantages to starting this young, and what’s great is you have organizations like XYPN network that are making it easier than ever to go and start your own firm. Now, that can be dangerous too. You have too many of the wrong people starting a firm and not everyone is going to survive, so you have to be careful.

Hannah: You know, I work with a lot of pre-retirees and retirees, and I’ve had multiple clients tell me that one of the reasons they work with me is because I’m young because they don’t want to be switching advisors when they’re 80.

Taylor: Yeah, exactly. There’s another advantage, right? They know you’re going to be around for the next 30 or 40 years to guide them into and through the end of retirement, so that’s a huge advantage.

Hannah: So you started your own firm, and so you already had clients that you were bringing with you, so you weren’t starting from zero on your revenue.

Taylor: Yep, and that was a really nice benefit. You know, how many people get to say, “I started a business with six figures of existing revenue”? I mean, that just … You think about restaurant, people want to get into the restaurant business, and they start this restaurant and they pour all this money into it, and they don’t even have any customers yet. So, yeah, I had, gosh, I don’t know, 20, 30 paying customers that were providing me with revenue on day one, so it really helped out.

Hannah: So you’ve seen the wirehouses, you said you were in a hybrid RIA situation, and now you’re in a pure RIA situation. Can you give us the business case for being in a pure RIA situation versus being in the hybrid, or even the broker dealer, or not broker dealer, the wirehouse?

Taylor: Yeah. I said this on another podcast recently, I’ve never met somebody that went pure RIA or fee-only, whatever you want to call it, and regretted that decision. I’ve never met that person who’s like, “Man, I really shouldn’t have gone fee-only.” I’ve never witnessed that. I’m sure there’s some people out there, but … For me, it was more, again, I go back to like: What’s important to me? What are my morals and values? What do I feel really good about? What am I confident about in talking to clients?

One of the things I learned at that hybrid RIA, I never realized that there were these two channels, this broker-dealer channel and this investment advisor channel. When I was at that hybrid firm, it hit me. I’m like, “You know, I don’t have any accounts at this broker dealer.” We used this small little broker dealer nobody has heard of, and I’m like, “I have to deal with the compliance people there, I’ve got FINRA breathing down my neck, and I don’t even have any accounts at this broker dealer.” Sure, we sold a couple insurance policies here and there and got some commissions, but 99% of my revenue was coming through my fee-based business on Fidelity’s platform. That was one of my eye-opening experiences is I’m like, “I don’t need this.”

And then of course I started learning more about what fee-only meant and being a fiduciary 100% of the time. That’s probably around the time when I learned about Michael Kitces and XYPN was probably coming up around then. I just really started to educate myself and really become a student of the industry and really just learn from others and then develop who I was as a financial advisor and what was important to me.

Hannah: One of the things that you said earlier was at the wirehouse they kind of led with investments and followed up with financial planning. Can you talk about that transition to really leading with financial planning, and how is it different for you and how is it different for the client?

Taylor: Yeah. For me, it was scary as hell. For anybody who came from the wirehouse world or currently works there, like the thought of pushing the investment conversation to the side and starting with financial planning, at least for me, it was a really scary transition because I was so used to selling the investments, that that’s where the value add is, that we’re a better money manager than anybody else out there. And so to begin to push that to the side and say, “Look, we’re going to manage your portfolio, we’re going to do a really, really good job for you, but here’s what matters most: the financial planning.” It was such a different conversation when we flipped it on its head, but it just makes so much more sense.

We equate it to a doctor. A doctor doesn’t just like aimlessly write you a prescription, right? They put you through a bunch of tests and maybe draw some blood and do an MRI or an X-ray and ask you a bunch of questions, and then he or she will write that prescription for you. So when we put it that way, when we present that analogy to a client, it’s like, “Well, duh. Why wouldn’t you start with the financial plan? That makes so much more sense. That will drive the investment recommendations.”

So once we started to put this process together and come up with some of these analogies to talk to clients about, it just made more sense. It made more sense to us. It makes our job much easier to recommend an investment portfolio after we know everything about the client, right? Maybe they’re in a really good place and maybe they don’t need to take extra risk. Maybe they haven’t saved enough and we need to make some adjustments in other areas, including their portfolio. To start with that conversation just gives us so much more confidence in the recommendations that we’re making.

Hannah: As you made this transition to financial planning, the clients that you brought over from the wirehouse, were they primarily investment-only clients?

Taylor: They were. They were primarily investment-only clients. Well, I shouldn’t say that. Again, it was this like, “Our main job is to manage your investment portfolio and do a really good job, and then we do some financial planning on the side.” So a lot of them got a little taste of financial planning, nothing even remotely close to what we do today, but it was a slow transition.

I mean, in fact, we had a meeting with a legacy client yesterday who when he started with me, it was one of those accounts at the wirehouse that just got like thrown on me, right? An advisor left and this account just got dumped onto me. The account balance for this gentleman was $5,000. That’s how big the account was. It was a $5,000 account, and when I got these types of accounts, what I did is I treated these people like royalty. I remember this guy in particular I would take him to sushi like once a month. Who takes a $5,000 client to sushi once a month? But through those lunches and getting to know him, I learned that there were assets in other places, and so he eventually became a much bigger client and he’s still a client today 10 years later, which is just wild to say that out loud.

But he’s one of those legacy clients that not until yesterday, and that’s crazy to say too, yesterday, did we really introduce to him the full-blown comprehensive financial planning that we do for clients. There’s a lot of reasons for that that we don’t need to go into now. The point is is that it’s taken time to transition those clients. It wasn’t like one day I decided to call them all and say, “Hey, guess what? We’re doing things differently.” It’s definitely been a slow transition, probably slower than it needed to be. Sometimes I definitely take a little too much time. I need someone to like crack the whip and just tell me to take action, but it was a slow transition.

Hannah: And so when you introduce this whole idea of comprehensive financial planning, what are clients’ responses to it?

Taylor: I think some clients are overwhelmed by it, and the point of our conversation yesterday was to overwhelm this client, because if it wasn’t something that he was interested in doing, if he didn’t want to engage in financial planning, if he didn’t want to spend the time getting us all the information that we need, we essentially said that it wasn’t a relationship we were interested in having anymore. So we’re having a lot of those conversations where unless you’re willing to sign up for this comprehensive package, we’re just not in the business of just managing a portfolio anymore.

Yeah, so I think initially some of these clients are very overwhelmed by all the different pieces. It’s not just a performance report anymore and some little chitchat here and there. We’re having some really big money conversations, some really important stuff, and there’s a lot of work on their end as a part of that. Outside of that, I do think that clients see the benefit, just like I see the benefit in going to the gym, but like actually going to the gym is a whole different story. Clients see the benefit in doing this. It’s just a matter of getting them to actually take action and do it, but for the most part their reaction is obviously very good.

Hannah: Right. You’re building your business off of it, so we hope.

Taylor: Yeah.

Hannah: So when you started Define Financial, was one of the reasons of starting Define to really lead with the financial planning instead of the investments?

Taylor: I think initially the idea of starting the firm, again, was just to be able to start to make my own decisions, to try different things, to try some different marketing ideas that other people weren’t doing, to try some different fee schedules, right? Again, that was kind of around the time when XYPN was popping up and these monthly fees and one-time fees. So to be able to try some of this different stuff and just see how it worked, and we’ve tried just about everything that’s out there and we’ve made a ton of mistakes and we’ve failed, but that’s been the fun of it. I enjoy that I part of it. So I think initially starting the firm was just like I just want to explore, I want to figure this out. Who am I as a financial planner? What do I want this to look like? Where do I want to be in 10, 20, 30 years from now? And it evolves almost every day it seems like, but that’s just a big part of the fun for me.

So I think through that process I quickly learned that leading with financial planning was really what I wanted to do and really where I believe the value is for the next 10, 20, 30 years. We’ve since pivoted, and now all we’re doing is just fine-tuning things and finding ways to create more value and provide a better service, and we’re always going to be doing that. I mean, we’ll always be making changes and improvements.

Hannah: And so right now, what services do you offer clients?

Taylor: We offer comprehensive financial planning and investment management. I don’t know how else to summarize it.

Hannah: So like AUM based? Or how do clients pay you?

Taylor: Oh, sure. Yeah, clients either pay us a percentage of AUM or they pay us a monthly fee, and how that works is we have a minimum annual fee of $5,000 per year. So if they have the AUM to support that $5,000 per year revenue, then we will bill as a percentage of AUM. If they don’t have that and they want to work with our firm and we believe that we can help them and provide value, we’ll break that $5,000 up into monthly payments. It works really well. We’ve got some ultra, I know I said ultra, but high-earning young professionals who are in their 30s and 40s and making $300,000, $400,000, $500,000 per year. A lot of their money is wrapped up in pension plans or real estate, but they need help and they want help and they’re willing to pay a fee. I never want to tell somebody that they don’t have enough money to work with us, which is why we set a minimum fee amount instead of a minimum investment amount.

Hannah: For those clients, I mean, $5,000 is the minimum fee for the monthly retainer, so that can go up based on complexity as well.

Taylor: It can, and we do have a couple that it is higher. In a perfect world, it would all be the same to help kind of streamline things, so our monthly clients all pay $5,000 per year, and then what we are doing is when and if their assets get above $500,000, which would support a 1% fee, we would switch them to that percentage of AUM. For that $5,000 annual fee broken up into monthly payments, we do everything that we do for our other clients, right? We’ll manage their $10,000 IRA or whatever it might be, so we’ll manage all their assets still, but when their assets, if their assets cross that half a million dollar mark, we flip the fee schedule, and they’re obviously very aware of this and we set those expectations. Yeah, yeah.

Hannah: You talked earlier about when you started out at the wirehouse kind of the sales techniques that you used or the marketing techniques that you used. What do you do now at Define to help market your business?

Taylor: We do a lot. I shared with you before this phone call we talk about in the practice here individually what do we love to do and what are we good at and how can we spend more time doing those things. For me, one of those things is marketing. I just love it. I really enjoy it. I’m not the best at it. I’m not saying that, but I think I’m pretty good at it. We’ve had a lot of success, and I just really enjoy it, and so I look at our marketing plan is kind of this one machine where we do five or six things really well and really consistently, and they all kind of work together.

You and I were talking before, I started a podcast last year, and you were asking if I had traction with it. And it’s like, have I gotten a client directly from the podcast? No, I can’t trace that back to the podcast, but I’d be willing to bet that somebody landed on the podcast, ended up on our blog, downloaded our free guide, I don’t know, jumped on a webinar, saw me on social media, and eventually reached out. They probably don’t remember all those touches, but in my mind, that’s kind of how these things work. Or, a client heard the podcast and sent it to a friend and it led them to our website. Again, I like to think these five or six things that we do well and consistently all really work together.

If I had to share like a couple specifics, one thing that we worked really hard on is SEO, search engine optimization, and doing it the right way. Our goal wasn’t to like rank on the first page of Google tomorrow. It took years to put some of this stuff into place, but we have some good traction on Google now where people find us just by searching in San Diego for a financial planner, and then when they land on our website, we have some things for them to do in order for them to engage our firm.

Last year alone, just in 2017, we had 100 prospects for the year, and those are people that scheduled introductory phone calls automatically through our auto scheduling system on the website, which just like blew my mind. Never in my career have I had 100 prospects come through my door, you know, warm ones. It’s not like I sat on the phone and cold called all these people. So it was a really successful year in terms of quantity, but not so much in quality. So 2018 for us is the year of quality. I want to have less or fewer prospects but higher quality, so we’ve put some new things into place to make that happen. It’s been hard. We’ve been kind of sitting around and we’re used to the normal flow of two to four prospect phone calls a week, and that’s just not happening right now, and that’s okay because the ones we are talking to are a little higher quality.

SEO, being visible online, has been really, really powerful. You need to have somewhere for that person to go, something for them to do. If you just have a beautiful website that’s just confusing to the user, that’s not going to do you much good. So think about the entire process. You don’t need to have one of these like fancy sales funnel things that you see on, like you don’t need that, but just give the user action and make it really easy for them.

That’s been one thing, and then another thing that people are really surprised by, we actually run some print ads in a local magazine. We spend a pretty penny on these print ads annually, and they always pay for themselves. So we’re really strategic about it. It’s a really unique publication. I don’t know that it works in every city or not, but it was just one of those things where like the demographic for this magazine is great, no other financial advisor in my community would ever dare spend $5,000 on a print ad, and so there’s none in there. So if we put together something creative that looks different than what they’re used to seeing, it works, or it has worked. So those are a couple things that we’ve had a lot of fun with that are different that, again, like our competition just isn’t really paying attention to, and, yeah, we’re having some success.

Hannah: Looking at marketing, marketing can be really overwhelming for a lot of people, and I know you said you’re trying to transition more to that ownership, business owner role, but are you doing a lot of this yourself or in-house? What do you do with that workload?

Taylor: I probably need to get better about delegating. I do delegate a lot, so we do have some people in place. We have some editors on hand and some marketing consultants and podcast editors, but for the most part we do a lot of this stuff ourselves, and a big reason for that is we’re still in the beginning stages of things. It’s not like we’re Fisher Investments here and like we have a marketing plan and machine in place and it’s just on autopilot. We’re still very much in like trial and error phase. It’s hard for me just to like hand off to somebody and say, “Hey, run these programs.”

So I like to have control of things while we’re still in that phase, but there’s a lot of little things that just we shouldn’t be doing. John does a lot of writing for the firm blog. He’s a great writer. He’s got awesome things to say, but he shouldn’t be spending his time editing that article, making sure the grammar is perfect, and inserting some back length. That’s not where his time is well spent, and so he’ll write an awesome draft of blog post, and then we’ll shoot it off to an editor to polish it up and publish it. So there’s a lot of little things like that that are in place to help streamline and automate these things, but unfortunately we’re not completely there yet. That means that sometimes I’m up at 6:00 in the morning on a Saturday working on SEO things or staying up late writing out an ad campaign. It’s fun. That’s the good part. The downside is it just takes too much time.

Hannah: We’ve talked about, I hate the term “ownership of clients” because that sounds maybe not the best, but in terms of when you started your own firm, you brought clients with you, and now you’re working with John and other staff members. How does that ownership piece work? Are you the only owner, or what does that look like?

Taylor: Yeah, really good question. I am the only owner of the firm. John joined me about two and a half years ago, and one of the things that’s really important to me is that everyone shares in the growth of the firm. Let’s just say hypothetically all John does is crank out financial plans and eMoney all day. That’s not the case, but hypothetically that’s what John does all day. Well, if that’s what he does all day, then that frees up some of my time to go and do some business development and get some new clients. John should play a part in that firm growth because he was busy at the office holding down the fort while I got a new client, and I couldn’t have done it without him.

So from day one we created a compensation structure that compensates him kind of like he’s an owner of the firm or a shareholder, but he gets a percentage of gross revenue. So I don’t want him worried about expenses, how money is being spent in the firm, and so it’s a percentage of gross revenue, and if gross revenue is growing, John is growing, and if it’s declining, then we’re all declining. But it’s great because if we bring on a million-dollar client, we’re both happy because we both made some extra money or added some revenue to the firm.

So I won’t go into any more detail than that, but that piece of it is really important to me. I want everyone to feel like we’re all on the same team here working towards the same goal. I’d hate for someone to see me bringing on a million-dollar client and I get 100% of the revenue and they get nothing. That just doesn’t make any sense to me. It’s been a really interesting fee structure, but I’ll say this: John has just become instrumental to this firm. He’s become a really integral part of it, and I think he’ll play a much bigger part in this firm going forward. I don’t know exactly what that’s going to look like yet today, but I’m very, very grateful for him and all of the blood, sweat, and tears that he’s poured into this firm and believing in me really. I mean, when he met me two and a half years ago, I was probably a mess as a business owner, so for him to believe in me and take a chance and put in a lot of time, I’m very thankful for that.

Hannah: I know. I’ve talked to a number of planners where once you start running the numbers, again, I always say follow the numbers when you’re working in a firm.

Taylor: Yep.

Hannah: On many different levels. What is a client paying? Where’s the money going? And just the disparity that happens between owners versus the people who are doing a lot of the work. I mean, sometimes that can be a huge difference.

Taylor: It is a big difference, and I don’t … You know, I’ve worked for other people, I’ve worked in other environments, so has, John’s worked at other places. I’ve just seen how people are treated, and I’m just not into that. I want everybody to be working together. I mean, everybody plays a part in this firm. Just because you’re answering phones all day doesn’t mean you’re not adding value to the firm or helping it grow, so I want to be really conscious of that and find every which way we can to treat people like we’re on the same level. We’re all in this together. I’m not interested in playing big, bad boss here that makes all the money.

Hannah: So we’ve talked a lot about being a business owner and an entrepreneur, and I think for a lot of the listeners if you’re on that track or even if you’re not, many times you’re working for business owners. Is there anything that listeners or new planners need to know about working for business owners?

Taylor: There’s probably a lot you need to know. If you play golf, go play golf with them. I always say you learn a lot about somebody by playing golf with them. If you don’t play golf, that’s probably not going to make any sense to you at all, but you spend five hours on a golf course with somebody. It’s a really frustrating game, and you see how people deal with challenges, whether they deal with them well or not. So if you play golf, that’s one idea.

But outside of that, I mean, on that note, you should really get to know who you’re working for or considering working for. One of the things that John and I did when he first joined was we hired a business coach. We hired a business coach to learn more about each other, our personalities, how we work, our natural traits and abilities, to learn how to work together in the same environment and not get frustrated with each other. So that was a really powerful exercise that we went through, so if you have a business owner that’s open to something like that, I think you’ll learn a lot about yourself and the other person and just how to interact and be a better team.

I think another big piece of this puzzle, and as you, again, maybe think about, maybe you’re thinking, “Am I in the right place?” Or, you’re thinking about joining another firm. I think the philosophy of the business owner is really important and how they run the business, how they think about the business, the goals for the business, and then their philosophy for managing investments and managing clients and financial planning. Like, does that all align with you? Because if it doesn’t, I think you’ll eventually kind of grow frustrated if it doesn’t.

And then there was an episode way back, it’s one of my favorites on Michael Kitces’s podcast, with the owner of Austin Asset Management, and he went from intern to CEO. The title of it is something like that. One of the things that jumped out to me was he was this intern working for this guy that owned the firm, and he makes this comment where he said he just followed him around all day with a clipboard and just wrote down everything that this guy was doing day in and day out, and then just like went back to his desk, was like, “How can I improve whatever process that was, and how can I take this off his plate, and how can I make this more efficient?” I just thought it’s such a cool idea for somebody that’s working for somebody else that wants to play a bigger part in the firm. Follow him around, take notes, find ways to improve.

I always say here at our firm, always ask why. Like, “Why are we doing it this way? Is there a better way to do it? Does somebody know how to do this better?” Yeah, I’ll stop rambling, but those are kind of my ideas that come to mind.

Hannah: No, I love that, and the: How do we make my boss’s life easier or the owner’s life easier?

Taylor: Yeah. It’s true. It really is true.

Hannah: What would be your advice for new planners who are starting out in financial planning today?

Taylor: I love this question. I’ll say a few things. One is just do something. Don’t be paralyzed by all the choices out there and finding the perfect firm to work for, putting together the perfect firm to start. Just do something. Get going, get experience, work for good people, learn, adapt, pivot. You’re not going to be at the same firm forever. Maybe, but probably not.

Second to that I’d say if you’re thinking of starting your own firm or maybe you’re in the beginning phases of starting your own firm, you’ve probably heard this before, but make sure that your spouse, if you have one, is on board 120%, because I promise you there is no way that I get to where I’m at today without my wife and her support. There’s just no way, and I probably won’t get to where I’ll be in 10 years without her either. It is critical in this business that your spouse completely understands what you’re up against, especially when you’re becoming a business owner and starting a firm.

And then lastly, about six years ago I came home with this bright idea. I told my wife that once a week I’m going to go have lunch with another financial advisor in our community, and her jaw was like on the floor. She’s like, “What are you talking about? Why would you go have lunch, spend your precious time with a competitor? Why would you go and do that? You need to be having lunch with clients and prospects.”

But it just hit me that there’s so many smart, talented financial planners here in my community that I can learn a lot from, and so I made that commitment, and I still for the most part pretty much uphold that today, have coffee or lunch or a beer after work with another financial planner, and I’ve been doing that for five or six years now. I mean, I can’t even tell you how much it’s changed my practice. I mean, I can’t even quantify it. John wouldn’t be here if I wasn’t doing that. That’s how I met him. So whether it’s finding a job, finding employees, finding new ways to run your business and new technology, I mean, it’s just … Get to know as many other advisors as you can. It’s super helpful.

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Taylor Schulte has a refreshing take on financial planning, living life as a business owner, and being a young financial planner in today’s world. This episode is a must-listen for any financial planner looking for advice on starting their own RIA, Taylor Schulte realized he had an entrepreneurial spirit when he was introduced to and started working with a hybrid-RIA. He started to recognize that there are two clear paths: one of an entrepreneur and one of an employee. Personally, he likes both roles. He enjoys being a business owner and making high-level decisions, but also appreciates being in the weeds with financial plans.
As Taylor has grown his practice, Define Financial, he has slowly become more comfortable letting go of some financial planning focused tasks in favor of committing to the business owner mindset.
This episode is a must-listen for any young financial planner looking for advice on starting their own RIA, or are considering making the transition from investment-focused planning to comprehensive financial planning.

What You’ll Learn:

Why delegating is so important as a business owner (and what you need to know if you are working for a business owners!)
How to connect with other financial planners to improve your skills and gain confidence as a new planner
How to transition from investment management to holistic financial planning (even when it’s scary)
What “client ownership” means – and what it means to you
How to use your age to your advantage in this profession (even if you’re young)
Why committing to taking risks is crucial in your financial planning career


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Financial Life Planning Tue, 20 Mar 2018 19:36:40 +0000 0 Stephen Brody, CFP®, believes that financial planning is about digging deeper to move beyond the numbers and help clients put forward the lives they want to live. Through intentional leadership, he’s built a financial life planning practice - and wants you to know that you can do the same. This week on the #YAFPNW podcast, our guest Stephen Brody, CFP®, discusses how financial life planning is about planning beyond the numbers and leading clients to grow as people. After going through the Kinder Institute as a registered life planner, Stephen ventured out on his own to create a guided and intentional financial life planning process that reflected his values and was designed to grow both himself and his financial planning clients.

Stephen truly believes that financial planning is more than a numbers-driven practice. He focuses on marrying the reality of money with the helping people move forward with the lives they want to live – which is something we could all use to focus on in our own practices!

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We have got to be comfortable enough in our own skin to know that we’re not responsible for all the answers. We are the facilitators of the process. – Stephen Brody, CFP®

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What You’ll Learn:

  • Resources and training to look for in the financial life planning industry.
  • How to implement intentional leadership in your own practice.
  • How we can lead clients based on our own experiences.
  • Why it’s important to reframe our planning process to reflect purpose and the values of our clients.


Susan Bradley Sudden Money

GreenLeaf Center for Servant Leadership

George Kinder – Kinder Institute of Life Planning







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Hannah: Well, thanks for joining us today, Stephen.

Stephen: Oh, my pleasure. Thank you for asking.

Hannah: Yes, well, I am so excited to have you on this podcast, and really introduce the listeners to a lot of your thoughts and thought leadership that you have around financial planning. But to give the listeners an idea of who you are, you have been a financial planner for 30 years, and specifically, a financial life planner for 30 years. So for our listeners, what does it mean to be a financial life planner?

Stephen: I think the simplest definition when I look at it, and it’s the one I use with consumers all the time, is that financial planning focuses on the money and the dollars and the investments and the estate planning and those pieces. And the client is really on the outside. Financial life planning differs in that the client is at the center. Their values, goals, money stories, functional and dysfunctional, and everything about them. And then the money is simply on the outside, is the details to support a life well-lived. So to me, that’s the most practical definition.

Hannah: And in practice, what does that look like? How, in practice, is your practice different than somebody who just does traditional financial planning?

Stephen: Well, I actually have a very defined process, and actually I believe tomorrow, an updated version of that will show up in the next Journal of Financial Planning under the title of Inspired Financial Planning. But the reality is that I probably spend about 15-20 hours doing what I call discovery, awareness, and clarity, which is the first quadrant of my process. And that’s really learning who somebody is today and why, both on the internal and external, working to create an awareness of what they want their life to be and what they want it to look like, and a big part of that is pulling out what Steve Covey called the secret place. As individuals, we have our public face and our private one, but then there’s that secret yearning inside that never comes out. So the awareness phase really focuses on bringing that out.

And finally, clarity aligns all of that with their both human and financial capital and resources to create a vision of what’s possible. So you’re looking at 15-20 hours worth of work back and forth between … before we ever really get to what we’re going to do with the money.

Hannah: Okay, so 15-20 hours face to face with a client?

Stephen: Yes.

Hannah: Wow.

Stephen: Meetings normally are scheduled for two hours apiece, and in that first quadrant, meetings take place no farther apart than every two weeks. What I’ve found over the years is that two weeks is that perfect time to still maintain the momentum of what you’ve been doing, and the energy, while allowing seeds to root, if you will, that we’ve put in place at the prior appointment. So that two weeks allows the client to show up for the next appointment different than the person they were prior.

Hannah: So interesting. So do you just have a list of questions for everybody? I know I do the money habits cards with clients. Do you have different exercises for every meeting?

Stephen: So initially, my discovery starts with a modified version of a road map. And the road map people are most used to is the one from Bill Bachrach, but I have my own version that I created. So the initial discovery is a very guided and intentional process. And within two hours, I’ve never seen another way to reach deeper levels of trust and intimacy with a client. More often than not, spouses are looking at each other and saying, “I didn’t know you feel that way,” and there are tears, and it’s just beautiful. It’s a beautiful space.

So after that, it’s really a matter of being present with the client and truly understanding what they have and why, where they are and why, and where they hope to be and why. So it’s very much respecting the process and patiently moving along with the clients. I look at it as a mastery process. You don’t move from one topic to the next until you’ve really sorted it out. And that way, you’re really always on firm footing moving forward.

Hannah: Yeah, that seems like such a long time, even to me. But the reality is for … I know personally in my life, there’s really no other place where I could dive that deeply into asking those big questions. So to really provide a space for that, I think, is a really cool thing.

Stephen: Thank you, thank you.

Hannah: You’ve talked a lot and you’ve done a lot of research around the essential leadership role of a financial planner. On one piece, one place where I’ve seen you write, you’ve said that planners need to be aware that clients instinctually assume, ascribe, and expect a certain set of traits and behaviors from the planner. Can you expound on this? What traits and behaviors do clients assume that we financial planners have?

Stephen: Well, I think what I’d like to do is take a small step backwards in that conversation, and one of the things has to do with something that’s called role theory. And everybody in their life as an individual takes on certain roles. Some statuses are ascribed, such as being a father, a son, an employee, a friend. That type of thing. And then other statuses are achieved or worked for, such as a spouse, or being a planner.

So we all carry multiple roles. Those roles are about us and our stories, but when a client shows up in front of us because of who they are, they have expectations coming in to what they hope, to see what they hope to happen, how they hope to be treated. So when we look at a client and they’re across the table from us, we’re the ones who are responsible for moving them forward. We’re responsible for making sure that they end up in a place, through proper facilitation and everything that goes into being a good planner, of being able to make progress with real change.

So when we look at the traits and behaviors, there are a lot of them. Simply, and I guess in its first iteration, talking about that, what I would say is … What I’d like to do is state a quote from John Quincy Adams. And his quote was that if your actions inspire others to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more, you are a leader.

So given the role of a financial life planner, if we were to look in the mirror, don’t we, as financial life planners, want clients to dream more, learn more, do more, and become more? I would say, 9 out of 10 people would say yes. So first and foremost, you then become a leader by default. It’s whether you recognize it, and what are you willing to do with it.

So if you look at all the different roles that we fill as planners, being a coach and facilitator and advisor and technical expert and money manager and designated adult and mentor and change agent, and there are 20 more. When we look at all of those things, that’s being a leader. But then when we look at the characteristics that are related to doing really good jobs with clients and creating engagements in a way that create deeper and more meaningful engagements, there’s a set of research and a doctoral dissertation and papers that talk about having a certain set of skills.

So while there are a lot of them, they generally fall under the topic of the planner’s way of being. And spiritual intelligence, and good listening skills, and inspiring, and intuitive, and motivational, and self-aware, and non-judgmental, and calming. And Hannah, there are just a lot more that follow. So I think those traits are we put forth, or we hope to put forth, and what the client wants. But whether that actually happens or not is a different question.

Hannah: Okay, so this is interesting. Just a list that you listed off, like the coach and facilitator and all these roles. It can be overwhelming, especially as a young planner, trying to figure out, how the heck am I supposed to do all this or get better at all this, ’cause there’s so many aspects, what our roles are as financial planners and financial life planners.

But I like what you’re saying. You’re saying that the common characteristic is leadership skills. So if we can focus on our leadership skills, these other skills will naturally come about. Is that what I’m hearing?

Stephen: So I think the first general comment is, if we as a planner can understand our predominant role as being a leader, and in that way being a facilitator, I think that clears the path for a lot of things being done better, because if it’s about me facilitating or leading, then I’m not concerned about doing to the client. I’m not concerned about having to be the expert. I’m not concerned about all of those other areas. What I am concerned about is being present with the client, checking in with the client. Making sure I don’t get in the way of where the client goes.

One of the really fundamental tenets of financial life planning is, if you do it well, you ascribe to the fact that the clients know the answer. The clients know what they want. Our job is to help peel back the layers, hold up the mirror, and help them discover what it is that they’re looking for. So if you truly take that role, I think it does help you be a better leader.

Hannah: You talk about the four different types of leadership. So can you walk us through what are those different types of leadership, or maybe ways to show up as leaders? And then, how do they apply to financial planning? How are those made evident in our day to day?

Stephen: So, tiny little background is that my doctoral work and my dissertation was in the field of interdisciplinary leadership. So when you look at leadership from an academic standpoint, there are probably 10-15 legitimate theories on leadership that have a lot of research, that have been proven over time. And what I found in my three years of research is that there are specific leadership theories that really just walk hand in hand with being a financial life planner. So while there are some other ancillary ones, these four really are the main ones.

The first one is adaptive leadership, and adaptive leadership in its simplest form is about meeting clients where they are and responding appropriately. So the general iterative and evolving process in adaptive leadership is observing events and patterns, interpreting what is being observed, and designing intervention based on those observations. So we do that all day long as planners. But you have to be able to be with the client, be flexible, and be present. And then with adaptive leadership, the collaborative task really becomes for us to discover what their answers are in order to bring about change. So in a lot of ways, in a lot of circles, that could stand up to define financial life planning all by itself.

One of the other quotes that I love about adaptive leadership comes from Beans. From a gentleman named Bean, he says that adaptive leadership is courageously asking the questions no one else is willing to ask, and committing to finding the truth. That’s just such a beautiful quote for what we do every day with clients. So, adaptive leadership is the first one.

Second one is authentic leadership. Authentic leadership is showing up as your real self, and it’s knowledge-based about yourself. It’s a matter of the reflective practices that you do. And what we talk about a lot in financial life planning and doing deeper work is you can only take clients as far as you’ve gone yourself. And authentic leadership really falls under that category, ’cause we authentically have to be willing to understand our own money stories and our own biases and judgments in order for them not to get in the way in our work with clients.

So the really four components of authentic leadership are self-awareness, understanding your own values and identities and emotions. Having an internalized moral perspective, so we can regulate what’s going on. Be able to have balance processing and analyze what’s going on, because when we work with clients, it’s on the internal and external, and we’ve got to be able to balance those. And then the fourth one is relational transparency, being really open and honest.

Hannah: So one of the things that you said, and I hear this a lot, but I think this can be expanded on. You say we can only take clients where we’ve gone ourselves. So, I’ve never gone through retirement. I’ve never … Especially as a young planner, dealing with a lot of older planners in my day to day of work, how does that apply, especially looking at generational differences?

Stephen: So, I think that’s a great question. Without question, if you go through certain stages of life, they’re all moments to collect wisdom. So if you’ve never bought a car before, helping someone buy a car is a little difficult, or not as easy as it could be. So I think you’ve got a good point there, but at the same time, we’ve got to be comfortable enough in our own skin to be able to know, we are not responsible for all the answers. We are there as facilitators of the process.

So, correct. You may not have gone through retirement, but if somebody is talking about what they want and you’re facilitating them through exercises to be aware of what they want, how are you being at that moment? Are you uncomfortable, are you present, are you emotional? What did you see when your parents went through retirement? Those types of things, as you experience people who are transitioning from one part of life to another, how are you being there for them?

So while the experience may not be directly the same, you’ve got to be comfortable enough in the moment and be present enough in the moment where you’re not one moment ahead, you’re not one moment behind, but you are truly sitting hand in hand with that client. So in that regard is how you have to do your own work.

And a classic example is, if you happen to go through some questions and run up to a story and a client starts crying, are you going to say, “There, there,” and just keep going to what your topic was, or are you going to stop to be there with them in that moment, knowing that that crying’s okay? That crying is just a bell of awakening going off, and that’s inside that person. And the message is, something’s going on. Pay attention. If you as a planner have never done your own crying or your own searching, and you’re not comfortable with those emotions, then you’re not going to be able to facilitate that really important, pivotal moment for the clients. So that’s what I mean by that.

Hannah: A couple things come to mind really quick. One of them is, I remember, I do a lot work around transitional planning. Like the Susan Bradley Sudden Money program. And back where I used to work, I remember telling somebody about this and working with widows, and they’re like, “It’s a great market. You can make a lot of money in that. The key is to make sure you have the client sign the paperwork before they cry, so they can just leave when they start crying.” Isn’t that terrible?

Stephen: That’s horrible!

Hannah: But it’s this fundamental difference of saying, are we really willing to engage with our clients with everything that they bring into our offices, or do we just have our agenda that we need to get the client to sign the paperwork before we move on?

Stephen: Exactly.

Hannah: One of the things … So as you were talking, and I know we’ve had some off, not recorded conversations … So talking about life planning and this idea where you can only take clients where you’ve gone yourself, and I hear you saying that it’s more of … Are we emotionally aware of what’s going on within ourselves, that we can be aware of what’s happening within our clients?

But this idea of … I’ve had friends that have gone through the George Kinder program and things like that, and they’ve made … After that program, they’ve made significant life changes, as in quitting jobs, moving across the country, things like that. Do you think that financial planners have to be living their own life plan, if you would, in order to do this work? Or do they just have to be aware of where they want to go?

Stephen: I think they have to be on the journey. They have to be in a place where they are purposefully spending time in reflection to grow and develop in a predetermined way, because if you’re showing up for somebody as a financial life planner, and some people, in deference to Roy Diliberto, is … Financial life planning is nothing other than financial planning done well. So in deference to that, you have to be authentic with that client. You’ve got to be emblematic of somebody who’s on a journey.

One of the wonderful things and one of the awful things about being humans is that we never have the answer, and where we are is never exactly where we’re going to be a day later. And all of those things are okay, if you work with them and if you’re comfortable and you understand them. But if you’re constantly fighting that, then you’re not going to be able to do that for a client.

So one of the amazing things, when I interviewed 25 of the top people in financial life planning in the country, is all of them, down to the last person, described one of the main characteristics of being a good financial life planner or financial planner, being that you’re somebody who always is working on growing, developing. You’re not stuck. You’ve never arrived. There’s always more and something else. And I think having that internalized, ongoing inquisitiveness about what’s possible and what life can be shows up in front of a client.

To me, one of the amazing examples is a financial life planner who talks about living a balanced life, yet he’s happy to take phone calls on a Saturday when he’s in the park with his kids. I’m sorry, but to me, that’s out of balance. And at some point, a client’s going to look up and say, “You keep preaching to me about this, but you took that call.” So I think there’s an authenticity issue, and it’s about being able to look in the mirror and yourself and say, “I’m a work in progress, just like my clients are.”

Hannah: I like that. And I like the idea that, when we say we only take clients where we’ve gone ourselves, really tying that back to the journey. I think that’s, whether you’re 22 working with a 65 year old, or 64 working with a 65 year old, it’s what connects us.

Stephen: Very much so, very much so. So if we pick up on those other two leadership characteristics, or types of leadership, the next one is servant leadership. And servant leadership is huge, and I see it so much in our industry, because servant leadership begins with the natural feeling that you want to serve, that you want to be of service. And when you talk to the really good people in our business, while they want to have a good living and they want to have time and money freedom, they want to be able to make a difference.

So that’s a huge area of leadership, and one of the characteristics of servant leadership taking place, and this quote is from Greenleaf, who’s the father of servant leadership, is do those served … In other words, do the clients we serve grow as people? Do they, while being served, become healthier, wiser, freer, more autonomous, and more likely themselves to become servants?

And I think when we deliver to our clients a level of freedom, and that comes from George Kinder, they turn around and they help others find their own freedom. So servant leadership is a big one. And when you look at the planner practically as a servant leader, another quote from Greenleaf is, is that servant leader one who seeks to draw out, inspire, and develop the best and highest within people from the inside out? And Hannah, you know that’s what we do with clients.

Hannah: Mm-hmm (affirmative).

Stephen: So that’s another area. The fourth area is transformational leadership, and that has to do with our capacity to develop and promote values and goals. So, do we want for our clients, to help them to rise above low-level transactional considerations? It’s not just about the mutual fund, and instead pursue a higher-order sense of morality and purpose. We want them to live into that ideal life, and that’s really what a transformational leader does.

So when you look at those four academic theories of leadership, they all sort of describe what we do and what so much of us aspire to do.

Hannah: Well, and so with these leadership … There seems to be a lot of crossover. Would you agree with that?

Stephen: Very much so. And actually, transformational leadership is often paired with authentic leadership for its own theory, called authentic transformational. So there is a lot of overlap, and that really became apparent in my research. So there are nuances to each of those that tie into directly what it is that we do and what we aspire to do for and with clients.

Hannah: For the planners who are listening, who are like, “Okay, I bought into this, how do we become better leaders?” Especially as young planners. We don’t have the years of experience or decades of experience as a lot of other advisors. Is this an experience thing, or how do we be good at this?

Stephen: So I think the way anybody becomes good at it is, the first thing they do is look in the mirror and say, “I’m a leader and my clients are counting on me. And it’s my job to help facilitate, so it’s about co-creating, but my job is to help facilitate and co-create where it is they want to go.”

As you know, with a lot of young planners, they come in in the beginning. They think their sole value is to provide the answers. This is the answer to this and this is the answer to that, and that’s how you beat the market, and all of those types of things. That’s not their value. Their value is their heart. Their value is showing up and actually hearing clients.

So I think the first thing is to recognize that. And then what any planner can do, no matter their level of age or experience, is dedicated themselves to following a guided and intentional process. So for me, I’ve got my process. I know what the steps are. My job is to not get in the way of the process, all the while honoring the process. So I’m not going to take shortcuts that are about me, I’m not going to try to implement something before it’s time. I’m going to slowly and patiently be present with the clients, and facilitate and lean on that process til we get to where we need to go.

So I think that’s not about necessarily experience, but it goes back to the old Disney quote. When your values are clear, your decisions are easy. If I value that process, and I’m committed to following it through, then my decisions are easy. The client that walks in and say, “Well, I need to invest that million dollars today.” Well, because my values are clear and my decisions are easy, I know I can’t ethically or morally do anything with that money until I know them. And the only way I know them is to follow my process. So no matter what the age, the process is what stands in front.

Hannah: Maybe I’m projecting on some of my assumptions, and again, these have changed over the years, but especially when I first started out. This idea of financial life planning and really diving in deep, actively listening to the client, all of those things … I don’t know that I ever would have put process around that.

And so what’s exciting for what I’m hearing you say is we can dive deeply into our clients’ live and have structure around that. It’s not just this skill set that’s like, good luck. Go fill however many hours of talking about what’s most important to your client’s life. Can you talk maybe more about that process, or maybe what … 15 hours seems like a lot, but what have you seen other planners do in respect to that process?

Stephen: Well, I think the first piece is, you have to decide whether you want to do it on your own, or whether you want to go get training. So for me, I came through the Kinder Institute as a registered life planner, and that’s a very big part of how I do things and how I process. I did a lot of work with Bill Bachrach, who’s got unbelievable processes for discovery and awareness. And then as a student of Ed Jacobson and all of these people, for me the way to do it was to take a little bit from everybody and put it together and make it mine.

For somebody that’s new that doesn’t even know where to start, I would say, go find the training from somebody, whether it’s George Kinder or Susan Bradley or Carol at Money Quotient. Or just go up to somebody who seems to have it going on, if you will, and talk to them about the experience.

But one of the things that was really clear from my research is, your process has to be guided and intentional. It should pretty much be the exact same process every single time. But where people get caught up is, they think if they do that same process every time, it’s cookie cutter work. The reality is, is by doing the same process every time, you free yourself to be present with the client, and the results are different and unique based on each client.

So I think you start with somebody helping you figure out what it looks like. So for me, my process, I wrote a book 10 years ago now. And it’s called The Ultimate Guide to Connecting Your Money and Value. It’s called, What Your Happiest Friends Already Know: The Ultimate Guide to Connecting Your Money and Values With Your Life. And my process is in the back of that book. But as you know, with our financial life planning community, anybody can walk up to anybody and ask for help. And somebody’s always going to step up.

Hannah: That is so true. People love to share and especially with young planners, they get so excited. Again, it’s like what you talked about earlier about this, they’re always looking improve themselves, and new planners bring such energy and fresh ideas that these more experienced planners just love to engage with.

Stephen: Well, I think for us old planners, what we really look at is for most of us, the work we’re doing is the work we were put here to do. For us, it’s a calling. It’s when we’re in flow. And with that kind of understanding comes a stewardship obligation. We understand that we are using the gifts and talents that have been bestowed on us in a way that we’re supposed to be, and with that comes a responsibility and a humility that it’s not ours to keep, it’s ours to share. So I think our community takes that really seriously.

Hannah: It just makes me think back to Dick Wagner’s To Think Like a CFP, what does it mean for us to be a profession? And there is a sense of calling. If you go talk to doctors, there is a sense of, this is who I’m supposed to be. And that bigger sense of calling.

Stephen: Very much so.

Hannah: We’ve talked a lot about the roles that financial planners have, and the long list of what, really when we do financial planning, well, the roles should be … But does our role change based upon the client who’s sitting across the table from us?

Stephen: Oh, absolutely. And that goes back to adaptive leadership. We never really know what’s going to show up in front of us, and we don’t know whether one moment we’re supposed to be facilitating or in another moment, are we supposed to be the grownup in the room, or are we supposed to be the empathetic one, listening and hearing?

So I think what gives financial life planning so much power is, there’s really nobody that does what we do. We play in the reality of money, which can be different things to different people, but more so, we marry the reality of money with helping people put forth the lives they want to live. I’ve very long described what I do as, my job is to help free clients of financial stress and worry, so we can then actually create and have them live a happier, more inspired, purpose-driven life.

So when you look at just that one simple sentence, there are 15 or 20 different roles in there. So at any given time, I’ve got to have the ability and the flexibility and the adaptability and the willingness to shift roles. So with your experience, I’m sure that you’ve been in the situation where you’ve walked into a client meeting with an agenda, and within 30 seconds, it became really clear your highest and best use for the greater good of that client that day had absolutely nothing to do with your agenda. And after an hour or two, everybody’s a lot better off, and you did amazing work, and you didn’t cover a thing on your agenda. Have you had that happen?

Hannah: Oh, absolutely. Yeah.

Stephen: So, yeah, I think it’s about being adaptable and being present with the client, and that really flows back to honoring the process and being present, because if it’s not about you, if it’s about the client, and making sure there’s … that you’re going to patiently but persistently make progress, but progress is deemed by where the client is, then you keep moving forward.

So for me, that first quadrant of the process, discovery, awareness, and clarity, is normally, I don’t know, at most, five, six meetings for clients. But I’ve had some clients stuck in that quadrant for two years. But during that time frame, they have made progress. Piece by piece, they’ve made progress. And as long as there’s progress and it’s a high standards environment, and work’s getting done, then my job is to honor that. And during that timeframe, the only money I’ve made is the financial planning fee, and because I charge fairly for my time, that’s okay.

So, yes. You’ve definitely got to be adaptable.

Hannah: So, how do I frame this well? One of my … I think I’ve come to peace with this a little bit in the past, but one of my issues with life planning, especially being a millennial, and realizing how quickly life can change for millennials, especially the people who are listening who want to serve millennials. Life planning, it almost feels like a set it and forget it type thing. Maybe that’s my problem.

But this idea of, when I was back in college, I could’ve never imagined my life where it is today. Even my first couple of years in the business, there’s no way I could’ve imagined where my life was today. You have these inflection points that kind of just take you in a completely different direction. How does life planning manage all of those dramatic life changes that people have, especially young people? People in their 20s or early 30s?

Stephen: I think it’s consistent for any sentient being, if you will. Young, old, any of those things, is that once we get them in that process of discovery, awareness, and clarity, what we really do at that point is we move to the heart of the matter, which is the energy and vigor and meaning and purpose, and all of those things. And then once that happens, we implement around money and meaning. And while you’re doing that, the client experiences those increasing levels of financial security and confidence. And what was financial stress and worry, the focus is now flourishing and well-being.

But like any human being, and one of the great books about this is George Leonard’s Mastery book, is we spend our lives on plateaus with momentary spurts of growth. So while we may hit a place or a patch where life seems to be pretty good and it’s what we want, and we’re flourishing, the master’s journey is really enjoying being on that plateau, but the more you enjoy and live into what you’re doing, the more an upward spiral is going to take place in your life, either intentionally or as a consequence or something.

And then you really get to the evolving nature of being human. We have cycles of plateaus and unpacking and repacking and growth. But throughout most of that cycle, the life planning outweighs the financial planning, ’cause the money literally is just the details. It’s the simplest part of what we do.

So I think we work with clients on an ongoing basis to have a life of reflection and discernment. One of the amazing thing, and actually I’m going through this now. I’ve built this amazing routine in life, in my practice. And one of the really interesting things is, as you build in a lot of balance and freedom, while those things are wonderful because it’s yours, eventually you also find that you become somewhat of a prisoner to what you’ve built. And if you look at your life as going down a highway, those walls on the side have become really high. So even though it’s mine and I built it intentionally, after a while, I’m a growing and developing, evolving person, and I want more.

Another way to look at that is, if you’ve ever looked at Bachrach’s, what’s called a [inaudible 00:40:27] conversation. What’s important about money to you. There are a lot of times we’ll go back and redo that conversation every couple years, and the things that were on the bottom, the most basic needs, have fallen off. But there are new things on the top, because we’re seeing life with new eyes. And those new eyes always keep us centered in living an ever-evolving life.

So, Hannah, I don’t think life planning is one and done. I think it’s an ongoing, beautiful, burdensome, pain in the butt, wonderful process.

Hannah: And it’s interesting that you’re talking about it in these terms, because again, what you just described is something that I think most millennials experience even graduating college. And what our clients experience as they’re switching jobs or looking to retire. And to your point earlier, it’s really about this journey, and if we can understand those basic human elements, it doesn’t matter, the age of the person across the table from you.

Stephen: That’s right. And so with that, I put out a question, which is … So as we’re sitting across the table from our clients, is our job focused on their money, or is our job focused on them, their head, their heart, and who it is they were meant to be? And I would put forth that if we look at our roles as becoming an advocate for the greatest life that person can live, then there’s a lifetime of work to be done.

Hannah: And just to put it in such contrast to … I talk to so many new planners, and they’re working in jobs where the client meetings are completely centered on investments, and this is such a counter to that, it’s such a counterweight to that, of focusing on their life instead of just the transactions of investments.

Stephen: Very big difference. But it’s a conscious choice. I’ve got planners that I mentor around the country, and many of them started out with me, where they’re journaling daily and sending me journals. And then journaling weekly and sending me those journals. And when you go back and look at where they were, transaction-oriented, to where they are now, it’s unbelievable. And it’s mainly the perspective of the planner and how they see their role, and what is it that they want to be doing.

Hannah: Is there any final pieces of advice, or what you want new planners to know?

Stephen: I want them to pay attention to that tiny little bell of awakening that’s going off inside of them, saying, “I wish I was doing more. I wish there was something else. I’d like to be doing this instead of this.” I find so many people sadly hear those voices, but they don’t pay attention. And I think taking the time to sit down and truly be with yourself and be mindful and be reflective and to practice discernment makes all the difference, because that’s when you harness the energy and the power and the vigor and the focus of getting ready to make life changes.

The young planners who have inspired me most are the ones that are out there saying, “Just because all you old folks have done it this way, that’s not what I want. It’s fine if that’s what you want, but I want something different, and I’m willing to do the work to make that happen.” So my wish would be that people pay attention to that voice and start a journey, whether it’s reading everything you can get your hands on, whether it’s picking up the phone and calling somebody.

If you want to be the person that instills change on behalf of your clients, you’ve got to be the person who instills change on your own. And whether you do that yourself or with a coach or a trusted friend, doesn’t matter. But just be open and willing to do the work, and trust, and have faith that if you’re going at it with open eyes and an open heart, it’s going to turn out the way it’s supposed it.

Hannah: One thing I just want to highlight in what you’re saying, and I think this is so important, especially for new planners who say, “I think this could be different,” to realize that there are so many older planners who are cheering you on and they’re your advocates. You just have to find the right people to be around.

Stephen: The first time you and sat down was at Naz, and just by virtue of showing up at Naz, you change who you are. Show up at FPA retreat, which is a small, intimate gathering, and find, before you go, find the five people on your wishlist to talk with. And they’re going to be there, so have the nerve to just go up and introduce yourself and say, “Can I talk to you for five minutes?” That’s how we’ve all done it, and it is truly one of the most beautiful things about our community.

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Stephen Brody, CFP®, believes that financial planning is about digging deeper to move beyond the numbers and help clients put forward the lives they want to live. Through intentional leadership, he’s built a financial life planning practice - and wants... Stephen truly believes that financial planning is more than a numbers-driven practice. He focuses on marrying the reality of money with the helping people move forward with the lives they want to live – which is something we could all use to focus on in our own practices!

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Resources and training to look for in the financial life planning industry.
How to implement intentional leadership in your own practice.
How we can lead clients based on our own experiences.
Why it’s important to reframe our planning process to reflect purpose and the values of our clients.

Susan Bradley Sudden Money
GreenLeaf Center for Servant Leadership
George Kinder – Kinder Institute of Life Planning

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Why Becoming an Expert Should Be Your #1 Priority Tue, 13 Mar 2018 18:51:49 +0000 0 Many young financial planners are nervous when first sitting down with clients. Jeffrey Levine takes time in this episode to outline how researching your niche, studying financial planning, and embodying what it means to be an expert can eliminate your worry when you’re just getting started. Jeffrey Levine, CPA/PFS, CFP®, believes that the key to getting started in this profession is to know your stuff. And he’s a testament that it works. Jeff is a self-proclaimed retirement tax guru, and has found his passion within retirement-focused financial planning and helping others organize their financial lives.

When he got started in the profession, Jeff worked for Ed Slott of Ed Slott and Company, LLC. Being surrounded by such big players in the financial planning profession at such an early point in his career, Jeff learned first hand that being engaged with information and with people who are willing to guide and mentor you is a big key to learning as much as you can, and being the best advisor you can be.

As one of Investment News’s 40 Under 40 and a successful co-founder of Blueprint Wealth Alliance, he has truly thrived living by the “know your stuff” philosophy. Many young financial planners are nervous when first sitting down with clients. Jeffrey takes time in this episode to outline how researching your niche, studying financial planning, and embodying what it means to be an expert can eliminate your worry when you’re just getting started.

Jeff also encourages people to stay patient and do the hard work that this career requires. With time, your dedication will pay off!

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What You’ll Learn:

  • What building a successful financial planning practice looks like.
  • What kind of information you need to know when partnering with other planners.
  • Why it’s important to surround yourself with successful, intelligent people who want to help you grow and mentor you.
  • How putting in the hours helps to solidify your “expertise” in the eyes of clients, colleagues, and your own mind.
  • How to manage your calendar to stay engaged – even as you get busier and grow in your career.
  • Why it might be a good choice to start your own firm rather than taking over someone else’s.


A Guide to the New 20% Pass-Through Tax Deduction by Jeffrey Levine

2018 NAPFA Spring Conference Speaker






Show Transcript

Ep89 Transcript

Hannah: Well thanks for joining us today Jeff.

Jeffrey: Yeah, my pleasure. Thanks for having me.

Hannah: Yeah. I’m so excited to have you on. You have had quite an interesting career that doesn’t necessarily line up with a lot of I guess traditional financial planners. You worked at Ed Slott and Company, working with America’s IRA expert. Can you tell us what that was like working for that large brand and what your role was within that?

Jeffrey: Sure. It’s funny, you’re right, life really takes you in some really funny directions at times. My goal growing up was never to be in the financial planning industry or financial advice or to be a CPA or a CFP. But through a series of really odd occurrences and just happenstance I ended working with Ed Slott and Company. It started out really just as an opportunity to learn and to contribute and to be someone on the team who was really doing a lot of grunt work at the time. A lot of research, a lot of writing up of tax court cases and diving into code sections and doing the background work. It really taught me at an early age the importance or really putting everything you have into a particular area and becoming a specialist in that area.

One of the things that struck me was, I think it was probably my second year with Ed Slott and Company. I must have been about 26 or 27. An attorney actually came to meet with us in the office, with me in the office. We didn’t do a lot of consultations with the public, most of it was B2B with other advisors and other professionals in the financial industry. But occasionally we did what we call these IRA consultations and charged $500 for up to an hour’s worth of time. So whether it took five minutes or whether it took the full 69 minutes, it was $500.

The reason for that, Ed always said, “We spend the time to learn this stuff so that we can answer a question quickly. We shouldn’t be penalized for our really deep knowledge. Just because we can answer that off the cuff doesn’t make it any less of of a difficult question. So this attorney came into the office and I could see as soon as I walked out to greet him, he kind of had this look on his face. He had driven actually four hours to come down and meet, and I could see he was like, “Oh my God, I’m here to meet with this 20 year old kid who doesn’t know anything. Why am I doing this? Why?” You could really sense, so we promised, “Listen, if I cannot answer your questions at the end of this, I promise we’re not going to bill you.”

By the time he walked out, he was apologizing, “I’m so sorry. Please forgive, it’s just that this is complicated and you’re so young.” It really taught me the value of diving deep into an area and becoming an expert, because at the end of that meeting he didn’t care that I was 20 or 25 or 45 or 85. He just wanted to know that someone was competent enough to answer his questions in a way that would help him to alleviate the issue that he was dealing with and know that it was the right answer. That’s really what he wanted.

Hannah: We talk a lot about confidence with new planners, and how when I talk to all these young planners it’s always, “How do I be confident in these meetings?” I love your solution of, “Just become an expert.”

Jeffrey: That’s it. When you know your information, people know you know your information. Your confidence comes naturally because … and you love it. You want to show people how smart you are, and to tell them, “Oh yeah, I saw that. There was this odd case from 1969 that came out,” and people look at you like, “How do you know that?” It’s because you spend the time you put it in. Right now the Olympics are going on and I suspect that none of those Olympians just walked in at the opening ceremonies and said, “Hey, I’m going to compete in this.” They’ve been training for years at one thing to do it really, really, really well. I think that’s what a lot of new planners should do, is do one thing but do it really, really, really well.

Hannah: So did you always know that you wanted to be more on the technical side of the profession?

Jeffrey: No. Like I said, I never even wanted to really be in the profession. It was such a fluke. Growing up I always was planning on being a doctor, from the time I was two to the time I was 21. And then my last years in college I just decided I wanted to go in a different way. I really wasn’t sure what I was going to do. Ultimately I decided, “Hey, I’m going to become a financial planner.” Now Hannah there’s actually one thing that I don’t know that you know about me which is kind of interesting, and kind of relates to all of this.

My mother is actually the managing partner of Ed Slott and Company. Yeah, so she’s not a technical person at all. She doesn’t know anything about the tax code. If you ask her about her finances she’ll say, “I don’t know, ask my son.” But she’s a great, great, great businesswoman and she’s excellent with relationships. So I have known of Ed and known Ed Slott and Company since I was a young kid. I remember at 11 years old, I think, I worked in his office and his father was still alive at the time, he was also a CPA. I worked during a holiday break. In fact, I think it was probably the February break that we’re close to now.

At the end of the week, I’d worked in there for the whole vacation because my mom had no one to babysit me, his father came over and gave me $100 bill. My mom promptly ripped it out of my hand and gave it back to his father and said, “You can’t give him $100. What are you? What are you, nuts?” He said, “No. He’s going to learn the value of hard work under my watch.” So I had grown up around this, and I’d heard this. I remember even as young kid, when Ed was first doing local radio, my grandfather and I would sit by the radio just to make sure that if there weren’t enough question asked at the time we could always call in and be a question for him. So it goes back many, many, many years. When you hear something so many times it becomes ingrained in you.

A typical line that I joke around with people is like, “I knew how to roll over before I knew how to roll over.” It was a really, really young exposure to this. So after deciding not to be a doctor I said, “I’m going to become a professional financial planner.” I see Ed working with all these wonderful advisors, I want to help people just like they help people. So like many of your listeners, many other advisors in this field, I went and I did some research and I tried to find what was the best company at the time offering training. I went there and the first week was fantastic. It was rah-rah, we’re going to help people. The second time we went, during the second week, one visit per week, the second week was one of the best motivational lectures I have ever heard in my life, called, “212 degrees.” Are you familiar with it?

Hannah: I’m not.

Jeffrey: Okay. So I’m a science nerd. Even though I’m not a doctor or didn’t go down the science path, I still am a science nerd at heart, so this really appealed to me. The whole idea behind it was, basically water, summing up an hour discussion in 30 seconds. Basically water from 32 degrees to 211 degrees Fahrenheit goes from being cold water to hot water. There’s a lot of energy being put into that system, but nothing’s really changed. If you were to put in a little bit more energy, just one fraction more amount of energy into that system, all of a sudden you go from 211 degrees to 212 degrees and the water turns from water to steam. Now we can power locomotives and send ships across oceans and lift things with steam power.

The whole concept of it was that you could be putting in all this effort to something and you think you’re giving it everything, and you’re not seeing any results and maybe you get frustrated. But maybe it was just that last little bit that you could have put in, and all of a sudden you would have seen everything happen for you. It always stuck with me all these years. I’ve said, “Am I at 211 degrees or is there something else that I could be doing to get to that 212 degree to see the results I want.” That was great.

The third week was a discussion about life insurance, which is fine. If you’re going to be an advisor you’ve got to know the tools of your trade. But by week four it was the classic, “Hey, bring in a list of everybody you know and let’s see how much financial product we can push down their throats as quickly as possible.” Now that’s not of course how they worded it. It was, “We’re going to help people and your friends and your family and the friends of your family.” But I have this crisis of conscious, I’m not a salesy guy. I couldn’t it, and more than anything being in the unique position that I was growing up, I said, “How could I possibly sit down across somebody now, look them in the eye and say, “Give me your money,” when I literally know hundreds of other advisors who are way more qualified than I am? So I got really frustrated and I did something I never do, I said, “I can’t do this. I’m not going to do it.”

And again, life works in mysterious ways. Ed Slott and Company was putting on a technical program and they were short-staffed so they needed help. So of course I fly in, and I’m telling this exact same story to a group of financial advisors I know, just again from growing up around them. Lo and behold, there’s an advisor at a table behind me and he overhears everything. “Hey Jeff,” the next day he comes up to me, “Hey Jeff, listen. I work in a CPA firm down in Florida and it’s one of the largest CPA firm in South Florida. We do the financial planning for this firm. How would you like to come down and essentially be my junior? You don’t have to go out there and hunt for clients or whatnot. We have enough volume coming in as it is, you can just learn the business under me. You’ll sit in on my meetings, et cetera.”

I was like, “Wow.” This is exactly what I wanted. I wanted to learn. I wanted to apprentice. I wanted to become an expert before I sat down with someone and said, “Trust me with your life savings.” So I jumped at the opportunity. I ended up moving to Florida. After about a year and half or so in that position, it was an unbelievable opportunity, I learned a lot, but at the of the day it just wasn’t the right fit. So, I was going to go off on my own. I didn’t know what to do. I’m in my mid-twenties. How do I start a practice? Which way do I go? So I called up Ed and Ed say, “You know, I don’t know that he’s hiring but I have a good friend down in Florida,” or, “someone I know. He’s a high quality professional, been in the business for years. Why don’t you go see him? I bet you he can give you some tips about starting your planning practice.”

So I make the call and I spoke to this advisor. He says, “Absolutely. Any friend of Ed’s is a friend of mine. I’m happy to meet you. We just can’t do it tomorrow because I have a book signing. Why don’t we meet the following morning?” “Okay, sounds great.” That was the plan, and then right before he hung up I asked the question that without a doubt changed the direction of my life, changed the course of my career path, et cetera. I said to him, “Do you mind if I come to your book signing? I’d love to buy a copy of your book and meet you.” Really it was my way of saying, “Thank you for taking an interest in me. Let me take an interest in what you’re doing as well.”

So the next evening I went to his book signing. I introduced myself. I bought a copy of his book, he signed it. I went home that night, and then I thought to myself, “What can I do to show this guy that I am really serious?” I decided I would stay up all night and read his book cover to cover, so that I could go in the next morning and talk to him about it. It was a great book. It’s still on my bookshelf, in fact I’m just turning around now to take a peek at it. It’s an awesome, awesome book for financial advice. But there was this on problem, it had about three or four really esoteric IRA mistakes. I didn’t know what to do, because this guy is doing me a favor, right? He’s going to give me free advice and take some of his really valuable to come sit with me, someone he’s never met, never heard of.

Do I look at him and say, “Thank you so much. By the way, there are mistakes in your book. You’re a top advisor and I don’t have anything to hang my hat on. I’m just telling you you’re wrong.” Of course not, I could never do that. So I called up Ed and I said, “What do you think I should do?” He said to me, “No, no, no. This guy, there’s no way there’s mistakes in this book. It’s not possible. I know him. He’s a top advisor, been in the business 20-30 years.” I said, “Ed, I’ve been listening to you for a long time, I’m pretty sure I’m right.” He says, “No. No, it can’t be. In fact, I know the editor of the book. They would never let a mistake go by.” “Ed, I’m faxing you the pages. Humor me and take a look would you?”

I fax him the pages and 10 minutes later he calls back and says, “Son of a gun. You’re right. How did you know that?” And that’s what I said to him, I said, “I have been listening to you all my life. Doesn’t everybody know this?” To me it was this stuff that was like one plus one is two, you know this things. He was like, “No, this is really technical stuff.” So long story, which this was already but to shorten it up, he said, “Come to New York, I want to talk to you.” It turned into a job offer to start doing some grunt work. He said, “Clearly you’ve got a mind for this and a talent for this. How would like to come work with me?” And whenever there’s somebody that’s the top in the country at anything and they say, “Would you like to work with me?” Your answer should always be yes, I don’t care what it is. They’re the best garbage man, I’m going to work with them for a while because I want to learn how to be the best at whatever I can be.

So I packed up and that was that. After a while I ended up moving back to New York and that’s where I am now, it’s where my practice is. It was an unbelievable opportunity to learn a lifetime’s worth of work in a really condensed period, because there we weren’t getting the easy questions, we were getting everybody’s hardest questions. So you have to learn these things really, really, really quickly. It was awesome, and I’ll always be grateful for the opportunity of working there.

Hannah: I have to ask, with the advisor who got it wrong, did you ever tell him that he got it wrong?

Jeffrey: Ed actually called him before I went in. He said, “You’re not going to believe this but he’s actually kind of smart.” And that was the foray. He told when we met, he said, “I did call him,” and that was it. Yeah, but I couldn’t possibly bring that up. I would have looked like such a jerk at the time. I mean really, it is a great, great, great book. When I say esoteric I mean these are really mundane things, and unless you’re nose deep in the tax code you probably have no business knowing. But everybody has their unique ability.

Mine is you sing a song twice and I know all the lyrics. So having heard Ed speak about it many times, again it was just ingrained in there. It was by osmosis, I just picked that up. It was just an unbelievable learning experience for that time, and again it really changed the course of my life because when people find out, “Oh, your mother’s managing partner of Ed Slott and Company,” the first thing they think about actually is, “Yeah, you have a job because mommy works there.” And in fact that was a big concern for me. It was a real big concern.

When I came back to New York and I sat down with Ed and he offered me the position, I said, “That’s great but I have two thoughts. One is I really love financial planning. I love that interaction one-on-one with clients, and that same sense of satisfaction of someone saying, ‘Thank you. You’ve helped me.'” That was the thing that drove me more than anything, was seeing that look on someone’s face, where they were so concerned and then all of a sudden they understood that they were going to be okay, or that there were things we could do to improve on their situation or to protect them against potential hazards, and they just felt relaxed and calm. That sense of satisfaction, I said, “I have a hard time giving that up.”

He was very, very fair about, he said, “Listen, if you’re going to write for us or research, I don’t care if you do it at three in afternoon or three at night, as long as you get it done, done well and done on time. So if you want to continue to do financial planning on,” I hate to say on the side, because basically for the entire time I worked at Ed Slott and Company I worked like 90 hours a week because I was doing two full-time jobs. “But if you want to continue doing that as well, go for it,” and so I did. But my other issue was, I said to him, “I don’t want to work somewhere where everybody looks and says, ‘You only have a job because mommy works there.'”

His answer was true but I took it as a challenge. He said, “You’re going to have to know twice as much and be twice as smart to get half the credit as anybody else who works here because of that.” I just took it on as a challenge. I said, “All right, so be it. Let’s roll.” That was what led to the next I think eight, nine years of my life.

Hannah: So you were building a firm while working full-time with Ed Slott, is that right?

Jeffrey: Yeah. Building … I certainly wasn’t ignoring a firm, but building is a tough word for me to use because I wasn’t really out there actively marketing in the sense that a lot of other advisors are. It was really very soft word-of-mouth, the occasional client that came in. Since I’ve left Ed Slott and Company now and started to focus more on my advisory practice, I would say that now I’m really building something. There it was more of … It really depends on your definition of building. You’ve got a lot of time when it was more in the running and working of the business, and I didn’t always have an administrative assistant or staff at the time or partners like I do now, so I was doing a lot of that stuff myself and that was a necessity because my hours were all over the place.

I would be traveling with Ed Slott and Company for teaching or doing things, so it really was difficult at the time to get to train someone else to help me with some of those tasks. It was a challenging time for, and because of that I never wanted to take on too much and really go out there and let’s say open the flood gates and now I can’t serve all these clients by myself and do my Ed Slott and Company job. It was growing but it was kind of growing really ultra organically, I would say.

Hannah: What made you take the jump and leave Ed Slott and Company and start your own … I mean not start your own, you already had it, but really dive full steam ahead into your own practice?

Jeffrey: I was very fortunate, in that when I got into the space and when I had the situation when I left the other firm in Miami, most people would have to roll up under somebody or they may have to go to a large firm. I was able to call in a favor if you will and start out as an independent broker dealer in essentially my own branch with no clients and no existing revenue. Basically, someone said, “Hey, he’s a smart kid who’ll do the right thing. Give him a chance,” and they did. Which is unusual for an independent broker dealer, because why are they going to take on the risk of someone when there’s really no corresponding revenue.

My first year was a pretty successful year, as going the independent route. I really then hovered kind of level for the next six or seven years, again because I wasn’t really focusing on growing it so much. It was just as it was coming in. Ultimately, I decided to make a change back in 2015, because I just felt a change was in order. I wanted to really expand the practice and team up with some other individuals. I ended up switching broker dealers, but very quickly I realized something that I probably knew in my heart but just wasn’t ready to admit. Which was it just wasn’t the right space for me.

I’d already transitioned most of my business into the advisory space before and really didn’t do too much in the brokerage side. But I really thought that the advisory side was for me, but I didn’t want to build my own advisory firm. It seemed unmanageable, and at the time I was still working with Ed Slott and Company, and I was concerned that if I became an employee somewhere else or part of another advisory team, it’d be very challenging to serve two masters who demanded my time on an ongoing basis. When it was my own practice, it was me versus Ed Slott and Company, but if I had two essentially employers, I think it would have been very difficult, if not impossible.

So ultimately I decided to leave the broker dealer space. It just wasn’t worth it, and as much of a challenge as it would be to start putting together an advisory practice from scratch and go through the SEC registration process and all of that, from soup to nuts. That’s what I did in 2016 with someone I actually met down in Florida while I was working down there initially. We became very good friends. We always wanted to work together. He’s kind of the yin to my yang. We enjoy doing the polar opposite of things in the financial planning spectrum and we’re good at different things in the spectrum.

It was really a very seamless partnership, and probably would have happened much earlier if we weren’t always at odd points in our life, where I was moving back to New York, or he was having kids, or I was having kids. It was just the timing was never there, and then ultimately it was, and it took off. It took of really quick. I was really left with a tough choice. It was very demanding to have both jobs, if you will, full-time.

So in June of 2017, Ed and I talked and it became apparent that Ed really needed someone to do what I was doing, and only be doing that, and I had other interests. I really do enjoy the planning. I still love speaking, I still travel to speak and I love business to business consulting and working with other advisors and helping them as well. I love writing, I still do a ton of it. I love reading and researching. When the tax code came out, the new tax law, I think I sent out 200 tweets in the first day or something like that. I love pouring through and learning new things, but it just couldn’t be with Ed Slott and Company. I needed to have more control over all aspects of my life, so it was time.

They’ve since moved on and brought in some new talented people there. I think it’s been the best thing that I ever could have done for myself, my practice and my family. It’s given me more time with them and that’s been really important to me as well.

Hannah: That’s great. What I like about your story is that sometimes people get in jobs and hope to stay there there rest of their lives, and sometimes there’s a natural point where it’s better for both parties if you just move on, and it’s a really healthy and good thing.

Jeffrey: It is. It is. You know what, I didn’t expect it, and I think a lot of people were caught off guard because I would go places, and obviously it changed somewhat from place to place, but the standard introduction was like, “And here’s the heir apparent to Ed Slott.” Which was certainly never words that I used, but they were use quite frequently as the introduction. Like, “How do you introduce you?” “Well, you can say whatever you want.” “Okay,” and that’s how they would introduce me. So a lot of people really thought that I was going to be there, again especially because I have family working there as well. As a managing partner it was just assumed, like, “He’ll be here to take over one day.”

And you know, perhaps if I didn’t really enjoy financial planning as much as I did, maybe that would have been a possibility. But I can’t really imagine my life without working with some of the amazing people I work with on the client side. I just love that sense of satisfaction, of helping someone to have that peace of mind and to know that they’re going to be okay. There’s no substitute for that for me. I don’t have to do it all the time, but I don’t think I could do it none of the time.

Hannah: That’s really interesting, I mean hearing you say all that. You chose to start your own practice instead of potentially taking Ed Slott and Company someday. That’s crazy, hearing that.

Jeffrey: Yeah, maybe to some people but you know what, there’s no guarantees in life and it’s not like there was a contract in place that said, “Hey, when something happens you’re going to be here.” I was the younger person on the staff who had the knowledge and there wasn’t a clear second person. And yeah, again, I’d taken over a lot of the speaking responsibilities and someone of the things that Ed had done previously, he had passed onto me over the years and I had taken on much greater responsibilities within the firm of higher level tasks and so forth. But there were certainly other very, very talented and super knowledgeable people that I worked with there for many, many, many years, twice the amount of IRA information in my brain. It just was a matter of where are you at that point in life? It has to be the right time, the right position and the right place and it just didn’t line up.

Hannah: Yeah. You know, we talk about succession plans a lot on this podcast and various places, and your life has to line up with that. There has to be a larger narrative around that. It sounds like your larger narrative was leaning towards your own practice, or partnering with somebody.

Jeffrey: Yeah. I love doing, I love having a little bit of both part. Speaking really excites me, and I think that if I were to say, “What is it that I am the best at? What is that I do better than anything else in my life?” It’s taking really complex, really mundane things, and making them simple to understand, before even more important than that, fun to listen to and exciting presentation. Something that’s not boring, because no one wants to listen to someone yap about taxes for eight hours when they sound like Ben Stein from the dry eyes Clear Eyes commercial. Like, “Dry eyes, try Clear Eyes.” You just want to fall asleep, and that’s the typical tax seminar that advisors or CPA’s go to.

So I think that’s an area where I want to continue to focus and build out. I really enjoy doing that, but again I could never leave entirely, at least at this point, my individual clients. I love that too. So I don’t think people have to pick just … As you grow and as you find out your course, I don’t think you have to just do one think. I think that you have to develop the expertise in one or a few areas, so that you can choose to pursue those areas in various ways that you want.

Hannah: One thing that you said that you do, I don’t know, a lot might be not great word, but is a lot of B2B consulting. What does that look like for you? What are you consulting on?

Jeffrey: In the past, when I was in Ed Slott and Company, that was one of my primary roles. We had a group of about 400 advisors that trained on an ongoing basis. They essentially, as part of their membership fee if you will, had carte-blanche access to the Ed Slott and Company technical team. It was me and generally, depending upon what year you were talking about, anywhere from two to three other individuals. We would be responsible for answering all the questions that came in. They came in by phone. They came in by email. They came in by message board.

That was one aspect of it, and then we also had advisors who weren’t affiliated with that group who just needed additional help on certain complex matters, often times for their client. They would be working with a client who was either already an existing client, or they would be trying to win a new client relationship and as part of their value proposition they would essentially say, “Here, I’m going to pay for this consultation with this firm because this is an area where we need to bring in experts.”

That’s kind of translated, I still do that to a degree. It’s admittedly probably the smallest portion of my business makeup at this point. Speaking makes up a significant portion. My financial advisory practice makes up a significant portion. I also run and service the technical content expert for the Horsesmouth Savvy IRA Planning program. That’s another area in which I focus.

And then, the business to business at this point has really, has taken a backseat, just because it’s not something that I’ve pushed as heavy, because it’s not scalable. At least not until I have let’s say a whole crew of other people like me working with me in the technical space. So it’s just not a scalable thing day one because everything has to delivered for one-on-one, is not one-to-many. I’ve tried, at least at this point, outside of my financial advisory practice to focus on the one-to-many things that I can do.

Hannah: You just went through a whole list, that sounds like two or three full-time jobs, of everything that you’re doing right now. How do you manage having so many different roles with various places?

Jeffrey: It’s something that I’ve had to become better at to be honest. Managing time and being super organized isn’t something that comes natural to me. I freely admit that I … I would even go so far to say there are times that I really, really struggle with it. Certain things that other people do I’m amazed. There’s someone in my office, he’s the most organized human being I have ever met in my entire life. He has lists for everything and everything is categorized. I look and I marvel, it’s like, “My goodness, I don’t even know how to start with that.”

But I’ve really tried to embrace three things. The first being other people, delegating. That’s been something that I’ve worked on a lot lately. The other, the second thing is to embrace no. I’m really bad at that. I think probably I pegged it one month at about 10% to 12% of the time that I was spending on a working day was actually being spent, when I tracked it for a month, on tasks that were not related to really any of my businesses. They were just things that I said I’d help people out with.

Like, “Yeah, sure I’ll call the IRS for you for that one and see if I can help take care of it.” Just because I didn’t want to say no. I wanted to be the guy who says yes to everything. I’ve really tried to embrace saying no. Which sounds awful but it’s really important, and I’ve learned its importance.

And then the third thing is technology. Technology has really helped me to become a more organized person and to become much better at time management. I still work a lot. I still work more hours than I’d like to, but I look at this really as a startup phase for the next 20, 30, 40 years of my life.

I really love what I do now, and so I don’t ever envision the traditional retirement. I just think that I might maybe speak less or travel less, or maybe at some point I don’t see as many clients. But I don’t ever imagine that traditional retirement because I don’t know what I’d do with myself, that I love this too much.

Hannah: Thinking back to earlier in our conversation, you were talking about the well-respected advisor who wrote a book and there were IRA mistakes in his book, and just with the work that you’ve done with so many advisors, especially speaking to younger planners, how do we be sure that we’re not the guy who’s writing a book, or gal who’s writing a book, with mistakes in it like that? What would be your advice on that?

Jeffrey: You know, the first thing is don’t … This is going to sound like really the dumbest statement ever or the most obvious thing but don’t trust everything you read on the internet. That’s the very first thing I would tell people, especially for young advisors. A lot of the younger advisors that I spoke too, they’ve grown up with the internet. They don’t remember the days of pre-internet, and so everything is a Google click away from them.

Google is amazing, and there are some tremendous resources out there on the web. But just because it’s there doesn’t mean it’s right. What I always used to do if there was something I was looking up, I’d always try to find someone who’d written about it from a place that I would trust normally. But then I would go back and do the background research. I would try to find the actual code that they reference, or the private letter ruling that they referenced, or the court case that they referenced, and read it for myself and make sure that I really understood it.

That’s not going to be for everybody but if you focus on an area and you become very knowledgeable at that one thing, then you expand it just a little bit, and then you expand it just a little bit more. The other thing that I would say is write. Write as much as you can. Writing is probably the easiest way to become an expert at something, because when you write there’s no hiding.

We’re recording this podcast now, and maybe I said something before that’s not 100% correct. Now hopefully not but maybe I did. You can excuse someone when they’re speaking extemporaneously and they’re just going off the cuff and answering a question or having a discussion for the mistake here or there. Because sometimes our mouths don’t work as fast as our brains do.

But when you’re writing, it’s there and it’s permanent. Someone’s going to be able to print that and 10 years later they’re going to be able to walk back to you and say, “But you wrote this.” It’s kind of almost a catch-22, is how do you become at writing and make sure you don’t make that mistake. But writing in the first place is important, doing that and starting that process, and then having people check your work.

That is extremely important, having people check your work. Again, it’s not that people will make no mistakes. We’re people. We’re no infallible. We’re going to make mistakes. But having someone check your work is extraordinarily important. Back when I was working with Ed Slott and Company we did a blog on … We blogged I would say usually three to four times a week on different topis.

No article ever went up without at least two people looking at it first, even if it was super easy and it was the most basic topic and we were just doing a refresher. And a lot of these articles were written consumer-focused, not necessarily for the advisor. So they were fairly simple at time, some of them were more complex but a lot of them were very simple, and even those always had a second technical expert on the team look at the article before it went out. You know what? You’d be surprised the thing that you find. You’re putting dates on there for required beginning dates and RMP’s, you type a number wrong, you type a year wrong, and you’ve written it and you’ve read your own work so many times that you read what you think is there but what’s not actually on the page. You know what I’m talking about, right?

Hannah: Yeah, absolutely.

Jeffrey: You read, you see what you want to see as opposed to what’s actually on the page. So having someone check your work, and to be humble, to be able to accept criticism and to not look at it as being negative but to look at it as improving you, to making you better.

And then I would throw one other thing out there, it’s to invest in yourself. I think you’ve got a wonderful podcast. I think what you’re doing to help new planners come into the business Hannah is just phenomenal, because no one should have to come into the business and be forced to sell, sell, sell, sell, sell and hopefully stick around long enough so that they can learn something.

I always say, “You should learn before you earn, and not the other way around.” I think what you’re doing is incredible. This is a great start. Those who spend the time to listen to this podcast each week are probably upping their game. But to take it a step further, if you want to focus on let’s say working with business owners, go out there and find a course that specializes in dealing with business taxation or succession planning.

Take your game to the next level and spend the money on education. It is by far the investment that … And you know what, of all the things that Ed Slott and Company, my time there taught me, it was to make sure invest. Some places have some tax services to get you updates on the latest tax developments. We had four of them. When there was a new book that came out and there was a subtle change from year to the next, you probably need the new book. We got new books every year to make sure we always had the best material.

This is like a carpenter going to work with a hammer that’s not quite really attached. You’ve got to have the tools of your trade. You’ve got build out the resources around you in order to provide that high level of guidance that today’s consumer demands.

Hannah: You’ve talked at several points about being an expert and how, really find what you can specialize in and be the best in that. My question for you, and again it’s a little bit of a rhetorical question. How would you advise young planners as well? But how did you know that you were an expert? And how did you know that you had enough to offer clients before starting out on your own, really providing those services on your own?

Jeffrey: Wow, it’s deep. I don’t know that there’s ever moment where you say to yourself, “I’m an expert.” I don’t even know that I would say that today, because I’m still learning things every single day. Every single day. I think becoming an expert is like the end of a rainbow that you can never quite get to. You can become as close as there is but there’s always something more to learn. There’s always something new.

And literally every day I learn something. I can’t think of the last day that came, that went by where I … something on the technical of things I didn’t pick up, some little nuance that was not known to me, or known to me beforehand. So I don’t know that there’s a time where you can strike out and say, “I’ve done it. I’m here. I’m ready to go.”

You build up essentially an expert bank if you will. You build up the street cred, and over time … You know, it’s not an overnight process. It’s about … I’ll give you the best example. You asked, how did I know when I became an expert. Again, I’m not going to use that word, but let’s just …. the time when I most surprised, I said, “All right. I might know what I’m doing.” I needed to look up something and I couldn’t remember what it was so I went and I googled it.

I can’t remember what the exact topic was, but I went and googled it, and an article came up. I was reading and I was like, “Wow, this is pretty good.” I finally finished it and I got to the end, I’m like, “Wait a second, I think I remember this.” It was something I had written eight years ago that was picked up on another site, that I hadn’t authorized. They basically copied my work and pasted it onto their website. Yeah, not really great from a copyright point of view.

But I looked at it, it’s like, “Yeah. I wrote that. Okay.” That’s when I was like, “Okay. When you can start googling yourself for technical information, then that’s not a bad sign.” But you know what? It’s a process. It’s a process. When I first started out I could answer let’s say 90% of the questions, but that meant I had to ask either Ed or some on the technical staff to help me out with the other 10%. And then maybe year two it was 95%, and 99%.

Along with becoming a specialist or an expert in any field comes knowing when something is beyond your scope. I still run across that today, and every planner will, and every advisor will, and every CPA will. There comes a time when it’s not your area of expertise, or it’s just above your pay grade so to speak. The worst thing you could is to try to extend yourself, because that’s when you go and make those mistakes. You reach and you don’t want to say no, because no one likes to say no, but you’re so much better off telling someone, “Listen, I can help you with all this other stuff but this one thing, you really need to go see this attorney for,” or, “this CPA for,” “this other advisor for,” whatever it is.

That’s I think a really important thing, and as an expert the last thing you want to do is make a mistake because then that calls into question your credibility as expert. So much better to defer and put something off and to say, “I can’t do this,” and to not make the mistake, than to try to take it on and not be able to fulfill that promise.

Hannah: You’ve mentioned several times about writing, and writing seems to be maybe a difficult skill for a lot of planners. It’s been interesting, I’ve been talking with professors and they’re actually making students write blogs in their colleges classes now as they prepare to enter the financial planning profession. I think that’s an interesting angle on it. But how do you … Number one, should just be expected that financial planners can write? And then also, how do you … I mean I guess it’s practice, but how do you get good at writing?

Jeffrey: I think that you don’t have to be a great writer. I think that you just have to be good at conveying a message, because there are a lot of different ways that you can convey that message. You can write and type, but you might use a program like Dragon Dictation let’s say and just go out there and just talk. Talk as if you were talking to your client, and maybe that’s your blog. Maybe your blog isn’t the, “And thus, therefor, this is … ” Maybe your blog is the super conversational blog, or maybe you just never write it all, you write three sentences to caption the video that you do, and you record a video on your iPhone once a week about a topic that’s of interest to you or that you want to express some information on.

There’s a lot of different ways in which you convey it. I like writing because people tend to be able to keep that writing. I think of myself and what I do, and I don’t know how many of your users, or rather listeners, use Evernote, or whether you use Evernote or a tool like Evernote. I had kind of created my own Evernote without knowing what Evernote was. Then about two years ago someone came to me and said, “Why don’t you use Evernote?” It was revolutionary. It saved me so much time building my own essentially information library.

I store all these articles that I want to go back to at some point, or that I want to be able to reference, by tagging them with keywords and so forth. You can do that relatively easily today. I can pull that article anywhere. I can pull it on my cellphone. I can pull it up on my computer. You can’t necessarily do that quite as easily with the video medium, so I really love writing.

I love video too, but I love writing because I think it’s one of the best ways to get a message out there permanently. People like to read things more than once on the technical stuff. They want to read that passage again because it’s complicated and they need to make sure that they understand it. When you’re listening to the audio or watching a video, it’s not as convenient to drag it back. You do of course, but …

There are a lot of different ways to get that message out and to be a writer without necessarily having to write well. I think it definitely helps, and there are classes out there. In fact, there are people who teach classes just on writing and blogging for financial advisors. So if someone wants to become better at it, maybe you’re never going to be great. I don’t think I’m ever, ever, ever, ever going to be great at organization. I’ve gotten much better but that’s my Achilles Heel. I’m not naturally an organized person. I have to work hard to organize myself, and use tools, and read about it, and take best practices, because it just doesn’t come naturally to me.

Maybe writing doesn’t come naturally to someone else, but if they work hard I’m pretty confident that, like anything else practice makes closer to perfection. Not perfect but it certainly gets you closer there. So that would be my advice, and don’t be afraid, put it out there. People, you’d be amazed …

One more tip too. One last thought on that that I think is really important. There is rarely an original thought today. When a new law comes out or there’s a new case, then obviously everybody’s working on it simultaneously and there’s almost a rush to be first to print, the latest thought. Which is why I like Twitter so much, you can get out in 140, or 280 now, characters bits of information on things and almost be first to market on the new information. Which I think is awesome.

But other than that, there really is no new thought. So if you were writing on something, I would read five other articles on the same topic that you’re writing about. Obviously you don’t want to plagiarize, you don’t want to steal anybody’s information, but see how something is presented. Maybe it kicks a thought in your mind as to how you would organize it.

A lot of times I read something and I say, “You know, this was really great but I think I would have understood much better if it was presented in this order or this format, as opposed to the way this person chose to present it.” So then when I write it, I’ll present it in that matter. I think that can be a helpful tip for those who aren’t really confident about their writing either.

Hannah: I like your point of I think would agree that to be a good, especially if you’re client-facing, you have to be a good communicator, and writing is just a way to communicate.

Jeffrey: Yeah, it’s just one communication medium. I mean there are … I know a advisor in, he’s in Nevada, he’s a young advisor, and he doesn’t write at all. When I say not write at all, I’m sure he actually sends emails from time to time, but almost everything he does is a video message to his clients. They’re all younger, millennials. He doesn’t work with … He does work with some older individuals but they all have to tech savvy, that’s kind of his rule, his thing. He answers everything by video because it takes him way less time to write. He doesn’t really like to write. He doesn’t enjoy it. He says he’s not very good at it. So he just sends video clips to everybody. When someone sends him a email, he answers it with a video message. When he wants to make a phone call or update a client, he does it via video. That’s what works for him and hopefully everybody finds what works well for them.

Hannah: One of the things that you’ve talked about is researching, and researching deeply. Going, you said reading court cases, or reading the tax code or things like that. Can you talk a little bit more about that? When I’ve talked to other advisors, it seems like that kind of in-depth research feels very overwhelming and feels very out of reach for them.

Jeffrey: I think that that’s going to change over time. I think technology is going to force that to change over time. Because the traditional bounds where a advisor, or where a client would find an advisor, are not going to continue to be the same. For instance, in the past the primary limiting factor to the advisors that you could work with was generally a geographic location. You wanted to be able to go and see you advisor and sit down in their office.

There are still a lot of people who want that face to face interaction, but clients of all ages, whether they be young millennials or boomers or even older, have gotten increasingly comfortable with digital communication or doing video conferences remotely, et cetera. If you’re not going to be a specialist, then you’ve got to look and say, “Who am I working with? Why are these people working with me?” It could just be, “Hey, I’m the local advisor and I’m the one that’s close to you, and I’m like you generalist doctor.”

Look, generalist practitioners that are doctor, they make good livings. There’s nothing wrong with that and we need generalists. In fact we’re short generalists right now. But specialist is where the money is physicians, and I think that’s going to continue to be the trend for advisors. Especially as these geographic barriers continue to be broken down. Because I type in, IRA expert, social security expert, business succession planning expert, into Google and I’m going to look and I’m going to see who comes up on the first three pages of Google, today maybe the first page of Google.

I’m going to start there if I don’t really care, if I want to go to the best at something. And a lot of people want just the best at something. I think advisors have to do a gut check. Like, “What is it that I want to do? Do I want to be that generalist?” Maybe if you’re only in the business for another five or 10 years it’s not a big deal for you. But for young advisors, for like you, like me, like I’m sure many of your listeners, who are going to be around for the next 20, 30, 40 years or more in the profession, I think you’ve got to figure out what it is that you do really, really, really well, and then figure how to become great at it.

Not everybody’s going to be lucky enough to fall into a situation like I did, literally, where they can study under the best at something. But there’s ways that you can go out. Reading. I talked to an advisor, maybe it was four or five years ago. He had asked a question about a law that basically had changed in 2002. We’re talking about this advisor and that was in 2012. He’s completely off the books, or off the rails, for a law that had changed a decade ago.

I said, “You didn’t know that?” He says, “No. I don’t really like reading much.” How could you be an advisor and say, “I don’t like reading much?” How do you not stay up to date on the latest changes? And not even the latest changes, the changes of the last decade. You’ve got be willing to put in time.

Advisors bill time in their calendar for calling clients and for … A lot of advisors time block their time. “These are the times that I meet clients. These are the times that I do phone calls. These are my networking times.” I would say build in educational time into your practice block. Build in self-improvement into that time block and take it very seriously. Don’t let that be the first thing to go when you’re backed up on paperwork. Stay the extra hour at the office and get it done. Put in that time for you to get better at whatever it is that you really, really, really want to do.

There is no substitute for time. A lot of the old advisors, older advisors, or I shouldn’t say old, but those who have been in the profession longer, the more mature advisors, they remember the days of dialing for dollars. In fact, I have an advisor in my office who built his initial book doing that same thing, dialing for dollars. I look at it today, it’s like, no, the modern advisor is going to be learning for dollars, reading for dollars, writing for dollars, not dialing for dollars.

The old days of you reaching out to clients is really going away. This is much more a business of attraction, as opposed to reaching out to that client. You need to do something to attract them to you and make that person want to work with you, as opposed to trying to convince them that they should work with you.

Hannah: If you were to start over, whether that means starting over in the profession year zero, ground zero, or if you were looking to start over with a firm without maybe your background or your name recognition that you already have. Where would you start?

Jeffrey: Without a doubt I would … this is an easy one for me to answer because I tell almost every young person who asked me that same question the same answer. The first thing I would do is I would try, while I was a student let’s say, is to intern as many different places as possible. Get your feet wet and figure out what it is that you really enjoy. You can find out what your passionate about. Find out what you love doing, because the things that you love doing you’ll inevitably be much better at than the things that you don’t enjoy doing.

And on top of that, by getting those things out of the way and figuring out what you want to do early on, you’re way ahead of a lot of other people who have to change mid-stream or make adjustments along the way. That’s the first thing, but the second thing is if you want to become a financial planner. If that’s really your goal, the thing that I would say don’t focus on money right away. Focus on the best educational opportunity.

Give up a year or two of income if it means that. I’m not saying that you should make nothing. I don’t want people to live on bread and water. But the first job, when I went down to Miami, it was not a high paying job. For me it was, “Hey, I get to learn under an advisor, where I don’t have to go out and hunt for clients. I’m going to be apprenticing and I’m going to learn everything I need to know, so that when I go out on my own I can do those same things and do them with confidence and do a good job for clients.

That’s what I think young planner … If I could apprentice 100 young planners over my career, I don’t think that will happen. It’s probably too lofty of a goal, but my goodness, that would make me feel amazing because I want more people to get into the business the right way. To me the right way is finding a place where you can learn, where you’re not out there day one meeting with clients. It’s not your role. You don’t know enough day one.

The worst thing is when you don’t know enough, or when you don’t know what you don’t know, that’s even worse. I think it was Donald Rumsfeld years ago who said something like, “There are known knowns. There are known unknowns, the things that we know we don’t know, and then there are unknown unknowns.” It’s those unknown unknowns that are super dangerous to advisors, because you don’t know where you’re giving someone the wrong answer. The only way you can really, to resolve that is through experience.

So I would say, go out, find your local advisory firm, find your local financial planning firm. If you want to be an asset manager find your local asset management firm. Listen, if you want to be a broker and that’s what you want to do, then find a brokerage firm. Find someone who’ll take you on and do whatever it takes to get them to say yes, because all you want to focus on is learning from someone who’s really good. That’s the only thing you should focus on those first few years.

The money will come. I promise you. You know that old adage of people not making it in the business, it’s because they were going out and trying to sell when they had no knowledge. Of course more people were bound to fail. I don’t remember what the exact statistics were but it was way more advisors fail than succeed in the business. Again, it’s because you’re going out there and trying to sell something that you don’t even know enough about to really sell, which is you. Right? Your information, your knowledge, you haven’t built it yet.

So if you build it, because corny as it is if you build it they will come. They, being the client. So build that educational base. The best way to do it in my opinion is to go out and find someone to apprentice under. You have to entice them to do it, because as the owner of a practice or as a, let’s say a primary financial planner, maybe they’re not looking for that junior at that time. Maybe they don’t want that junior. You’ve got to be willing to do whatever it takes. Whether that’s filling out the paperwork or maybe staying afterwards.

Maybe you fill a role during the day which is learning and sitting in with meetings with them, but when you sit in with meetings you’re not doing the other work that needs to be done. So you might have to put in the longer hours afterwards, or on weekends. That’s the trade-off I think for that type of opportunity to learn and to not have come into the business and to be hocking friends and hocking family members about buying this or putting money you. You’re kind of gambling on people’s livelihoods. It’s just not a good way to start.

Hannah: Great stuff there. Well, thank you for being with us Jeff, we really appreciate it.

Jeffrey: It was such a privilege. Really, I really wish all of your listeners the absolute best. For those that have struggled who think about, “Is this really for me?” Just keep at it. There is a light at the end of the tunnel and it really … you asked me, what would I change if started over. Not much. I really love what I do. If this is something you really love, if you stick with it, if you’re passionate about it, you put in the time, it will work out. There are opportunities out there for you. Hannah, thank you so much for letting share my story with your listeners. It was really fun.

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Many young financial planners are nervous when first sitting down with clients. Jeffrey Levine takes time in this episode to outline how researching your niche, studying financial planning, and embodying what it means to be an expert can eliminate your... Jeffrey Levine, CPA/PFS, CFP®, believes that the key to getting started in this profession is to know your stuff. And he’s a testament that it works. Jeff is a self-proclaimed retirement tax guru, and has found his passion within retirement-focused financial planning and helping others organize their financial lives.
When he got started in the profession, Jeff worked for Ed Slott of Ed Slott and Company, LLC. Being surrounded by such big players in the financial planning profession at such an early point in his career, Jeff learned first hand that being engaged with information and with people who are willing to guide and mentor you is a big key to learning as much as you can, and being the best advisor you can be.
As one of Investment News’s 40 Under 40 and a successful co-founder of Blueprint Wealth Alliance, he has truly thrived living by the “know your stuff” philosophy. Many young financial planners are nervous when first sitting down with clients. Jeffrey takes time in this episode to outline how researching your niche, studying financial planning, and embodying what it means to be an expert can eliminate your worry when you’re just getting started.
Jeff also encourages people to stay patient and do the hard work that this career requires. With time, your dedication will pay off!

What You’ll Learn:

What building a successful financial planning practice looks like.
What kind of information you need to know when partnering with other planners.
Why it’s important to surround yourself with successful, intelligent people who want to help you grow and mentor you.
How putting in the hours helps to solidify your “expertise” in the eyes of clients, colleagues, and your own mind.
How to manage your calendar to stay engaged – even as you get busier and grow in your career.
Why it might be a good choice to start your own firm rather than taking over someone else’s.

A Guide to the New 20% Pass-Through Tax Deduction by Jeffrey Levine
2018 NAPFA Spring Conference Speaker

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Digging Deep on Content Marketing and Communication Strategies Tue, 06 Mar 2018 22:41:24 +0000 0 Dan digs deep to find the real marketing issues that financial planners are facing and how they can solve them. We’re going to go over how to set up marketing initiatives that matter to your clients and prospects, and how to change the conversation from being numbers-focused to story-focused. Marketing often overwhelms financial planners – and with good reason. There’s so much information out there about SEO, content marketing, social media, and more. How is it possible to get it all done, and have every effort be effective?

Enter: FPA’s Director of Marketing… Dan Martin, MBA. In this episode, Dan digs deep to find the real marketing issues that financial planners are facing and how they can solve them. We’re going to go over how to set up marketing initiatives that matter to your clients and prospects, and how to change the conversation from being numbers-focused to story-focused.

The financial planning profession is undergoing a lot of growth right now, and we’re all charged with the responsibility to change the conversation and the perception of financial planners. Dan believes that every voice in this conversation matters, and the way we communicate will truly change the future of finance.

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If individually we all start to change the way we talk to clients and prospects about the value of financial planning and take it outside of the numbers, everyone that lends their voice to the effort is a step in the right direction. @DanW_Martin

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What You’ll Learn:

  • What starting a blog as a financial advisor entails.
  • Whether or not outsourcing your content is worthwhile.
  • How associations like FPA are helping to change the conversation around financial planning.
  • How marketing should be “story based” instead of numbers or fact-based.
  • What aspects of your marketing you should focus on.






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Ep88 Transcript

Hannah: Well, thanks for joining us today, Dan.

Dan: Of course. Thank you so much for having me.

Hannah: So, I read an article that you posted on FPA practice management blog. And I think I read it and three weeks later, it was still just rolling around in my head. So, I really want to get to that. I’ll give the listeners the title of it. “Financial Planners, Stop Making Excuses and Start Marketing.” So, well jump into that a little bit later, but for the listeners, can you give them just a little bit about yourself? Kind of what’s your role with an FPA. You have a degree in marketing. You’re not a financial planner, right?

Dan: Correct, yes. Degree in Journalism and then a Masters of Business Administration in Marketing.

Hannah: For your whole career, have you been involved in the financial services profession?

Dan: I have, yes. So, I graduated from the University of Denver in 2006 with a Journalism degree, and it turned out that that was not a great time to look for print journalism jobs. So, I gravitated to marketing because I wanted to at least use some of the skillset. And I think the journalism degree, it’s still been so valuable for me. But I ended up in the insurance world, so the retirement insurance world. And so, over the last 11 years I’ve had marketing communications roles and many different parts of the financial services world. But I think my favorite and probably the most useful stint was, at least in my early career was with a broker dealer, because it was there that I was finally able to build relationships with financial planners.

And we’ve talked a little bit about this beforehand but, I thought meeting all these planners that first of all, I love these people, and most of them are nice, they’re smart people. They’re trying to make a living by helping others which is just such a wonderful thing. And what struck me was how totally different it was to meet these planners, than how they’re perceived, even within their own industry. And so, at that point I kind of made a decision that I wanted to try to change that paradigm and not just because I think it’s the right thing to do, but because it’s a great marketing challenge. The shifting perception is that’s one of the central tenants of what marketing can do. So, right now I’m Director of Marketing at Financial Planning Association, and that’s a position where I think and hope that I can do some good in terms of changing the perception to be a little but closer to reality when it comes to what financial planners can do and the kind of impact that they can make.

Hannah: Let’s talk about that discrepancy. Because I think we all know that it’s there. I think sometimes we’re a little too close to the trees to see the forest. Can you describe what that discrepancy is? Like what’s our perception, and then what do you see is the reality?

Dan: Yeah. I think the perception that is out there, and granted, I don’t want to make too heavy of generalizations, but just that advisors and financial planners, first of all, that a broker is the same things as a financial planner, which there is a large, a huge gap between those two different types of things. But also, that a financial or an adviser or a broker is first a salesperson. They’re going to try to sell you a product. And I think there’s a lot of reasons for this, that perception. But part of is that it’s a numbers-focused industry, and there this connection with Wall Street and the perception of Wall Street is, and in some ways correctly, that they’re going to get as much money out of you as they possibly can, regardless of whether or not it’s good for you.

And granted, there’s always, every tree has rotten apples, but most of the planners that I’ve met are, what we were talking about before, that they’re small business owners, for the most part. They’re people who are trying to help others, and they really believe that they’re trying to, or that they treat their clients like they would treat their family. And something like money is so personal and so central and so emotionally-driven, that an advisor is, the numbers piece is sort of implied, but an advisor is there is almost one of your most trusted confidants. And the difference between the perception and the reality of that is stark and in some ways even shocking.

Hannah: Maybe this is a million dollar question, but from your perspective as a marketer, how do we fix that?

Dan: Well, I think one way is, and granted, I’ll plug the podcast here, I think what you’re doing, what you do in this podcast Hannah is so wonderful. Just because it’s going to take a collective effort. Any time you’re trying to, it’s like the analogy of turning an aircraft carrier. It’s going to take time. And it’s not something that anyone can do alone. It’s going to take a collective effort of organizations like FPA, other industry focus group, profession focus groups. But I think you cannot underestimate the impact of what the change you can make on a personal level for all financial planners. And I think what this podcast shows is that your contributions do matter.

So, if individually we all start to change the way we talk to clients and prospects about the value of financial planning and take it outside of the numbers, everyone that lends their voice to the effort is a step in the right direction, and collectively if we can all do that together, I think it is possible to change the perception. But, I think part of the title you were talking about is, we need to stop relying on everyone else to do that for us and saying, “Well, that’s the industry’s job. That’s an association’s job.” It’s really all of our jobs.

Hannah: One of the things that I’ve struggled with personally just having my own firm and being a solo advisor is, I see these ads on TV. They’re doing a great job. And I see all these companies, they have focus groups that they’re paying to really, their marketers are working with focus groups in order to get the best copy and everything on there. And I struggle sometimes with how do we compete? And maybe, yeah, how do we compete with that?

Dan: Yeah, I think that’s a really great question. I think that that’s, well, if you read a lot of marketing blogs and things like that, there’s a change you get completely overwhelmed and say, “Oh well, I don’t have money to do, spend a lot of money on some Google ads or get into search engine marketing.” Or, “I don’t have SEO,” or, “I don’t have a big CRM.” And all of those things are helpful, and they can certainly help you increase your reach and distribute the content that goes out there. But I believe so passionately that the story is what matters the most. And if you can create your own story from a personal standpoint, and it’s a story that’s true and that shows both your strengths and where you’re maybe even vulnerable, and then what your vision is, sort of what you focus on that maybe other planners don’t, I think that there is the David and Goliath story that there is a way that planners can still compete if your story is powerful enough.

Something like social media has leveled the playing field. Because a lot of that, some people say you have to pay to play, which is true from an advertising standpoint, but social media gives you the reach to compete on a level that frankly, those smaller businesses couldn’t before. So, I think that yes, you’re probably never going to be able to compete on in terms of the total spend, but I think there are ways to level the playing field.

Hannah: So, a lot of people talk about story. And I love that idea. But how does that actually play out within a financial planning firm?

Dan: So one thing, and that’s a great question, because there’s always, and marketing has this problem just like everything else, that there is theory and then there is implementation. Okay, that sounds great, but how do I do that? And I think something that everyone can do is to start a blog. And I think the term blog scares some people, because people think that you have to post something every single day, or that you’re going to spend all your time on the blog, and then you have your business to run and you have your clients to meet with. But really, if you have a website, which most planners do, it’s really nothing more than a new tab and addition of some buttons. Or you can even launch a standalone site in Squarespace for a couple of dollars a month. And it’s really intuitive to use.

But, so there’s compliance regulations, of course, and the content itself. You may have to submit posts for review and that sort of thing, but I think depending on the content, what you have in there, that can be really a minor hassle. And here’s why a blog is valuable: Number one is, you need to build your, a social media following, which is the only free marketing basically that you can do besides in person and referrals face-to-face. You need content. And you look at social media, the vast majority of posts are driving users to something else. The content of the social media itself is sending people back to a blog or a video or a webpage.

And so, the blog, that is your story. That if you create a blog and you, let’s say you do one post a month even, to start, that’s, and even that could be aggressive, but it’s I think everyone has time for one post a month. And you take that directly from your client interactions, you have all the content that you’ll ever need sitting in the chair right across from you. And so, if you talk once a month about the sort of hot topic of the month, and what you did to solve the client’s most important problems, and even taking it from your own lens as a planner, then you repurpose and share that one post on social throughout the month. That is the foundation of a content strategy. And so, to me, it’s overwhelming when you look at all these things telling you that you have to have a content strategy and personas. And again, those things are important, but really, if you start with a blog and social media, that is the beginning of your story telling program.

Hannah: One of the things that I’m seeing a lot of advisors do is paying to outsource all of their content. So, they pay a writer to pitch them ideas, and then they’re writing for their blog. What’s your perception of that?

Dan: Well, I’m biased as a content creator myself. But I think it can probably be successful in some capacities, but I always fall in the camp of the personal tone is what matters most. So, here’s an example of that. There’s like market commentary for example. Like a lot of advisors like to use market commentary, and that’s something that’s easy to outsource. And so, there’s all manner of companies who are saying, “Here’s the newest market commentary,” and you just put your name on it and send it out.

But so, let me compare that to when I was working the blog for the large insurance company that I used to work with. I had a colleague who’s a great writer, and I was really trying to get her to write something for the blog. And she said, “Well, I don’t really have a,” she worked in PR, said, “I don’t really have a financial background, a planning background. I don’t know what I would have to say.”

But she eventually, we had an international trip to London for a conference, and she was going to drop her kids off at her parent’s house, and they would not take her kids, because she had not written a will and testament. And she was going with her husband. And so, if the worst should happen, there was nothing to say what would happen to the kids. And so, she was shocked by that. But I think her parents had a point. And so, she went through the process of creating a will. And so, she wrote this deeply personal post, nothing about, there was no numbers in it or, and it wasn’t, if you want to call a product. It was more just about, this is my personal story about creating a will and why I can tell you as a person, it’s important. It was the single most-viewed piece we ever had on the blog, and for an entire year. Most pieces have a shelf life of a month or two.

And what that tells me is that a market commentary is something that every planner can speak to. Yes, it fits your skillset. But they’re often so dry, and they talk about the American consumer, and people don’t want to be the American consumer. They want to connect with you on a human level. And so, I think that that’s, and a lot of times when you outsource content, you lose that personal touch. And I think that is what engages people. A blog is designed to pull users onto your website. From there, you can talk about, you can tell your story in your about section of your website, but the blog is attracting people to the story to say, “This is something that I’ve felt. Yes.” It’s connecting you to the reader on a personal level, and there’s just no substitute for that.

Hannah: As advisors, we love to pride ourselves on being the experts. And so, it sounds like you’re advocating to be more of that personal, and for a lot of people that’s really vulnerable, and they’re afraid that people aren’t going to view them as the expert, especially listening to this podcast, we’re getting a lot of younger planners who feel like, it’s what they have. They have being an expert. What are your thoughts on that?

Dan: That’s one of my favorite topics right now because it goes so counter to ever tying that we’re taught. We’re taught all of our lives never to show weakness. But that doesn’t make a lot of sense when you think about relationships because we all have weaknesses. And so much of marketing is about building a camaraderie, building a relationship that, and financial planners are excellent at that, and so there’s a lot of financial planners I meet with that say, “I’m not a marketer.” And that’s probably true. But I think if you’re excellent at building relationships, you have something that honestly a lot of marketers struggle with.

And so, I think to start, when you’re thinking about vulnerability and weakness, think about the things that every client that you’ve ever had struggles with financially, because there’s that laundry list of topics. And it could be saving enough money. It could be prioritizing college saving versus retirement. Any one of the things, market volatility that’s going on right now, that’s a great example. Then, think about those things that you yourself have struggled with. And so telling, and marketers do this too, that’s marketer they think, telling your clients on social media or your blog or whatever medium you choose that you, a financial planning expert as you say, that you have struggled with something in your own life, is such a powerful message because it tells a client or prospect that, “I’m not perfect, and I’m opening up this relationship to you to say, listen, this is something that I even struggle with.”

And so, to me that doesn’t make you less of an expert. It makes you more of one. And it tells them, what I think everyone wants is they want to know that it’s possible to learn. They want to know that it’s possible to get to the, financial planning at the end of the day is about the outcome of I want to make sure you can fund this uncertain future. And what you’re telling them by opening yourself up to that is it is possible. I did it. And so, I think that that, that to me is connecting at the human level. And a lot of people say that. But, financial planners have this amazing opportunity to really do that. That’s really not available to every profession.

Hannah: Many of the listeners are millennial or on the younger side, and at their firms they’re not working with other millennials. They’re working with Boomers or people that are looking to retire or have retired. Can they still make that personal connection even with the generation difference, do you think?

Dan: I think so. I mean, we’d be lying if we said it wasn’t a challenge. And I think, and anyone who’s been in a relationship where you’re younger and you’re having to tell someone older, give someone older advice. But I do believe that it is possible. And I think it’s finding those commonalities and experience because there are some things like, and it annoys me to no end all the things about, “Here’s how to deal with millennials,” and “Here’s how to deal with baby boomers,” and those things come out every day, and yes it gets a lot of clicks, because everyone wants to figure those things out. But I believe that we’re more similar than we are different. Just, and that’s certainly up for debate. But that’s always what I believed.

And so, I think looking for those commonalities of experience, and that there are certain things that all of us feel. And so again, it’s coming down from the high level to the personal of it’s a lot of, and financial planning is a unique example, these things that have been historically numbers and data-driven, are about feelings. And so, you find those commonalities and connect with, regardless if someone could be 80 years old and you can be 22, there’s some shared experience there. And I think more shared experience than not. And making sure that, focusing maybe even on those shared experiences. It’s like meeting strangers in public and somebody drops their phone and you help them pick it up. I think there are those opportunities for us every single day in every aspect of our lives, but as a planner, I think the age, hopefully, matters less than the experience.

Hannah: Mm-hmm (affirmative). So, you talked about your journalism background. I want to touch on the article you wrote in the Journal of Financial Planning that just came out this month. So, it’s called, “Using These Behavior Tips to Science Your Clients on Savings.” So, your background is marketing, and this is more of a behavioral finance piece. Can you talk about what kind of led you to write this piece?

Dan: Definitely. Yeah, it’s something that I’ve been interested in for quite some time, and just, because so marketing as a profession, being a marketer I think was really different ten or 15 years ago. And it’s gone from kind of the nuts and bolts and sort of push pull, more of this, I guess if you want to call it the scientific side of marketing to more of a, marketing is more of sort of the human element. And marketing, and financial planning too, which is this great, one of the reasons why I like being a marketer in this industry, this great confluence of both are a lot about how humans behave and how we all perceive things.

Because for example, in saving, I spend a lot of time in the retirement industry thinking about, so why do we all know that saving is important? If you did a survey out of everyone, and everyone responded, they would all say, “Yes, saving is important.” But then, the percentage of people who have actually saved for retirement is 40% or whatever the numbers are.

That’s, it’s just like the perception gap for financial planners is that, that to me is so interesting. How can we go about something that we know what to do, but then, we can’t do it? And I think a lot of it comes back to our brains. One of the most interesting things, and I think this article touches on that, is that when you dream, you can age everyone else in your dream, and you have these dreams with people from all aspects of your life. And your brain can age every other single person in there. And your brain is so powerful, so you can look at it and say, “My colleagues in my dream, they’re 35 years old, but my brain can make them 70.”

But if you happen to look in your mirror, you can’t age yourself. Because your brain is so wired to live in the short-term, which is an evolutionary response. But what really struck me and the reason I wrote this article is that, so your brain is working against you every single day. The person that you know 30 years in the future, yourself in the future, that person may as well be a stranger. And so, that I think, if you read The Power of Habit, which is a wonderful book by Charles DuHigg, is he gets into habit formation and behavioral science and those sorts of things.

And one of the most valuable pieces from that book for me just because I, it’s like I said earlier that you want to know that’s possible to change, and I like anybody else have a lot of bad habits that, you read this book and he says, “Step one is just even understanding that you have the habit.” Because part of the brain is being able to remind yourself on a daily basis that this is an area where you have a weakness. Even that is a step in the right direction.

And so, there’s this kind of aspirational message of, yes our brains are in some cases working against us, but we can overcome that. And in that, it’s a great financial planning message of that’s, instead of separating the client or the investor, you’re the investor, you’re the planner, and the planner’s trying to get through to the client, but you’re not connecting. The financial planner has a wonderful opportunity to help a client understand that, “Hey, listen. In a lot of cases this may not even really be your fault that you’re not doing this, but if we can work on this together, there is a way to sort of break out of these habits and to train your brain.”

So, long-winded answer to a short question, but it’s just so interesting to me, and I’m trying to pick up everything that I can on behavioral science and behavioral economics, just because the brain affects so deeply both the world of marketing, how you communicate with prospects and clients, and the world of financial planning.

Hannah: It’s so interesting to me with that crossover. Some of my clients have credit card issues, and when I talk to them about that, and we kind of talk about the issues, it’s realizing that these credit card companies have marketing teams trying to get people to spend more money on their credit cards. It’s all these competing forces trying to get our clients to change their behavior.

Dan: And there’s some companies and organizations that are doing better than others, but I think it’s going to come down to that in terms of, my most recent post on the [FPA] Practice Management Blog was about differentiation, and I think that’s going to make a difference in terms of the people understand that you’re really just trying to communicate, connect with people. And I think there is, the hard sell piece of the credit card company that think some of them are good at it. But my hope and dream is that the hard sell will be slowly phased out in all areas of marketing and just in terms of our lives and all the millions of advertisements we see every day. I think marketing is specifically, and I think financial planning in some capacity is, as we talked about, is focused more in some cases on dollars and cents. So, marketing the question is always, what’s the return on investment? And even in a small business, obviously that’s very important. If you have money going out, you have to have money going in.

But I think, to the point about the hard sell is, if you focus only on immediate returns from your promotions or communications, I think that that can be extremely short-sighted, and I think it’s an outdated way to look at marketing. And small business, big business it doesn’t really matter. I subscribe to Jay Baer’s theory that smart marketing is about help, not hype. He wrote in his book Youtility, that’s Y-O-Utility. It’s still my favorite marketing book I’ve ever read, and I would encourage every planner and business owner to read and internalize it. It was written in 2012, but it’s still so valuable. And it’s all these case studies of all these different size businesses and different products, different services, part of the point being that, if you can simplify what you’re doing, and instead of trying to sell yourself or sell your business, that if you can build the relationship instead, and that it not only drives the sort of client for life mentality, but it also drives the numbers. And so, the difference is making the money secondary.

And so, when I think about marketing relationships, which nothing could be more important in marketing. Just imagine how you’d feel if someone gave you the hard sell on the benefits and features of being their friend. Right? And so, in just a human relationship, I think I would hate that. Right? Instead, so marketing needs to focus on I think helping those who may be interested in working with you, with no expectation of return. And that’s kind of, if you read the book, that’s sort of the heretical, it’s heretical to the common traditional marketing approach. But I have to believe that marketing must focus on telling the truth, because it’s really about helping others understand who you really are.

And I think that’s what will help all of us stand out in this. Everything is a commodity now. And so, if you can do these things, the belief is that your clients will choose you, eventually not because you tricked or you forced them to, but because they want to work with you. And I think that’s how you move from a transaction. And so a client is already looking for their next planner the second they step through your door, because you’re competing on things like price, or I have more features than you, or I have this technology that they don’t, to a relationship, a real relationship where a client who just can’t simply, who can’t imagine working with anyone else.

And obviously that’s easier said than done. But starting with things like the blogging we talked about before, I think it’s such an important shift for the way that we communicate not only with clients, prospects, but just with each other because the more of us that start to think this route, the more we’re going to really drive overall change in, to your point about the credit card companies, change throughout industries and professions which I think, just as financial planning the profession is changing, I think the marketing world is changing too. And it’s driving it, I hope and believe, to this sort of model.

Hannah: You’ve talked a lot about what’s your story. You being vulnerable. What about the person who is, there’s a lead adviser, they’re on a staff of 20 or so advisors. Is there a way to kind of build out their own marketing story? Or how is that? Are there competing marketing stories within a company, or how does that work?

Dan: Yeah, that’s a really interesting question. And I think, at least in the organizations I’ve been in, there absolutely are competing stories. That’s every marketing department and communications department, you’re always trying to get to one consistent message. But that’s difficult to do. I mean it is, and I think it’s something that’s sort of, you’re constantly always, you’re always working toward it but it’s not always going to be perfect. But I do think, one thing that’s been helpful to me just as I’ve gone through my career is, focus on building your personal brand as much as you can. Obviously it’s within the compliance and within the regulations. But oftentimes there is the businesses, the practices story, this is who we are, the sort of formula that I like to use is sort of the positioning statement, “We do X for Y, so they can Z.”

And so I think that’s been out there for quite some time, but you have that vision for the overall practice. But I also think that you can build your personal brand too, and Hannah, you’re a good example of that. Having the podcast, of course, is a piece of it, but there’s the connection between your business and your personal. And so, I think even if you have advisors above you or you have a lead advisor, or just one of many in the business, I think that shouldn’t stop you from building your own personal brand and again, social media’s a way to do that. And it’s not just original content. It’s social media following, it’s based on what you share too. And so, that can be a pretty easy part of it. Again, within compliance obviously, but you personal brand is, a share is an advocacy for that idea. And so, what you share is build up your own personal story on social media. I hope that answers your question, but I think you can do both.

Hannah: Well, and going back to the title of your first one, “Stop Making Excuses and Start Marketing.” Maybe a little harsh, but.

Dan: Right. Well, maybe a little click bait too, but.

Hannah: Hey, it worked on me. Yeah. So, your second article that you wrote for the practice management blog. So if anybody’s not subscribed to it, it’s a really good content. I’m embarrassed to say I only started subscribing like year. And I was really missing out. But you talk about to find your differentiation, focus on your “and”. Can you talk more about that? Like, can you kind of tease that out a little bit?

Dan: Definitely, yeah. And it’s, I don’t drink a lot of soda now, but when I do, I pick up a Coke Zero. Even though they changed the formula, it’s still delicious. But there’s a Coke Zero advertisement, I link to it in my article, but there’s a young man and he’s shown in a bunch of different situations. Like one of them is he has a job interview, and the manager offers him the job. And he says, “You get the job.” And he says, “And?” And then he ends up with a boat or something, or the same, and he gets an ice cream cone and he says, “And?” And he puts sprinkles on it. And I love that commercial. I think Coke has forgotten more about marketing than most of us I think will ever know. But it’s a good, I think, analogy for this idea of for so long, so much marketing, and financial planners are not the only ones who are guilty of this. So many industries are of just giving people a long list of, “Here’s all the many skills, here’s all the many things that I can do.” And it ranges from minimizing the impact of taxes to just a long list of many things that financial planners have skill in.

But essentially, what we’re doing is, we’re just talking. We’re giving them a list of all these things that are implied, without really focusing on what’s different. And so, the “and” piece to me is, that a lot of the greatest companies, the product is almost secondary. The service is almost secondary. It’s sort of, this is what we believe in. This is our mission. This is what we’re doing. Oh, and by the way, we also, I’m also an expert at financial planning. And so, the end concept really made me think of that as like, what makes you as a planner, truly different? What sets you apart?

And it’s often something that’s more of an emotional driver. And so, something that, and it could be done maybe through testimonials, but I think these are the reasons why people choose firms in most industries as, if it’s all about the price or if it’s all about the specific product, yes the product has to be good, yes the price has to be affordable, and it has to fit with the rest of the industry. But, I think that those things are secondary to what really makes you unique. And it’s not always going to be something that’s extremely tangible. I always think about it as great marketing, it can’t be asking our prospects, so the people that we’re looking to build a relationship with, we can’t ask them to sift through the message to find what speaks to them, because first of all, they won’t do it.

But it’s also, think about how you shop online. Think about how you shop for anything. We’re in this world of we look at reviews from our peers. We’re more likely to make a decision based on a review than we are 100 marketing brochures or websites from that company. And so, we should treat our prospects in the same way, and show them that what we care about the most in the world, is solving their important problem. Like, what’s the reason people are searching for a financial planner is because they have a problem. And I think a true financial planner, which is, that is a class in and of itself, can solve those problems. But it’s finding that differentiator within that piece, that that’s going to make a difference. And to your question earlier about how do you separate yourself from, and how do you compete with people putting all this money into marketing? I think it falls into that category, doing some soul searching about why am I different.

Hannah: Do you have any good examples of this?

Dan: Amazon is a great example. I’m just pulling up the site. So, when they came out with Prime, so their vision, the mission statement of Amazon is, “to be Earth’s most customer-centric company, and to build a place where people can come to find and discover anything they might want to buy online.” So the first part of that, especially the vision is, it’s not really about how fast the box gets to you. And it’s not, because that’s a great benefit of Prime, and that’s the product Prime. $99.00 per year, and this will get to you in two days, and if it doesn’t, then you can do what you need to do and they’ll give you credit or whatever it is. But being Earth’s most customer-centric company is, that makes Prime an “and.” So, and we also  get it to you in two days.

But like for example, I bought something and a totally different product arrived from Amazon. And I went on their website, and just to file a claim I had to click one button, and instead of the claim even going to the third party seller, Amazon just said here’s a credit for the amount. We basically, we trust you that if it’s the wrong product, you keep that product and we’ll send you a different one.

That is being Earth’s most customer-centric company, and that sort of thing will make me an Amazon Prime for life. And so, if my net Prime shipment comes in three days, I’m probably not going to complain about it. But that’s what I mean about differentiating the product itself from who the company really is.

Hannah: Okay, so I’m selfishly trying to figure out how this applies to my company. Figure out what my thing is. On your article, you did say that it takes some soul-searching. So, maybe that’s more where my next steps lie.

Dan: Yeah, I think so. And you might start with, and most great marketing I think today starts with what your customers have to say. Because you, it’s like any marketer’s dilemma, always is. I have access to all this great data, and I have my marketing experience, and then I have the company that I, the organization that I work for, but I could still make a decision that’s totally off base for what my customer wants, in this case the number. Because I have to take what they actually have to say into account, and so I think surveying current existing clients, or taking, excuse me, taking testimonials from current and past clients is, you’ll find, I think, in those, the gems that sort of, this is, “Hannah transformed my life for these reasons. Working with Hannah was not what I expected for this reason.” Like those are the types of things that that’s how you build your story.

And so it’s not, you’re not selling it based on, “Your portfolio got five percent,” or “You’re not trading on those things.” It’s more along the lines of like, my client, this is testimonial directly from them, but that said, “I can’t imagine working with anyone else because she changed my life. I had a, insert life event, and Hannah was the first one I called.” And those things, if I read that type of review, I’m thinking that’s what I need. I’ve had a life event. That’s what I would want.

Hannah: And so, testimonials are kind of hard, but I mean, with the compliance side of it, but we could, I mean, case studies are a great way to do that.

Dan: Right, exactly. Yeah. And a case study is a little bit even more detailed. Yeah, a testimonial is interesting from just from working on thinner side of things that it’s how they classify testimonials and how compliance looks at testimonials is different. But yeah, a case study, and maybe we wouldn’t even want to call it a testimonial. But just finding ways to especially to stay away from the product or stay away from guarantees or promissory statements, I think that is still a possibility. You just have to be maybe a little bit creative with it.

Hannah: Let’s pretend that I’m writing good authentic blog content every once or twice every month. And I have my story down. What’s the next step from a marketing standpoint?

Dan: So, I’m a content guy. So, I always start with content, but. But I think, so if you have one or two good blog posts a month, you have the foundation of your strategy. Then the next step is deciding how to distribute that to clients. One way is, and I think a blog post is, in some ways, what I would call a keystone content. So, it’s a nice, big substantial piece of content that you have. So you can use that in a myriad of different ways. You can put it, you can probably tweet about it ten to 15 times a month just using a different lead-in or a different quote from the article. You can put it on other social platforms. If you have an older client base you could print the post out. There’s a lot of templates online where you can, free templates where you can find a way to print it.

You obviously have to get some of these things reviewed. But number one is making sure you get the most value out of, especially since once a piece of content is approved. Get as much possible, squeeze as much juice out of the lemon as much as you possibly can in doing a bunch of different ways. That will help you build your reach, number one. But you’re also, you’re not spending so much time creating content. And I think number two is probably, so you read a lot about influencer marketing.

But once you’re able to get these types of things out there, getting either clients or other planners to help share the content, because a share is probably the most valuable thing that can happen to you when it comes to digital marketing, because it just expands your reach so much. You’re accessing every share. You’re accessing a totally different network of people. And so, it takes time to build that network of people who are willing to share your content. Sometimes it’s quid pro quo. They want you to share their stuff and, which probably isn’t a bad thing if their content’s really good.

So, basically all of these are ways to get this content in front of the most possible people in your target market without having to spend a huge amount of money on marketing. We at FE are calling it a free-to-pay strategy where you start with what you can do for free. Because there’s a lot you can do in marketing now with social media that it’s not that expensive. And I don’t want to say completely free, and could put money toward it. But then move towards if you want to make a big splash, there are things you can pay for too, but making every piece of content count, but making your budget count while you’re doing it.

Hannah: What is the future of marketing, from your perspective?

Dan: I think the future of marketing is what we talked about in terms of relationships. And my sort of utopia, marketing utopia is that all of marketing is being that sort of helpful friend to, no matter what the product is, no matter what the company is, is that all this information is out there. A lot of it is already. But all of this information is out there and available to help people try to get as far as they possibly can on their own. And that’s the central tenent of content marketing. We were talking about that earlier that you give your content away for free, and it’s so valuable people come back and become your clients, because they can’t live without you, they can’t live without that content. And I think that’s sort of swept the world in a lot of ways, but we’re still not quite there. And so, then you’re really, I think you’re competing on more the value that you’re providing to the prospect or the client as opposed to competing on things that are transactional.

And so, I would love to be in a world where no matter where you work as a marketer, everyone believes that’s the, that strategy is more about just being absurdly helpful to everyone. And maybe it’s too much to ask but, that’s the kind of marketing world I want to live in.

Hannah: What advice would you have for planners?

Dan: I think number one has to be to try to keep is simple in terms of, because if you’re living in this sort of perception does that meet reality world, there’s, and plus you’re getting messages every day saying, you need this for your marketing. You need this platform. And a lot of marketing now it’s tech and it’s digital. But technology is only as good as the people who are using it. And so, if you can buy some fancy great piece of technology, and a lot of those people are great salespeople, so they can, they’ll sell it to you. And a lot of it, as I said, is valuable.

But if you don’t have your story down, and if you don’t really understand who you are as a planner, as a practice and probably more importantly, who you are not, then none of those platforms probably won’t help you. And so, to the point of the soul-searching is, starting simple and sketching out, sort of, what’s why, what do they call it, target client profile. But, even deeper than that, where can I make the most impact as a planner? Where are my strengths? And where are the places where is somebody comes to me, I will probably refer them elsewhere? Because I think, especially with small business owners, there’s this temptation to be all things to all people, but in marketing and in ever tying, that often spreads us too thin.

And so, just sketching out, maybe it’s a simple even piece of paper or Word document of, “Here’s our mission as an organization or as a practice. Here’s where I feel like I’m really strong. Here’s where I’d like to get stronger. And here are things that maybe I’ll refer out.” Just understanding that, and another great marketer to follow is Doug Hessler, and he writes a lot about being insane, having insane honesty in your marketing. And it’s very much that concept of that you’re not going to please everyone, but if you can get to the point to have the courage and obviously the financial ability to bring on the clients that fit, that are the type that fit your values, that fit your business, and to sort of ignore the other ones, that’s I think where you want to get to. Obviously easier said than done, but starting simple and starting small and then working out from there. Not trying to bite off more than you can chew would probably be my number one piece of advice.

Hannah: I struggle with not biting off more than I can chew.

Dan: Right, me too.

Hannah: Oh, that’s great. Well, is there anything else that you wanted to be sure that we hit on.

Dan: Well, I think a couple of, I like to end a lot of my posts with, and it’s, well, it’s not probably cheesy, it is cheesy. But I still like to make two points about marketing that, again, it’s like any industry, you’ll get a top five, here’s five things to enhance your marketing. And a lot of times they’re sort of how to sort of spit shine it and polish it. Nothing wrong with polish, but I think number one, just making sure that your passion is available and out there in terms of your tone is so important. Because it’s better to be if, we’ve all seen it where, and I don’t know if this is even possible, but I’ve heard people say, “That person’s too passionate. They’re over the top.” But I think it’s better to be too passionate than to look like you don’t care.

I think we’re in this business especially we’re kind of pushed towards, you want to be drying, you want to be, everything needs to be clean and professional and have the same stock photo. The same people having a serious conversation. But I have to believe that it’s better to go overboard on the passion piece, because that’s who people want to work with in a lot of cases, is they want to know that you like your job. That you love your job. And so, don’t be afraid to inject a little bit of passion into your content. Because I think it will make a difference.

And then the last piece is, have fun with your marketing. Because we’ve talked a lot about the personal aspects and the tone of what you put out there. And how you perceive yourself, it’s easy to perceive yourself in one way, and then to show up in a totally different way, just because, and that’s why marketing is difficult. But, I think your enjoyment and telling and showing your story is contagious. I think, again, with the passion piece, if you love what you do, how much fun you’re having in telling people about it should be readily apparent. And so, I have a post-it that I keep in my desk, where like, “Don’t forget to have fun doing it.” Because that shows, I think, more than anything.

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Dan digs deep to find the real marketing issues that financial planners are facing and how they can solve them. We’re going to go over how to set up marketing initiatives that matter to your clients and prospects, Enter: FPA’s Director of Marketing… Dan Martin, MBA. In this episode, Dan digs deep to find the real marketing issues that financial planners are facing and how they can solve them. We’re going to go over how to set up marketing initiatives that matter to your clients and prospects, and how to change the conversation from being numbers-focused to story-focused.
The financial planning profession is undergoing a lot of growth right now, and we’re all charged with the responsibility to change the conversation and the perception of financial planners. Dan believes that every voice in this conversation matters, and the way we communicate will truly change the future of finance.

What You’ll Learn:

What starting a blog as a financial advisor entails.
Whether or not outsourcing your content is worthwhile.
How associations like FPA are helping to change the conversation around financial planning.
How marketing should be “story based” instead of numbers or fact-based.
What aspects of your marketing you should focus on.


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Growing a Personal Brand as a Woman in Financial Planning Tue, 27 Feb 2018 22:04:21 +0000 0 Many clients call Mary Beth their very own rent-a-CFO. There’s no doubt that she’s an innovator in the space of business financial planning for creative entrepreneurs. Get ready to be inspired, because Mary Beth is here to talk about pushing past fear and being unabashedly yourself in your work. Mary Beth Storjohann knows that financial planning is something that bleeds into every area of a client’s life. That’s why she has developed a service model that assists solopreneurs and small business owners with their personal financial goals, business finances, and the psychology behind advancing their career.

Many clients call Mary Beth their very own rent-a-CFO. There’s no doubt that she’s an innovator in the space of business financial planning for creative entrepreneurs. Over the four or five years she’s been in business, her practice has evolved to include these services – she had no idea that these are the niches she would serve!

This is an important point that many advisors will connect with. We don’t always know where our financial planning practice is going to grow when we first get started. We so often put pressure on ourselves to have everything figured out right out of the gate, but things truly do evolve over time – and they should.

Mary Beth also has a unique approach to growing her business. She has created such an incredible library of content, and she’s always open to new avenues of reaching her clients. She currently has a podcast, a blog, and a book (and she wrote her book while on maternity leave – talk about a financial planning warrior!).

We can all find inspiration in the energy and the passion Mary Beth pours into her practice. She keeps it real, and it’s what sets her apart and allows her to grow valuable relationships with her planning clients.

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I say it to my clients and I say it to my friends, ‘Life is a mullet. Business in the front, hot mess in the back sometimes.’ That’s just what happens… I think the future [of financial planning] is human. @marybstorj

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What You’ll Learn:

  • How to stay flexible when growing your financial planning practice.
  • The different ways having a personal brand pays off.
  • How to define your target market.
  • Why your marketing will turn some people away – and why that’s okay.
  • The ways a target market helps you build meaningful relationships with your clients, and helps you enjoy your work more.
  • How to look ahead and decide how your firm will need to change and grow.
  • Why ignoring what the industry “norm” is pays off.
  • Different methods of marketing your business.
  • How to understand the fear and do it anyways.
  • How to try something, and pivot if it doesn’t work.


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Hannah: Well today we have with us Mary Beth. Thank you for joining us.

Mary Beth: Thanks for having me. I’m excited to be here.

Hannah: Yeah, so your firm, Workable Wealth, you’ve really built up a really great personal brand. We’ll get into that a little bit more. But can you tell us about your practice, how it’s structured and who you serve?

Mary Beth: Sure. Workable Wealth is the only financial planning firm. I work virtually. I’m based out of San Diego. Clients all over the country. The way I work is I do actually a full on financial plan up front for my clients, and then we work together going forward to implement the recommendations and to adjust for changes along the way. I predominantly work with clients probably, if we’re talking age range, I’d say late ’20s to it’s evolved now to actually early ’50s. Probably I have someone in the ’60s as well, but when I started I marketed to gen Y. But my clients are probably older gen Y, gen X, the whole spectrum there.

Mostly professional entrepreneurial women and military officers and families, young families. I’d probably say those are the subset. I have a lot of professional or entrepreneurial women who come to me first. They find me and then they bring in their spouses. I’d say that’s one area. Military families is another subset, and then just general young families who are buying homes, getting married, having kids. Those are the three subsets of who I work with, and sometimes overlapping in all three areas.

Hannah: How many clients do you have?

Mary Beth: As of right now I think I’m at around 60 to 65, somewhere in that range. Maybe 63-ish.

Hannah: Oh, that’s great. How long have you had your practice for?

Mary Beth: I launched in August of 2013. I think I took my first client on the November, December timeframe. This is going into my fifth year. I think just four years. A little over four years in.

Hannah: When you started your firm, what was your vision for your firm?

Mary Beth: Honestly, to make financial planning fun, affordable and accessible was what I always said when I launched. I just wanted to have more personality and to be something fun and not necessarily dry, coming from the traditional financial planning world, there is a lot that I learned but I just felt that there was constantly the mahogany desks, the really fancy reports and just lots of wine tasting events and it was so formal. I felt like there was just something missing, and so when I launched my firm my vision really was just to bring it back to the basics. At that time, that’s why my focus was on gen Y. I thought okay, this is the group that needs just the basics.

And then as the firm grew and my marketing presence, media presence grew, I realized nope, all age ranges need just the basics. I have women who, even from learning in the firms, I saw and worked with women who were in their ’40s and ’50s who earned hundreds of thousands of dollars, who still didn’t know what was going on with their finances either, where their cash flow was or understanding the difference between a stock and a bond.

My vision really was just to make money fun and educational. So many people are afraid of it, and so my vision was just to be okay, no, I want you to trust me as your financial planner, I want you to value my opinion, but I also want you to feel empowered around your finances and what’s going on with it. That was really the vision, was just to make it something that was relatable, to take away the taboo. All of this formalized processes and just extra stuff that’s been added in by our industry and the media, just making it so complicated when really it doesn’t have to be. My vision was to peel back the layers and just show nope, if you stop comparing yourself and stop worrying about what everybody else says and focus on your own goals first, money can actually be fun and then you will feel great about using it towards those things that you now have clarity on.

Hannah: And what’s interesting to me hearing you say all this, is that you were targeting gen Y at first but that you found that message really resonated with older clients as well.

Mary Beth: Oh, yeah. It was kind of surprising to me. I spoke to millennials. That was the hot topic when I launched. It was the newer thing to do, to work with millennials. Millennials were just becoming the thing five years ago, and it was just they didn’t have money or whatever. Maybe it’s still a thing but I’m just not on that side of the industry anymore where people are saying no, they don’t want the help. But yeah, by talking to them I found that people were reaching out to me like, “Well, do you work with this age group?” I was like, “Of course I do.”

I ended up realizing that I was speaking more to a type of person then I was speaking to an age range. Because we say gen Y is going through all these transitions, but gen X is going through all of these transitions as well. You start to realize oh, this is who my niche is and who I work with. Yes, I’m bringing on clients in their ’50s, who have done well and gotten themselves to a good point but still they’re like, “I have no idea how I got here. I have all of these things happening and I’m not sure if I can meet my goals.” Those are actually really exciting conversations for me, because I realize that I can tell them, “You’ve done great, but if we have some clarity and a plan in place, look how much progress you could actually make by going in one straight line instead of 15 different directions.”

Hannah: So do you do a lot of career coaching as well, or do you stay more in the financial planning side of it?

Mary Beth: Oh, no. I do a ton of career coaching. Career coaching and actually business financial planning as well. I’d say the business financial planning is one of the things that sets me apart a little bit from what other people do. I say that because I haven’t seen other firms that do it to my level yet. But I also live in my own little world right now as well. So career coaching, in terms of negotiations for salaries and that’s a personal thing for me, especially working with this age group and fees and what not. I always personally like to try and get them raises that cover my fees. That’s just a thing that I do because I’m competitive like that. If I can do that, that’s fantastic. But yes, career coaching, salary negotiations. I review job offers and let them know what to go back and ask for. Comparing benefits, all of that sort of thing.

And then on the entrepreneurial career coaching side, I actually do profit and loss analysis with them. I help my clients understand what they’re looking at in terms of their business cash flow, what they’re pricing their products and services at and if it’s actually sustainable. So understanding cost of goods sold and what they value their time at, and how that should actually be factored in, and helping them think through those calculations so that their businesses are more sustainable and grow an income as well.

Hannah: So when you’re looking at a lot of the business side of it, are you just trying to get them to meet certain ratios, or just basic business concepts?

Mary Beth: That’s the interesting thing right, because I work with a lot of solo entrepreneurs or service providers, to be honest. They typically ask me, “What should my profit margin be?” And so one of the questions I always have to go back at and say is, “Well, are you factoring your time in there? Are you paying yourself for your time or is your profit margin including your services?” I don’t necessarily target ratios for them. What I do is if somebody signs on with me, I basically say, “If you own a business, we’re gonna align your business goals to your personal financial goals. So we need to know what you need to accomplish to achieve your personal financial goals, and that’s how we set some income goals for the business.”

That’s more big picture where I focus. I try to give them some ratios and educate them around that, but it’s so hard when you’re a service provider to really get that. Even us, for example, financial planners. There’s my time, but then I have team members who help or I outsource some of the content development. There’s so many things that it’s hard necessarily to understand those ratios as much when you’re doing service, so I focus more on what do we need you to do, what’s attainable and hourly rate that would make you happy. What would you feel good at, and what do you need to meet your goals? I really just tie them all together as part of the financial plan.

So I say basically, “If you’re pricing a package or service that you offer at $1,000, for example, but you’re outsourcing $400 of it, okay, you net $600. But if you’re spending ten hours on it, you make $60 an hour. You say your rate is 200, but you’re making 60. Is that in line with what you want?” And they’ll typically say no, and so we go back and increase their prices, or try to understand how they can refine their process or systems so they’re spending less time in those areas. It’s educating them about what those numbers actually mean and how to think about it.

Hannah: So do you work with them on just the marketing and that side of business development?

Mary Beth: Some of my clients refer to me as their rent-a-CFO. In terms of understanding their cash flow, that’s a big part of it. In terms of marketing, I don’t necessarily coach them in terms of media development. There’s a handful of clients, maybe a few actually, that I’ll say, “Okay, well realistically, from my own experience, here’s how you can create content. Here’s the resources that you can leverage so that you save yourself time and money, or increase your exposure.” I will coach them on that side of it, just because from experience and what I’ve built already I know those things.

But a lot of the times what we’re going through is we’re looking at the P&L and I’m saying, “Okay, you spent a lot in this area this month. Is that anticipated? Is that ongoing? What are your business goals? Where do you see yourself needing to invest? Are you planning on making a new hire? Do you need to go from LLC to S corp and set up payroll?” I really help to strategize around those areas. A lot of the women who come to me don’t understand the benefit of having a payroll set up, for example, or the retirement plans around that.

Honestly, I can tell you most of my clients like, “Oh yeah, I have a bookkeeper.” And I say, “When was the last time you looked at your P&L reports?” And they basically never … A lot of them just feel good knowing that somebody else is organizing the numbers, but they don’t know how to interpret those reports. A lot of the time I’m spending time just helping them and teaching them, again, about how to read the reports, about how we’re gonna take that okay, if you have … Creative female entrepreneurs, for example, have a thing with buying domain names. If you have a hundred domain names that you’re not using, let’s give some of those up and free up your cash flow. And so stuff like that I’ll show them as a percentage of their income, here’s where it’s going.

There’s the thing, which we all hear as well in our world, “My business is netting, or I brought in six figures. I brought in half a million dollars,” whatever it is. That’s great but what did you actually net? What are your expenses? And so helping them to understand that whatever everybody else is doing and bringing in does not actually reflect anything unless you know what they’re netting on the other side and what they’re putting in their pockets. Teaching them those kind of financial concepts helps them to be more strategic and make better decisions in their businesses, and helps them therefore to meet their personal financial goals.

Hannah: Did you know that you’d be working and doing this type of work with clients when you started, or has this been an evolution over the four years you’ve been in business, four or five years?

Mary Beth: A complete evolution. I had no intention of doing business financial planning, and that’s actually just become a subset of what I do. When I started I was just like, “Who’s gonna work with,” … I had the same fears that we all did, like who’s gonna work with me? Is started from zero. I launched no clients, had the benefit of having a part-time income, because the firm that I left kept me on part-time to phase me out and phase in my replacement. But I had no idea that it would evolve to me working with these niches and it was really a learning on the job. I found that this was the group that was coming to me. These were the questions that they were having.

I found myself answering those questions over and over again, to the point where, as I mentioned before, I do an up front financial plan that I was finally like, “Send me your P&L,” and now my financial plans have a business planning section in them. That’s where we address some of the big picture concerns that I can see are red flags, like the payroll, the bookkeeping, continuity plans for your business, disability insurance, liability insurance. Those are some of the issues that I see with clients. I plug those also into the action checklist and recommendations that I have for clients.

Hannah: I love it that it’s an evolution. I feel like so many times we put the pressure on ourselves to have it figured out right out of the gate. But realizing that these plans have to change over time-

Mary Beth: Oh yeah, completely. I will say one of my best practices that I’ve done since I launched was, because I do the plan up front in terms of streamlining processes and systems, I have the template obviously for the plan. But new clients come on all the time and so I’m creating new plans and everybody … Things are similar but things are different, so I found myself making different recommendations. I actually have one golden document that I think is 50 pages, or I don’t even know how long it is at this point in time. It has all the recommendations that I’ve given in plans so I can also open that and template it, basically. I had an intern actually create it for me. I can go in and plug and play different things. I can see maybe there’s something that pops up that I hadn’t considered. I can very easily see what I’ve done in the past for other people as well, and it helps make it a little bit more efficient.

But that was how I realized that this was becoming a need, was I was finding myself giving so many business recommendations and found that area growing in the template. I realized okay, this is actually just a marketable part of what I do and so I should speak to it more, as opposed to just having it pop up as a part of the process. Now I’m proactive about it instead of reactive.

Hannah: Clients come on and you do the full financial plan for them up front. Are you doing most of that work yourself, or do you have a team behind you that’s helping you put that together?

Mary Beth: I’m doing most of it myself. I have a director of client services, director of getting it done. She wears a ton of hats. I’ve had an associate planner who’s helped me in and out with different things. I had them prep the template, so I start the plan template, plug in some certain areas like the cover page, that sort of stuff. But in terms of making the recommendations, I typically make all of those myself. But again, with the help of the template that I have.

Estate planning is, if they don’t have a trust, you’re pretty much recommending the same thing for everybody. Get your guardianship, if they don’t have an estate plan. You’re making the same recommendation for everybody so that’s templated, and I’ll plug in certain attorney recommendations and I’ll alter that. But estate planning recommendations take maybe, to be honest, ten minutes if there’s no documents in place because I’m just saying, “You need documents and that’s on our to do list going forward.” There’s not much more time to spend there. That’s a copy and paste thing if there’s nothing done then it’s recommend a referral and then moving on. There’s stuff like that, that you can make more efficient.

Hannah: You’ve done a lot. You’ve started your own firm. You’ve written a book. You have your own podcast. You have 60 some clients that you have right now. You’ve also had two kids in this time period. How do you do it all?

Mary Beth: I’m a little bit crazy. So A, number one, I laugh when I say that, but it’s like I’m a little bit crazy because people are like, “You wrote a book while you had your baby the first time?” That’s how I wrote Work Your Wealth was I was on maternity leave with our daughter. Babies sleep, and when you don’t have another baby, you think you have time. But this past time I realized I have no time during this maternity leave because there’s a toddler. So for the record, there’s that. A couple things.

I will say when it comes time for me to do big projects like writing the book, or launching the firm, launching my podcast, launching the book, but after writing it, the launch process, I will invest in a project manager or a coach. I need the accountability. I’ve always been a procrastinator. I work better under pressure, and so for me to get things done though, I’ll say, “I’m paying you to nag me, hold me accountable.” I will invest in it that way, because that’s how I hold myself accountable if there’s nobody else on the other side. That’s one area. When it’s a big project that I know can pay off or can benefit me, I will invest in help to be held accountable.

Also, having a super supportive husband has been very helpful. I always say that I would not have gotten to where I am without his support. He’s a huge cheerleader for me, because it’s a rollercoaster, right? There’s good days and bad days. Even though I’m passionate, so passionate about what we do, there’s days where it’s just exhausting, right? We’re in a relationship business. When you have six client calls in a day, you’re just drained sometimes from being on, even though you love your clients. I’d say having a support system in place from early on, understanding what the changes were that were gonna impact us by me giving up my income when we did launch. Because again, we went from a nice income to not much of an income from me. So what that was gonna look like, still having his support there, and being able to make the adjustments.

Also, I think by being in contact with other people. Having a study group, a mastermind to lean on. Those are the things that have helped me to get things done. I don’t believe that I can do things on my own. There’s the humble part of me that’s like I look to other people for guidance or support or input on certain things, people that I respect and value their opinions. I lean on other people for support. I was never the kind of person who was gonna start my own firm, close the door and not reach out to anybody, because that would have been probably awful and I would have failed. Having a study group or mastermind in place from early on, and reaching out to other people to connect was also something that helped me to do all of these things.

Hannah: When I hear your name, I think she’s a great example of really building out a personal brand along with her practice. What are your thoughts about a personal brand versus your practice?

Mary Beth: It’s really interesting. I still think about that, in terms of building the personal brand. I didn’t necessarily know I was building a personal brand. It happened accidentally. I mostly was focused on going back to the beginning, so when you ask me what my vision was, I was really just focused on being different. Not having the older retired couple, holding their hands on the beach on my website. None of that and then none of the lighthouses or mountains. There were certain things where I was like, “I don’t want those.”

I had looked to what some others were doing and I ended up just like okay, my face is gonna be on the website. I’m weird about stock photos. Yeah, these people are so happy about their money. I just never thought somebody would open the webpage and be like, “I can relate to that.” I personally will open a webpage and if it’s somebody that I’m gonna hire or I’m considering working with, if I can see them smiling back at me I’m learning about them, then I feel better. But if they have a stock photo I feel like not so much. I don’t know how I’m supposed to feel about those things. That’s how it happened.

Honestly, I think right now for where my practice is, I think it works and it still works. My practice is still growing. I constantly have people reaching out to me. It’s opened up other doors and opportunities. I think really it just depends on what your short and long term vision is for what you’re trying to build. Obviously this thing has evolved more than I ever thought it would, but I think it’s paid for me a legit personal brand. Will I eventually add stock photos and a team? Yes, and if you go to my website now you can see pictures of Lisa and Lex, who I’ve worked with. They’re on there. There’s a team section.

It’s just incorporating in that way, but I still think the personal brand, being able to share part of my story, that I was a military spouse, that I grew up in a family that struggled financially, that I had my own anxiety. Sharing stories and pieces of who I am has led to clients reaching out to me like, “I’ve listened to your podcast and I can totally relate,” or, “We wanted to reach out to you just knowing that you’re a military spouse and you know our numbers and know the language that we speak.” Or women who struggle financially, or just with the emotional side of things and they know that I’m not some guy in a suit with a mahogany desk. I’m very low key and relaxed. Low key and relaxed is probably now how people would describe me, but that I’m laid back. I won’t judge you. Nonjudgmental would probably be the better word.

But doing that has actually worked out really well. Being authentic, I think, has worked to me building the practice. Will it work long run? I think it will still continue to grow, but obviously there’s a point where I have to shift my messaging to you will work with me and/or my team, or somebody on my team. That’s the shift that I’ll have to make probably in the next year or two. They come to me but there’s also these qualified people on my team and here’s who you’d work with, that sort of messaging. But for right now it’s worked out really well, and for the people that I wanna work with. It depends on your target market, I will say.

There are people who are turned off by my marketing and messaging because it’s not professional enough, or refined enough or whatever. Those are not people that I wanna work with, though, so oh well. Everybody’s got an opinion. But for me, and what I’m trying to build, and the practice that I want to support my life and allow me time with my family and allow me to really enjoy my clients and my relationships, it works.

Hannah: One of the things that I’ve heard a lot, especially from younger advisors, is that there is this fear around even just putting your picture on the front page of your website, or sharing more about your story, putting all that information out on the internet. What are your thoughts around that? Was that a concern for you when you started?

Mary Beth: I was a little nervous about it to start, because it is so different. There’s a concern because you’re different. Our industry says one thing. I was nervous about what other people would think. I was nervous about what other people in the industry would think, though. We’re being told one thing. I was being told before I launched that this generation didn’t want advice, people wouldn’t pay you for it, the subscription model wouldn’t work, all of the things. I had this fear of oh gosh, am I wrong? Will it work? Will it not? What will happen? I understand the fear. The thing is do it anyways. Your website is always editable. Put it up there and give it six months.

I’m a woman and I know this is a totally different thing with men and how much to share or not to share, and there’s a different thing, but for me I work with women. Women appreciate other women who are being vulnerable. My study group and I, we say … I had a coach one time. Tara Moore is the author of the book Playing Big, I think, and it’s your inner critic. So my coach made me name my inner critic, and I always say I named her Betty. And so we say is Betty talking or not? Basically, there’s always gonna be this person, this Betty, this negative voice who you’re gonna be afraid of.

But worst case if it doesn’t work, you pivot and honestly women, for me to be vulnerable, to put myself out there and say, “Hey, I struggled financially,” and to even share about my family, that was a scary thing for me. Just to talk about my parents and their finances. I wondered how they would judge me or how they would react, and I really wanted to do it appropriately and work it into my story but not shame them, obviously, either. Those were scary things to do, but they ended up being so appreciated by clients and people who reached out to me.

Knowing that I struggled and I came from the same upbringing, and that I say that I still have bag lady syndrome even though I’m a financial planner. There’s still a fear of mine that I’m gonna end up on the street running out of money, just because of the way that I was raised. They appreciate that. Because they don’t wanna know that you’re above them, they wanna know that you’re basically next to them guiding them along, and that you too have your own story and your own experiences. And because of that, you’re able to better help them.

I think there’s this concept from how we were all raised in the industry that we’re supposed to be better than, and show them that we’d never make mistakes, and that we’re professional and polished. That maybe worked for one generation, but for the group and demographic that I’m working with, that would just not work. If I showed up in a suit to meet some of my clients, it would be awkward to say the least. They’re in jeans and flip flops and they meet with me virtually. Literally one client propped me up on their dining room table one night while they were feeding their baby and eating dinner. We just chatted while the kids were in the background.

That kind of stuff is what works, and again, that’s what I’m building. So there might be that fear, but I think the more that you share of yourself and your background and your own story, the more people can relate to you and the more likely they are to then schedule a consultation. They’ll come to the consultation and feel like they already know a bit about you, and they’re more comfortable with you because you’re putting that out there already, as opposed with being like okay, there’s nothing to talk about besides the weather or maybe sports teams or whatever. They already know I have two kids, that I was a military spouse, that I have two dogs, I live in San Diego, I like to drink wine. They know those things from my website and it’s nice. We already have a connection before they even sit down.

Hannah: The phrase that keeps coming to mind as you were talking, I can’t remember what conference it was at, but they were talking about how the future is human. It’s not just interactions with other people sitting across the table from us, our clients sitting across the table, it’s also how we present ourself. Are we willing to present ourself as humans to the world?

Mary Beth: Exactly. One of the things that’s been interesting to me too, and I’ll be totally honest, when I was launching I was looking to other … I think Brittney Castro had launched and had her own firm before I did. I looked to Brittney. And then Sofia Bera and I launched around the same time and we were in the mastermind together. Looking at some of these women, other women who have big online presences … Presence? I don’t know what presence is. Figure that one out later. I felt a little different because I’m over here married and popping out kids.

I had my own comparison thing where I was like oh my gosh, they have more freedom and flexibility to do these things. I don’t have that power single woman thing going on for me. There was a little fear there. I also felt a little insecure, like oh gosh, how am I gonna do this, and manage the family and do these things, especially when I got pregnant with our daughter. I really struggled with can I do it all? Can I be this power woman business owner and be a mom? And then probably 6 to 12 months after I had Ellie, just started leaning more into the mom role.

I had to embrace it. I could fight it or I could embrace it. Nope, I’m a mom. It is part of my story. It is who I am, and holy cow, now I’m raising a toddler and it’s funny and I have to talk about it. It’s just otherwise you’ll cry. You have a two year old terrorizing you. And so now that I incorporated that into more of my messaging as well, in terms of Instagram or Facebook, my media marketing, I’ve actually had more people reaching out to me by me just being like, “I am a mom. This is it. I have a business. It’s put together, but man, life can still be a crap show behind the scenes because you got kids running around.”

NBC was supposed to come over a couple weeks ago, and then I realized oh my calendar’s open Monday, and then I realized oh my calendar’s open because preschool’s closed and I have a newborn. There’s no way I can actually handle that interview. He was supposed to come over and I was gonna try and power through and then I had to cancel it. I was like, “No, I cannot do this to you or to myself,” because that’s real life behind the scenes. There’s no way that was gonna go well.

But I share those stories, though, and when I lean in it makes other people … Again, it’s more relatable. That’s human. That’s life. That’s what happens to everybody, and when we’re all trying to put on this protective layer and show that we have it all together, it’s not real. I say it to my clients and I say it to my friends, I say, “Life is a mullet. Business in the front, hot mess in the back sometimes.” That’s just what happens when you have families and little kids.

But yeah, I think the future is human. I think that’s what makes relationships sticky. I will say, I love my clients. That was one my fears too, was could I ever have clients like I saw other people, those relationships they had in the more traditional firms. Those clients were 60 and 70 years old and I was like, “Oh, I don’t relate.” But now the clients that I have, they’re friends and they send their friends to me. I get so many referrals and I get some really good, qualified referrals and leads from my clients. That is amazing, that these people trust me enough to send their friends and family my way. It’s become really cool and it’s because, again, we have these foundational relationships that we can build upon and relate and share stories and laugh about with.

Hannah: One of the issues facing our profession, you kind of hit on it here, was really women in the profession and how do we retain women in the profession. What are your thoughts on that? Or I guess what I’m really trying to get at is I wish all the women out there knew that there was a career path that could really bring them, I don’t want to say everything, but a lot of what they want.

Mary Beth: I think there needs to be more mentorship in our industry, honestly. One of the things I struggled with early on was … I’d say I learned a lesson very early on. I didn’t struggle with it. I learned a lesson very early on when I was at my first firm. I got my first job in the industry in college, and when I graduated I had all the CFP courses done as well because I majored in financial services. One of the advisors told me that I couldn’t sit for my CFP exam until he could sit for his. I had already been in salary and negotiations with them, trying to get a raise, and he was serious. He was not kidding.

I realized holy crap, nobody’s going to look out for me. I look out for myself. It was at that point that I became an advocate for myself in terms of salary, in terms of position, in terms of the things that I was looking for. I realized that although our generation was known as the ladder hoppers and would just move around places to find whatever’s a fit, that was me. I would move firms and constantly build upon my positions to grow. I didn’t have enough women mentorship in my life. I didn’t know.

The problem was with women, I think this service that we do for most of the next generation and women especially, is that there’s no way for us to get comfortable. I feared starting my own firm for so long because of the word sales. I hated sales. It was just a gross word. I felt like car sales was what it was. When it came time for me to have to get my own clients and to think about that, I just had total anxiety and panic. Then I launched Workable Wealth and early on I remember Alan Moore telling me, he’s like, “You need sales training.” I was like, “I don’t know how to sell,” and then I finally just sat down and built up my script for how I wanted to run my consultation calls. After a while I was like okay, this sales thing is actually educating people on what I do. That’s basically what sales is. There’s not really anything else. You’re educating people.

I think there’s this disconnect. Women don’t know about this industry because it’s basically pushed as sales. I remember being in college and Northwestern Mutual people coming to try to recruit us for their firms. And then even being in the traditional firm, told I had to bring my own clients in. I was told I had to bring in people who had a million dollars, investible assets, who were my grandparents’ ages. It didn’t relate. There was nothing pulling at my heartstrings to do that at the time. There was nothing in there for me, and so I lacked in that area. I actually contemplated leaving the industry multiple times throughout my career because I just felt like this is not for me. This can’t be done.

It wasn’t until I think FPA came out with their mentorship program. Gosh, must have been six, seven years ago. I had already known who Brittney Castro was and she happened to I think accidentally sign up as a mentor and she was also a mentee, but I picked her as my mentor. She had already had her thing. I think she was with maybe LPL at the time, or maybe with another … Whoever it was before that. But I basically chatted with her once a month for six months, I think, while I was still at the other firm and learned what she was doing and how she did things. It wasn’t until a year, maybe a year and a half later that I launched Workable Wealth. But that was what started me to realize okay, how she had built it, what she was doing. Other people were taking these risks.

But I think the big thing is we need more mentorship from women. We need women reaching out to other women, sharing about this, and also educating the sales side of it, what it actually can look like. You can work with people who are your peers and there is a way to do it. Are you gonna make a million dollars off the bat? Probably not. So again, going back to being clear about your personal financial goals and what you’re trying to accomplish, but I think there just needs to be more women talking about the issues in the industry. The issue is that there’s not enough women mentoring other women at this point in time.

I find that a lot of women aren’t comfortable advocating for themselves. There was points in time where I would encounter women who were stuck in the client service associate roles. They couldn’t get out. They were just told again and again, oh eventually you’re gonna grow. But the firm owners never really pulled them along and so they were just waiting. A lot of women just sit around waiting to be recognized. I think that is a big issue. If you’re not being recognized, you just need to move. Take initiative and go. If you’re not being recognized now, you’re probably not gonna be recognized in six months.

I tell my clients the same thing. If they’re not willing to give you a raise, and they are not willing to work with you to create a path to get you that raise or to get you to that next level, that is your sign. Move on and take a risk to do something else. I find that too many women stay in positions just hoping that something will come their way or something will change eventually. It typically doesn’t, though.

Hannah: Yeah. I love that you have to take control of your own career.

Mary Beth: Did I answer your question? I went in a roundabout way. I don’t know if I answered the question. But those things, mentorship, taking also control of your own thing too, I think is really important.

Hannah: My question was a roundabout question too. Okay, so you’ve written a book, Work Your Wealth. You also have a podcast. How have those impacted your practice and your brand?

Mary Beth: Oh, the book has made me a ton of money. No, not really. The book basically-

Hannah: I was like “That’d be a first!”

Mary Beth: … was a passion project. Yeah. No, that’s not why you write a book. Just FYI, do not write a book to make money. But the book was always a passion project of mine. I’ve always loved writing, even before I launched my firm. Early on, when blogging just came around I had a blog under an alias. Personal finance blog that I wrote. I think it was called … Oh gosh, I can’t remember. I don’t know. Financially savvy something. The writing this was always a passion of mine. And then as I was building Workable Wealth, I was finding that even though my fees were lower at the time than they are now, I was finding a large amount of people reaching out to me who couldn’t even afford the lower fees that I was at. And so I wanted to have something of a starter point.

I know there’s a lot of personal finance books out there, but for me, I wanted to make it fun. I basically wanted to walk people through how I created a financial plan for them, what my process was, what to consider, each step, and basically teach people how to build their own financial plan in a way that wasn’t so pay off your mortgage first. And also a way that was speaking from one peer to another. I wrote Work Your Wealth and I chose to self-publish.

That’s a question I get a lot. I chose to self-publish although I had options to reach out to other publishers and could have been on that route. My full purpose on doing the self-publishing route was so that I could have full control of the creative process. I had a vision for what I wanted it to look like and I had a vision for what I wanted the cover to look like. You give up some of that control when you work with a traditional publisher.

Work Your Wealth has a big glittery dollar sign on the cover of it. It is just by having the gold glittery dollar sign, it ends up being geared towards women because men are not picking up books with gold glittery dollar signs on it for the most part. With the book, though, I did a whole launch team around it. I built a Facebook group around it. It launched. It did great. It literally is still paying off. I think I wrote it three years ago. I can’t remember. I have a newborn and so I’m pretty sure I wrote it three years ago at this point. It could be two years. I really can’t remember, to be honest. I need to double check this. It was either two or three years ago at this point.

Basically even just recently, the book had sold thousands of copies all over the world. Maybe I was on maternity leave just recently at the end of 2017, somebody reached out to me and wanted to buy over a thousand copies of my book for a subscription box that she sends out to female entrepreneurs. This book that I wrote is now … I’m being paid for the copies of the book. Obviously I gave her a discount for a bulk order. Being paid, making money on the sale of the books, and then the books, over a thousand books are being mailed to my target client this month actually. It’s going out all over the world, or all over the country, I mean, to a thousand women.

Stuff like that is pretty cool. Those are opportunities that the book has opened up for me. Every new client that signs on, they get a copy of the book along with a pre-printed note card that has pretty calligraphy on it that has a quote and says, “Welcome to the Workable Wealth family.” Basically it’s enabled me to do more speaking and to leverage the book. Through speaking, I can sell discounted books as part of my speaking fee basically. I throw in books in there as well. I can get paid more. It’s a business card, basically.

I’ve definitely gotten clients from the book, and people who reach out to me who say, “I read your book first,” and they can go here and schedule a consultation. I was able to do opt-ins in the book. People sign up for worksheets and so they’re on my mailing list now. That’s how the book has worked out. As we were just chatting before the call, the podcast is something that I created spinning off the book. People ask if I’ve gotten clients directly from it, and I don’t know. From the measurable, I found your podcast and then I found you … Mostly people find me from other podcasts and then they find my podcast. I don’t know if they’re directly finding me. I think it’s building trust and building credibility.

I had a consultation call this morning with somebody who has already emailed back and said yes, they wanna move forward. When we were on the call she said that she had spent a day or two listening to my podcast, just so she could get to know me and my style ahead of time. She came to the call feeling like she could already relate to me and she knew my story. The fact that she listened to that to educate herself up front, and literally emailed me two hours after I sent the consultation follow up email and said, “Yes, we’re ready to move forward,” that’s fantastic. That’s a $7,500 retainer right there. That’s how it pays off in the practice, in ways like that. It’s staying relevant, staying top of mind, and it’s really a value add is what I think.

Hannah: I find this really interesting. You wrote this book basically outlining your planning process or what you would take them through to do a financial plan. Has that kept clients from coming to you because they got all the information that they needed?

Mary Beth: No, because the big thing is, as most financial planners know probably, is the accountability to actually getting things done. Somebody will spend $10 on a book, read the book, and they can pick and choose things. It’s a great baseline, but when you’re at the point of your life getting complicated and you need somebody to actually do a mortgage analysis for you, chances of you doing it for yourself, for example. If anything I think, again, it helps to keep me top of mind and relevant to people. I have people reaching out now for consultations who are like, “I followed you.”

I have a consultation I think next week. I was just going through them and she’s like, “Oh, I found you two years ago or three years ago from Jessica Lively’s podcast,” which is a podcast that was small at the time when I was interviewed and then it blew up afterwards. This woman’s been following me for three years. She’s probably read the book since then. But people reach out I think as their situations get a little bit more complex and they’re more qualified to need that kind of help. I think if anything it’s actually, again, just kept me more in front of them than anything. I don’t think it’s prevented anybody from reaching out.

Hannah: You also do a lot of media. You talked about NBC coming to your house. I think I just saw you on an AARP commercial recently.

Mary Beth: Did you?

Hannah: Well, I saw your Facebook share of it. It wasn’t on TV. But still very cool. So what’s that like, seeing yourself on TV and in that role?

Mary Beth: I love the majority of it is not live. Live TV is a little nerveracking. I usually do okay with live but I’m always like, “Okay, please edit me.” Financial planner to financial planner, it is great in terms of, again, building that trust, building trust with people who say that they’ve seen me on NBC or in Forbes or commercials or whatnot. There’s that trust factor there, where they’re like, “Okay, this woman knows what she’s doing or must know what she’s doing if she’s on these things.” Does it bring in clients? To be completely honest, I think I’ve gotten one client from all of the things that I’ve done for NBC. I’ll be completely honest there. It looks cool and it is cool. I love the experiences.

One of my personal passion projects is obviously educating a wider audience. That’s why I do what I do. It’s cool to see and it’s cool to experience because it’s aligned with those things that I’m passionate about. Does it bring in money? No. For the most part it doesn’t bring in money. I do have some paid gigs and those things, and that’s a different kind of opportunity. But to see myself on TV, I will say the coolest thing for me is honestly when friends or family will text me or send me screenshots like, “You’re on my TV.” It’s across the country. NBC stuff gets syndicated onto other channels throughout the week after I’m on sometimes, so I’ll hear from somebody a week later that they saw me in Florida and I’m on NBC San Diego.

Stuff like that is cool, and honestly my favorite part is being able to show my daughter when I’m on TV. She’s two and a half and she can say, “Mommy’s on TV.” To her, seeing that sort of thing, that’s probably my favorite part. Just seeing how excited she gets and knowing that I can be a role model for her. That’s probably the totally cliché, but I just love seeing her get excited for those sort of things.

Hannah: One of the other things that I think is really fun about you is you’re one of the few advisors that’s really on Instagram, and doing some interesting social media stuff. I guess this goes even bigger than just Instagram. But all of your writing, do you do that yourself or do you have a team that helps you? What does that process look like for you?

Mary Beth: When I launched I did it all myself, and then as I grew I started to outsource some of the writing. At this point in time my blog content is outsourced. I do have a social media marketing content manager. She does everything for me. She does my Facebook, she does my Twitter, LinkedIn, and she writes and schedules my blog posts for me. The Instagram is the one thing that I do myself, and so I use Kailey, who a lot of you probably know.

Kailey does a lot of my marketing and media stuff, and she will now pull from … As I’ve started to incorporate, going back in, more of my family stuff into my Instagram that’s a little bit more of the blend, the mix, the mom and the business type stuff, as I’ve started to do that she will actually pull from my Instagram and put it on Facebook. There’s sometimes where even me I’m like, “Am I ready to share that to my Facebook audience?” So yeah, I still get a little bit nervous, but it’s almost good that she takes that out of my hands and does it. I’m like okay, this is a little bit vulnerable, it’s a little bit funny, and a lot of those sometimes prompt things. Again, it makes me more real.

But yeah, the Instagram is the one thing that I manage on my own, and then Kailey does the rest for me. We have a whole editorial calendar in terms of what the topics are, what I wanna address each month. I try to do monthly themes and that’s all planning on my part. I delegate topics and that sort of thing, and then as I’m quoted in things or if I’ve written anything else on my own, because I still do a lot of my own writing as well in different areas, like I’m writing for Forbes right now and different things, I’ll forward those links to Kailey and then she’ll just work them into my marketing schedule.

That is an area where I say that I invest in. My practice is still run from my house. I have a home office. There’s not necessarily a need for me to have office space right now, because honestly my clients are all over the place. Where I don’t invest in office space, I invest in having help with the media and marketing. Those are trade offs and things that are important to me.

Hannah: With your media plan, do you have an online sales funnel that you take people through, or is it more of a just get them on your email list?

Mary Beth: Oh dear lord, I wish I had a sales funnel of something. But no, I do not have a sales funnel, to be completely honest. I should. From all of the online marketing that I do and all of the people that I talk to, there should be some sort of level one, two and three, but there’s not. For the most part all of the opt-ins lead to one endpoint, which is the newsletter list. They can opt-in from the book, they can opt-in for the worksheets and then they end up on the newsletter list. There was a podcast for there’s a Work Your Wealth for entrepreneurs book that’s gonna come out eventually. There’s a list for that already too, that puts them onto one list. But eventually they end up all on the newsletter list and that is something that I write for myself as well. That goes out once every two weeks. That basically is a roundup of the most recent blog posts, the most recent podcast episode and then three or four around the web articles that I think are relevant for my newsletter audience.

Hannah: You said that you worked with creative entrepreneurs. What have you learned about being creative from working with them?

Mary Beth: One of the things that I’ve learned in terms of being around this group is the small things, in terms of little touches. For example, gifts. If clients buy a new home, instead of sending them a bottle of wine or champagne, I send them a personalized address stamp with their last name, the little re-inkable ones. I shop small for my clients by being around my clients, basically. I shop small. I send them a handmade, personalized address stamp. If somebody has a baby from Etsy I order a piggy bank with the baby’s name on it, and it’s hand painted and it has little polka dots or whatnot and I send it to them.

Doing small touches like that, really personalizing things, sending out the Work Your Wealth with the note cards that I’ve had designed by a calligrapher and they match the Work Your Wealth or Workable Wealth brand colors, those small touches and those personalizations incorporates more of my brand, my personality into the business and allows me to show my clients it’s not a generic thing. I can do personalized gifts and small things to recognize them or to celebrate with them. I think that’s one of the big things that I’ve learned, is just little, small thoughtful touches as opposed to the old school send a gift basket or just a Starbucks gift card. It’s just stuff like that.

And then I had, again, birthday cards that were designed by a small business calligrapher, that were designed with Workable Wealth branding. I paid a small business for that, and then those go out every month to clients. I do the snail mail, so small touches like that. I spend time in those areas and I learned that from this group, basically. Shopping small, supporting other small businesses and helping them to build themselves up too has been really fun.

Hannah: Do you identify as a creative now yourself?

Mary Beth: I do. I always say I cannot design or create colorful, pretty things for the life of me. My PowerPoints are super bland. But I will, again, pay somebody and outsource that to make them pretty for me now. But I have always called myself a creative because of just the way that I choose to deliver advice and the writing side of things. I can’t paint, or draw, or do calligraphy for the life of me, but in terms of the writing side of things, that is my creative outlet. That is what I choose to do and that’s my creative side. Most of the content that you see on my website, any of the early blogs, that’s all me. Even making resumes sound better and stuff like that. I have a way with words. That’s where I’m creative.

Hannah: Oh, that’s great. You have this great brand built up. You have this firm that you’re hiring people. I mean, you have hired already people. Where do you go to continue learning? Where are your places to go?

Mary Beth: This is a really interesting thing for me. When I launched, I had a study group that I was part of, a mastermind group. That was really great in terms of getting us out there, launching, lifting each other up in media presence. That group then served its purpose. You don’t have to be with these groups forever. I think after a year and a half, two years, we just went our separate ways. I found myself lacking, in terms of I wanted to connect with other people who were more on the technical side who I can talk financial planning strategies with. How are your tackling your investment analysis or your life insurance analysis? I was craving that.

I now have another study group that I’m a part of, who I leverage a lot. There are six of us in that group. Three men, three women. We meet every Tuesday. I learn a lot from them and we bring a lot of ideas together. Obviously I’m the marketing guru, so I’m constantly pushing them to do more marketing. Sometimes you can over focus on processes too, so I always say, “Stop focusing on the processes and just get butts in the seats. Get clients in there first, before you’re worried about doing it all and having it perfect.” I leverage my study group. Kitces’ blog, I read his blog all the time.

One of the things I’ve struggled with locally, there is obviously a big San Diego FPA presence. There’s NAPFA, those sort of things. I found myself pulling away from those A, when I got pregnant, and B, when I realized there wasn’t a lot of educational information for my client base there. There’s not a lot going on. Social security planning and Medicare planning isn’t necessarily relevant to my clients quite yet, so I pulled back from there to be honest. I leverage more online stuff.

I am now getting more involved in NAPFA. I’d say the NAPFA conferences are the ones that I would go to and learn the most from and connect with. That’s the ones that I found are the most relevant probably to me. NAPFA and mostly learning from my peers. Peers who have done it ahead of me. But again, I leverage my study group a lot as well. I’ll pull from other resources that I can find, but I’d say those are some of the main ways that I try, and also reading books and those sort of things, staying relevant.

Hannah: Yeah. What are you reading right now?

Mary Beth: Right now, to be completely honest I am reading nursery rhymes and bedtime stories because I have a three year old at home. I dream of the day that I can read a book again. I have Financial Planning 3.0 on my desk downstairs, that’s sitting there staring at me and I would love to read it. I have gotten halfway through, I think it’s the Big Leap. That’s the one where we get in our own way, I think that one. I’m listening to that one on tape right now. Or not tape, on audio. I don’t have tapes. But I have that one downloaded right now from the library. I try and piece things in when I can, but to be honest it’s literally mostly I read a Minnie Mouse story probably ten times a night. The same one about cupcakes. That’s what I’m reading right now.

Hannah: They say having kids is supposed to increase your creativity, right?

Mary Beth: Yeah. Minnie Mouse is a lot of beautiful colors involved, so we’re talking about cupcakes and popcorn and you can actually get really creative in terms of how you retell a story to a two year old who doesn’t necessarily know that you’re not reading the words. There’s ways to speed it up or slow it down, depending on what you’re trying to accomplish that night.

Hannah: Oh, that’s great. So what’s in store for you for the next five years? Where do you see yourself in five or ten years from now?

Mary Beth: Oh my gosh, five to ten years. Okay, so goals that I really have right now. Ten years hopefully the practice is bringing in probably about one and a half million, is my big picture pie in the sky goal. Having a team probably of about six. That’s probably where we’re gonna end. I don’t necessarily wanna have a huge … I don’t see Workable Wealth going to this ginormous firm, but I wanna have about 1.5 million of revenue coming in, a team in place to support that and the clients there, and then honestly the goal is to build upon the Work Your Wealth brand as well. I always see myself working with clients. I’m very passionate about that.

In the mindset right now of up leveling from just where my fees started to where I am right now, this year is a game changer for me in terms of now I have two kids at home. I am just getting really, really efficient and unfortunately we’ll have to get rid of some of my clients because it’s just not sustainable for me to have all my time divided in these areas. So up leveling fees, up leveling just in terms of processes and systems, refining things, getting that narrowed down so that I can spend time focusing on the Work Your Wealth brand, which is going to be not necessarily revenue focused, but really again, aligned with … I want those goals to be focused on the number of people that I can impact or reach through financial education.

Workable Wealth has a revenue goal, and then once that’s met hopefully by ten years from now Work Your Wealth is happening. Work Your Wealth Entrepreneurs will be out. I have other products and things in mind that I want to do and create. Again, just be able to expand financial education and literacy.

Hannah: You don’t have to answer this, but where are you now in revenue for your firm?

Mary Beth: So revenue, I just hit 200,000 in recurring revenue. And then with that though, let’s say that you bring on 20 new clients a year, $1,500 up front minimum for the fees, and then there’s the media consulting income as well. So 200,000 recurring, and then there’s opportunities. We’re 2018, I might close around 250 to 300 would be my guess for the year.

Hannah: Well, is there any other piece of advice that you would have for new planners who are listening to this podcast?

Mary Beth: I think the best thing that you can do is just reach out to other people. Reach out to other people, definitely don’t launch your firm if you don’t have any experience. I will say that. It’s my one disclaimer. Please get some experience under your belt by working with other people first. That will make you a better financial planner and it will make your clients love you that much more. But take every opportunity you can. When you’re feeling like you’re stuck and in a rut and something isn’t working for you, think about what you can do to benefit you in your long term career.

If you’re in a position right now where you wanna do something else, or you’re feeling a little bit stuck, what can you do as a value add or a side project, or what can you work on and develop to enhance your own education, to enhance your skills as a planner? Don’t necessarily wait for things to be delegated to you. I think that’s the biggest thing, is take control, be creative in that way with your career. Just take whatever opportunities that come your way and see how you can monopolize upon them.

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Many clients call Mary Beth their very own rent-a-CFO. There’s no doubt that she’s an innovator in the space of business financial planning for creative entrepreneurs. Get ready to be inspired, because Mary Beth is here to talk about pushing past fear ... Mary Beth Storjohann knows that financial planning is something that bleeds into every area of a client’s life. That’s why she has developed a service model that assists solopreneurs and small business owners with their personal financial goals, business finances, and the psychology behind advancing their career.
Many clients call Mary Beth their very own rent-a-CFO. There’s no doubt that she’s an innovator in the space of business financial planning for creative entrepreneurs. Over the four or five years she’s been in business, her practice has evolved to include these services – she had no idea that these are the niches she would serve!
This is an important point that many advisors will connect with. We don’t always know where our financial planning practice is going to grow when we first get started. We so often put pressure on ourselves to have everything figured out right out of the gate, but things truly do evolve over time – and they should.
Mary Beth also has a unique approach to growing her business. She has created such an incredible library of content, and she’s always open to new avenues of reaching her clients. She currently has a podcast, a blog, and a book (and she wrote her book while on maternity leave – talk about a financial planning warrior!).
We can all find inspiration in the energy and the passion Mary Beth pours into her practice. She keeps it real, and it’s what sets her apart and allows her to grow valuable relationships with her planning clients.

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How to stay flexible when growing your financial planning practice.
The different ways having a personal brand pays off.
How to define your target market.
Why your marketing will turn some people away – and why that’s okay.
The ways a target market helps you build meaningful relationships with your clients, and helps you enjoy your work more.
How to look ahead and decide how your firm will need to change and grow.
Why ignoring what the industry “norm” is pays off.
Different methods of marketing your business.
How to understand the fear and do it anyways.
How to try something, and pivot if it doesn’t work.

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Virtually Serving Planners Wed, 21 Feb 2018 00:19:26 +0000 0 Charesse Hagan believes it’s time to challenge the narrative that the only career path within financial planning is working toward being a lead advisor. Through her experience as a paraplanner and operations consultant, she has learned first hand that there are countless exciting opportunities for people to find their fit within the financial planning community. Charesse Hagan is a testament to the fact that there are many different career paths available to professionals in the financial planning industry. After working for two years in the advisor world as an associate planner, Charesse began to feel that working for a wealth management firm wasn’t necessarily for her.

Feeling confident in her experience, she struck out on her own. At first, Charesse exclusively involved herself in paraplanning work. Over time, her business model evolved to offer both operations consulting and some light paraplanning for long-term clients.

In the financial planning profession, we’re often fed a narrative that the best (or only) route for young professionals to take is to work toward being a lead advisor at a large firm, or to launch your own RIA. Charesse, however, believes that we need to challenge this narrative and highlight all career opportunities within the financial planning industry so that everyone can find their best fit.

Charesse has had colossal success running her own consulting and paraplanning business, and she’s excited about the possibilities that are still open to her in the future. By committing to the entrepreneur lifestyle, she has the potential to live and work as a digital nomad, add additional services to her business model, hire employees – the opportunities are endless.

Tune in to learn more about Charesse’s journey, and how you can find your own space within the financial planning community.

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I think the industry is also okay with you creating your own career path. If you don’t fit the mold, then I think there’s an opportunity to move at your own pace. @charesse_hagan

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What You’ll Learn:

  • Different career opportunities within the finance industry.
  • What kind of education or experience you should look for if you’re considering launching your own business that serves financial planners.
  • What technology Charesse finds valuable for financial planners.
  • The difference between an associate planner and a paraplanner – and how you can determine which is a best fit for you.
  • How staying organized and building out processes can help you to implement strategy.
  • How providing the best customer experience possible is often all the marketing you need.


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Charesse Hagan






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Hannah: So I love your story, and I love how much you’ve been able to do in such a short amount of time. So for our listeners, you’ve had two internships and two shops over the course of about two years before jumping out on your own to really do paraplanning and operations consulting. What really was a motivator for you wanting to jump out on your own?

Charesse: Well, this was not something planned for me. When I first decided to jump out on my own, it was really like just trying to find clients. So basically, I was working at a wealth management firm. They had about two billion in assets, and I was there for like a year and a half. At that point, the mentor I had at the company, she parted ways, so it was just really hard for me. I was traveling between two offices and trying to find like a good fit with another advisor with the company.

Basically, their team structure was kind of siloed, so you only worked directly with one advisor rather than being paired with two and helping service their clients. So I was working at the main office, and they had about 40 employees. I ended up moving to a smaller office, but in a better location, and there were only five to six employees. The office fit wasn’t good for me.

Then I moved on to another firm. They had about four billion in assets, 20 associates, and a lot of responsibilities I had at my first job were taken away from me. I couldn’t attend client meetings anymore, and the firm I was at, they were using something called Lotus, which Lotus is like Excel before Excel came out. When I was at my previous job, we used Money Guide Pro, so my job became very manual, like a lot of input, data entry, way more than you would have to do with a financial planning software, so I was just spending 40 hours a week just sitting there typing in information to Lotus, and they took away the attending client meetings too.

Then I reached out to maybe 25 to 50 advisors, just looking for another opportunity. One woman I reached out to, she’s an XYPN, and I told her I was interested in a job, and then she told me she doesn’t have the capacity to hire anyone full time, but she would hire me as a part-time contractor.

So then I tried to work with her and my full-time job, but due to the conflict of interest, I wasn’t allow to. Although she didn’t have AUM, they still didn’t allow me, so I was so miserable there, I just decided to leave.

Then I ended up working with her, and another advisor hired me, so I started off with two advisors when I first started.

Hannah: So did you know coming out of college that you were more wired for that entrepreneur route, or was that something that you kind of just discovered in being unhappy at your jobs?

Charesse: I knew eventually that it was something I wanted to do. I just didn’t know it was going to happen this early.

Hannah: You had basically like two to two-and-a-half years of experience at this point. Did you feel like you had enough experience to make that jump?

Charesse: Yes because the experience, the two-and-a-half years of experience I had is focused on paraplanning, so that’s why I think this is a good transition for people that want to be self employed. When I was at the job I was at with my initial firm for maybe a year and a half, my job was to build out financial plans in Money Guide Pro, attend client meetings, take meeting notes, prepare the meeting followup, and there were very good processes in place to help me streamline that process and perfect it.

They gave me a lot of training since they were a big firm. They sent me to Money Guide Pro training. I got to attend a TDA conference, so I had the skill set in place to be able to do what I do now, and honestly, I’m doing the same thing, but just remotely. I work with five firms. I also do operations consulting, and that’s just due to working with big firms, and I’ve worked with 20 firms the past two years, so basically some people don’t need paraplanning, but they need help structuring their business. I really focus on learning the best practices of the industry.

Hannah: You’ve been on your own for what? A year and a half at this point?

Charesse: Yeah, so I started contracted February 2016. I officially quit my job May 2016.

Hannah: How did you build up the network to, first of all, be able to contact 20 to 50 advisors, and then second of all, to get 20 advisors as client. That’s really impressive.

Charesse: Honestly, word of mouth. I’m just … I tried my best to give my clients the best experience ever. I try to go above and beyond. We all do. Word of mouth mainly.

When I first started, it was really hard because no one knew me, but a lot of my past clients and current clients have highly recommended me.

I feel like with this, it’s all about word of mouth, so I feel like people, if they’re looking in to it, to really focus on structuring their business, how they can serve their clients to the best of their ability.

Hannah: One of the things that I think is a detriment to our profession is this assumption that every … If you want to have a career path, you have to be going towards the lead planner role, and you’re really kind of going more towards that operations and paraplanner role. Did you run into any issues or tension with that? Maybe the general assumptions of our profession versus what you’re doing?

Charesse: Yes. I just spoke at the TD Ameritrade conference, and our panel was focused on developing non-advisor careers in the industry, so this is something that’s really big. I spoke about a mindset shift in the industry. A lot of people are no longer on the advisor path, and that was my personal experience. I wanted to become an advisor, but I realize, when I was trying to do the associate planner route, I wasn’t being fulfilled, and I feel like the advisors could notice that, but when I started doing the operations and actually just perfecting the paraplanning service, I realized my clients are more happy with the work I’m doing, and I feel more fulfilled.

Hannah: From your perspective, what are the other non-advisor career paths that are out there for somebody to pursue?

Charesse: Client service manager. A lot of people are interested in investment management, working in that part of the business, like developing portfolios and keeping up with the research, and then some people are happy in their current roles, and they just want to become more efficient and provide better quality work.

Like me, personally, I really didn’t think I would add on the operations consulting, but now that’s the bulk of my business right now. I was just focused on services my clients for paraplanning more efficiently versus like creating a streamline timeline for where I want to be.

I also think if you’re not working in an office and you want to do the entrepreneur route, you can grow your business. You can add paraplanners to your team or you can move up. For me, I do operations consulting, but I know a lot of advisors are starting to ask about practice management, so that may be a direction I go.

Hannah: What’s so exciting to me, and I know I’ve experienced this personally and so many of my friends have as well, is once you start doing something and just really getting out there, doors just open. You don’t necessarily have to have a full path laid out. They just start opening.

Charesse: Yes. And back to your question I was thinking about, about the mindset shift and how not everyone wants to be an advisor. For me, a lot of my clients ask me what my angle is because they need an advisor on their team, so at first it was hard for me to say I’m happy with what I’m doing because a lot of people are like, “Well, what’s your angle, or what do you want to do?” And I’m doing what I want to do. I really enjoy what I do.

At first, I was really confused, and then I was talking to a friend, and she was like, Chareese, you know what you want to do, but you just have to tell me people.” And I’m like, it’s okay. I now know it’s okay that I don’t want to be an advisor anymore.

Hannah: Accepting that can sometimes … Yeah.

Charesse: Yeah. And it’s the prestigious position that everyone wants. That’s what we’re trained to do.

Hannah: Like it’s what good advisors do with our clients, right? We say, “What’s your ideal life?” And sometimes that is taking … It’s not a step back, but just kind of going in a different direction against what the norms are.

Charesse: Yeah. I agree.

Hannah: So, one of the phrases that I’ve seen around is the digital nomad. Do you classify yourself as a digital nomad?

Charesse: Well, not really. When I first started, I would travel a lot. I think when you’re a digital nomad, you really don’t have a location. You are a remote worker that travels around the world, and I, honestly, spend most of my time working from home at this point. Eventually, my pursuit is to become a digital nomad though.

Hannah: And so for the people listening, can you describe what a digital nomad is?

Charesse: A digital nomad is basically someone who works off of their laptop, and they’re usually self-employed, and they travel the world while working remotely.

There’s a lot of programs now that help people work remotely and travel the world whether you’re self-employed or work for a company. They have like remote year. They have something called WeRoam, and there’s a lot of places like in different cities that have like coworking spaces and apartments that people can rent on a month-to-month basis, which is really cool.

Hannah: It’s very much a lifestyle decision.

Charesse: It is. It is. I was so focused on lifestyle when I started this. I was like, “Oh I just want to travel the world and work remotely with advisors.” And another reason why I started this was because I worked in wealth management, and all the clients were high net-worth, and I really wanted to work with advisors that served millennials, so when I started, a lot of the advisors I worked with were really young. I enjoyed it, but now I have a mix of clients.

Hannah: If somebody wants to go in this paraplanner role, or they’re just starting out in a paraplanner role, how can they be successful in that role?

Charesse: I think you have to be very open-minded when you are a paraplanner, and you’re not going to know everything, and it’s going to be okay.

Another thing, I feel like you have to be very organized as a paraplanner. A lot of advisors count on me to be fully prepared when managing their clients. Also, I think, having a background in finance whether you went to college or having prior experience is very helpful.

I would think like … A lot of people I tell, like having a checklist. Like don’t reinvent the wheel if you don’t have to, but having a process in place for how you’re going to approach every case to make sure you’re not missing anything.

I feel like these things can be built out with an advisor. If you collaborate with your advisor and streamline that process, it’ll make things easier for you and the advisor. The advisor will have a clear understanding of how you are going through financial documents and building out the plan, and also you know the expectation of the advisor.

Hannah: With working with advisors and building out these processes, is that back and forth with the advisor? Do you bring that to the table? Is every client different? How does that usually work with multiple clients?

Charesse: Okay. When I first started, I usually just jumped in to the processes the advisor had in place for paraplanning, but now, after I’ve been working with so many advisors, a lot of them ask me what’s the best process. So usually, I think it’s always going to be a collaboration because at the end of the day, it’s their business, but I feel like they come to me for guidance more now.

It’s … I think, like just … It comes with building out workflows so one thing I built out for my longest standing client. She kind of lets me just handle my own processes, and she usually comes to me for a lot of things, but with her, I just built out a data entry workflow, and I presented the same workflow to another advisor I work with, and they like it as well.

It’s just … I usually work with advisors that use E-Money. I haven’t done one for Money Guide Pro, but it’s nice to just go into Wealth Box or Red Tail and see what you have to do and pick up where you left off too.

Hannah: And so, with working with advisors, do you get your own logins for everything? What does that look like?

Charesse: I have two services I offer. For the operations consulting, sometimes they give me my own login for the CRM, but usually we’ll just share, but that’s because it’s a short-term engagement. It may be like three to six months. But with the paraplanning clients, they usually give me my own logins for everything.

I really think it would be beneficial for me to probably get my own E-money login and just add a technology fee because with four E-Money logins, at that point, you know. They’re paying all that money, and it would be like a great service for me to add that to my services, but I don’t know any paraplanners that pay for their own financial planning software.

Hannah: If somebody has you as a paraplanner, what are you doing? What is your … What are the tasks that you do on a regular basis for advisors?

Charesse: So normally, I would check to see if we have all the documents on file to build out the upcoming plans for a client. I will build out the plan, obviously, and then if there’s any meeting followup, I will prepare that as well. Then there’s like research on different topics as well.

I think there’s a big difference between a paraplanner and an associate planner, and I don’t know if you’ve ever had this conversation with anyone, but just seeing what people are looking for when they list an associate planner versus a paraplanner, you can tell the difference, but some people think a paraplanner and association planner … Like they overlap at some extent, but they’re really not the same role.

I would consider myself like an associate planner with one of my advisors, so basically I have client contact, and she’s the only person I have client contact with. I will reach out to the client myself if we need to request more information, like making sure the risk tolerance questionnaire is up to date, and then for the meeting followup, if I need to reach out to the client, I will as well.

Hannah: Is the distinction between the associate planner and the paraplanner basically just client interaction or how else would you make that distinction?

Charesse: I would say it’s more client interaction. I am not an expert on this, but so basically I’m just basing it off of how I see other paraplanners work.

Attending client meetings. Like some paraplanners don’t want the client facing aspect, but some are willing to do it. I have in the past, and I don’t mind doing it, but now that I’m working with five firms right now, I usually have my own meetings, like 10 meetings a week, myself, so I really couldn’t attend client meetings for all my advisors, or my schedule would be crazy.

Hannah: And so those 10 meetings, are they with the advisors?

Charesse: Yeah, so some are … Usually they’re with the advisors or just situations like how I attended … How I spoke at a conference. If I need to book a meeting for that. Mostly are with the advisors, so that can range from five to six meetings.

With my operations consulting clients, I will schedule calls with them to demo a new technology if they’re interested. Normally that would push me over like my weekly meetings that I usually have with all of my clients.

Hannah: For the advisors who are listening to this who are really … Well, I guess it goes both ways, the advisors or somebody kind of in your path, what do you charge in the range or what’s the going rate, if you would, for working with a paraplanner or an operations consultant?

Charesse: For paraplanning, I would say at a minimum maybe $30 to $35 an hour. For the paraplanners that already have the CFP designation, I see them charging between $50 to $60 an hour normally. There are cases where I know someone personally that’s charging $85 an hour.

Then if you think … But you also have to think about the experience, so I’m sure a lot of people have heard of Delgated Planning. Her services are over $100 an hour, but I know she’s offering a lot more than what the normal paraplanner does.

For the operations consultant, I really don’t know anyone else that’s an operations consultant with like my experience. I know there’s larger companies and more experienced people who may have 10 plus years that are doing it, and I honestly don’t know what they’re charging.

Hannah: So if somebody is hearing your career path and is like, “Oh my gosh. This is what I want to do.” Where do they start?

Charesse: I think it’s very beneficial to pursue the registered paraplanner designation or the CFP designation and just start taking the classes just to become more familiar with the financial planning process. I definitely think people should do the research. That’s something I did not do when I started. I was charging very little compared to what I could’ve.

Also, creating a website so people can find you, and Simply Paraplanner was a really good resource for me when I started. I think I got about two to three jobs off of that website, so that’s a good resource as well.

Just thinking through your services and what you actually want to do, and write a business plan.

I waited a year in to write a business plan, and once I did, it provided a lot of clarity for me, and that’s when I realized that I want to continue growing this business.

Hannah: I like it so much that your clients are advisors, so it’s … Yeah.

Charesse: It’s awesome. It’s very profitable, and there’s a big need. I’m actually hiring someone at the end of this month to start helping me with the operations consulting mainly, and then probably data entry, so I like reached out to universities that have the CFP program to see if anyone’s interested, and then just people I’ve mentored along the way to see if they want more experience.

Hannah: So you get to see a lot of technology working with all these different advisors. You get to basically test drive all these various technologies. What are features of products that you just love working with? Especially with advisors?

Charesse: Features or softwares?

Hannah: Either-or, or both.

Charesse: Okay. I really like CRMs. I think they’re very resourceful, and I’m pretty sure all advisors have one, but honestly, there are some people I started working with, and usually the solo advisors, they’re not using it. They have it, but they aren’t maximizing the automation integration with it. I love technology integration just to help eliminate steps and save people time.

I really love helping advisors find the value in their technology because if you’re a virtual firm, or even if you have an office, technology is expensive, so it’s like good to maximize on it.

I really like what the CRMs are doing. I mainly work with Red Tail and Wealth Box, and they have an email feature that I think is very useful. You can build out email templates within the CRM.

Before Wealth Box started that feature, I would have advisors add their email templates into canned responses. The problem with that is if your team starts to grow or you hire anyone, they’re going to have to do the same step over again. But now that the CRMs have this built in, I think it’s great.

E-Money has been doing amazing. That’s just one financial planning software I work with mainly. I’m not sure about the other ones. The client onboarding process has been great. The tasks, like automatic email reminders, that’s amazing. I feel like the main thing for advisors is meeting followup, and My Plan Map is really great with that. You can add tasks in the system and then set up weekly reminders to be automatically sent to your client, and that’s just something you put it in once, and the system takes care of it.

Some people don’t want to add on an additional software for tasks like that, so E-money has the task reminders as well, but the client’s only reminded one time.

Hannah: So, that’s really interesting. So those task reminders, is that a separate program, or is that through existing software?

Charesse: I know Right Capital and E-Money, they have a spot where you can add client tasks into the software, and the clients can go in and complete the tasks, and you can also set a due date reminder, so when that due date comes, the clients get an email notification to complete it. That’s something if you already have Right Capital or E-Money, that’s a feature you can use today. But for My Plan Map, it is a separate software, and it’s purely for task management.

Hannah: One of the concepts that I’m really, really interested in right now is this idea of managing up because I know how many of these financial planning firms are run, and that financial planners aren’t necessarily the best business owners. You just call it what it is.

Charesse: Yes.

Hannah: So, what are your thoughts on managing up. How do you manage your advisors if that makes sense?

Charesse: Yeah, I think you have to manage up. When I manage up, my clients are more satisfied, but I would say early on, I didn’t do this, and people … Well, advisors that I used to work with would tell me like that’s your next step. You need to manage up.

My advisors like that I manage up. I’m usually ahead of them on things, and they like it. For example, with my operations consulting, I manage that whole relationship. I build out the timeline for how long it’s going to take to work on projects. I prepare the meeting agendas. This is what’s next, and in the past, I would also say, “These are the tasks I’m going to work on the next two week.” But I would never tell the advisor, “This is what you’re going to work on.” I do that now.

Also, just recommending technology to advisors and telling them, “Hey, this process isn’t working, and this is why.” I think if you want to be a virtual paraplanner, if you want to be a great … If you want to be like a great paraplanner or a great employee at your company, I think that this is just a skillset that everyone should have, and you become more valuable.

Hannah: How do you handle when you say, okay, advisor or boss, or whoever, depending on what your role is, you didn’t do what you said you would do. How is that handled, because I know that comes up?

Charesse: Yeah, for sure. So, this is really funny. When I started the operations consulting, I envisioned meeting with the advisor every other week, as like a strategy meeting, but now I meet with all operations consulting and paraplanning clients weekly, and I would say this happens with paraplanning clients as well. Advisors really don’t look over anything you email them. I mean, that’s a very general statement, but normally, if I send a long email, like here’s all the projects I worked on this week. Here are the notes from the meeting … Here’s the notes from the plan I just worked on last week. They usually won’t read it, and then during our call, they’ll ask me about the plan or the project I previously worked on.

For me, I think it’s good for a paraplanner to have a great line of communication, and also consider doing a briefing meeting or a debriefing meeting. If I’m mainly working with an advisor for paraplanning only, I’ll have a briefing meeting for a plan I completed.

That briefing meeting, I’m reviewing the plan with them and asking them any questions I have, and we’re looking at the what if scenarios to see if anything should be changed. Then the advisor would go to their client meeting, and then after that client meeting, and then after that client meeting, we would have a debriefing meeting.

So they’ll tell me, “I had the client meeting. This is the followup that needs prepared.” If there’s any updates on the plan, they’ll let me know, and then we’re done with that plan until the next quarter, month, whatever their process is.

Hannah: I really like how you kind of built in just that regular, almost like cycle of communication where there’s always a feedback loop with the advisor and coming in front of them.

Okay, the word that’s coming to mind is maddening of how you like put all this time into writing this long email or writing these summaries, and the advisor’s not reading it. Is that just something that you have to accept when you’re in that managing up role? Or, I just-

Charesse: Well, I tell advisors … Recently, I’ve noticed this problem because I normally don’t work with this many advisors at once. Like, one time, I worked with six, and it was hectic, but now I manage better, but I’m getting a lot of feedback from my clients, which is very helpful, and one advisor told me, she said, “I really haven’t sat down and looked at all the work you’ve done.” And I’ve sure a lot of advisors haven’t, but they just haven’t told me. I told her, I said, “If you don’t want to review this work alone, then we can schedule more meetings.” And if they’re willing to pay for the meetings with me to go through everything I did, I’m okay with that, but I tell them, if you’re not looking over the work, and we’re not having more meetings, then that’s just going to push back the projects that we’re working on.

Hannah: Well and so much of it, we talk a lot about client change and how to get our clients to change and really realizing that we can’t, and what our job is to say, “Here’s the options.” And advisors, if you’re not going to read this email or respond to it, then this gets pushed back.

Charesse: Yeah, I would say the underlying trend for me though is that advisors would probably prefer to sit down and review the work, and I mean, just thinking about a normal client in the financial planning industry, you’re sitting down with them and presenting the plan, so if I’m working on three workflows, and I want to present to you the technology integration that’s involved in it, the email templates that are involved with it, I definitely think that it would probably be best for us just to sit down, talk it through, and then I can make the changes and the process is implemented rather than me doing the work, the advisor looking it over, emailing it me, and then it comes up on the next meeting anyways.

So thinking out loud right now, but I definitely think I probably just need more meetings in my service model.

Hannah: And it goes back to this idea of we talk a lot about with clients, and again that’s where I know, it’s the future is human. It’s that hand-holding. As advisors, we need hand-holding.

Charesse: Yeah, I really think I collaborate well with advisors. I don’t think I’m doing all the work because again, it’s your business, and you just need help. You are servicing your clients. You want to grow the business, so to have someone come in and help streamline everything, to just make that process a lot easier, why not … What I normally tell advisors, like you provide the vision, then I execute it.

Hannah: I’ve seen that you’ve spoken on how employers can attract millennial talent. Let’s kind of flip this because most of the people listening to this podcast are newer planners who are hoping to get into good jobs. What are signs that a firm is doing it right in order to attract talent, and that somebody’s walking into a good job situation?

Charesse: I think if the firm is thinking about longterm where you’re going to end up in five years, even within the first year, just creating that timeline. I think that’s really essential.

I actually met a student when I was at the conference last week, and he told me they gave him a year timeline, like quarterly goals that they want him to hit, and I think XYPN just started the 90-day training timeline. If they really thought through what they’re going to do with the new hire, I think that’s great because it’s a thorough thought process, and they’re thinking through every aspect.

Also, I think it’s important for the interviewee to interview the interviewer because that’s something I haven’t done in the past, and I’m happy where I ended up, but I think if I would’ve spent more time asking questions to the employer, that would’ve helped me along the way. I ended up in a job that basically demoted me. I wasn’t able to be client-basing, and I had the opportunity beforehand, I probably wouldn’t have left the company.

I think it’s good to ask questions on what you’re going to be doing on a day-to-day basis. Then also flexibility. When I was working full time, I didn’t have the same flexibility as like my friends that were in marketing or IT. They were able to work from home once a week or once a month, and just like the flexibility. Like if you have to go a doctor’s appointment, and you can go and work later, like things like that. I feel like I’ve always worked at firms that were really strict along those lines.

Also, you want someone who is going to offer you the resources to be successful in your role and in the industry making sure they will continue your education whether that’s paying for the CFP exam or attending conferences or becoming a FPA member. I think those are really important so you can have outside communication from with … Like if you only talk with people in your current company, then how is your company going to grow? How are you going to bring best practices into the operations procedures or the paraplanning workflow if you’re not able to speak with anyone outside of your company?

Hannah: What have you learned in almost three and a half or four years that you’ve been in our profession, what have you learned about our profession?

Charesse: I learned that the profession is growing. I think there are a lot of advocates that want to help millennials, women, and minorities grow in the industry. I think there’s a lot of opportunity for young professionals to enter this industry, and there’s so many career paths, and I think the industry’s okay with you creating that career path on your own.

If you don’t fit the mold, then I think there’s an opportunity to move at your own pace.

Hannah: If you don’t if that mold, then that means that you stand out which is a really good thing.

Charesse: Yes. Yes, but I definitely think the industry is changing. They’re becoming more innovative just like with companies like XYPN. THey’re amazing. They’re setting the standard that younger advisors can launch their own business. And Simply Paraplanner, they have a job board specifically for virtual help, so I think these businesses are starting to pop up, and I meet people who have virtual businesses they’ve been running for 15 years, so it’s been around, but I think now it’s becoming the norm.

Hannah: Well, as we wrap up, are there any final pieces of advice that you would have to people who are entering the profession?

Charesse: If you’re prepared, you will normally be successful, so I think everyone should do their research and create that timeline on how they can achieve their goals.  

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Charesse Hagan believes it’s time to challenge the narrative that the only career path within financial planning is working toward being a lead advisor. Through her experience as a paraplanner and operations consultant, Charesse Hagan is a testament to the fact that there are many different career paths available to professionals in the financial planning industry. After working for two years in the advisor world as an associate planner, Charesse began to feel that working for a wealth management firm wasn’t necessarily for her.
Feeling confident in her experience, she struck out on her own. At first, Charesse exclusively involved herself in paraplanning work. Over time, her business model evolved to offer both operations consulting and some light paraplanning for long-term clients.
In the financial planning profession, we’re often fed a narrative that the best (or only) route for young professionals to take is to work toward being a lead advisor at a large firm, or to launch your own RIA. Charesse, however, believes that we need to challenge this narrative and highlight all career opportunities within the financial planning industry so that everyone can find their best fit.
Charesse has had colossal success running her own consulting and paraplanning business, and she’s excited about the possibilities that are still open to her in the future. By committing to the entrepreneur lifestyle, she has the potential to live and work as a digital nomad, add additional services to her business model, hire employees – the opportunities are endless.
Tune in to learn more about Charesse’s journey, and how you can find your own space within the financial planning community.

What You’ll Learn:

Different career opportunities within the finance industry.
What kind of education or experience you should look for if you’re considering launching your own business that serves financial planners.
What technology Charesse finds valuable for financial planners.
The difference between an associate planner and a paraplanner – and how you can determine which is a best fit for you.
How staying organized and building out processes can help you to implement strategy.
How providing the best customer experience possible is often all the marketing you need.

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Quickly Growing a Firm Tue, 13 Feb 2018 20:43:02 +0000 0 Five years after founding Strategic Financial Partners at 25 years old, Sten Morgan has built his financial planning firm $100M. Tune in to learn how he pushed past what was comfortable and challenged himself to grow, improve, and find a tremendous amount of success. Sten Morgan struck out on his own at 25 years old to start his own financial planning practice. After an internship at Northwest Mutual and a job at Raymond James, he chose to start a financial planning practice in a new town where he knew almost nobody. People said he was crazy, but he knew he could push himself past the difficult growth period to a point where he was running a healthy, booming financial planning practice.

Five years later, Sten has built Strategic Financial Partners, his financial planning firm in Tennessee, to over $100M. He pushed past what he knew he was comfortable with and challenged himself to find creative ways to get in front of clients. From taking a public speaking course to gathering email addresses from a local hospital’s directory, Sten worked to market to one of  his niche markets in the medical field and add value to their lives.

Sten is a big believer that most people are ignorant of what they’re capable of achieving, and the resources and information available to them that will help them grow. He wants all advisors to be aware of just how much they have to gain by taking risks and breaking out of the rut they’re stuck in.

You’re going to be blown away by Sten’s out-of-the-box ideas, and the encouraging advice he has for both new financial planners looking to get started and find success, as well as seasoned planners who have been feeling the urge to grow and improve themselves and their businesses.

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Many people think: How can I get the results I want with the least amount of discomfort? And you’ve already lost if you have that mindset.


What You’ll Learn:

  • How a business owner comes up with processes for working with clients.
  • How Sten became successful with running his own firm in a short period of time.
  • How Sten focuses on Centers of Influence (COIs) to build his firm and grow his client base.
  • How to power through what makes you nervous to challenge yourself and find success.
  • How to better understand your weak points and set discomfort goals to stretch yourself and grow.
  • How to change your mind-sets to move you toward success.


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Hannah: Well thanks for joining us today Sten.

Sten: No, happy to be here. Thanks for having me.

Hannah: Absolutely. I am really excited for you to talk about how to build a practice in a cold market. We’ll get to that a little bit later. But first of all, I’d love to hear more of your career path. How did you get into the financial planner profession?

Sten: You bet. I started in the business maybe like a lot of young CFPs or folks coming out of college. I didn’t really quite know what it meant to be a CFP or financial advisor. If I would have known that meant some amount of selling or even running your own business I might not have even got into this world because that would have intimidated me a lot of the time. I just knew I enjoyed people and I enjoyed numbers. I had a professor tell me once, he says, “There’s two ways to go with a business or finance degree. There’s in front of people or there’s behind computer screens all the time.” I think that was a little extreme at the time but it kind of helped me make the decision that I wanted to go the people path and feel that out.

My first job was an internship at Northwestern Mutual and I had no experience in the industry at all. I went there and learned a lot of what they do is sell insurance and they have some other things available and I got some really good foundational training, but then I learned I’m really interested in the investment side. I hear the wire house thing, that sounds really sexy. I want to go try that out. I jumped over to Raymond James for a little bit and was all investments all the time, and got my CFP through that process. I got my CFP before I could even use it, there was that work experience requirement back then but I knew I just wanted to learn at much as I could.

After being at Raymond James for a while I said, “I think I can do this on my own. I want to be able to control what my practice looks like. I want to do some fee based planning. I like the insurance side as part of it but I really want to be this boutique shop. That’s when I said I think I can do this on my own. I was about 24, almost 25 when I did that.

Hannah: It’s really interesting because I hear a lot of people looking at internships for Northwestern Mutual. Was that a positive experience for you? Maybe another way of framing that, what would be your advice to people who are looking at an internship with Northwestern Mutual or firms like that?

Sten: That’s a great question. I think it’s great foundational learning, especially coming into an industry you don’t know a lot about. I think a company that has a good system in place is really beneficial. I think if the small groups I’ve seen or even if you jump onto an independent team right away you can get a lot of experience but they might not have a system that keeps you busy all the time. You may sit around for hours just waiting for someone to tell you what to do. At Northwestern I appreciated there was weekly trainings, they linked you up with other advisors to give you some joint work, but then they also said, “Hey, go out and sell also because if you do you get to make some money.” I think it was a really good way to see the industry, see the hard side of the business, but also get some foundational training.

I think every advisor has to decide do I want to be really heavy on insurance, because I got some guys doing big insurance all the time, do I want to be the hedge fund guy, or all investments, or do I want to be the financial planner to people who they come to and I help them oversee it all. If somebody said, “I want to do insurance all the time,” I think Northwestern could be a great option. They’re really building up their broker/dealer more I’ve heard. As far as getting into the business, I think they do just as good as anybody else does.

Hannah: I like the sales training. I know for a lot of people who jump straight into an RA or various places sometimes they’re smaller shops and they don’t have the resources to do full out training, like some of the bigger firms do.

Sten: Then from there you’re maybe just learning through mistakes. That’s good to do at times, but if you can learn from other people’s mistakes and not have to do it yourself that’s what I preferred.

Hannah: You were you said 24-25 and looking at starting your own firm at that point. What led you to decide that you wanted to start your own firm?

Sten: I was partnered with the Raymond James office and they were doing a lot of business. I think this 1 advisor had like 1500 clients. They did a lot of A share business and it was a lot of activity and I learned a lot, but I looked at the book of business when I stepped back and said, “I just don’t have that many clients because it’s really hard to follow through on the commitment you made to them initially.” It seems like you end up just finding new clients and the older ones kind of felt forgotten about, maybe some of them stayed around, maybe some of them don’t. I said, “I think I can design a practice to where it’s more specific, it’s still profitable, but I can target business owners, physicians.”

I feel like in today’s market place there’s a lot of investors that if they want to open up a Roth or a 529 they can do it online themselves. I think there’s advisors still adding value with that process but I got really excited when I could do a complicated estate planning or tax harvesting and investment account where I could really show the client by working with me I just saved you $10,000, $15,000, $20,000. I think that just really protects your value prop. That’s where I said I want to just design my group a different way.

Hannah: Was the first that you were working with open to that idea or did you know that you wanted to do it on your own?

Sten: Part of it was the payouts because there were so many layers. They were owned by parent companies so I think the highest payout you ever got was 50%.

Hannah: Ouch.

Sten: Yeah. So I think even in that model when you’re doing a lot of A share load stuff and then you’re getting a 50% cut I think as my mind started thinking more like a business owner I said I think I can have fewer clients and actually end up making more money. Then going to a place where it’s close to now I’m close to 90% payout you have all your own expenses and there’s more business owner type decisions, but I found out that’s just more how I was wired.

Hannah: Did you know that you wanted to be an entrepreneur before this?

Sten: I didn’t and then I talk about in the book a little about just my upbringing and how things were just so hard all the time that my whole goal in life was really just to be comfortable. The thought of working for somebody, working hard, getting a steady paycheck was just what I thought the pinnacle of success was for a long time. It took some time for me to realize I think I’m capable of more. I’m actually open to taking on challenges and risks even though for a long time I wasn’t. I think it’s once I internalized that that I said, “I think if I did this for 10 more years I’d look back and regret delaying the risk of doing my own thing.” I wasn’t that way for a long time, but a switch flicked to say, “I think that’s really what I want.”

Hannah: Did people think you were crazy to want to start your own firm at such a young age?

Sten: Oh yeah. I tried to stay with Raymond James for a while and they were like, “Hey Sten, your older partner’s right down the street. He’s a big producer. You’re 25 we just can’t really rock the cart, you need to do your own thing.” For me I almost … I just got married, just bought a house, actually I wasn’t married yet so my wife still kids that when we got married I was unemployed. It’s hilarious looking back but I just started going to the office not knowing who to call and started coming up with some unique ways to get in front of people. Recognizing that I was 24-25 and who is going to take advise from me, but really trying to change those mindsets that were holding me back to say, “I can add value. I do have a CFP.” Most of the time I still know more than most of the people do in the room even though I’m 25 years old. I think people eventually thought Sten would make it because he desires it. I just don’t think they wouldn’t think that I would have surpassed them in four years when they’ve been in the business for 20. I think that’s what caught people’s attention.

Hannah: When you started out this was the Legacy Investment Planning Group.

Sten: That’s right, which was me.

Hannah: One of the things that I hear a lot from listeners is lack of confidence, especially when people are graduating oftentimes they don’t come from a background. A lot of their clients are high net worth at many of these firms and so they’re trying to give advice and they’re young. What would you say to that person who perhaps is lacking confidence in their 20s, or heck, even their 30s.

Sten: That’s a great question. The good thing about our business is that, and I’ve learned this from other business owners and physicians, is there’s going to be some people that the age is just a no-go for them and you’ve got to move on and that gets frustrating at times. I remember when I was 25, this was one of my first clients when I broke off, it was a 30 year Merrill Lynch client with a few million dollars, they switched over to me, a physician, because I sat with them and talked about things that Merrill Lynch never brought up, like tax harvesting, estate planning with their life insurance, long-term care planning. It was just a different kind of conversation.

What gave me more confidence was realizing even though I’m young if I put together a good value prop and a good deliverable for clients most advisors aren’t doing that. I think I assumed that most advisors were, that they were meeting with their clients frequently, that they were really trying to add unique value. But if a lot of your listeners are CFPs they’re already steps ahead of people that have been in the business for a long time just because they know more. I’ve worked with business owners that they don’t care if you’re 12 or 50, if you have a strategy that’s going to save them $50,000 a year in taxes they’ll work with you. I think it’s just recognizing that you are valuable and the knowledge you have is not something that everybody else has, and you need to continuously improve yourself because you are the product. Hannah’s the product. Sten’s the product. That’s really who they’re working with. What ends up happening is that your age is maybe a barrier initially but then I just turned 31 and now clients are coming to me because they want to work with somebody that’s young, that’s established because they want to work with us for the next 30 years and not their advisor that’s retiring next year.

I found, I talk about it in the book, that’s literally so much of it is mindset, it’s perception drives reception. It’s what are you conveying? What is the product? I think sometimes that’s the way you dress, it’s the way you talk. I don’t think every advisor has to wear a three piece suit and try to be the smartest person in the room all the time. But just thinking through if I was in the client’s shoes I want somebody that listens. I want somebody that really knows their stuff and it can’t be the basic stuff. I think if anybody meets with you they’re already expecting you to know something, that’s why they’re meeting with you. You need to make sure that if they met with two other advisors that however you are explaining your value prop that it stands apart. I feel like most advisors are saying the same thing as every other advisor and then they’re surprised why they don’t get the business.

I have a good buddy that I was at a conference with years ago and he was competing for a client, it was like $60 million, the guy sold a business. He got down to him and one other group, Morgan Stanley or something. He ended up losing the client, but he knew the client well enough to go ask him, “Hey, would you tell me why I didn’t get the business?” The client’s wife said, “We just honestly couldn’t tell the difference so we flipped a coin.”

Hannah: Wow.

Sten: So he lost a $60 million account over a coin flip because he was saying the same thing as the other guy. His packet probably looked the same as the other guy.

One thing we do at Legacy is we’ve kind of patterned it off the “Blue Ocean Strategy”. Hopefully, maybe your listeners have heard of that book, but it’s are you creating a blue ocean where there’s very little competition or are you trying to hang out in a red ocean where there’s blood in the water and you’re saying the same stuff as every other advisor and hoping they just pick you.

Hannah: What does that look like in practice? How is your pitch different than every other advisors?

Sten: We do fee planning. When we work with a client we open up with just a flat fee plan to start the relationship, but it’s really trying to convince clients. We focus on pain point, which means if I meet with a business owner taxes and estate planning are big. We don’t open with investments and insurance even though we get paid if we do some of that stuff. I feel like a lot of advisors lead with the products they have. We focus on if it’s a physician it’s taxes, it’s reading through their disability policy they’re not aware of. We go to hospitals at times and we tell doctor clients that, “Hey, have you actually read through your group disability policy? You know it’s own occupation for two years,” and we got them. It’s really being a student of the game to say with this particular client what is the pain point going to be. That’s my foot in the door. From there I can do everything else.

We’ve also always thought about positioning ourselves to the client as their financial planner because clients will buy investments from their financial planner. They will buy insurance from their financial planner. They’ll pay a fee to their financial planner. If your client sees you as just a stock broker or an insurance salesman that’s really what you’re going to be in their mind forever. We spend a lot of time on what is our first impression. What are they going to see us as from this point moving forward. Then they’re also going to refer us that to people. Our referrals are much higher quality because we know what they’re telling the other clients what we do.

Hannah: Are you really defining that through the niching down in your business?

Sten: Yeah I think we do. The main three parts of our business where we generate clients are physicians, we’re endorsed by the Tennessee Medical Association. We work with business owners and we advertise that specifically. Then we do corporate education. I’ll go into large groups and speak to them about retirement, but we’ll get in front of a group of 60 people at one time and then me and the other advisors will meet with them one on one and that generates a lot of activity for the other advisors. As opposed to casting an extremely wide net I said, “Okay, I’m not going to say that I only work with 45 year old business owners and manufacturing.” I’ve heard people say it’s super specific, but I say I’m going to try to focus on a few areas and really nest in there. Where it started in my business in Nashville, because I didn’t know anybody when I started Legacy, was physicians. I said, “I know they need help.” A lo of them don’t make the best decisions not because they don’t want to, just they don’t have the time to and they don’t slow down enough.

I started targeting hospitals because I could get the doctors email addresses off the website and I started hitting them with periodic emails about, “Hey, have you read through your group benefits? Do you know your disability policy doesn’t cover you for this? Have you reviewed your 403b asset allocation recently? Not a two page email that they’re not going to read. It was literally like a one sentence email saying, “Hey, I’m going to be by your office tomorrow. Can I stop by and hand you something?” Out of 100 of those reach outs I would get maybe 20 responses, 10 would say yes, I’d end up meeting with maybe 6 or 7, which was much better than a cold call. I was able to work myself through that network and those hospitals by really adding value.

Hannah: I think that’s such an important concept. The more I learn about marketing the more I realize everything needs to be tied down to results. A 6%-7% success rate is actually really good.

Sten: Oh yeah. I remember I used to hear it was kind of the 10-3-1. You get ahold of 10 people, 3 meet, you get 1 client. With me being young in the business in a new town, getting married I couldn’t wait. Those metrics just weren’t going to work for me and so I had to be a little more specific about it. I put together something called The Advisor Handbook, which is something that everybody getting into the business should really go through. It’s kind of the 10 best practices of what we do to say if you’re an advisor, no matter what stage you are, if you’re not doing these 10 things you’re missing something. I’ll give you that info later if you want to shoot it out.

There’s a lot of good people that want to get into this business that have the heart, they just kind of get beat up by the business, the sales, how long it typically takes to be successful. They kind of say, “I want to do this, I just can’t wait that long.”

Hannah: That’s a really interesting point because part of your story is how fast you grew your business. Now you moved across the country, is that right?

Sten: Yeah I grew up in Oregon, outside of Portland.

Hannah: Then you moved to Nashville and then started your business?

Sten: Yep. I worked with a group here for a year and a half, I kind of settled in, but really just serviced their clients. When I broke off it was Sten and that was it. It was not a good idea. I would suggest anybody making a move do a little more pre-planning than I did. I think the takeaway is even though you don’t preplan … I was in Wisconsin speaking to a group last week and I said, “Anybody that thinks that you can’t do it in three years.” Our practice has over a $1 million of revenue now and that was from 0 clients and 5 years later. Even though it’s unusual it is possible. It’s now just other advisors figuring out what are they doing, how do I do it because if people are doing it it’s possible, it’s just not the easy route, but you could do it if you wanted to.

Hannah: Let’s talk about that. You start your own practice and you start targeting physicians. What else did you do that helped you achieve that success quickly?

Sten: I never stopped studying for the first three years, whether it was a CFP, CHFC, conferences, because I really internalized in my mind that I was the product. I took speaking courses, which I built my college curriculum around not speaking in front of groups. I realized that if I can get in front of a group, and I had an opportunity, and I could teach a seminar all of a sudden I’m the expert in the room right away, if I could be the person at the front of the room. That speaking course, which led to teaching a small seminar, which led to signing 2 contracts with big companies with 2,000 plus employees that we’re there once a week speaking to 60 people at a time it’s maybe not having the end in mind but it’s saying I’m going to continuously develop myself so when an opportunity does come up I’m confident enough to step in and take it. I needed economies of scale when I starting in Nashville. I had to get in front of as many people as quickly as I could.

It really does come down to the numbers. You need to call people, but I hated cold calling so I was like where do I get warm introductions. So I’d do a networking group once a week. I’d go to the hospital, I got kicked out of the mail room once because I was putting things in the doctor’s mailboxes. Nobody else is doing that, so it’s like what is different? What is every other advisor doing and I’m not going to do that besides the kind of basic blocking and tackling that we all need to do I needed to somehow stay in the park.

Hannah: When you started, I know this is always a topic among firm owners, did you have a minimum of what you’d work with? How did you balance that prospecting for new clients versus managing the inflow of new clients?

Sten: That’s a great question. I think it was at first if you could fog a mirror I was going to work with you. I think I moved past that quickly because I realized that if I was going to promise a certain service model I had to work with a certain clientele. For a year or two it was really if I could add value I’ll work with you. I was willing to meet with anybody because I didn’t know who they may be able to refer me to.

How I did control my client growth was I didn’t always engage them as a client. I would meet with somebody. I would follow up and give them some good value add but if it wasn’t going to be a profitable long-term client I wouldn’t really try to engage them, whether it was mutual funds, insurance, I would just say, “Hey, here’s some good overview topics to cover. But if it’s buying a $40 a month term policy there’s a lot of policies you can do that. Let me know if you have any questions.” I focused on assets under management. I set that about 100,000 initially, give or take, and that’s just grown from there because I was dead set on even if I only made $30,000 the first year I was going to really control the quality of my client so that I could actually deliver on the process.

One big thing I did differently is I made centers of influence a huge part of my practice. I came up with a strategy that I used to get in front of attorneys, CPAs, and other centers of influence. But I did recognize the best ones were getting called all the time and so I said, “What kind of call would they actually take and would they actually meet with me?” I developed a script that I talked about in that advisor handbook that gets me those meetings. I started getting those COIs as clients and now they’re my best referral sources.

Hannah: That’s interesting. I’ve heard somebody else say that where you actually go after the centers of influence not for their network but for them as clients.

Sten: First the approach can’t be, “Hey, I want you as a client.” The approach at a high level is I’m actually looking for centers of influences to serve my clients. They didn’t know I only had 10 clients but they’re willing to meet with somebody because everybody at some point, I wouldn’t say it’s even greedy, but if it’s going to be beneficial for them they’ll take the meeting. If you’re calling a COI and saying, “Can I meet your clients?” Click, they’re going to hang up because they just got 10 of those phone calls before you. I think it’s about constantly saying I’m going to add value before I ask for a referral. I’m going to add value before I try to partner with a COI. What that means, and people are implementing that online now when people sell courses is you give free stuff away, you give free stuff and then you ask for something as opposed to asking for something before you’re really even proved that you could add value. I keep that in mind a lot when I’m trying to meet with new COIs or new clients.

Hannah: Do you have a regular drip marketing campaign for your centers of influence that you’re just in regular touch with them?

Sten: We sent out a monthly newsletter to COIs, which is, again, it’s not a, “Happy January, hope you have a good year,” it’s, “Here’s a specific strategy that you may not be aware of that can add value to your clients.” I think we have like an 80% open rating-

Hannah: Wow.

Sten: … in those emails. We might have a call to action sometimes and the call to action’s not 80%, but we get the open rate because these people, even though we don’t meet with all of them on a quarterly basis like we do with our closest COIs they know that we’re adding value. They know our email is going to give them something that they can use with their clients or that just improves their skillset. I think that’s really important is to protect the quality of information you’re giving to clients, COIs, because if you’re sending out a monthly client newsletter and it’s just the same stuff all the time eventually they’re going to stop opening it. It’s really hard to get them back once you lose them.

Hannah: Do you have writers on staff, or do you outsource that, or are you writing that content yourself?

Sten: Typically we’ll have … I sign up for newsletters, whether it’s from JP Morgan, PIMCO, Fidelity, VanGuard that just gives us info. I have some attorneys that will write some white papers for us, but the COIs and the clients don’t even really want a long email. I might take what I read and I’ll paraphrase it down to like four sentences. The end goal would be for them to say, “You shared enough for me to know that I don’t know what you’re talking about,” so I’m either going to refer my clients to you or I’m going to give you a call to talk about it.” One of those we did when the social security law changed and they closed some loopholes is that we did specific emails and did some seminars around it. The seminars were fairly well attended, but what it really did was there was like three or four CPAs that, for whatever reason in their mind, all of a sudden we were the social security experts and they just started referring people to us because it was beneficial for them and clients were definitely going to ask, and they didn’t have anybody to send them to.

It’s gets back to that what’s the perception of your practice and you to attorneys, to CPAs, are you the when I send somebody to Sten they’re going to make me look really good and they’re not going to try to sell my clients something if they don’t need it then they’re going to refer you to more people.

Hannah: In my experience is that centers of influences are very sensitive to their clients getting sold too.

Sten: Oh yeah, definitely. But if you give them a good runway, which means you don’t expect a COI to refer you to somebody in the next week after you meet them or even you refer somebody to them I’ve kind of held to I’ll engage a COI and probably work with them for 6-12 months and send them some periodic clients if it makes sense before I hold their feet to the fire to where I say, “I’ve sent you 10 people. You’ve done a great job, I appreciate it, but I know you know people that I could help. What am I missing? How can we do this better?” To be honest, what I’ve learned is that these COIs need coaching. They need you to tell them how to refer because they’re just not wired that way. They have to be told, “When you hear this catchphrase…” When somebody says, “I hate paying taxes,” or, “Oh man, retirement accounts are lagging behind that,” that’s when you need to say, “I have somebody who can help with that.” If you don’t coach them on it they’re just going to get right back into the regular routine and just not think about it.

Hannah: One thing you mentioned earlier was when you started your new firm you had the processes in a way that you wanted to serve your clients. Did you come up with that on your own? What was the evolution of you deciding how you wanted to serve your clients?

Sten: It was a combination of things I’ve seen, done well, and then things I’ve seen not done well. I knew I wanted to automate my process, which is still a work in progress where I can be touching with my clients with valuable content so that I’m not feeling like I haven’t talked to that client in two months or three months. Service is really important to us because what I’ve learned is that at the end of the day if market drops not a lot of clients are going to fire you because the market went down, but if they don’t hear from you, if they don’t feel heard it’s really kind of that warm and fuzzy emotional stuff that really can trap a client long-term and really keep them from questioning you as much if you educate them and set good expectations.

We do monthly client newsletters. We meet with eight clients at least twice a year. Everybody, A, B, and C gets a birthday card. We do an annual client event. We send Christmas gifts to A clients, B, and then maybe some C if they’re good referral sources. It’s really saying I want to have 12 touches at least per year on the clients and hopefully maybe 7-8 of them are more automated. You’re really covering all your bases then.

Hannah: I find myself falling into this trap, sometimes I want to recreate the wheel and do something more creative, but this is kind of the blocking and tackling of our business.

Sten: I still think it can create a blue ocean. I think there’s a way in your service model to be different and unique. I’m hearing stuff from advisors all the time in some of these conferences I go to, I’m like, “Wow, that’s really creative.” But that’s the reason I pay to go to conferences. It’s like if we get trapped in our own little world sometimes it’s hard to just break out of that and think differently. That’s why I hire coaches. I hire coaches for my team. I hire coaches for speaking. Hiring coaches doesn’t mean that you’re spending a lot of money all the time but I’d say any new CFP or somebody that’s a few years into the business you need to have somebody that’s speaking into your practice and your business outside because if you don’t what’s going to happen it you’re going to do the same thing. You’re going to get really focused on just acquiring new clients and you’re going to forget about a lot of this stuff that builds a good foundation. Coaching is kind of a big thing for us now.

Hannah: Absolutely. You’re five years into running your own firm. What does your firm look like? How many employees do you have? What’s the structure?

Sten: There’s five of us, so we’re kind of small. We have three advisors and two staff. We’re kind of at a stage where we’re looking to add a junior advisor, so any of your listeners that are CFPs in Nashville that want to be challenged and take it to the next level we’d love to talk to them. We’re to the point now where I’ve always tried to grow ahead of myself or hire ahead of myself. I felt like a lot of advisors in the past, whether it was staff or other advisors, if you wait too long and you think you have the business to support it you waited probably a year or two long to hire that person to kind of try and keep ourselves accountable to that. We’re kind of a growth stage now to where our service model not to be compromised we need more folks because we’re turning away good business now that doesn’t really fall into my A and B, but would be a great client for another advisor.

Hannah: That advisors that are on your staff are they responsible for bringing in business or are you really the rain maker of the firm?

Sten: They are also. One of our other advisors is really well networked and just … Again, I’m from Oregon and California and so in the south it’s a little different. He’s from Kentucky so he just speaks the language around here. Us West Coast guys can come across a little harsh, so he does a really good job with the rain making piece too. The other advisor is more of the in office guy. I think we have enough rain making happening, it’s just we need more sharp people to deliver on the opportunities we’re running into.

Hannah: You wrote a book “Seven Mindsets for Success” what made you want to write a book?

Sten: I had never thought about writing a book before. If somebody would have asked me a few years ago it wasn’t even on my bucket list. I think it must have been a year and a half ago I was sitting one night and I just couldn’t get these thoughts out of my head. I’d experienced really unusual success in the business at a young age that I’d go to conferences and people would ask questions about, “What are you doing?” I think what people were looking for is what’s the magical thing that I could do tomorrow to duplicate your success. I realized that all of us were doing the same thing, we’re prospecting, we’re surveying our clients, we’re educating ourselves to be unique.

There were some things I was doing that were a little different but I really thought what is it really. Why am I doing the same thing as some other people but getting dramatically different results? I think it really came down to just the way I approach my life and my business. It’s what I call mindsets. That’s where I said I need to put this stuff because if it can help one advisor stay in the business because they learn to think about it differently then I think that would have been a big win. It’s gotten much bigger than that and turned into speaking engagements and getting in front of groups of 100 advisors to challenge them, so I’m very blessed by that. That was the motivation behind it.

Hannah: Let’s talk about mindsets. Can you give us an example of what you’re talking about and how that plays out?

Sten: I’ve defined mindset as a controllable filter to the world around you that impacts every single decision you make. The way I grew up, single mom, three sisters, we had a lot of tough situations. I think we had like 27 houses before I was in middle school. For me the world was tough. Authority figures always let you down. We’re all shaped by our upbringing and for a lot of years we don’t have control over that. Our mindsets and my mindset coming into be a late teenager and my early 20s was so clouded. I played basketball in college and I got in fights all the time. I was just mad and I felt like success didn’t happen to people like us. That really drove the success I experienced. It was later in college that I realized the fact that I think authority figures are out to get me, and therefore, I don’t take advice from anybody is probably really holding me back.

I didn’t do any joint work initially in this business. I felt like Sted it’s all on you. That was a terrible mindset. That was a way I was viewing the world, but it wasn’t reality. Once I changed that and I started learning from people and taking constructive criticism it changed my business dramatically. It really helped me focus on what are these filters in my life. I’ve kind of put it into seven mindsets in the book. What are these seven filters that if they go off track can impact what I’m doing and therefore cause me to underperform in everything I’m doing. That’s where I really started focusing on are my mindsets healthy, am I making good, effective decisions.

When I do some of my speeches I have these drunk buster goggles that if you put them on they’ll give you a headache because you feel like you’re intoxicated, but it’s really putting people in the mindset of if you don’t have everything figured out in your head, in your mindsets, what you’re really is you’re really trying to operate wearing these goggles. Anything you do is probably not going to be as successful as you want it to be. You’re not going to make effective decisions, you’re going to doubt yourself. For me I felt like success starts with the way I think and what my mindsets are, then I can go from there.

Hannah: It’s really interesting, we had Rick Kaylor from South Dakota on the podcast just a couple weeks ago and he was talking about money mindsets with his clients and how that’s really helped open up and make the clients make better financial decisions for themselves. This is a really great pairing of our mindsets.

Sten: Oh yeah, it drives everything. Another chapter in the book is about pursuing discomfort. I mentioned earlier today that my whole life was about pursuing comfort. At one point in my life I thought if I could make $100,000, because that was the most successful person I’d ever met up to that point then I would have arrived. That’s the ultimate level of success. I reached that point and I realized the only way I’m going to continue to grow is if I find the next really hard thing. I set a discomfort goal every 30 days for myself. It’s not always a huge one, it may be a speaking course, it may be writing a book. It may be going after new clientele that I was worried about, or learning about a new product, but it’s constantly stretching myself to get better.

In the book I talk about something called a misogi, which is really fascinating. A Harvard professor came up with what he calls the modern day misogi. It’s a physical or mental challenge that you have about a 50% chance of success. By completing it it essentially opens your mind to what you’re actually capable of doing. So with some coaching clients I have I challenge them to that. I ask them, “What’s one thing you never thought you could do?” Then we try to do it. It’s pretty amazing the results from that.

Hannah: What would be an example of that?

Sten: I think in our business one thing would be I’ve talked about a lot of people get their CFP in a year because you can take a class. I got it in five months because I self-studied at night like crazy and then challenged the test. It could be traditionally in our business clients you might be really comfortable with insurance so you sell it but you’ve avoided investments or financial planning because it’s uncomfortable. Well you should learn it. Taking things that you know you’re avoiding, we all know we’re avoiding something that we know will grow us and saying yes to it and doing it.

Hannah: This may seem like an obvious question, but what are the indicators or how would somebody know if maybe one of their mindsets is off?

Sten: I’ve put together, and this is a card that if any of your listeners want to email I can send this PDF to them, but I’ve broken down the mindsets. The book walks through it that perspective, for example, was a mindset that if your perspective mindset it clouded it means you think you have it all figured out. You think that just on your own you’ll continue to be successful. But if you perspective mindset is clear you realize that there’s so much you don’t know that you need to be constantly perusing outside feedback. For me that was a hard one because if anybody when I was young told me what to do I’d want to fight them on the spot. For me, I had to learn just to one, accept constructive criticism, but as I’ve worked more on that mindset my goal now is that I hire coaches to tell me what I’m doing wrong and I don’t even take it personal. I just say, “Great. I want to do better. What’s next?”

In the book I walk through each mindset to say here’s probably where you are maybe. Some people might have some of these mindsets really clear, but I guarantee that any person’s going to read this and they’re going to say, “Wow, I don’t handle conflict very well.” Whether you’re leading a team or you have hard conversations with clients the future self mindset is really challenging. How do I feel about discomfort? Most of us, human nature, is that you pursue comfort. When you’re face with a decision you try to say, “How can I get the results I want with the least amount of discomfort,” and you’ve already lost if that’s where your mind is going, so you really have to retrain that.

Hannah: One of the things that I’ve just observed from various friends in various stages of their business models are what they start out to do isn’t what they end up doing. They find that their goals and the path that they want to go on changes. What are your thoughts on that or what would your advice be to them?

Sten: That’s what I call future self in the book. It’s kind of having this ongoing conversation about saying, “Where do I see myself?” I’ve never defined that as a career. It’s really been more about what really gets me more excited. If you do something really well you can always make money off of it if you learn how to monetize it. When I got into this business I thought I was going to sell insurance so I never thought I’d run my own business, and have employees, and run a team. I never thought I’d write a book, or be a speaker, or a coach, but I always was focused on building my skillset so that when those opportunities came along I was ready for it.

That’s what I think it really comes down to is that don’t get so hung up on where you think you’re going to be in 10 years as far as a career or how much money you’re making, but focus more on what skill am I refining in myself that gets me excited. It will help every single person to be a really good public speaker, even if you don’t want to be, so go do that. Studying and getting more certifications will never hurt you, so do that. Find the thing that’s going to just push you. What most people do is they don’t, and they’re 70-80 years old and the most common regret is I wish I would have taken on more challenges. I wish I would have spent more time with family. Let’s learn form that. Let’s learn from what most people’s regrets are and do it differently now. That’s that future self mindset that I coach people on that says how do I keep myself in that state of mind all the time.

Hannah: When you started did you have a support system around you to focus you on that or was it more internally driven?

Sten: For me it was internally driven. I had a few different father figures growing up that left and a few that I came home one day and I’ve never seen since. I think that really clouds that mindset around mentors or coaching. I don’t think I was very coachable early in my career so if people might have tried I just wasn’t having it. I think I did it the harder way though. For me, what really motivated was I looked around at my three sisters and mom were still struggling and I finally realized that I had the power to make that easier for them if I just stepped up.

I think it would be easier for anybody if people did joint work, they found a mentor, whether it was in this business or just in general. But I think it’s easier said than done to find a good mentor. I wouldn’t pair yourself up with the first person that offers. Be selective, but I would encourage people to find that. That’s something I’m trying to be now because I didn’t have it so I’m saying even though I’m 31 what can I do, the book’s part of that, the speaking’s part of that but I think if you can get a little more intentional about your direction earl on and avoid some pitfalls it will just make you that much more successful.

Hannah: How do you find a good mentor?

Sten: I didn’t do this well, especially moving to a new town it was hard, but I look around for successful people. I started going to groups that would have guest speakers that were successful business people, whether there was nonprofit doing a speech and this person was coming to talk about being a generous giver. For me it was less about I want the person making the most amount of money in my business, it was, I want to find the person that’s doing really well but has balance in their life. Since I didn’t have a dad growing up it was like I have two daughters and I want to be there for them, but I always want to do as well as I can in my business and impact a lot of people. I think that was the kind of mentor I was looking for.

Somebody else may say, “I want a mentor that’s in the best physical shape and I want to learn from how they did it,” or maybe I want to make the most amount of money, so who’s doing that. I think you got to define who do I want to look like. I’m going to try and surround myself with those people.

Hannah: What does the next 5 or 10 years look like for you?

Sten: Really open to growing the team. At some point I’ve learned you can make a great amount of money and you can give a lot of it away, but as you build your brand more people keep coming and it’s really hard for me to say no to people that want our help. I’d love to build the team and let it bless other people. Let them get into the business and do really well. Then also maybe impact the industry with the book and speaking to say, “I did this thing in four years that people say takes 20 in a cold market, so it’s possible, but here’s really the way you can do it.” But I also want to help people be more effective at everything they do. These mindsets, if you figure this out, it doesn’t just make you a better advisor it makes you a better father, a better mother, a better sister. It’s just the right way to think and impacting people in that way gets me fired up.

Hannah: One of the things I’ve heard from several thought leaders recently is that working with clients is how you are with the clients or how you be with the clients, is the term that I’m hearing. So much of this mindset is exactly that. If you can improve yourself you can improve the way you show up with your clients and that’s going to make you a better advisor.

Sten: Oh yeah. In one of the graphics I have, if anybody emails me it’s on the other side of the mindset card, is I talk about there’s three stages, there’s ignorance, there’s awareness, and there’s belief. A lot of us are ignorant to what we’re capable of or what information is out there that would make us that much better. Our main pursuit in life should be awareness because the most successful people in history, the most successful people in our business are the most aware. They’re the most aware of themselves, they’re most aware of the market around them to figure out how to be different. Once you become aware of what you’re not doing that you should you then move to belief, which means now I have to figure out how to get to where I know now that I can go. Those are things, the mindsets, and plus the ignorance awareness belief process is something I have right next to my computer and I think about every day.

Hannah: What other advice do you have for new planners who are starting out into this profession.

Sten: I think I mentioned that don’t forget that you are the product and constantly improve yourself. Be open to risk in this business and I don’t think that means that if you’re a CFP and you really enjoy the back office stuff, preparing reports, that you all of a sudden have to go be the rain maker. I think it’s what’s the riskiest thing you can do within your possession to be better off. Don’t be fearful of risk. Remember, you’re the product. Then don’t get stuck in a rut. If you feel at any point that you think, “I could be doing more. I want more,” don’t ignore that sense, spend a little more time on it. Try to figure out what that is.

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Five years after founding Strategic Financial Partners at 25 years old, Sten Morgan has built his financial planning firm $100M. Tune in to learn how he pushed past what was comfortable and challenged himself to grow, improve, Sten Morgan struck out on his own at 25 years old to start his own financial planning practice. After an internship at Northwest Mutual and a job at Raymond James, he chose to start a financial planning practice in a new town where he knew almost nobody. People said he was crazy, but he knew he could push himself past the difficult growth period to a point where he was running a healthy, booming financial planning practice.
Five years later, Sten has built Strategic Financial Partners, his financial planning firm in Tennessee, to over $100M. He pushed past what he knew he was comfortable with and challenged himself to find creative ways to get in front of clients. From taking a public speaking course to gathering email addresses from a local hospital’s directory, Sten worked to market to one of  his niche markets in the medical field and add value to their lives.
Sten is a big believer that most people are ignorant of what they’re capable of achieving, and the resources and information available to them that will help them grow. He wants all advisors to be aware of just how much they have to gain by taking risks and breaking out of the rut they’re stuck in.
You’re going to be blown away by Sten’s out-of-the-box ideas, and the encouraging advice he has for both new financial planners looking to get started and find success, as well as seasoned planners who have been feeling the urge to grow and improve themselves and their businesses.

“Many people think: How can I get the results I want with the least amount of discomfort? And you’ve already lost if you have that mindset.”

What You’ll Learn:

How a business owner comes up with processes for working with clients.
How Sten became successful with running his own firm in a short period of time.
How Sten focuses on Centers of Influence (COIs) to build his firm and grow his client base.
How to power through what makes you nervous to challenge yourself and find success.
How to better understand your weak points and set discomfort goals to stretch yourself and grow.
How to change your mind-sets to move you toward success.

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Facilitating Financial Health Tue, 06 Feb 2018 20:19:52 +0000 0 Rick Kahler believes that financial planners, like himself, can facilitate financial health with their clients by embracing their behavior, helping them uncover their money mindsets, and listening to their stories and goals. Rick Kahler knew he had to do more to differentiate himself as an advisor and started to explore financial therapy. He’s constantly amazed by how little numbers mean at the end of the day with research showing 90% of financial decisions are emotional decisions. Instead, Rick prefers to focus on being with his clients.

He knows that the majority of their money decisions won’t be driven by the numbers – they are driven by emotions. Rick knows that 80% of all client engagements are what can’t be replaced by robo-advisors – listening to your client, stepping into their shoes, and being empathetic.

In this incredibly revelatory episode of #YAFPNW, Rick explores how we as advisors can relate to our clients on a deeper level by simply being with them, and how that helps us build a financial plan that motivates them to stay on track, change negative money habits, and more.

This episode will be sure to expand your skills as an advisor and explore ways that you can align yourself with your clients in a deeper, more authentic way.

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We start by learning how to be with the client. It’s learning how to be present with the client. We are not going to change this client, no matter how much they are overspending. We’re not going to change them. At best we’re going to be facilitators that will help them change.

What You’ll Learn:

  • How to facilitate behavioral change with your clients.
  • How to listen well to your clients.
  • How to approach financial planning using psychology to better understand motivators, conversational tactics, and more.
  • The best ways to dive deeper in your initial onboarding process to truly know your client and bring more value to their lives.
  • How to keep a beginner’s mind
  • What money scripts are and how to work with our client’s money scripts
  • How to recognize our own money scripts and the impact it has on our relationships with clients
  • What financial therapy is and where to go to find more resources
  • How to facilitate financial health with your clients


The Nazrudin Project – Bending the Profession Since 1995 by Richard Vodra, JD

Kahler Financial Group, Inc.’s Financial Planning Residency Program

How Clients’ Money Scripts Predict Their Financial Behaviors

Wired for Wealth by Brad Klontz,‎ Ted Klontz,‎ and Rick Kahler

Golden Gate University – Programs in Financial Planning

Financial Planning 3.0 by Dick Wagner

Mindful Asset Planning

Troy Jones, CFP®

The Enneagram Institute®

Parent Effectiveness Training by Thomas Gordon

Sarah Swantner, CFP®

Kansas State University – Financial Therapy Certificate

Creighton University – Finance

Sudden Money Institute

Become a Certified Financial Transitionist®

The Kinder Institute of Life Planning – EVOKE® 5-DAY LIFE PLANNING TRAINING






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Ep84 Transcript

Hannah: Well, thanks for joining us today, Rick.

Rick: Thank you for having me.

Hannah: So, you have an accomplished career with writing books. I know you’ve built this really strong financial planning practice in Rapid City, South Dakota. Much of your thought leadership though is around financial therapy, these money mindsets, and integrated financial planning. What prompted you to go down this path?

Rick: Well, the short answer is a divorce. And that really introduced me to therapy, more specifically, group therapy. And, because I seem to be a slow learner, I was in group therapy for 12 years. And saw a lot of things discussed and a lot of topics, but money wasn’t one of them. And I suppose, folks fantasize about a lot of things, I fantasized about, I wonder how it would be to do therapy around money. You know, it was just the black hole between the mental health profession and the financial planning profession because mental health profession doesn’t talk about money, and has quite strong projections onto money, and the financial planning profession certainly back in the 90s didn’t talk about relationships or emotions. So, that was really at the very beginning of my wondering of, I wonder if we could blend these two areas? And that really started peaking when I joined the Nazarene Project in 1996, and started doing teaching with George Kinder, his two-day workshop, which was really transformational for me. It was the first time I saw money and spirit and emotions come together.

And then, of course we know the findings right around that time, the turn of the century, and Danny Kahneman was doing his work where he discovered that 90% of all financial decisions are made emotionally. And, it was around that time that it came to me that eventually, financial planning would be commoditized. That was at the beginning of investments being commoditized. And that if I wanted to stay relevant, I had better figure out how to add value around the relationship with money, which I just didn’t see would be commoditized.

Hannah: So, you just said that you wanted to figure out how to add value to the relationship with clients, basically around that emotional side of it. So, how did you do that?

Rick: Yeah.

Hannah: How do you do that?

Rick: Well, if 90% of all financial decisions are made emotionally, it’s first recognizing that. And beginning to learn how to be with a client rather than throw numbers and throw mutual funds and charts and statistics at them, which is what I used to do. It’s learning that there’s a human being sitting in front of me. And this person does not think logically and does not act logically, and does not … at least … now, that’s a very judgmental statement based on my baseline of what that is and is not going to make decisions on their own self-interest. And this flies against everything that we learn in economics and certainly back in that day, and a lot of what financial planning teaches us. Even today, I employ … I have a residency program, three-year residency program, we have two residents in that right now, and even coming out of some of the cutting edge financial planning programs in the nation, they’re still struck at how much emotion plays in the financial planning process, and how little all the numbers really mean in the end of the day. And I don’t want to minimize the numbers; they’re really important. I don’t want to minimize the financial part of financial therapy, but I don’t think in the past, that the emotional side, the human side, has been really underscored.

So, we start by simply learning how to be with the client. And I know that that can kind of sound spacey and not very logical, but it is actually incredibly logical because it’s learning how to be present with the client and understanding the research that we are not going to change this client, no matter how much they’re overspending or they’re not saving or they’re not going to action around their wills. We’re not going to change them. We are going to, at best, be facilitators of helping them make the decision to change. So, it’s really at the heart, whether it’s coaching, financial coaching, financial therapy, it is learning exquisite listening skills and learning how to be with the client. 70% of successful therapy is based on two things: 40% is does the client trust the therapist and 30% is based on the listening skills of the therapist.

Now, if you look at what we as financial planners do, it’s all about trust, isn’t it? People are coming to us, telling us their money story, which they haven’t even told their therapist, and can we learn how to listen? Listen. If I can learn how to listen, anybody can learn how to listen and I’m not suggesting I’m a great listener, but exponentially, I’m far better than I used to be. So, I’m just saying that it’s not as hard as we make it sound sometimes, and that’s saying that I’m gonna do double speak and say probably learning to listen has been the hardest thing I’ve ever done in my life.

Hannah: You said that 90% of financial decisions are emotional decisions. So, I agree with that and I completely understand that, but that sounds really negative towards the client. Like, we’re viewing our clients in a negative way. How would you respond to that? Like, are we really viewing them in a negative way, or do you bring that up with clients, or how do clients respond to that?

Rick: Yeah. I bring that up with clients, ’cause guess what? Financial planners are not excluded from that statistic.

Hannah: I love it.

Rick: We have the same brain they have. 90% of all my financial decisions are made emotionally. Now, that is really … I don’t like that, you know? My 10% cerebral brain would like to think it’s 90% logic and 10% emotional. So, that’s the first thing we as planners … that’s a great reflection, Hannah, because somehow, we as planners think we don’t need this stuff. That we’re above needing financial therapy and we’ve got it all together and nothing could be further from the truth. We might have some of the numbers and some of the basic understanding, but we have just as many money scripts and money disorders and problematic money behaviors as our clients do. So, it’s really important that we’re not judging the client and making them the patient, so to speak. We’re in this with them, and I think we hear a lot about partnering, co-collaborating with our clients. Well, this is really at the heart of it is understanding that even though we … I was telling client this just a few days ago, that while there might be a right financial decision that would maximize dollars in some situation, it doesn’t mean it’s the right decision for the client.

Firstly, we need to drop our judgment that we know what is right for this client. Are they coming to us for advice? Kinda. They are more coming to us for knowledge. They’re coming to us for education. They’re coming to us for support. They’re coming to us for guidance. But, I think, and this may just sound really crazy, and I know the first time I ever thought of this or heard it, I thought it was crazy too. We need to be real careful before we give advice. We need to be real careful before we say, “This is what you should do”, and attempt to eliminate should from our vocabulary. It’s here’s the options, and it’s listening to the person and helping them make the decision that is right for them and dropping our judgment. Having a beginner’s mind around that client and really serving as a guide.

Hannah: You’ve alluded at how do we get clients to change their behavior? And we’re gonna dive into that later on, but one term that you brought up was mindset. And so, you have written books on money mindsets. For the listener who’s never been exposed to the idea of a money mindset, can you explain what that is?

Rick: All of our clients have a history. All of our clients … And by history, that means they have a life. You could say they have baggage, that’s more of a negative connotation, but we all look at life through a lens that we’ve developed. And we don’t look through the same lens. So, it’s important that our clients understand what their mindset is. How do they view money? What is their relationship with money? And you might’ve expected me to say it’s really important for us to understand how our clients view money. And while that’s a component of it, it’s more important that our clients understand how they view money. And the reason goes back to the fact, we’re not gonna change them. We’re going to help them make sound financial decisions, and one component of doing that is for them to understand how they’ve made it and understand what their biases are and understand what their mindset is and their relationship around money.

So, that’s one part of our intake that’s important is helping a client self-discover some of their own history, some of the way they view money with the money scripts. Brad Klontz has further developed a Klontz Money Script Inventory, which we use with our clients to help them boil down their money scripts into four major categories as the way that they can tend to view money. There’s not any that are right; there’s not any that are wrong. Every money script is partially true, you know? A big one for me is you gotta work hard for money. Well, that works great when I work hard and the money comes in. But, what happens when … There’s been times in my life when I’ve worked hard and the money has not come in. And there’s a great amount of pain there. And so, I found out that heck, I can work hard and money doesn’t come in, I can work hard and money comes in, I cannot work hard and money comes in, and I cannot work and money doesn’t come in. Those are all truths and they’re all based on the circumstance. So, it’s helping a person kind of understand the lens that they have viewed the world and viewed money with, and helping them begin to build flexibility around those mindsets.

Hannah: Can you give us an example of a money mindset that you’ve seen with a client, and kind of how that played out through the relationship with that client?

Rick: Oh, my. There’s so many of them. I can think of a client who … She was an entrepreneur, and just loved to start businesses. And in fact, I remember helping her on Christmas Eve. My wife and I are playing Scrabble, and she’s texting me, and we don’t have any time limits on our Scrabble game. So, while my wife is thinking about her next move, I’m texting her and we’re going back and forth on the terms to buy a business. And she bought that business. And this was actually as she was coming on as a client. We hadn’t done the emotional intake work yet. When we did the emotional intake work, one of her money scripts was, “If I don’t buy or start new businesses, I will go bankrupt.” And that caught my attention because I had made a projection that she bought new businesses and started new businesses because she loved being an entrepreneur.

What she found out, and I found out, was that she was doing it out of fear because if she didn’t do this, she’d go bankrupt. Now, any financial planner listening to this is going to go, “Well, that sure doesn’t seem logical, because don’t we know one of the fastest ways to go bankrupt is to buy and start new businesses?” So, with that knowledge, we were able, every time that she was polled to start a new business or buy a new business, we’d bring that up. We’d kind of laugh about it, and we’d use that as a touchstone to, oh, what’s really behind this? Is it fear that’s operating around this, or does this really make good sense?

So, I can’t tell you how many times that clients that have, you know, maybe the market’s going down and they’re getting scared, and they’ll refer, “Well, there goes my money script again.” And this particular client had a money script that being in the market was gambling and eventually, she’d lose everything and be a bag lady. So, it really helps a person begin … Once we build awareness, I mean, we’ve heard awareness is 50% of making progress or growing, and it is. And so, it’s just raising awareness to, oh, there’s that mindset. There’s that money script that I developed you know, as a five year old, and be acknowledging it. And actually, having some compassion around it, that it was developed to keep us safe and help us cope and then being able to set it aside without acting on it.

Hannah: Do clients know that they’re gonna be looking at kind of, how they viewed money as a child when they start working with you, or what is that conversation look like?

Rick: I’m thinking of one client who you know, half way into the on-boarding process, said, “You know, and all I thought you did was manage money. I had no clue you did any of the rest of this.” Our clients come to us largely for the same reason they come to any other financial planning. Number one, our investments, and number two, our retirement plans. So, you know, maybe a few more come to us because we do financial therapy. I mean, we are developing a over-financial therapy department of our practice. So, more and more people are coming from that. Our current clients are learning. Gee, I had a touching experience just two days ago. I had a physician become suddenly disabled. I mean, just boom. He was done with his practice. And they came in, it happened a couple months ago, and his opening remark, and this is not a client you would … a pretty gruff client. His opening remark was, “Is Sarah still doing that financial counseling? I think I need some. It’s really hard to go from being in charge of a staff and seeing patients 12 hours a day to the biggest thing I’ve got to do today is clean out my basement.”

Hannah: Wow.

Rick: And so, our clients are asking more and more for those services. But, when somebody comes on … I digressed a little bit. When somebody comes on as a client here, we just have a default process. And the default process includes a … we call it Interior Intake, our discovery of what they think, feel and believe about money, and we have about six exercises we give them, and they’re all the exercises we have in facilitating financial health. And we tell them very clearly that, “Here’s your homework. And there’s some good news here. It’s not like the homework you got in college or high school. You get to not do it and there’s no penalty whatsoever. And that no is a complete sentence. So, anything we give you, if it isn’t working for you, you’re not interested in it, you can completely not do it. It’s absolutely okay.” I have had one set of clients out of, I don’t know, 150 or 200 that have said, “No” to any of it.

And I’ve had clients complete that that my staff said, “Okay. This is gonna be the first person that is not gonna do this ’cause this guy is not gonna do this.” And I’ve had that same guy do all the exercises and at the end of the intake period, when we went over everything suddenly say, “Well, this was really good. This was really insightful stuff.” So, it’s just our default, and we give people complete permission not to do any of it.

Hannah: Yeah. I have my clients, probably not to the extent that you do it, but do a lot of, dare I say, the touchy-feely type of stuff. And I found that, if I’m comfortable with it, then they are too.

Rick: Well, that’s a great point. That is a great point, because I was one of the planners in 1989 when a Dr. Nixon psychologist talked to the … I see a peer he treated that time that came out of that meeting saying, “What is he doing here? We are number crunchers. We do not belong in doing anything with psychology.” And the truth of the matter is, generally, when we planners are pretty skeptical and resistant about this is because we’re not comfortable with it. A lot of planners don’t know a therapist, don’t know what goes on in therapy, it’s a big black hole, they have a lot of projections onto therapists and therapy. Just the word therapy is a terrible, terrible word. I have done focus groups where everybody in the group had a different definition of what it was. And in fact, it’s not a legal definition anymore than financial planning is not a legal definition.

So, it’s definitely problematic, but it really does … I mean, you just nailed it. If I as a planner am not comfortable with what I’m doing, my client is certainly not gonna be comfortable. And therein lies one of the secrets … I know Dr. Ted Klontz was asked a lot, like, “You know, how do I know if I’ve gone too far? How do I know when I’ve gotten in too far?” And part of his answers will be, “Well, A, anytime you’re uncomfortable, you’ve gone too far. And anytime you think you’ve gone too far, just ask the person a question, because that puts them right back in their head and you’ll pull out.” So, it’s just not as problematic as sometimes we like to think it is. But, we can … and I’m thinking of Gayle Colman, who’s a CFP, practices in Carlisle, Massachusetts, who said one time, “We can only take a client as far as we’ve gone ourselves.” And that is so true. I mean, we can’t learn to be with a client.

There’s another phrase for coaching, it says, you know, if you want to be a great coach, you’ve got to have been coached. If we want to do this work, we can’t be giving clients exercises and taking them through this process if we haven’t been through it ourselves. It’s not a formula, you know? This isn’t a decision tree of, well, if they object here, then you say that, then if they say this, you go here. It’s a complete mindset with the financial planner of learning to really be with and listen to the client.

Hannah: Well, and I just love how you brought up that exquisite listening beforehand. I know, to share a little bit of my story, you know, I was 26, had bought this practice, felt so in over my head, and I just … I focused on listening to the client and it made all the difference. It took everything, the pressure off of me and it was all about the client. And so, for me when I give advice to new planners, so much of it is, just learn to listen well. That’s the biggest differentiator you can have.

Rick: That’s absolutely true. And, you know, that is … that’s gonna be really hard to commoditize. Somebody, I don’t know who said this quote, but said, “All people need is a good listening to.” I can’t tell you how many times in the trainings that I’ve done that people, planners, therapists would say, “This is one of the first times I’ve ever told that story. This is one of the few times I’ve ever really felt listened to.” It’s a pretty rare commodity. It really, really is. And that’s when we start thinking about adding value, that adds a huge amount of value. I mean, I can remember when finally, I got it, that it wasn’t my agenda, it was the client’s agenda and just simply asking the client, “You know, I’ve got a list of stuff we can talk about, but what’s really important today for you to talk about?”

And I remember one time early on, a guy started talking about his farm and the homestead and his family that came out and where his parents were buried and just going through this story, and I today, forget exactly the relevance of all that. But, we got done. We had about five minutes left, so I kinda hit some of the high points on my agenda. And when we were done, you know, I would’ve normally spent this time going through all the asset classes and the returns and how they were comparing to our benchmarks, and you know, honestly, I love investments. And so, I had to reduce that to five minutes, and so at the end, he says, “Well, you know, this has probably been the best meeting we’ve ever had.” And I’m just like, gobsmacked. Like, you didn’t get any of my brilliance. How is that possible? And I just can’t tell you how many times we love to be listened to.

Hannah: It’s so simple, but not easy.

Rick: Well, then you do come up against some friction. I teach a graduate course, and that’s at Golden Gate University, and we talk about this. You know, there are things that need to be done in an financial planning meeting. When you have an IPS that needs to be signed, or redo an allocation or you’ve got some estate planning issues or some things like this, or something that needs to be tended to on an account. There is this kind of natural friction between some things we do need to accomplish and what’s top of the client’s agenda. So, I did go through a period of time in my career where I just went to, “Well, client, what do you want to talk about? Where’s your energy today?” And it threw my practice into total chaos, ’cause we didn’t know where any client was in their process. We threw the process out the window, and then we came … Of course, before that, had a very structured, inflexible process. So, today, we have a combination of both. So, there is some give and take, you know? We do need to reserve a little time to get some immediate things done, but the important thing is that we address what the client really is on top of their mind.

I remember once, I did a intake. I used to have the mindset that, we are not gonna talk about any financial numbers until we do this discovery period. So, I don’t even want to even know about your numbers, I don’t want to know about your finances, we’re gonna find out about you, and we’re gonna do all this discovery stuff first. And I remember once at the end of doing all of our intake, this client says, “Are we done with this stuff now?” I said, “Well, yeah.” “Okay. Let’s get on to this 401K distribution and what are